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Hector Valenzuela Obituary

Hector Carlos Valenzuela 38, passed away on August 9, 2012. His true meaning in life was his two daughters, whom were the ultimate loves of his life. He believed in family and was the dedicated son of Carol Bernal and stepson of Thomas Fraijo; a role model to his sister, Monique Cameron Carley. Carlos served his country like his grandfather and tios before him. He celebrated the 4th of July and Marine Corp. birthday like they were his own. He graduated from the Art Institute with a degree in Interior Design. He was employed by Costco. Anyone who ever worked with Carlos found a hardworking man who took pride in any job he did. A Memorial Service to celebrate his life will be held on Saturday, August 18, 2012 from 10:00 a.m. -12:00 p.m. followed by a Reception at our Hall from 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. at MARTINEZ FUNERAL CHAPELS, 2580 S. 6th Ave., Tucson, AZ. www.martinezfuneralchapels.com

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Aug. 16, 2012.

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Isabel C. Doe

August 14, 2024

Carol and Family,
Time and prayers are the keys to healing pain.
I offer you both. May your son continue to rest in peace.
Always, Isabel

Espie Durazo

August 25, 2012

OMG! Carol, I just heard about your son. I am so so sorry for your loss. My prays go out to you and family.

August 20, 2012

Carol and Family,

Our deepest condolences to you and your family during the passing of your son. May God bless you and your family.

Lennie and Norma Quihuis & Family

Karen Yeager

August 19, 2012

Caroline, My heart breaks for your loss. My deepest sympathies to your family. Know that I am praying for you all.

Colleen Campbell

August 18, 2012

No words can express the loss that is felt due to this loss, but we can only try to live our lives to the fullest. Thank you for lending us your Son, it was a blessing to get to know him at the Art Center. He made life more interesting and fun.

mark suarez

August 18, 2012

Our deepest condolences for hectors girls and family. You will be forever remembered xoxo

Mark Suarez

August 18, 2012

Our thoughts & prayers are with hector and his beloved family.
although I didn't personally know hector, my husband Mark Suarez, did. They grew up together in the same neighborhood, playing & hanging out. mark's mom told me many stories of "carlitos" and how he had many dinners at her house as a kid.
And as it turned out, then Mark & Hector worked together at costco when we returned to Tucson. Small world. Mark has many fond memories of "carlitos" and will never forget.
May you rest in peace Hector and watch over your children, for now you are their guardian angel.
Hugs & kisses from Mark, Ana & Isabelle Suarez

Beth Cesarini

August 18, 2012

Dear Carol, Monique and all your Family--my heart and prayers are with you. I have such fond memories of Hector--such a fine young man. He is in God's Hands. May you have comfort in the memories and love your shared. God Bless you, Beth Cesarini

Minerva P.

August 18, 2012

Siento mucho saber de la perdida de su papa Hector, no puedo imaginar los momentos duros que estan pasando, sigan recordando a su papa con mucho amor. Miren lo que Jehova Dios nos promete en la escritura en:
( Hechos 24:15 ) " Y tengo esperanza que estos mismos tambien abrigan, de que va a haber resureccion asi de justos como de injustos "
Imaginanse que hermoso sera que en un futuro puedan ver a su papa otra vez.
Nuevamente lo siento mucho, tengan siempre presente a su papito en su mente y corazones.

Suzan Brown

August 18, 2012

I had the wonderful opportunity to meet Hector. We passed through each others lives when he was a student at the Art Center Design College. Our conversations centered around family. He loved you all very much and never ceased to be proud. Keep him well in your hearts. He will be there forever.

August 17, 2012

Brenda & Hector's two girls,
My deepest sympathies as you now raise these precious children without their daddy. My prayer is that their childhood will be filled with happy memories of their father and that they will know he is looking down on them from Heaven.

August 17, 2012

Carol and Monique, my heart goes out to you. My deepest sympathies for your entire family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Bonnie Moreno, Tucson, AZ

Josie Bustamante

August 17, 2012

It is with great sadness that I write these words, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I wanted to share with you Tia that I was Blessed to have been able to spend time talking with Hector on Easter at the park. My boys really enjoyed listening to his stories and getting to know him a little better. I am only sorry that our other plans to get together will never be here but, one day in Heaven. Our Love and prayers, Gilbert Josie Bustamante and Family

August 17, 2012

Carole,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Robert Miranda

Isabel Doe

August 17, 2012

Carol,
I'm deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your dearly beloved son. There never are words to express what you are going through. May God bless you, your family and carry you through this difficult time.
Isabel Doe

Dina Gowar

August 17, 2012

May you rest in peace Hector and deepest sympathies to your family. I will forever remember your bright smile, always easy to spot in the Salpointe halls!

Amanda Van

August 16, 2012

When I think of Hector, I will always remember his smile. Hector was a very hardworking, talented, and generous person. Although I did not keep in touch with Hector, he will not be forgotten. My thoughts are with his family and close friends.

Molly OConnell

August 16, 2012

You will always live in our hearts and prayers. Costco 431 will miss you dearly.

