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EMERSON KANEGUSUKE Obituary

KANEGUSUKE Emerson Luis Soares Kanegusuke (Age 46) July 26, 1972 - September 8, 2018 Cher, Madonna, Gaga, Emerson. Few of us have the personal integrity and sense of style to make our way in the world with just one name, but Emerson had those qualities. Emerson Kanegusuke was many things, devoted son and husband, energetic lover, scholar, Air Force (Brazil) Sergeant and Air Traffic Controller, author, BS, MS, MBA - the light of my life. Born July 26, 1972 in Sao Paulo, Brazil, the third son of Luiz and Maria Kanegusuke, Emerson was always the brightest smile and the biggest heart in the room, as he pursued his lifelong quest for a better and kinder world. At 16 he joined the Air Force to train and work as an Air Traffic Controller. At 24 Emerson, who was of Japanese ancestry, followed his roots and moved around the world to live and work in Japan. On June 8, 2002 in Tokyo Emerson met U.S. Diplomat Patrick Linehan who was to be his partner and husband for the next 16 years. Emerson immediately took on the unpaid duties of a diplomatic spouse hosting diplomatic events at their home and representing the U.S. overseas with enthusiasm and joy even though the U.S. was not his country. Always with his warm signature smile, Emerson made friends around the world as the State Department called them to work in Tokyo, Brasilia, Ottawa, Seoul, Osaka, Los Angeles and Washington, DC. From their first days together, Emerson and Patrick fought for the civil rights of LGBT people within the Department of State, government-wide and then around the country and the globe. For Emerson rule number one was always to be visible. Emerson and Patrick vowed that the first time they were in a state or country where they could legally marry they would do so, and on May 5, 2007 in Ottawa, Canada they married surrounded by their American, Canadian and Brazilian friends and State Department colleagues. As the first U.S. Consul General same sex couple in Osaka-Kobe 2011-2014 they worked with Japanese human rights groups to raise public awareness about LGBT rights, and in 2014 published their book "Husbands" (in Japanese) about their life and work together as a gay diplomatic couple. On September 2, Emerson suffered a traumatic brain injury from a serious fall at home, and in spite of valiant efforts by the gifted and compassionate trauma team at George Washington University Hospital he died on September 8. Always a generous and giving man, in accordance with his wishes Emerson donated his heart, two kidneys and his liver to give new life to five people. His family has kept his smile to remind us of the joy he brought to us all. In the U.S. Emerson leaves behind his husband of 16 wonderful and joy-filled years, Patrick J. Linehan of Washington, DC; brother-in-law James Linehan, wife Karen and nieces and nephews Flynn, Anna and Conor of Bangor, Maine; and sister-in-law Deborah Linehan of Oxnard, CA. In Brazil Emerson is survived by his parents Maria and Luiz Kanegusuke, brother Eidan, sister-in-law Rosana and nephew Kim Kanegusuke all of Sao Bernardo do Campo, as well as members of the extended Kanegusuke, Soares, Bertoloni, Lucht, Toledo and Araujo families. A wake and viewing will be held at the DeVol Funeral Home, 2222 Wisconsin Ave. NW, Washington, DC 20007 on October 7, from 3 to 5 p.m. (Complimentary Valet Parking Available). A memorial service will be held in the Chapel of Congressional Cemetery October 8 at 9:30 a.m. followed immediately by prayers and interment at the graveside. A celebration of life lunch "The Festival of Emerson" will follow from noon at Brazilian restaurant Fogo do Chao on Pennsylvania Avenue. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made in Emerson's honor to the Washington Regional Transplant Community (www.beadonor.org) and the It Gets Better Project (https://itgetsbetter.org). Please view and sign the family's online guest book at: www.DeVolFuneralHome.comA wake and viewing will be held at the DeVol Funeral Home, 2222 Wisconsin Ave. NW, Washington, DC 20007 on October 7, from 3 to 5 p.m. (Complimentary Valet Parking Available). A memorial service will be held in the Chapel of Congressional Cemetery October 8 at 9:30 a.m. followed immediately by prayers and interment at the graveside. A celebration of life lunch "The Festival of Emerson" will follow from noon at Brazilian restaurant Fogo do Chao on Pennsylvania Avenue. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made in Emerson's honor to the Washington Regional Transplant Community (www.beadonor.org) and the It Gets Better Project (https://itgetsbetter.org). Please view and sign the family's online guest book at: www.DeVolFuneralHome.com

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Published by The Washington Post from Sep. 29 to Oct. 6, 2018.

