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Perry Martin "Cowboy" Valentine
He attended Mukilteo Elementary School and Olympic View Middle School, and graduated from Chrysalis High School. While school was often difficult for him, he was quick witted, with a sharp sense of humor and an encyclopedic memory for details about his favorite movies. Perry then enlisted in the US Army, but his career was cut short by his asthma and he returned home after a medical discharge. He worked as a janitor, jewelry salesman and security guard.
Perry was very fond of animals, and worked for a time as volunteer at the Everett Animal Shelter. He believed there was never such a thing as too many tattoos. He had a passion for firearms, and held military servicemen and police officers in high regard. His dream was to someday qualify for a career in law enforcement.
Perry is survived by his parents, his beloved younger brother, Owen, aunts, uncles, three cousins, and many friends.
He was preceded in death by his grandparents and by his cousin, Jim Gutman.
His cremation will be followed by a memorial service on Saturday, April 13, 2013 at the Evergreen Unitarian Universalist Fellowship in Marysville, at 2 p.m.
Memorial gifts should be directed to the Everett Animal Shelter or to the Veteran's organization of your choice.
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Silvana Bellante
June 2, 2025
Honor to you, sweet unforgettable Perry, life is too hard for sensitive souls.
Anonymous
May 30, 2025
Cowboy,
It was beautiful out today. The sun is beginning to share its summer heat and the wind still carries the floral scent of spring. On my way through a parking lot this afternoon, I saw a powdered sugar face dog resting on the edge of an open window, baking in the warmth with closed eyes. You were the first person I thought of. I think of you often this time of year. I knew you only briefly, but you left a lifetime long impression on me, and so many others.
I will be donating to The Everett Animal Shelter in your name this month.
Silvana Bellante
March 29, 2024
Dear Perry, you are still in my mind when you came to see us in Milan, with Owen and your parents. We could share a nice funny time together, short but intense. You will always be that nice young boy in my heart, forever.
September 23, 2019
Wondering if you will see this. Thinking about Cowboy. He still makes a difference, all the time.
Marla Mason
May 3, 2013
I think of you every day. My heart is broken that I will never see your smile in this life again. You will never be forgotten. In this short lifetime you left a wonderful light that will never burn out.
Maryse McGuirk-Goebel
May 1, 2013
Dear Mark, Michelle and Owen, I just heard about Perry and am so sorry for your loss. He was a delightful neighbor and I loved his friendly ways. His visits and our chats were great fun for me and I remember him as an adventurous boy with great charm. I wish I were closer to help you through this difficult time. Love, Maryse
April 30, 2013
I should have said before, how much you affected my life. I should have sought you out, to tell you I am changed. In this life your care and concern, even through disappointment and anger made a difference. I'm a better person for having known you.
I believe fully you are in the company of Jesus, and that is my only solace. You're in better company.
April 15, 2013
to the valentine family ~
there really are not words that can convey the heartfelt emotion and sadness upon hearing of perry's passing......i knew you through your dad's stories when we visited his office. he wove a tapestry of your life that allowed me to feel as though i knew you. my son is your age, and so it was as if i was hearing of another wonderful soul out there growing up. sometimes struggling, a strong will, and always with great heart and humor. i knew of your love of animals, and your interest in criminal justice ~ things that were common threads in my life. i wish you peaceful passage young man. blessings and gentleness to your family and friends who had the honor of knowing you so well.
nan connor
April 15, 2013
Michelle and Mark we can not imagine your feelings of loss.
You are in our prayers as you learn to cope with all your emotions and find some peace
Betty and Ed Coon
Harry Ritchie's Jewelers Family and Management Team
April 15, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with Perry's family during this time. During his career at Harry Ritchie's Jewelers he was a valued member of our Everett sales team and he touched many lives. He will be truly missed.
Caroline Vance
April 14, 2013
Perry will always hold a special place in my heart. He was such a significant friend in my school years and most importantly in high school, when we were both just trying to graduate. His sense of humor will forever remain my most endearing memory of him. I'm deeply sorry he is gone.
