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TIFFANY PATTERSON-GROSS Obituary

Tiffany M. Patterson-Gross "I want to inspire people. I want someone to look at me and say"Because of you.. I didn't give up!" - Tiffany Patterson-Gross Tiffany Patterson-Gross was born November 19, 1973 at Tacoma General Hospital. After a 5 ½ year battle with cancer, she became pain free on September 6, 2013. To know her is to love her. She could light up any room with her positivity and radiant smile. She had many passions, which included family, music--especially anything Chris Cornell, social networks, and spreading joy, even when she was the one who needed it the most. Her loving family includes her Jimmy, husband, Sweet Boy and Kitty Kat, her special babies, parents: Polly Kahl (mother), Michael and Vickie Patterson (step-parents), Bob Kahl (step-dad), sisters: Heather Patterson-Hutton (Chris), Nikole Scherr (Jaime), Brooke Patterson, Emma Kahl, Lyndsey Patterson, and Marchele Smalls (Jerome), nieces and nephews: Railee and Gavin Hutton, Jaiden and Jakob Scherr, Ivoryele and Anora Smalls, Heather Williamson and Tristan Gross, in-laws: Joyce Duncan, Debbie Hayter (Jay), and Jeffery Gross. She has many other family members that are dear to her heart. She will be reunited with her special Grandma Ruth and sister Brookie. Special thanks to Dr. Mark Gignac and the SCT&WC, Dr. Eidal and the 6th floor nurses and staff at TG, I.L.W.U. members, and Shealyn Evenson for organizing all the events that allowed Tiff's family and friends to support in her journey, which gave us more time with her. A Celebration of Life will be held Sunday, September 15, 2013 at 3 pm at the Foss Waterway Seaport 705 Dock Street Tacoma, WA 98402. Contributions can be made to the Tacoma Longshoremen Credit Union, 3602 Alexander Avenue Tacoma, WA 98424, in either Tiffany or Jimmy's name. Live Love Tiff

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Sep. 14, 2013.

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Fred and Roselyne Wahlgren

September 20, 2013

We are praying for each and every family member. May you gather strength knowing so many have been greatly touched by your precious Tiffany.

September 19, 2013

Tiff- You are the most beautiful, caring and strongest person I know. I will love and miss you so much. Please kiss and say hi to Brookie and Grandma. xo

Christina Jobe

September 17, 2013

Tiffany touched the hearts of everyone who knew her. She was selfless, kind, beautiful, honest and exuded unconditional love. Tiff will be missed but her memory will live on in the hearts and souls of those who love her.

Jeff Stewart

September 16, 2013

Tiffany was the strongest and sweetest person I have ever know...she has been our dental patient with her Husband (Jimmy), she will be greatly missed!

Tina Wolf

September 15, 2013

For Tiffany. You lit a path for many with your courageous spirit. Now this one is for you, gentle warrior.

Tina Wolf

September 15, 2013

Tiffany, I never had the pleasure to meet you, but came to know you via social media. Your spirit and courage connected with me in such a deep way. You had that special "shine" that only special people have. Rest in peace shining star. My sympathies to her family. She will always be in your heart!

Alesia Pearson

September 15, 2013

Your strength, inspiring....Your laughter, contagious .... Your will, amazing.... Your openess to share,the good and bad, so brave.... Your capacity to love, infinite.... You inspire so many.... You shared your soul, priceless... Many feel a better person because of you baby... Thank You for that gift. For being you... Live Laugh Love Tiff...

September 15, 2013

Condolences to all who loved her. I am a fellow cancer survivor & Chris Cornell fan. Tif was inspirational. I admire her courage.

Melissa Kancianich

September 15, 2013

Rest well Ladybug. Your spirit will surround us for the rest of our days. You will forever be missed.

Darci Mabe

September 15, 2013

There are only a few people in the world that have that special kinda smile so when you see them. They make you feel good inside Thank You Tiffany for that feeling You blessed my life I will miss you..much love Jim???

Tina Wood

September 15, 2013

Words cannot express how sad it was to hear of Tiff's passing. She was such a shining example of courage and grace even during her worst days. She had a smile that could light up a room. A smile only an angel would have. I never got the chance to meet her personally, but when I had the chance to talk with her over twitter or Facebook, she made me feel as though I had known her forever. Many prayers to Jimmy and her family. Live, love, Tiff.

Marcie Matherly

September 15, 2013

It has been an honor and a priviledge to cheer and encourage Tiff as she fought her courageous battle. I love and miss you Sunshine. Rest in Paradise and I will see again...xoxo

Holly Carlin

September 14, 2013

Tiffany, you always had a smile on your face and the biggest heart. I loved reading your FB post and thinking what an amazing person you are! You will be missed by the many people you have touch.

Christine & Mark Madrid

September 14, 2013

She lived up to what she strived to be...inspiring. I will always feel so honored to have met her and grateful to have made special memories with her. Our deepest condolences to Jimmy, her family and friends. Thanks for letting us love her too!

Timm Savage

September 14, 2013

I didn't know you but I'm told you were so special on so many levels to so many people. It would have been quite something to know you.

Dianne McDonald-Topping

September 14, 2013

Your beautiful smile, your grace and strength reached across the ocean, to Australia and beyond. Your impact on others knew no bounds. May you Rest in Eternal Peace Tiff. You will be missed beyond words. My sympathy to Jimmy, Sweet Boy, Kitty Kat, her family and friends, wherever they might be. Live Love Tiff XOX

Liz Paschich

September 14, 2013

Beautiful Tiffany, your smile, your laugh, your positive words, your kindness... I miss you my friend.

Julie Harris

September 14, 2013

I never "met" Tiffany, but she was my Soundgarden sister. She never had anything negative to say and that smile was infectious. So sorry for your loss. Love and hugs to you all.

Cindy Fox

September 14, 2013

Tiff you were an inspiration to me and so many others. Your strength amazed me every single day! I love you with all of my heart and will miss you until we see each other again. Rest in peace now pretty girl.

Nina Jankowski

September 14, 2013

Life is so much dimmer without our Tiff. So glad you're at peace sweet girl, Love you!

Lynn Meisner

September 14, 2013

So sorry for your lost. Tiffany was a beautiful soul now she can fly pain free.

Deb and Rich Lanning

September 14, 2013

Love you so much cousin

James Welch

September 14, 2013

It was a joy to have met you. I know you will be dearly missed.

cheryl hopkins

September 14, 2013

Auntie Polly you have been through more in your life than anyone should have to endure, yet you have the strength and courage to move on... she is with her sister now and bunk too!! my most sincere sympathy to you your girls and tiffs husband... my love cheryl xoxo

erica wilford

September 14, 2013

We love you infinity xoxoxoxinfinityxoxoxoxox #TeamTiff love, clint & erica ?

Jon Hopkins

September 14, 2013

I am sad beyond belief...The only thing that is helping Me get through this is knowing that Tiff is finally out of pain and is up in Heaven Now With Grandma...I know she is up there Dancing in the sky looking down at us singing in the Angles Choir!! I Love You Tiff and I will miss You till that day that I get to see You again!! Bye Tiff...Love Jon Jon

Cheryl Arneberg

September 14, 2013

LOVE YOU FOREVER & ALWAYS.

Georgene Kunz

September 14, 2013

Although I didn't know Tiffany, I was fortunate to witness the profound love that constantly emanated from her sister, Heather. She obviously inspired great love on this earth. I am so sorry for your loss, but the love lives on.

Marilyn & kenny Arneberg

September 14, 2013

We will all miss you, Love Alway's

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