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Leia Jarvis

September 25, 2024

Emerson was amazing person and friend. We miss him. Love Leia & Karl Jarvis

Stephenson Brooks Whitestone

November 29, 2023

Patrick (and all who loved Emerson),
I hope you do not mind a message from a stranger. I did not know Emerson, but I recently had a chance to visit the Congressional Cemetery and accepted Emerson's invitation to sit on his bench. To share a chat and a smile. I never knew Emerson so I never saw that smile you all speak of. But I can tell you, on that day, I felt it's warmth. My condolences to all.

October 8, 2018

Dear Patrick;

We hope that your memories of Emerson remain clear and warm, and that your grief fades when you are ready.

Tom and June Carmichael

Matt Meadows

October 8, 2018

Our deepest condolences. We are so sorry for your loss and have such great memories of our time together in Osaka. Thank you for sharing Emerson, his smile, and contagious positive attitude. You both had a gift for making everyone around you feel welcome and loved. We appreciate your kindness and that gift. Know that he is in a better place without the challenges of pain and suffering, surrounded by those who love him. We will always remember him in our hearts... We miss you and hope you find solace during this difficult time. Matt, Stephenie, Cavin, Megan, and Amanda Meadows

December 7, 2017

Wes & Janice Carrington & Fair

October 8, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person: We will miss your smiling face and heart full of humor and joy, and always remember the great love story that is yours and Patrick's.

October 6, 2018

Very sorry for your loss and grief; may the promise at John 6:40 give you comfort and peace.

Bernard and Yukiko Uadan-Yamashita

October 4, 2018

Patrick,

Emerson is truly a unique soul whose infectious zest and enthusiasm for life brightened the world for the people who knew him. The many lives he touched with the gift of his time, a word of kindness, or simple companionship are a testament to his boundless generosity, and we were truly blessed to have known him. He is sorely missed.

Jennifer & Ray Sudweeks

October 3, 2018

Dear Patrick,

Emerson was one of those rare people who always made you feel like you were the most important person in the room. He was gracious and kind and funny and the best example of a diplomatic spouse. I know words fail at moments like this, but please know how sorry we are for your loss. It is a blow to everyone who knew him because we all loved him so.

Donna Tatsuki

October 1, 2018

Dear Patrick, I am grateful for the warm, inclusive hospitality that you and Emerson offered in your home many times in Japan. Warm memories of Emerson live on in my heart. The love, mutual respect and dignity that you both radiated in your marriage touched me deeply and inspired me to nurture a better relationship with my own spouse. Thank you, bless you, love you.

Bryan Miyamoto

October 1, 2018

Dear Emerson
So sorry to hear your pass. Your beautiful smile and laughter will always be in my heart as long as I live. Until we meet again my friend. Love you.

Chul Park

October 1, 2018

Since I met Emerson in Tokyo, he always showed me his warm heart and friendship.
Patrick, I am thinking of you and your family.

JOHN MALOTT

September 30, 2018

Patrick, I only met Emerson once, when you both came to my house a year or two ago. But I understood immediately what attracted you -- and everyone else -- to him. What a wonderful person he was. And he has left our world too soon. As you know, I lost the love of my live, Hiroko, six years ago. All I can say is -- it will get better -- but slowly. You will always have those wonderful memories of your time together, and as time goes by, I hope that will be what you remember most. Always cherish those memories. Hiroko's spirit is still very much alive in my house and in my heart, as I am sure that Emerson will always live within you.

Karl Jarvis

September 30, 2018

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Emerson was a beautiful person. We will miss him.

Seiji & Tami Kojima

September 30, 2018

Sending our sincere condolences to Patrick and the members of the family.
We will always rememberEmerson and his happy warm smile.
With lots of prayers....

Roh Hardin

September 29, 2018

My sincere condolences to you and family. May you find comfort and peace. Roh Hardin

Warren Coats

September 29, 2018

Death at the end of a full life is no tragedy but Emerson was sadly, unnecessary taken in his prime. We will all miss his bright smile and kind heart. Warren and Ito

Shimaa Badr

September 29, 2018

Love you Emerson, we will never be forgotten.

Shimaa Badr

September 29, 2018

My condolences to you my dear friend and to the family for your loss. May God bless his soul in to heaven, and give you and his family Peace in your hearts. All my Thoughts and prayers with you all.

Renato Brandao

September 29, 2018

My sincere condolences to dear friend Patrick Linehan, friends and family. Emerson touched many lives around the world, including mine, here in Tokyo. May his legacy continue to help people improve their lives, as was his wish.

September 29, 2018

My sincere condolences for your loss. May the God of all comfort and strength and the family during this difficult time of sorrow. 1 Peter 5:6,7

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