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Richard Price
November 9, 2016
My condolences to the Abendschein family on your loss. Tatiana has spoken so highly of Dr. Abendschein and your family.
November 6, 2016
Bud was my hero. When I was being medvac to fairfax hospital, he called ahead to make sure they right doctors were there and they icu was ready.
All my love to his family and extended family in Middleburg.
David Bagley
November 6, 2016
25 years ago Dr. Abendschein performed a total replacement on my father's chronically bad left knee, which had already been replaced, but was very poorly done. We were referred to him by another top knee surgeon who felt Dr. Abendschein was the only surgeon in the area who could help him, and he did. He later did a partial replacement of the same knee to help him some more. He's 90 now and still getting around on it. I can still see Dr. 'Bud' flying up the stairwell steps at Sibley in his scrubs, two steps at a time, and in his mid-50s, always shunning the elevator. He was a great guy, and an even better surgeon.
Hector and Maria Laura Subiza
November 4, 2016
Dear Ana Maria and Family
We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you.
Maria Laura, Hector, Maria and Dolores Subiza
November 3, 2016
Ana Maria,
My heart hurts for you and your family. Bud was such a special person and did so much for others. Sending my love to you and your family! Love, Julie Klick
Susan Miller
October 31, 2016
Doctor Abendschein was our hero. We called him Enoch because he truly walked with God. He was always looking for better ways to help people. Our family benefitted from his skill and determination more than anyone. Because of him we have all been able to live full lives.
We trusted him completely. If he said it, then it was so. No other doctor has ever come close to the standard he set.
Our mother was the first hip replacement in Washington, and a lot of other firsts for his practice. He was always finding creative solutions to the challenges our disease presented.
Because of Dr. Abendschein Mom lived a full life. She passed away in July, just a few months before her friend and advocate. I'm sure their reunion was a joyous one.
We all missed him after he retired, but no one more than Mom. She spoke of him often and we loved retelling our "Walter" stories. Like the time he had operated on my sister and called her room in the hospital from a room on a different floor where he was recovering from a fall from his horse. Or the way he would tease our Dad saying that they had to have a resident on stand by to make sure they didn't lose Dad during Mom's surgeries.
He was our whole families doctor and we were always impressed by how he changed his bedside manner depending on which of us he was treating. He knew who needed a hug and who needed a firm hand and he was always ready with either.
Our hearts ache for Ana Maria and Kurt. The loss of a husband and father is the worst kind of loss and we pray that God give you comfort as you adjust to the world without him.
A world without his laughter, which we loved to hear. A world without his compassion, for which we were ever grateful to have experienced first hand. A world without his brilliance, which we all benefitted from. And a world without that smile that could turn a rainy day into a bright sunshiny day. A world without that wonderful voice, ever calm and caring, freely sharing all that he knew to ensure that the doctors who followed him would benefit from his experiences.
We loved our hero, our Enoch who walked with God and now as in the scripture, God has taken him. Such a huge loss for us but the lights in heaven shine brighter and the heavens are lighter since his arrival. If they aren't he'll find a way to make it so.
Mary Woody
October 31, 2016
My condolences to the family. Doc was a fabulous orthopedic surgeon. I will miss him dearly.
Sonya
October 30, 2016
My condolences to the Abendschein family. Dr. "Bud" Abendschein will be missed by all the many lives that he touched throughout all of his lifes adventures and his practice. May you find hope in God's promise to wipe out death, sorrow and pain as you deal with your loss.
N. S.
October 30, 2016
October 30,2016
Sincere condolences Abendschein family. Almighty God knows the pain you are feeling and he will comfort and strengthen you as you mourn the loss of your loved one. Psalm 94:17-19
Chuck Akre
October 30, 2016
Bud's life was driven by his high personal standards, which were exemplified by his great professional accomplishments.
His next life beyond medical practice, was driven by his willingness to help all comers in the trials of their own lives.
He set a standard for all of us, and wasn't shy about commenting on those who fell short of his expectations.
We all loved him for this very trait, which was to be as honest and straight forward with us as he could be. Never however was it meant or expressed in a mean or judgmental way, rather it was just his observation.
We will miss him GREATLY!
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