April 12, 2013
Michelle & Mark, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Please know that I and my family hold you in our thoughts.
Susie Wilson
John and Karol Straub
April 12, 2013
Mark, Michelle and Owen,
We were heart broken at the very sad news of Perry's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during tomorrow's memorial and always.
Love,
John and Karol
Jim & Pat Ramseth
April 12, 2013
Dear Michelle & Mark,
Our hearts reach out to you. You have our sincere prayers to support you. Even though we also know the loss of an adult child, we all feel and deal with it in our own unique ways. After awhile as we continue to love and miss him, it just does not hurt so much. Love those with you even more. Live life even better. Rely on your Faith to carry you. "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure." (no copyright/author unknown)
Perry and Caroline 2003
April 11, 2013
Connie Shafer
April 11, 2013
Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 11, 2013
DEAR MICHELLE,
OUR LOVE GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THESE TRYING DAYS, MAY THE LORD WITH WITH YOU.
DICK FOWLER
April 11, 2013
Dear Michelle and Mark: We are so, so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers will continue for you and your family.
John and Deborah Oftebro
Erika Handyside
April 11, 2013
I had the privelege of getting to work with Perry at Fred Meyer. He had such a big heart .I am truly blessed to have had the opportunity to know him. He will greatly be missed. All my thoughts and prayers go to his family for their loss.
April 10, 2013
Mark and Michelle:
Words simply fail. Despite the passage of years please know our concern for your family is undiminished. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Bill and Karen Campbell
April 10, 2013
Dear Michelle and Mark - Please know our thoughts are with you.
Bill and Sharon Fassett
April 10, 2013
Dear Michelle and Mark
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers and best wishes go with you and your family
Keith and Shirley Willson
Joan Harrison
April 10, 2013
Dear Michelle, and Family.....
I have no words to express my sadness for all of you. What I can say is that your son Perry, is in the arms of his GOD. He is free from any sadness, pain and fear he was dealing with. I did not know your Son, Michelle, but I feel I know you well enough, to know that your kind and loving spirit made you an amazing Mother.... The Mother that God had ALWAYS planned you'd be for Perry. As you have "watched" over your beautiful Son during his lifetime..... He is now your angel, watching over you... I pray that God keeps his loving arms of protection around the Valentine family, now, and as you navigate through your loss. I'm so sorry..... :0(
April 10, 2013
I remember the surprise and delight with which the news of Perry's arrival was received by your book group friends, Michelle. Reading these Guest Book entries, I am impressed and moved by the delight he continued to generate among his many friends. Their affection for him speaks volumes about the place he carved in this world. I know he was loved and will be missed. My deepest sympathy to you for your loss, Mark and Michelle.
Susan Taylor
April 10, 2013
My deepest sympathy, The loss of a child has to be the greatest loss of all,He is now in a place of peace, with no pain and no sorrow, Take care of yourselves, He is now in God's hands and well taken care of,
despina melonas and family
Kevin Quimosing
April 10, 2013
You will forever be missed bro. We shared soo many memorable memories. I know you'll still be watching/gaurding over us. See you later bro. This isnt good bye.
Liz Vennos
April 8, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle, I am deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
neema khorrami
April 8, 2013
damn homie. so sad. thank you for everything. I respect you so much, from the first time u kicked me out of the mall for selling my cds, over time u became one of my biggest supporters as we grew older. Months could pass and we'd always run into each other at the most random places.
Love u brother god bless ur soul.
-neema
Lou Templeton
April 8, 2013
Thinking of you,from my mother heart to yours. Lou
James Rivera
April 8, 2013
Brother you will be missed but I will for ever carry on your honorable legacy. I love you like my own brother you were a major part of my growth in my confidence.I love you man REST IN PARADISE.
Lekenzie Mortensen
April 7, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss! I worked many hours with Perry in Jewellery sales, sometimes 30+ hours a week. He made the long boring days entertaining and hilarious. We shared the most off the wall stories and ideas and always asked each other for advice in our love lives. He was a truly great and loving man with so much to offer to this world. He is loved and will be greatly missed! Rest in paradise Perry, may you never know again what it feels like to wear a frown. May you enjoy an eternity of happiness and feel nothing but Love.
