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Sarah Graham Obituary

Sarah Lee Graham "When I get sad, I stop being sad and I start being awesome" On December 21, 2013, we lost her - a wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. Sarah Lee Graham passed away after a brave, three-year battle with cancer. On February 19, 1980, the most beautiful lil' baby girl was born, a baby that would paint this world in so many vibrant colors! She danced her way through Liberty Elementary, was the FFA sweetheart at Mt. Whitney, chose a career making everybody feel beautiful as a hair stylist and chose a man to grow old with. She is survived by her love Matthew Graham, her parents Larry and Ruth, her big brother Landon, her extended family and her Visalia community - a ragtag group of crafters, cowboys, stylists, party people and believers - all bonded together as they walked with Sarah through this life. We will celebrate our beautiful Sarah Lee (Mapes) Graham on December 27th at 11am at First Assembly Church. We plan to love on each other and truly soak up a life that changed many. "Today I will be happier than a bird with a french fry". Memories and words of sympathy may be sent to the family online at www.hadley-marcom. com. Funeral services entrusted to Hadley-Marcom Funeral Chapel, Visalia, CA.

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Published by Visalia Times-Delta and Tulare Adv-Register on Dec. 26, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Sarah Graham

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January 19, 2014

Matt - we continue to lift you up in prayer. God Bless you and your entire family. Roger and Ann

January 8, 2014

I am so sorry for ur loss Larry, Ruth , and Landon. I wish Mom were here, she would know how u feel u our in my thoughts and prayers. I saw her grow into a beautiful Christian girl. We will c her one of these days. She is in a wonderful place. Love Debra Barrier

Oyuki Arreola

January 5, 2014

I admired Sarah.
She never let her illness define how she would live.

Riley Schaffer

January 3, 2014

January 3, 2014

Midna Lopez

December 31, 2013

Sarah was a beautiful, kind,loving women. I went to beauty school with her then worked with her for a couple of years. Always smiling she was a great person. I'm sadden by this and my prayers go out to the families

Sandy Sanchez

December 29, 2013

I went to beauty school with Sarah and she was just a joy to be around. I pray that peace be with all her loved ones.

Aaron & Candie Moore

December 29, 2013

We are sorry for your loss, ours thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....

Ozzie Cerda

December 28, 2013

Landon Mapes & Matt Graham family, my deepest condolences for your loss. May God Bless you all

Terri Whelan-Sigley

December 28, 2013

Mapes & Matt the services were beyond beautiful. I was honored to be a part and to have had know little Sarah all these years. Peace & Blessings with you always.

Kate Scowsmith

December 28, 2013

Sarah and I were both Liberty Lions and Mt. Whitney Pioneers. We were in student council together and our dads both served on the Liberty school board. Sarah was always such a kind, thoughtful, calm, caring person. She wore her beauty as much on the outside as she did on the inside...a true natural beauty! While I haven't seen her in some years, I can see that she never lost that long, expressive, contagious smile. Peace and love to all of those that loved her.

Dan and Judy Andreas

December 28, 2013

Sarah's memorial service was beautiful for a beautiful girl. We are so sorry for your loss!

Wayne and Gloria

December 28, 2013

Larry, Ruth, Matt, Landon, your sweet Sarah blessed your lives with a brilliance that will never be dimmed. She was a gift from God and her love for you reflected His great love. He created her, loved her, and gave her to you to love and cherish, forever. As we count time, hers was too short. Allow the wonderful memories she provides you with, to console, knowing that the time of reunion will come again. She rests in peace, no longer in pain that beset her in the final days. As much as possible, let her comfort be yours too.

Carrie Bolton

December 28, 2013

Dearest Graham and Mapes Families...Holding you each one close to my heart...Be comforted knowing that there are soooo many enveloping you in our thoughts and prayers as we will continue to do in the days, weeks and months to come.
You are loved!

Melinda Mills

December 28, 2013

The service today was inspiring. The love between Sarah and her family, friends, and husband will be a light to all who knew her. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jules Graham

December 27, 2013

Love you and Miss you, Auntie Sarah. Your memorial was beautiful today. I'll always miss you... <3

J.R

December 27, 2013

So Sorry For Your loss. She was such a beautiful woman! Her beautiful smile would light up a room. She will be missed dearly. ?

Lippincott

December 27, 2013

The service today was beautiful. Larry, I don't know how you did it.It is always a loving gesture when the family is involved as yours was. Today is the first day of the rest of your life and God will be there to share it with you.

December 27, 2013

Dear Larry, Ruth, Landon and Matt,
May God comfort you and all your family at this very sad time. Our prayers are with you and all who loved Sarah.
Dan and Rose Bueno

Debbie Lucio Phillips

December 27, 2013

Matt and Family,
Wishing you thoughts of peace and courage. My heartfelt condolences.

