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Michael Goodgame Obituary

Goodgame, Michael D.
A college student and athlete from Westport, Michael David Goodgame, died on February 28 in an automobile accident just outside Northfield, Minn., where he was studying political science at Carleton College. Michael, age 20, was a member of Carleton's Ultimate Frisbee team which, despite the college's small enrollment and remote location, placed third in the country last year. He and three teammates were en route to the Minneapolis airport on Friday afternoon, where they were to fly to a tournament in Palo Alto, Calif. Their SUV skidded on an icy road in snowy conditions, and slammed head-on into a large truck. Two of Michael's teammates also died in the accident. A third teammate is hospitalized in stable conditions, as is the driver, who is also a Carleton student. According to the state police, neither alcohol nor speeding played any role in the accident, and all five occupants of the car were wearing seat belts. Born in Washington, D.C., Michael Goodgame moved to Westport with his family at age four. He attended public schools, where he was known as a diligent and curious student, an engaging writer, a respected leader, and an accomplished athlete. At Staples High School, he was elected president of the Student Assembly and co-captain of the men's swimming and diving team. He also enjoyed competing on the Water Rats club swim team, and in the recreational basketball league. In 2005, when Michael was 12, he helped his parents and brothers organize aid to Pascagoula and the Gulf Coast after Hurricane Katrina. The town of Westport adopted Pascagoula as a sister city and hundreds of donors sent truckloads of construction and cleaning supplies, schoolbooks, clothing and other items, along with volunteers from the fire and police departments. During the summers, Michael loved working as a junior counselor at Cape Cod Sea Camps, where he had been a camper himself, and where he influenced hundreds of young lives for the better. He also treasured vacations with his parents and two older brothers, whether to ski in Vermont, fish the Upper Delaware River, visit relatives in Mississippi and Florida, or explore exotic locations such as Damascus and Jerusalem. At Carleton, a highly ranked liberal arts college with just 2,055 students, Michael achieved high marks in classes that ranged from Arabic to statistical analysis and political philosophy. He swam on the varsity team as a freshman, but soon was attracted to the nationally renowned Carleton Ultimate Team, known as CUT. That team travels the country to compete against squads from Division I schools that are 20 and 30 times larger - and regularly beats them to win national titles. Both Carleton and CUT gave Michael the kind of environment where he thrived: amid a group of smart, fun-loving young people with a strong sense of shared purpose, who are unashamedly kind and supportive to one another. Michael is survived by his parents, Marcia Logan and Dan Goodgame of Westport; his brothers Clayton, a graduate student in Middle East studies at Oxford University, and Sam, an Army Ranger lieutenant in the 101st Airborne Division; his grandmothers Ruth Logan of Fort Lauderdale, Fla., and Betty Goodgame of Pascagoula, Miss.; his aunts and uncles Shasta and Tom Brander of Mountain Brook, Ala., Shannon and Howard Nolan of Albany, N.Y., and Mary Logan of Fort Lauderdale; his cousin Lauren Brander of New York City; and other loving relatives including Bob, Teenie, and Cheryl Goodgame of Vancleave, Miss.; Carla and Cleve Bond of Pascagoula; Nancy and Gene Jennings of Hueytown, Ala., and Julie and Darrell Loggains of Birmingham, Ala. A memorial service for Michael will be held at 4 p.m. on Thursday, March 6, at Christ and Holy Trinity Church, 75 Church Lane, in downtown Westport. A reception will follow in the church's Branson Hall. Burial will take place on Friday, March 7, at 11 a.m. at the Cemetery of Christ and Holy Trinity Church, 80 Kings Highway North, in Westport. For anyone who wishes to remember Michael in a tangible way, the family asks that, in lieu of flowers, donations be written to the "CHT Church, Michael Goodgame Memorial Fund," Christ and Holy Trinity Church, 75 Church Lane, Westport, CT 06880. That fund will be used to enable underprivileged young people to participate in the sports that Michael loved. Michael's generous spirit will live on through this effort, and through the example and inspiration he provided to everyone fortunate enough to know him.

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Published by Westport-News & Connecticut Post from Mar. 4 to Mar. 7, 2014.

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Dave Green

May 15, 2014

May the GOD of all comfort help you with HIS love and grace in your great sorrow!

Denise Ganje

March 8, 2014

Dear Marcia and Dan, Michael's brothers and his grandparents: My name is Denise and you don't know me. The loss of these 3 students has touched me deeply. I lost my son (John "Jack" Guckin, freshman at Carleton College, would have been class of 2014) on 3-15-11 in a collision with a semi in Randolph, MN (about 14 min north of the college). Jack and his father were both killed instantly. You family and the other 2 families of the deceased students are in my prayers and I have asked my son Jack to welcome your son and the other 2 young men into the Kingdom of Heaven. I know how much this hurts, it happened to me, too.

mother of two ultimate players

March 6, 2014

So sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and your family during this very difficult time.

Kathryn Olney

March 6, 2014

Our son, Robert, is a teammate of Michael's on CUT. We are so very sorry for this accident, and are thinking so tenderly of your family.

Sharon Jones

March 6, 2014

So sorry for your loss.

Katrina Bourque

March 6, 2014

I had the pleasure of being Michael's fifth grade teacher at Green's Farms Elementary in Westport, Connecticut. Michael's intelligence and kind disposition was evident at an early age. We are all mourning the loss of this fantiastic young man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Jacqueline Wittenburg

March 6, 2014

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious son Michael. He was one of my son Eric's best friends at Carleton, and I had the privilege of meeting Michael two years ago after one of Eric's musical performances. Eric mentioned Michael often, and I know this is a huge loss for him also. My husband Tim and I pray that God will be with you during this difficult time. Michael was an amazing young man, and he touched the lives of everybody who knew him.

