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1969
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2020
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Derrick Arnsman Obituary
A memorial service will be at 11 a. m. Friday, Oct. 9, at O'Donnell-Cookson Life Celebration Home in Quincy. Julie Flynn will officiate.
Visitation will be from 5 to 7 p.m. Thursday, Oct. 8, at O'Donnell-Cookson Life Celebration Home.
Derrick was born March 23, 1969, in Hannibal to Gary and Patricia Ainsworth Bibb.
He married Doug Arnsman on Oct. 25, 2014, at Spirit Knob Winery in Ursa. He survives.
In addition to his husband, survivors include two daughters, Chloe Arnsman-Saxbery of Quincy and Taylor Arnsman of Memphis, Tenn.; one son, Brian Bibb of Hannibal; three grandchildren, Rossi, Zephra and Alera; one sister, Elizabeth Gouch (Bill) of Hannibal; three brothers, William Harbourn (Michelle) of Hannibal, Patrick Bibb (Brandy) of El Dara, Ill., and Norman Bibb of Hannibal; two sisters-in-law, Lorie Arnsman-Schwartz (Rob) of O'Fallon, Mo., and Judy Eckerly (Dave) of Macomb, Ill.; one brother in-law, Steve Arnsman (Dianna) of Mendon; two dogs, Bialey and Sirius; and many nieces and nephews.
Derrick was preceded in death by his parents; and one niece, Bobbie Harbourn.
Derrick was a graduate of Hannibal High School. Professionally, he went on to be a correctional officer, and later worked at the psych ward at Blessing Hospital. He was most recently a service advisor at Shottenkirk Toyota Quincy.
Derrick enjoyed flipping houses, traveling and playing guitar. He also loved being outside, whether that be camping at Oakwood Acres or simply relaxing on his deck. Derrick was extremely selfless, generous and loving; he would help any person in need, but preferred to do so privately, as he never wanted acknowledgement for the sacrifices he made to help others. Most of all, Derrick cherished and loved his family dearly.
Memorial contributions may be made to Blessing Hospice.
Online condolences may be shared and a video tribute may be viewed at ODonnellCookson.com.
Condolences also may be expressed online at whig.com.
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Barb Tomlinson-Fosse
October 1, 2021
Remembering Derrick at this time, with fond memories. I want to share information about a group for those who have lost a loved one to death. Sometimes the second year is more difficult than the first year. Please call me for more information or to answer questions about joining this group as you continue to mourn. Let it be in an atmosphere of love, understanding, and a common connection with others who have lost a loved one. 573-822-1675. Please leave a message if I do not answer.
Megan Sparks
October 13, 2020
Sending lots of love and light to you Doug, and your family. May you be blessed with peace of mind during this time
Barbara Tomlinson-Fosse
October 8, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of Derrick's passing. He was a great guy and loved life to the fullest. I remember the house he bought from me in Hannibal. He did an excellent job of fixing it up and enjoyed showing me pictures of his progress. I know family and friends will miss him. My sympathy and prayers of peace for the family.
Barb
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