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Gary Kostek Obituary

Gary Edward Kostek, 78, of South Windsor, beloved husband of Claudette (Pepin) Kostek, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, August13, 2025 at Hartford Hospital. Gary was born in Hartford, CT, on February 5, 1947, son of the late Edward and Rose (Ratti) Kostek. He grew up in East Hartford and graduated from East Hartford High School. He went on to earn a bachelor's degree from Western New England College and a master's degree from the University of Hartford. He served our country during the Vietnam War with the U.S. Marine Corps. Upon returning from the war, he met and married the love of his life, Claudette Pepin on November 10, 1973, and they settled in South Windsor. Gary worked for the MDC and retired as a supervisor after over 25 years of service. Gary enjoyed traveling with his wife all over the world, was a sports fan including boxing and baseball. He was also a member of the VFW. Gary was his wife Claudette's best friend, her rock, her everything and will be dearly missed. Along with his wife Claudette of South Windsor, he leaves several extended family members and friends. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, August 18, 2025, 10 a.m., meeting directly at St. Francis of Assisi Church, 673 Ellington Rd., South Windsor. Burial with Military Honors will follow at Wapping Cemetery in South Windsor. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be to a charity of the donor's choice. Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home in South Windsor has care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by WFSB on Aug. 15, 2025.

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Sherry & Tad Wheeler

August 16, 2025

We are so sorry to hear about Gary´s passing. He was a great friend and neighbor. We will miss our chats.
Sherry, Tad, Sarah & Amy

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

August 15, 2025

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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St. Francis of Assisi Church

673 Ellington Road, South Windsor, CT 06074

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