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John Durkin Obituary

MANCHESTER - Sen. John A. Durkin, 76, a longtime resident of Manchester and more recently of the New Hampshire Veterans Home in Tilton, passed away on Oct. 16, 2012. He battled dementia for the past few years.

Born March 29, 1936, in Brookfield, Mass., he was the youngest of four children. His parents believed that the highest calling in life was to become a priest and the second highest calling was to be an honest politician. Those who knew him best were not surprised that he chose politics.

Mr. Durkin held his first elective office - Brookfield Town Moderator - at the age of 18. Durkin attended the College of the Holy Cross through the U.S. Navy ROTC program and graduated in 1959. He also was a graduate of the Georgetown University Law Center in 1965.

Mr. Durkin was assistant attorney general of New Hampshire from 1966 to 1968 and state insurance commissioner from 1968 to 1973, during which time he frequently made headlines fighting insurance companies on behalf of consumers.

Durkin served as Democratic U.S. senator from New Hampshire from 1975 until 1980. Highlights of his Senate career included his work on energy independence, alternative energy sources and preserving Alaska lands for generations to come.

His election to the U.S. Senate was as colorful as his life. In November of 1974, he lost to Republican Louis Wyman by 355 votes. He demanded a recount, which resulted in his victory by 10 votes. Gov. Meldrim Thomson then certified Durkin as the winner. However, Wyman demanded another recount, in which he prevailed by only two votes.

The U.S. Senate Rules Committee, which has jurisdiction over elections, deadlocked on whether to seat Wyman for the 1975-1981 term. On Jan. 14, the Senate sent the matter to the Rules Committee, which returned 35 disputed points to the full Senate based on 3,000 questionable ballots.

After seven months of wrangling, which included six unsuccessful Democratic attempts to seat Durkin, Wyman proposed that he and Durkin run again in a special election. Durkin agreed, and the Senate declared the seat vacant on Aug. 8, 1975, pending the new election. The special election was held on Sept. 16 and Durkin won handily, defeating Wyman by over 27,000 votes – ending what remains the longest vacancy following the most closely contested direct Senate election in history.

He is survived by his three children, Andrea of Louisville, Colo., John of Portsmouth and Sheilagh of South Berwick, Maine, their spouses, and four grandsons. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by two brothers, Joe and Larry, and his sister, Mary.

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SERVICES: A service will be held at Arlington Cemetery later this year.

Donations can be made in his name to the Alzheimer's Association.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Oct. 17, 2012.

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Leif Goodwin

August 24, 2022

I lived next door to John in 2010, he was an amazing man and at my young age ignited a fire in me to be interested in politics, local and national. He taught me what one person can do and how it's possible to make a large impact especially if you follow your heart. In our many long conversations he made an impact on me I shall never forget, he was not mine by any means but he's still here with me advising me to do the right thing no matter how hard, he was very easy to respect. I don't know where else to say but here-thank you John and I'll see you down the road.

Jamie Gilroy

January 5, 2019

I worked for John Durkin for about a year during that extraordinary double Election and, living overseas, have only now learned of his passing away. His energy, idealism, and ability to gather around him some of the most able, diverse and devoted people was extraordinary and I miss it acutely now, decades later. My heart goes out to Pat and his family, and he and they will live on in my memories.

October 26, 2012

DURKIN FAMILY,FIND PEACE AND SOLACE WITH THE ONE WHO GIVES IT FREELY.(GOD) HAS SAID "THAT OUR PEACE WOULD BECOME JUST LIKE A RIVER,AND OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS LIKE THE WAVES OF THE SEA."(isaiah 48:18)...quin nc

Colby & Jessica Knoll

October 23, 2012

Sheilagh, Andrea and John - Colby and I are so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. You and your families are all in our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. Please reach out to us if we can help out in anything on the DC side.

Jack McEnany

October 22, 2012

RIP John -- a great senator and friend.

October 22, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

lila & jean ann mason & rohan

October 21, 2012

so sorry for Durkin family - we went to
brookfield high school with john -
lila mason and jean ann rohan

Jeff Woodburn

October 19, 2012

I miss John Durkin -- his wit, fighting spirit and decency. And more personally -- his political advice, old stories and love for fishing in the North Country. I hold his family in my thoughts and his ambitions for our country in my dreams.

Elaine Crowley

October 19, 2012

Working on the campaign for Senator Durkin was a highlight of my life. John was always so upbeat and fair. He sure worked hard and finally won that long long election. John will be missed.

Erin G

October 18, 2012

I was privileged enough to meet and spend time with Sen. Durkin when he arrived at the Veterans Home until his passing. We had great laughs and many walks together. It was my pleasure to serve him as he had served his communities, state and country. God bless!!!!!!

sandy early

October 18, 2012

So sorry to hear of JD's passing we knew him late in his life in Rollinsford, but always looked forward to saying hello and having a pleasant chat... again thoughts and prayers for your family from the Early's

Victor L'Esperance

October 18, 2012

Senator Durkin was kind and gracious to me in 1988 when I managed Joe Keefe's run for Congress. He was generous with his time while offering sage advice and counsel. He will be missed.

viola robinson

October 18, 2012

to the family of mr durkin may the GOD who gives peace be with you all GOD is love.
jonh ch5:28,29

October 17, 2012

John and I were good friends while we both worked for the Office Of the Comptroller of the Currency. I often remember the many good times we had, Sorry to hear that he has left us. Richard Fitzgerald, Washington D.C.

October 17, 2012

Andrea, John & Sheilagh
On behalf of Patrick, Cathy and I, please accept our condolences. We are very sorry to hear of your father's passing; he meant quite a bit to us. I especially enjoyed speaking with him after the passing our my mother and father. Again, I am sorry for your loss.
John Ward.

Kevin Murphy

October 17, 2012

John will be missed. He was a great Senator and an even better friend. He treated me when I was a child and he was a senator like an equal. The Murphy family will miss John.

October 17, 2012

To the the family of John Durkin - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that he will be missed by many.

Katherine Rogers

October 17, 2012

Senator Durkin was a great man. He taught me so much and I cherish the time I was fortunate enough to work for him. God bless you Senator and goodbye. My prayers are with the entire family. And thank you for all you have done for New Hampshire and the Country.

October 17, 2012

I knew John well great person sorry to hear about your loss.

Robert Collins

October 17, 2012

I was sorry to hear of John's passing, he was a gentleman honest and a great supporter of N.H.

streicher family

October 17, 2012

MAY THE GOD OF PEACE BE WITH THE DURKIN FAMILY AS THEY UNDE GO A TIME OF SADDNESS.ALL WILL SEE PEACE AND HAPPINESSES SOON.MATTHEW 6:9,10.

Cg

October 17, 2012

May God sustain the Durkin family during this time of grief. Draw close to God and he will draw close to you. Pslam 55:22

Wladyslaw Kordas

October 16, 2012

Requiem æternam dona ei, Domine.
Et lux perpetua luceat ei.
Requiescat in pace. Amen.

October 16, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. He was such a devoted and creative person. He touched so many lives and will truly be missed. You have my sincerest sympathy.

Anastasia Kreft
Lynchburg, Virginia

EG

October 16, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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