D
April 7, 2013
I bet you're somewhere grinning big, while chomping on a box of Cheddar Jack Cheese Itz. And doing amazing where ever that is, i'm sure. See you again someday, bud. Watch over us.
April 7, 2013
We just heard the sad news. The Valentine family is in our thoughts and hearts tonight.
Jan Dank & Marid Hendrickson
Celeste Schandel
April 7, 2013
Mark and Michelle,
So sorry for your loss, I remember when Perry came to my parents house for my mom's birthday party. I can recall having a great conversation with him about tattoos. May he rest in peace.
Margie Haggett
April 7, 2013
I am truely sorry for your loss. I met Cowboy when he was my neighbor and thought what a sweet and delightful young man. He was about the age of my grandchildren. I ran into him several times when he was working as a security guard and he always acknowledged me with a smile. How I wish I could have known him better. I send this with my love.
Martin A. Chittum Sr.
April 7, 2013
No words can bring much comfort but be sure that our loving prayers are with you. We are Perry's cousins.
Roy Czlapinski
April 7, 2013
I worked with Perry at Fred Meyer, and he was a great guy. I loved the conversation I had with him, and would run into him from time to time after he left the company. We would always catch up and chat for a while before parting ways, only to run into each other a month or so later. You will be greatly missed Perry!
lacey anglim
April 7, 2013
I too worked with cowboy at spirit Halloween and knew him when he worked in the mall... the world lost a bright smile and kind person and will be forever missed...I send my prayers to the family.
Christena Cody
April 7, 2013
I had the privilege of being Perry's boss at Spirit Halloween, I also knew him from the mall. I will miss you Perry and all the smiles and laughter you brought with you. My deepest sympathy to Parry's family.
Martin family~ John, Annelle, Lindsay and Erik
April 6, 2013
Dear Mark,Michelle and Owen,
We grieve with you in Perry's sudden passing. It's been a long while since seeing him, but what comes to mind is that ear-to-ear impish grin almost too big for this wiry, charming, blond-haired boy in grade school. Your loving support enabled him to be the best he could be. May God's presence comfort you and give you peace. Our love and sympathies,
Michael Fish
April 6, 2013
Man i'm gonna miss the crazy nights out and chilling. Gonna miss you Bro! take care up there and know we all love you!
Steve Anderson
April 6, 2013
Mark & Michelle, Joy and I would like to express our deep condolences and prayers for the loss of your son. May God grant you peace in time.
Edith Larsen
April 6, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about Perry I didn't know him but do know you Doctor and I have lost someone so know how you are hurting. May God be with you all.
Robin Nellist
April 6, 2013
This news breaks my heart. Perry was a unique character with a quick humor and great love for animals. Even though I was a lot older than he, we formed a fast friendship, working together at the animal shelter. We teased each other and laughed a lot. Besides the constant fun, I loved how much he cared for the animals. They were his priority when he was there. I missed him after he left and thought of him often after he went off to live his life. I wish we could have kept in touch. I'm so sorry he's gone. Safe journeys, sweet boy.
Derek Wallace
April 6, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Perry was a wonderful young man that really touched and brightened a lot of peoples lives especially mine. He will be so dearly missed. RIP buddy!
Liz H.
April 6, 2013
Deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Michael Mains
April 5, 2013
I knew Perry from work, he would often come into the bank that I work at in Everett and although I didn't know him extremely well, I did get the chance to speak with him several times over the past couple years including a handful of times outside of work. What an incredibly sad loss. Just from reading these other posts it's amazing how many people he affected in such a positive way and I am no exception. I just wish I'd have had the chance to get to know him better. I feel like I've lost a great friend and my heart aches for him and his family. Love you Bro.
