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Joe Ellis Obituary

Joe Henry Ellis

Ventura, CA

Joe Henry Ellis, beloved father and husband, shuffled off his mortal coil on January 24th, 2016 after a long illness.

Joe Henry was an extraordinary man. We who loved him remember camping trips, his love of the outdoors, Shakespeare, Sherlock Holmes, deep and inspirational conversations, and an incredible personal presence he conveyed to all who knew him.

Joe was born in Arkansas, one of five siblings, to Henry and Alta Vay Ellis. His family moved to Texas, and then to California, finally settling in Trona where he spent his high school years. He joined the Navy in 1951 and served in the Korean War. It was during that time that he went on a blind date and met the love of his life, Patricia Louise Bates, who was in nursing school at the time. They married and settled in Ventura, the home of Patricia's family for generations. Joe took on several jobs to support his wife and growing family as he finished his education to become a teacher. After Joe earned his teaching credential and graduate degree he got a job at Ventura High School where he taught for 31 years in the History Department. During this time he was active in Sacred Heart Parish, took up golf and dragged his growing family across every campground in the western United States and to his cherished Lake Tahoe.

Joe pursued two major passions throughout his life; his family and teaching. He will be remembered by generations of students as a compassionate and enthusiastic educator who encouraged his students to succeed. He had a knack for finding their strengths but it was his caring attitude that brought many of them back to visit him at school and at his home. Towards the end of his illness while at a local hospital, a nurse caring for him shared that he was the only teacher who ever reached out to her and told her she had the potential to go to college.

During his retirement Joe and Patricia were fortunate to travel to many exotic places around the world. They sailed around the Horn, cruised Alaska, pet koalas in Australia and drank wine throughout Western Europe.

Joe is survived by his loving wife of 59 years, Patricia; his three daughters, Kathleen (Gary Stanley); Elizabeth (Thomas Letus); Margaret (Joseph Sofer); his son Joseph, grandchildren Richard, Anita, Jennifer, John, and Mary; and six great-grandchildren. The unconditional love that he showed to all of us will be greatly missed but we know that it is only for a short time before we see him again. "We're glad you made it to the top of the mountain, Dad. We'll see you there someday."

A celebration of his life will be held at Sacred Heart Church on Tuesday, February 9th, at ten o'clock am.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joe's memory to: Ventura High School, The Joe Ellis Scholarship Fund.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ventura County Star from Jan. 31 to Feb. 7, 2016.

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Peter Fish

January 25, 2024

Absolutely one of the best teachers I had at Ventura High. So warm, so funny, so genuinely interested in his students. I think about him often and with great fondness.

February 26, 2016

Dearest Dad.. can it really be 5 weeks on Monday? This guest book goes "off air" on Tuesday. Miss you terribly. Love you always.

Vicki Lara

February 8, 2016

Joe Ellis, Jr and Family....our deepest sympathy from Ralph's #642 on the death of your father. He was such a well respected man in Ventura County. I hope that you know just how special you are to all of us. XXX 000

Frank Montoya

February 8, 2016

Mr. Ellis was my favorite teacher. He encouraged me. We are thinking of his family at this time. Frank Montoya VHS 66

Brian Stachkunas

February 6, 2016

My sincerest sympathy to entire family. I first met Joe when I joined St. Vincent de Paul at Sacred Heart many years ago. Joe was always very nice and friendly, a gentle man. God Bless you all.

February 5, 2016

My condolences to the Ellis family, Mr. Ellis was a great teacher/he made coming to class interesting and in the late 60s, that was a hard thing to do, keep class interesting. RIP, and Thank you....
v/r Janet Fowler

Siscos

February 4, 2016

A good friend in high school and future visits always joyful. He loved life. Thoughts and prayers to the family.

Ken Schoeni

February 3, 2016

Thank you and Godspeed Mr. Ellis.

Irene (White) Abbey

February 1, 2016

I was blessed to have Mr. Ellis for a teacher at VHS. He was a patient and longsuffering man with a class whose members overthrew Ex King Ellis every Friday and carried on the business of our make-believe country. I so clearly remember his pronouncement every Thursday that there would be no party on Friday, but when the goodies inevitably showed up the next day, he would enjoy them too. To his family, I pray for your comfort in this loss and fond memories in the midst of your sorrow.

Susie Couture

February 1, 2016

He was a great teacher! I truly learned a lot from him. Many blessings to the family!

Carolynn Holmquist

February 1, 2016

Thank you for being you
RIP

Mary Fernandez Novak

February 1, 2016

Mr. Ellis was my favorite teacher at VHS. My condolences to his family during this difficult time.

Judy (Marsh) Roth

February 1, 2016

I have very fond memories of Joe and his dry humor, time spent with the Ellis clan while our parents played cards. Pat, Lisa, Kathy and Margaret, may you feel God's arms around you while you grieve the loss of a special man.

Wendy (Otto) Lloyd

February 1, 2016

Joe and his wife Pat were wonderful friends to my parents for many years. What a joy it was for them to travel the globe together. He will be missed greatly. I suspect he and my Dad, who passed just a few weeks ago himself, are having a grand time together in the afterlife. Love and prayers to the entire family.

Scott Smith

February 1, 2016

I had the great pleasure to get to know Mr Ellis, and I thank God for the opportunity. He was a soft spoken and kind man. He will be missed by many.

Peter Fish

February 1, 2016

Mr. Ellis was one of the best teachers I ever had. His intelligence and sense of humor made his history class at VHS both intellectually stimulating and a lot of funan unusual combination. I owe him many, many thanks.

Robin Bender (Ross)

January 31, 2016

So sorry to hear that Mr. Ellis has passed away. I graduated from VHS in 1972 (can't remember what year I had him for history) but I do remember him as a kind and soft spoken man. He was a great teacher who inspired his students to do well. I would like to offer by sympathies to his family.

Janet VanZant-Wozniak

January 31, 2016

Joe Ellis was a wonderful Dad to his kids, and a great husband. A very kind and gentle man who loved life. I know this because growing up we lived on the same street. Margaret, and Family thank you for sharing your Dad, when mine travelled so much! Rest In Peace Mr. Ellis.

Bill Venable

January 31, 2016

Mr. Ellis was my history teacher in 72 or 73. He knew how to make learning a personal responsibility (or privilege), and to make it an adventure. I learned so much from one of our primary assignments that required interviewing someone that experienced a historical event, and report the results. Also very much liked his wit and subtle facial expressions that showed he too could be humored by a class of high school students.

Janet Salzer-Harrington

January 31, 2016

Mr. Ellis was my all-time favorite teacher at Ventura High School. I'll never forget how he pulled me aside one day after class and told me that my answers to his questions were very thought provoking, he challenged me to work hard in class, and inspired me to be a better student.

Leslie Orm

January 31, 2016

He was a great teacher, I had him for history at VHS, great man and teacher, may he rest in peace.

ketti Baehr

January 31, 2016

One of the kindest men I ever had the pleasure of knowing at VHS. R.I.P.

Trish & Tom Turner

January 31, 2016

We remember Joe well He taught some of our children and was so encouraging. May he rest in peace.

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