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Robert David Hoffay

1948 - 2020

Robert David Hoffay obituary, 1948-2020, Averill Park, NY

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DeGraaf-Bryce Funeral Home, Inc. - West Sand Lake

4392 US 150

West Sand Lake, New York

Robert Hoffay Obituary

Averill Park - Robert David Hoffay, 72, died unexpectedly September 4, 2020. Bob was born August 23, 1948 and grew up in Averill Park, NY. His parents, Richard and Cora Hoffay, raised he and his four siblings on their Sheer Road family farm. After graduating from Averill Park High School in 1966, he attended Kansas State University where he played football as an end-tackle, and from there was drafted to the New York Giants. He was sidelined by injury and never played a game, ultimately returning to the Albany area. He worked most of his life in construction, as a contractor for FJ Zeronda Company and most recently for James H. Maloy, Inc, and used those skills to build his family home, where his daughter and family now live.Bob was a kind, selfless man who would lend a helping hand to anyone who needed it, and spent countless hours working on projects for his wife and daughters, whom he adored. His life was about his family, bringing daily treats home (for kids and dogs alike), coaching softball, re-learning trigonometry to help with math homework, and bringing the girls on adventures in his work truck. Despite his sarcastic grumblings, he enjoyed his work, continuing even after serious medical illness six years ago. He will be missed dearly by his wife, Janet, and three daughters, Nicole (Donald) Henzel, Megan Hoffay, and Dena (Adam Vogt) Whitesell, as well as his three grandsons, Mason, Rowan and Keeler. He is survived by his brother William Hoffay and sister Martha (Peter) Plante, nieces Erin (Charles Kelly) Hoffay and Jennifer (James) Daly, nephews Richard (Beth) Gaylord and Richard (Laura) Hoffay, and best friend Peter (Lisa) Szary. He was predeceased by his parents as well as his twin brother John, and sister Anna (James) Gaylord.Visiting hours will be at DeGraaf-Bryce Funeral Home, Inc. 4392 Route 150 West Sand Lake on Thursday, September 10 from 4-7 pm. A graveside service will be Friday, September 11 at Elmwood Cemetery at 10 am with Pastor Judy Converse, officiating. Face covering, social distancing and CDC occupancy allowances are required both outside and inside during visitation and services.In lieu of flowers, an award has been established at Averill Park High School in his name for a graduating senior entering the trades. Please send to APHS, Attention Tara Arsenault, 146 Gettle Road, Averill Park, 12018. In honor of Bob, please eat a big bowl of Breyers ice cream, and clink the bowl when you are done for your dog to lick. To sign the guest book, light a candle or for service directions, visit www.brycefh.com. http://www.lastingmemories.com/robert-david-hoffay

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Published by The Record from Sep. 8 to Sep. 9, 2020.

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Jamie Bowen

September 11, 2020

Martha, so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. My prayers are with you and your family.

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tod shoemaker

September 10, 2020

So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I remember riding on the same school bus way back when. Bob was a couple of years ahead of me in school but always treated me kindly and with respect which is sometimes rare of upper classmen. I never forgot his kindness to this day ! A very nice man who will be missed.

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Richard Hoffay

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Kim Fitzpatrick (VPS)

September 9, 2020

Janet and Girls,

I am so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. My prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time.

Bill & Joan Sandwick

September 9, 2020

Hoffay family - our condolences to your family at the loss of Bob he was a great friend for many years may he Rest In Peace

Sarah Becky & Katie at Custom Cutters

September 9, 2020

Janet & family so sorry for your loss our thought and prayers are with you all during this difficult time .

Chuck Schwartz

September 8, 2020

So saddened by this news. Bob was such a good man. We will not be able to attend services because of ongoing health issues. Please know that all who knew and loved Bob are in our prayers. Many years ago Nob was working on a project in Round Lake. I had not seen Bob in years and one morning he appeared at our door with that big smile of his. It made my day. I give thanks for his life.

Robert & Patty Green

September 8, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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DeGraaf-Bryce Funeral Home, Inc. - West Sand Lake

4392 US 150, West Sand Lake, NY 12196

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