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Thomas PHELAN Obituary

PHELAN Thomas James 2/15/1954 - 5/26/2010 Thomas J. Phelan, 56, of Toledo formerly of Monroe, died at 10:27 p.m. Wednesday at University of Toledo Medical Center. He had been in poor health for two weeks. Friends may call from 1 to 8 p.m. Sunday and 4 to 8 p.m. Monday at the Rupp Funeral Home where VFW Post 1138, Monroe will have military honors at 2 p.m. Sunday. He will lie instate Tuesday at 10 a.m. at St. Patrick's Historic Church, 130 Avondale, Toledo, OH 43604, with services at 11 a.m. Rev. Dennis Hartigan, pastor, will officiate. Born February 15, 1954 in Monroe he was the son of Myron James and Joann Virginia (Bastien) Phelan. He married Julie Pickens on September 17, 1976, he then married Rosemary Vasquez on September 7, 1990 in Toledo. Tom was employed at Ford Motor Company, Maumee, OH for thirty years retiring in 2007. He served in the US Army from October 1, 1971 to October 1, 1974. He attended Jefferson High School and St. Patrick's Historic Church and enjoyed motorcycle riding, fishing and hunting up north at his cabin. His favorite past time was spending time with his grandchildren. Surviving are his wife, Rosemary; mother, Joann V. Lefevre of Monroe; daughters, Tanya L. Trometer of Monroe, and Andrea (Robert) Garber of Toledo; brothers, Kenneth Phelan and James (Belinda) Phelan both of Monroe; sisters Ginny (Kevin) Smith, Sharon (Randy) Vanderpool, Gail Sanders, Michelle Thomas and Kimberly (Michael) O'Brien, all of Monroe; grandchildren Donald Garber, Robert Garber, McKenzie Garber, Jenna Hustwayte, Abbie Garber, Ricky Trometer, Jackson Garber and Sheridan Garber. He was preceded in death by his father; sister, Kerry Ann Phelan; grandparents, Howard and Alta Bastien, Myron and Elizabeth Phelan and Genevieve Phelan. Tom's family would like to thank his own personal God, Dr. Tang, and his Angels in SICU for the fine care he received. Online condolences may be sent to: www.ruppfuneralhomeinc.com

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Published by The Blade on May 29, 2010.

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Allison Sniegowski

June 1, 2010

Andrea and Family,

My heartfelt condolences for your loss. May Tom be at peace in heaven. My prayers are with you and your family. Iam deeply sorry I missed the visitation. May God be with you.

Tom & Mary Jane Keister

May 31, 2010

Rosemary and Family,
Our heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Fred and Liz Workman

May 31, 2010

Rosemary and the Phelan family,

We are so sad to hear this terrible news. May the peace from memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. Tom was a great guy and will be terribly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will miss our friend.

Marzee Barnhill and Family

May 29, 2010

With My Deepest Sympathies

To Rosemary and the Phelan Family,
We know words are only a temporary comfort for you at this time. But the greater comfort is in knowing that Tom is finally at peace! We feel we needed him here with us, but God needed him more. I worked with Tom at the Ford Maumee Stamping Plant. We were one big family! Tom always had a big smile on his face each day, and a kind word to say. May God bless you, may He be a fence all around you Rosemary and the entire Phelan family.

Prayerfully Submitted,

Jewel Strahan and family

May 29, 2010

Rosemary and entire Phelan family;

I was sorry to read of Tom's passing. I saw him a few weeks ago and he told me he had been ill, but was coming around and I wished him well. We were in Wixey Bakery and I told him that that was how I had been enjoying my retirement in and out of sweet shops. I worked with Tom at Ford and he was a wonderful person to know. Also I am the one who got the birds from you several years ago for my sister. She loves birds and I was afraid of them and when I saw on the board he was giving them away I took them. So in closing I send my sincerest condolences and let you know it was a joy and pleasure to be part of Tom's life. God Bless

Amy Smith

May 29, 2010

Tom you will truely be missed. You were a good, loving & giving friend. You have been taken way too soon. I will miss you. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow. My prayers goes to his loving family. He truely love you all.

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