Beatriz Cornejo

August 16, 2012

My deepest condolecences to the family. He was such a remarkable man. I will treasure the memories I have of him from our high school years. He will never be forgotten.
Beatriz Cornejo

Ernest Graham

August 16, 2012

Carol and family,I just want to say from my heart and soul my deepest sympathy for your lost. Hector has been such a great and wonderful friend to me.May God be with you and your family in your deepset sorrows. I thank you for entering my life with love, laughter, and great spirt's.You will be miss alway's.BIG ALOHAZ BRA!!!!

Carlos is in the middle. This is pic of all the cousins. Love you Carlitos!

Marissa G.

August 16, 2012

Marissa G

August 16, 2012

I am deeply saddened to hear my cousin is not with us anymore. My deepest condolences to his parents, sister, daughters, family, Marine family, and friends. I am and always will be proud of my cousin...he will be missed. I know he is in the Lord's presence....He needed my cousin in heaven and I cant wait to see him.

Steven Eggleton

August 16, 2012

Ms. Bernal,
I just wanted to send my deepest condolences. Although me and Hector had lost touch over the last few years, I always considered him one of my closest friends. I will miss him greatly.

Salpointe Catholic High School

August 16, 2012

The Salpointe Catholic High School community extends deepest sympathy to Hector's family and friends. You are in our prayers at this difficult time.

Jocelyn Nowak

August 16, 2012

Hector,
You were a great friend, father, and employnee. You will be deeply missed. I wish your mother and the rest of your family the best of luck. I remember all the good times we had together. How you taught me how to play football, a better way to study to get better grades on my test. Even though I didn't like how you showed me how to do it I did it anyways and I remember how I got my first A and how happy and excited I was to show you. You are a great man and that is how I will always remember you
Love,
Jocelyn

Brenda Nowak

August 16, 2012

Hector I will always remember the love we shared, when we were together. Our girls will miss you dearly. I've asked some of your friends to provide me with good memories of you along with photos so I may always share it with Teagan and Kelby. Your favorite cologne s sprayed on your shirts in a sealed box so when I bring out the messages the will smell you and remember. I love you so much I will raise our girls with you and your wishes in mind.

Dennise Ballesteros

August 16, 2012

Carrie and Monique, I'm in total shock. Carlitos known to many, Goof Troop and Nino known to me and my family. We will always remember Goof Troop for his sincere unconditional love, his true friendship and great spirit. I had the privilege of calling him my compa, our friend, but most of all part of my family. We'll miss his perfect smile, his beautiful face, our "grown up" talks, his caring ways and his contagious laugh. So many great memories, so many laughs. May god bless you and may he give you the strength and comfort in your time of need.... SEMPER FI OORAH !!!
Love you,
Dennise (aka Dee Pazos), Shelly, Clay and Sydney Ballesteros

Sylvia Holguin

August 16, 2012

MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOUR FAMILY FROM MINE ..GOOF TROOP YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. YOU'LL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS, THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS . REST IN PARADISE MY FRIEND

Sonia Armenta-Cordova

August 16, 2012

I am so sorry and saddened to hear of Hectors passing. He never failed to have a smile all the years I went to school with him. An amazing person, artist and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Donna Smith

August 16, 2012

All who know Papa Hec knew he gave his all to the relationship and loves. We will miss you Papa Hec. Donna Smith (aka to school mates as Mater)

Claudia Parra

August 16, 2012

Carol, I met you and Carlos very recently and through very good mutual friends. I want to express my deepest condolences to your family. I know his daughters were everything to him. When I would visit Carlos he always made me laugh and provided great conversation topics. I was very sad to hear of his passing but I know he will look down from Heaven and watch over us. He really was a great son and father. He will be missed by many. May god word and your closest friends comfort you and help you get through this difficult time.

Susan Lane

August 16, 2012

Oh Carol and Monique, how very sad to lose such a vibrant, young man! I had seen an article earlier this week and was praying that it wasn't your Hector, but today's obit confirmed that it was. I am at a loss for words, however, I do know and strongly believe that our Lord has your loved one in His arms. I also feel sure that the family will help his daughters to remember him with pride. May God bless all of you.

August 16, 2012

Carol and Monique, David and I are saddened to learn of your son's passing. May your happiest memories of him guide and support you through your sorrow.
Bonne Overstreet

Alexandra (Alex) Durazo

August 16, 2012

My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family. I will always remember Hector's great smile and amazing laugh that never failed to brighten my day.

Charlotte Castro

August 16, 2012

Carol my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and my prayers. May God Bless you and your family with the reasurance that he is now with our Lord.

EUGENE RIVERA

August 16, 2012

MY CONDOLENCES AND PRAYS GO OUT TO BERNAL FAMILY.

Brenda Nowak

August 16, 2012

Our beautiful girls will forever miss you.

Eduardo Armenta

August 16, 2012

Caroline, our deepest sympathy and prayers for you & your family. There are no words to discribe the pain & sorrow during these difficult times. May God bless you. Our thoughts & prayers for you & your family are with us all.
Love & condolecence,
From,
Eddie & Nora

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