Robin White

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruth, Landon, Matt, Mary, Lou and families....The Sarah we remember was such a joy and blessing to us as a babysitter for our young children as well as an example of what a loving, nurturing woman should be. We are sorry the opportunity to continue our relationships did not present themselves. Your family is so precious to us and you will forever be in our hearts and prayers as a new chapter in your lives begins. We love you!!

December 27, 2013

Matt our thought and prayers are with you.Mike Fierro and family.

December 27, 2013

Dear Larry and Ruth,
Our heartfelt sympathy is extended to you on this sad chapter of your life.
May you find comfort in God's healing arms.
Richard and Shirley Drake
Gilbert, Arizona

Vern & Judy Garcia

December 27, 2013

We want to extend our sincere condolences. Sarah was a beautiful woman, inside and out, and she will be missed by all who knew her.

Janell Rotramel

December 27, 2013

To Landon and Family, my heart aches as you let Sarah go, but it sings knowing her life now begins with the father as she takes her place in his Kingdom.

Elia Arellano

December 27, 2013

Matt, I hope you find peace in your heart thru these difficult times!

The Greenall's

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruth, Landon and Natalie, and Matt:
Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of such a wonderful and brave woman. We share these with you so that it might ease even the slightest bit of sorrow.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Much love to all of you.

Steven Lancaster

December 27, 2013

Prayers of comfort and peace to the Mapes and Graham famailies. Sarah was truly beautiful person inside and out.

December 27, 2013

Prayers for Sara's family at this time of loss. She was a wonderful young woman.

Juanita Cairns

Norris McElroy

December 27, 2013

Matt and the entire family, Sarah will be missed both in your hearts and in this community. Our deepest sympathies are with you. God will continue to bless you. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Norris and Larraine McElroy

Alan & Janell Rotramel

December 27, 2013

So sorry for your loss

Randy Ford, family

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruth , and family
We are truly saddened to hear of your loss. May God bless and comfort you.

Love Randy, Debbie, Seth, Sarah Ford

Stephanie (Beason) Tadlock

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruth, Landon, and Graham family: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sarah was such a wonderful person and it was a joy to know her when I did. She was the sweetest, most loving person I knew growing up. My heart goes out to your family and I will keep you in my prayers.

Gerrie

December 27, 2013

Matt so very sorry for your loss.

Marcia Johnson

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruth,
My prayers are with you in this time of inconceivable grief. May God grant you comfort.
Marci Coppinger Johnson

Barb Schultz

December 27, 2013

Sarah enriched the lives of those she knew. She will be missed, but not forgotten.

Steve Tillery

December 27, 2013

Larry, Ruthie, Landon & Matt I'm very sorry and sad for the loss of Sarah. I will never forget her smile and beautiful spirit. She will always be "Cupcake" to me! When I think of her I will always smile.

Debbie Winsett

December 26, 2013

Larry and Ruthie, Matt and family ~ we are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts, prayers, and love are with you and will continue to be.
Gene & Debbie

December 26, 2013

We love Sarah, we love Matt and we love Larry & Ruth. God bless you.
Joel& Pat Coppinger

Lisa Pace

December 26, 2013

We are so Sorry for your loss and pray for you all...Sarah was a Amazing woman that fought a amazing battle and has inspired many and has given courage and strength to others that may have thought of giving up. I'm Honored to say I grew up with her from Kindergarten through eighth grade.
Lisa Pace (Nelson)
and family

Stancie Kinser

December 26, 2013

Lots of love and prayers for larry, ruthie, landon,natalie,&matt.

Daniel Gipson

December 26, 2013

Sending love and prayers to a wonderful family....you all have a special place in my heart. Love you all

Jennifer Marlow

December 26, 2013

I will always remember Sarah as an amazing women. She was brave and hopeful beyond any other. Matt, Larry and Ruth I pray for comfort and peace to surround you.

Cheryl Byl

December 26, 2013

My condolences to the Mapes and Grahams, I am so sorry for your loss. All of you are in my prayers.

suzie & Terry Moudy

December 26, 2013

Sarah truly made the world a better place. My deepest sympathy to her family.

Linda Gipson

December 26, 2013

How blessed we all are for having known and loved sweet Sarah Lee. She was God's special light of love for all of us. Thank you for being such a wonderful Christian family that made her who she was, she truly lit up the world around her. The best part is we will see her again, still smiling, loving and happy in her new body and spending eternity with the Father. She's waiting for us to join her in that beautiful, peaceful place!! That puts a big smile on my face every time I think of sweet Sarah Lee.

Mike and Karen Machado

December 26, 2013

Larry and Ruth, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family during this difficult time. God bless you and hold you in his hand!

Bryan & Natalie Jacobsen

December 26, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Graham and Mapes family during this time. Sara was a BEAUTIFUL woman who was ALWAYS smiling. It was pleasure and joy to have known her.