March 6, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. As a mom, I can't imagine the heartbreak of losing a child. May God wrap his arms around your family and comfort you during this time.

Kathy Harvieux

March 5, 2014

Our most sincere condolences to your family in this tragic loss. I never met Michael, but he came to find CUT and a true brotherhood in much the same way as our grandson, Paxton. Paxton played a season of basketball at Carleton before he announced that he had found a sport that utilized many of the skills he had learned in soccer, football, and basketball, and which also offered a freedom and creativity that he found seductive. Most of all he tried to make us understand that these young men were "my kind of people." We have found a great deal of solace in the knowledge that he died with young men he loved and held in the highest esteem. We have had a great deal of support in our loss, and have thought of your family often as you struggle with your loss so far away from the embrace of the Carleton community. We feel guilty and selfish and are deeply saddened that we never met your wonderful son. If you ever need to talk to anyone please contact our family. We hope to support each other as we all go through the grieving process together.

Yevonne Hale

March 5, 2014

Losing a child must be the ultimate tragedy for loved ones to endure in this life on Earth. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart is breaking for the family. May God be with the family in this time of sorrow.

Geraldine Warden

March 5, 2014

The members of First Baptist Church in Pascagoula MS are sad for the loss of Michael. We pray for your family.

Natalie Johnson

March 5, 2014

My heartfelt sympathy to the Goodgame family. I have fond memories of both parents and their three sons while teaching at Janney Elementary in Washington, DC. I am so sorry about the loss of your son. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Peggy and Mike Eley

March 4, 2014

Our hearts ache for you in the loss of your son.

Patricia Upton-Kersteter

March 4, 2014

Betty and family, I know what if feels like to lose a son and a grandson to automobile accidents. It is so heartbreaking and my thoughts are with you during this time. Your grandson, sounds like a wonderful caring person and he will be sorely missed I am sure. God bless you and your family.

Joan Semmer

March 4, 2014

Dear Goodgame Family,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. As the shock of this tragedy sinks in, it helps to remember that Michael will always be your loving son and brother. Death can not change that. His body has died, but his unique and loving spirit still exists. Cherish and protect this connection in your heart. Try to take one day at a time. Grieving is painful and difficult, but it also reflects the depth of your love.
God Bless.

David Minkler

March 4, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God comfort you in your loss.

Jacquelynn Goessling

March 4, 2014

My husband was the captain of CUT in our time at Carleton. Michael sounds like he was a wonderful young man. Our condolences on your indescribable loss. The Carleton family extends its arms to hold you in its grasp.

Diane Davis

March 4, 2014

That though the radiance which was once so bright be now forever taken from my sight. Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.
William Wordsworth

I am so, so sorry for the loss of your child.
Diane Tullos Davis

Billy Scoville

March 4, 2014

So sorry for your loss Danny, our prayers go out to you and your family. God bless you ol friend.

Tommy Kelley

March 4, 2014

Danny my thoughts and prayers for you and your family during these sad times. May Gods peace be with you.

Lanier Peterzell

March 4, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. It sounds like he had a rich, happy and healthy life. Surely he was a gift to all. You are and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I'll check in on your Mom Danny.

Dawn Holubiak

March 4, 2014

Danny and Marcia,
No words can express how sorry Myron and I are for the loss of your son. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Our Deepest Sympathy,
Myron and Dawn

Martha Turner

March 4, 2014

Betty, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you. I was a co worker at Ingalls.

Dennis Dollar

March 4, 2014

Dan - My prayers are with you. God bless you, friend.

Phil Torjusen

March 4, 2014

Danny - Georgette and I give you and your family our deepest sympathies. We love you, our hometown boy. God Bless.

Dan Sander

March 4, 2014

I pray for God's peace and strength to be with you and your family, Dan. I am sure you experience gratitude and pride with your grief. You have been blessed, as so clearly have others, to have shared in your son's life. I am so sorry that his light shone so briefly.

Marcia Willett

March 4, 2014

Oh, Danny and Marcia, my heart is breaking for you and your sons. I am in prayer that God will strengthen you and gird your hearts with courage to face the difficult days ahead. I love you, Danny, and through that love your family also. So many will offer their love and support to your family. This is a gift of God. Embrace it.

March 4, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. My mother, Ruby Baggett, was a dear friend and co-worker of Mrs. Betty Goodgame at Ingalls Shipbuilding in Pascagoula. I am so sorry for your loss. Your son was an amazing young man. God bless you all.
Linda Baggett Boozer
Jackson, Mississippi

Lin Jacobson

March 4, 2014

I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

John & Liz Webster

March 4, 2014

I can't find the words that can express the extent of compassion for you and your family...I wish I could. Just know we have you and your family in our hearts and prayers.

Mike-Regina Riser

March 4, 2014

So sorry for the sadness you must endure. Mike and I pray for peace and resolve through Christ.

Susan (Gandy)Salmon

March 3, 2014

Deepest sympathy for your family during this difficult time. Praying for you in the days ahead.

March 3, 2014

To the family of Michael David Goodgame... So sorry for your loss. Many years have passed since seeing Dan in Pascagoula. My prayers are with you at this time.

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