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NATHAN GILSTRAP Obituary

SIMPSONVILLE — Reverend Doctor Nathan Kenneth Gilstrap, 70, of Simpsonville, husband of Pam Vaughn Gilstrap, died Wednesday, May 7, 2014.

Mr. Gilstrap was the son of the late Claud and Clara Fair Gilstrap.

Mr. Gilstrap was a Baptist Minister for 40 years, an avid Gamecock fan, and loving husband, father, and grandfather.

Along with his wife of 47 years, Mr. Gilstrap is survived by his daughter, Angela G. Gay (Chris) of Simpsonville; son, Jared Gilstrap (Susan) of Union; seven grandchildren, Shane, Riley, Madeline, Sully, Gabriel, Brody, and Lydia; sister-in-laws, Frances Gilstrap and Rebecca Long; and mother-in-law, Gladys Vaughn.

In addition to his parents, Mr. Gilstrap was preceded in death by his brother, Gerald Gilstrap.

Visitation will be held at the home, 1 Pembark Lane Simpsonville, SC 29681, on Friday, May 9, 2014, from 5-7 p.m. with the funeral service being held Saturday, May 10, 2014 at Simpsonville First Baptist Church at 11 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Simpsonville First Baptist Church Missions, 3 Hedge Street, Simpsonville, SC 29681.

The family will be at the residence.

Condolences may be made to the family by visiting www.thomasmcafee.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Daily Times from May 13 to May 14, 2014.

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Deane Hines

June 1, 2014

Pam,
I am so sorry for your loss!!! Praying for Gods love to comfort you!!

Deane Hines

christina burrall-thompson

May 17, 2014

i am saddened for your loss. i had not attended Fork Shoals Baptist Church long, but i appreciated the way Pastor Nathan presented sermons. And he baptized my son, Benjamin when he was 7 years old, 9 years ago.
i pray for your heart to be comforted.

Lucille Allen

May 16, 2014

Pam, we are praying for your family during this time of bereavement. I am here to talk and to listen. Love ya!

Jane Garrett

May 15, 2014

Pam,
Jerry and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. I am the former Vice President of Operations for Caris Healthcare when Nate was our Chaplain. He was one of the best Chaplains I have worked with. He met many of the spiritual needs of our patients and they loved him, as we all did.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sowers Family

May 14, 2014

Dearest Pam, Angela, Jared, and Grandchildren,
Our hearts are deeply broken and saddened to know one of our dearest friends and my former office "buddy" has passed away. We just read about it today, and are sincerely sorry to have missed the opportunity to pay our respects to a great man who served God with all his heart, soul and mind! He has always been THE model of a TRUELY God-Centered and Gifted Pastor that many should follow. How can Ernie and I forget how you and Nathan welcomed us into your home unconditionally until we were able to find a house in Fountain Inn in December 1998. Our kids grew up with Shane, and now they are either in college or have graduated! I remember the many times Riley "escaped" and came running to Fork Shoals Baptist Church to see Pop Pop! Thank you both for loving us and sharing your home, hearts, and unconditional love with us. Our hearts and prayers are with you all during this very, very difficult time in your lives. Please let us know if we can help you out in any way, no matter how small a need! We love you!
Donna Sowers (former Ministry Assistant at Fork Shoals Baptist Church, 1998-2006), Ernie, Robert (24), and Rebecca Sowers (21), and our 2 grandchildren, MacKenzie and Melody

Janice Stroud

May 10, 2014

Dear Pam, So sorry to hear of Nate's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family. (classmate of high school) Love Janice R. and Eddy Stroud.

Jack and Phyllis davis

May 10, 2014

Dear Pam and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Nate. We have been praying for you all. When I heard the news all I could think was Nate is in His presence. He was so loved and will be so missed. Love and prayers to you all.

Rachel Inabinet

May 10, 2014

Aunt Pam,

We are all heartbroken to hear about Uncle Nathan's passing. He was a great man, a great friend to Mom and Dad, and a great Christian influence to me. We will be there today and whenever you need us. We love you so much.

Annette Taylor

May 10, 2014

Pam,
I'm so sorry to hear of Nate's passing. He was one of the sweetest men I've ever met.

Amy Jaeger

May 9, 2014

Pam, I am so sorry to hear of your husbands passing. If you need anything please call.

Rev. Russell & Valecia Whitfield

May 9, 2014

We love you and your family deeply! Fork Shoals was an awesome experience for us! We cherish those mission trips and times of ministry together. He opened his eyes looking at the King of Kings and enjoying his reward. Prayers for you and family during these days. We love you! Rev. Russell & Valecia Whitfield and boys

David & Pat Lassiter

May 9, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of your loss and we will remember you all in our prayers. He was just so special and kind.

Rick & Marsha Morris

May 9, 2014

Dear Pam,
So sorry to hear of Nate's passing Shocked and saddened. We are praying for you and your family. Rest in Him.

In Christ,
Rick and Marsha Morris

Rae & Louise Litaker

May 9, 2014

Pam, We shall cherish and treasure the short time we knew Nathan. To you and your family we pray for the comfort of His love, the peace of His presence, during this most difficult time. Love

Chris Smith

May 9, 2014

Pam,
You and your family are in my prayers during this sad time. I know you have a peace knowing that he is no longer in pain, and he with his heavenly father in the most beautiful place.

Doris Barnett

May 9, 2014

My deepest sympathy to Pam, Angela, and Jared on the loss of so loving and giving a husband and father. He was a good and kind man, a great friend, and a sympathetic listener, and will be deeply missed.

From the man a heart,
To give the world a start:
To gain the love
Sent from God above
Returned in full a loving heart.

May 9, 2014

My THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO EACH OF YOU DURING THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER NATHAN AS BEING A WONDERFUL PERSON WITH SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSONALITY.MAY GOD GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND COMFORT TODAY, TOMORROW AND Always. LOVE AND PRAYERS, BEVERLY K. HILL SHIRLEY, A FORMER CLASSMATE OF NATHAN'S AT CLINTON HIGH SCHOOL.

May 9, 2014

God's precious peace be with you and your family today and in days to come. Our joy is in knowing that this separation is temporary; and that His comfort is there for you and your family always. Love you sweet friend.

Shirley Ann and Jimmy McKee

May 9, 2014

Nathan was a very special, caring friend who meant so much to everyone. It was a pleasure knowing him throughout school and enjoying our class reunion with you and Nathan last year. Our prayers will continue for you and all of your family.

donna walker

May 9, 2014

Sorry for your loss. Nathan helped my family a great deal.A good man

Bill Quarles

May 8, 2014

My deepest sympathy to you (Pam) and the rest of the family. From experience I know I have no words that will truly bring you comfort, but I do know our Redeemer lives. I will always remember Natahan.

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