Roger Johnson

December 26, 2013

Matt - Roger and I are so sorry for your loss. May your sweet memories of beautiful Sarah fill your heart. Please know that we love you and your family dearly. Roger & Ann

Darin Bettencourt

December 26, 2013

Our thoughts & prayers are with your family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Darin & Darla Bettencourt. & Boys
(Kaye's son)

Lacey Stowe

December 26, 2013

Such a beautiful soul. Sarah you will be forever missed. I pray your families can find peace in all of this. You fought a good battle my friend.

skip nugent

December 26, 2013

Matt, so sorry for your loss. She is at peace now,in a beautiful place. My prayers are with you

December 26, 2013

I didn't know the family, but today I was getting a pedicure, and the man next to me was talking about his beautiful wife, who had just died. He said they got pedicures every Sunday together and was getting one in honor of her today...I just happened to stumble upon this story a few hours later, and realized the man was Sarah's husband. My prayers for the families and friends of this woman who was so loved by her husband!

Dana Kyle

December 26, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Graham and Mapes Families. I did not know Sarah personally but from what I heard she was truly an ANGEL.So sorry for your loss.

The girls celebrating the Mape's first baby (lil miss Olivia). Sarah smiled her way through the celebration - it was only a few days after her surgery

Nicole Yandell

December 26, 2013

Keaton Yandell's first hair cut. Sarah made this world more beautiful with everyone she touched. She started a fire that we will forever keep burning.

Nicole Yandell

December 26, 2013

8th grade

Robert Van

December 26, 2013

One of the most kind people I've ever met in my life. she was a light in this sometimes dark world. growing up with her she always knew how to make people smile.

December 26, 2013

~Love and miss you Sweet Sarah~
Jane Alfano

Debbie Hadley

December 26, 2013

Sarah was a very special woman. She fought her illness with dignity and courage...and has now found peace and joy with her Heavenly Father. My prayers and thoughts to the Mapes/Graham families.

Melanie Andrade Dias

December 26, 2013

Sending love and prayers to the Mapes and Graham families. Sarah was truly a beautiful woman inside and out and I admired her for her beautiful personality, graciousness and courage. Feel so honored to have known Sarah.

December 26, 2013

Our deepest sympathy for your loss..may God wrap his loving arms around Larry and u at this time and comfort u as our God can! Joe and Norma Scalia..Mid Valley Church of Christ.

Cindy Hartman

December 26, 2013

Dear Larry and Ruthie, Landon and family, and Matt and family.

My Heart is broken with yours... I know she is with our Lord and is Happy and has a new Body. Knowing that gives us comfort and I pray that God continues to give us his comfort and his strength to stand and walk forward until we will meet again. We Love you guys!

Kyle and Cindy Hartman

Monica Fatica, Embellish & Restore

December 26, 2013

Mapes and Graham families: I am so sorry for your loss. Knowing your sweet Sarah has changed my life for the better. I hope you find comfort in knowing that she positively impacted more people in her short lifetime than most of us do living until old age. Thank you for sharing her with us and God Bless you all.

December 26, 2013

Matt, you and Sarah have been such an inspiration to everyone you touched. Thank you for sharing your angel

Bill and Chris Adams

Kim Burchett

December 26, 2013

Sarah was loved by many and laughed with everyone. We will surely miss her fun sense of humor and her love of life. I am sure she is having a glass of wine with God and looking down on all of us saying ... I have found the light, and will be here waiting for all of you at the gates of heaven.

December 26, 2013

Our prayers are with you Larry, Ruth, Landon & Matt. John & Sherri Rivera.

Paul Lamothe

December 26, 2013

Sarah was a delightful and lovely young lady who touched so many hearts with her wonderful personality and incredible smile. Sarah lives in each of us.

Pamela Avila

December 26, 2013

Dear Larry, Ruth, Landon, Matt & Family,
Though my heart "aches" so much for you and your painful loss of such a beautiful angel, I am so excited for Sarah. She will finally be at peace and walking with our Lord in her beautiful Heavenly home, smiling her contagious smile and enjoying a now healthy, cancer-free body.
I know you will miss her so much, but will have the "joy" of seeing her again someday. Praying to the Lord for your "comfort" and "rest" in these difficult days ahead. You are all in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
In "Christian Love,"

December 26, 2013

The world will miss you, Sarah, but the light you left within us will always be with us.
Mike and Joan Carpenter

December 26, 2013

Sending our love & prayers to the Graham/ Mapes families. Sarah was such a beautiful, joyful woman! We loved her<3 The Machado Family

Kerry Wadkins

December 26, 2013

My heart breaks for your loss. Sarah was an absolute delight! Sending prayers for your comfort and healing.

December 26, 2013

My #1 customer, and most beautiful woman that I had the privilege to know. Love and prayers for Matt, and the Mapes family.
Maria Michels (Dolores N Me Antiiques)

Devon Burnias

December 24, 2013

Such a dynamic beauty this woman. Sending lots of love and prayers to Larry, Ruthie, Landon and Matt. I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and peace in knowing your angel Sarah is with her maker.

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