April 5, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle,
Our hearts go our to you in sympathy for you loss. How short is our time here with those we care for. We will pray for your acceptance and peace. Jim and Bobbi Klicpera
April 5, 2013
Mark and Michelle, our thoughts and paryers are with you. Star Leonard and Phil Fleckman
Jamie Dahlgren
April 5, 2013
My memories of Perry are all happy ones. I knew Perry at the Everett Animal Shelter, & was able to see how much he cared for all the animals. He had a loving heart for them & they seemed to know this right off. Perry was a kind young man & a good friend to many; he has left us all too soon.
Edie Hamberlin
April 5, 2013
I'm at a loss for words. Thoughts and prayers are with Perry's family and friends... He will be missed...
Nora Beggs
April 5, 2013
"Cowboy" I am so sad that you are gone buddy. I wish that you could have and would have known just how many people love and adore you. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. Your son, brother was such a sweet guy and he will be so missed here at Everett Mall.I will always picture him with his blue jeans, baseball cap, black shirt and cowboy belt walking around with a huge grin on his face. May you now rest in peace friend.
Candice MacDonald
April 5, 2013
Dear Mr & Mrs. Valentine,
I am so very sorry for the loss Perry. I had the oppertunity to work with Perry at valor. He became good friends with me an my family, he was even a groomsmen in my wedding and was there to support me as I went through loss of two babies. He was an amazing man with a good heart, that always made me smile. He touched alot peoples lives and will be missed very much. Mine & my family's prayers are with you.
Perry as a volunteer at the Everett Animal Shelter
Lori Trask
April 5, 2013
Catherine Mardon Miller
April 5, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My sincerest condolences to your entire family.
Bob and Barbara Hinton
April 5, 2013
Our loving thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Tierra Lovelace
April 5, 2013
To the family of Perry- words can't even begin to offer peace for what your hearts are feeling right now. My heart is heavy for you and pray for some peace and understanding for you all in this difficult time. I met "Cowboy" when I worked at the mall and he was so outgoing and such a "go-getter. I pray that he has peace now and again I am so sorry for the pain that you all are experiencing. My prayers, thoughts and heart go out to you all!!
Haley Farrar
April 5, 2013
I have never known another man who would stand up for honor like Perry. He wanted to make a difference and to protect everyone, no matter if he even knew them. His heart was enormous, sometimes I wondered if he had any room left for himself in there. He was a beautiful soul and he made an impact in everyone's life that he touched, and it was never in a negative way. We have lost a truly genuine person. My deepest condolences go out to his family and everyone else who loved him. I pray that he is in a place where he feels no pain and can feel all of the love we share for him.
April 4, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you're family. And with my girls that loved him so much!
Shirley Gorrell Huffman
April 4, 2013
Mark,Michelle and Owen, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all.
April 4, 2013
Dr. V, Michelle and Owen,
I am so sorry for the loss of Perry. I wish that I could erase the pain and only leave the good memories. I loved Perry as I love you all. Perry had a heart of gold and he loved his family. He loved to tell everyone how special his family was, when you were not around to hear it. I will always remember that energetic little blonde boy who could barely hold still for the stories I would tell him while his Daddy was finishing his work. Love and Prayers go out to you. Owen, he was so proud of his brother. He will be deeply missed. Love, Marla
Elizabeth Ramstad
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark, Michelle and family, I wish I had magic to take away the pain-Instead I offer love, support and my arms around you now and in the days ahead.
Erica Bryson
April 4, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Kathy Gietl
April 4, 2013
What a sad Day, Cowboy was an amazing person.His excitement over showing off his newest art work, his friendship with almost every employee in the Everett Mall... Cowboy I am heartbroken, You will be missed.Owen my love to you and your Family.
Jerry and Marilyn Eisner
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle- Marilyn and I want to express our deep condolences to you both. The loss of child has to be the hardest and most unfair thing a parent can ever be forced to bear. We are so sorry to hear that you have had to experience it. We hope that family and friends will help sustain you through this difficult time.
Jerry and Marilyn
Judy and Bill Tsoukalas
April 4, 2013
Dr. and Mrs. Valentine, we are so very sorry to hear of your son, Perry's, passing. There is nothing sadder than losing a child. May Perry's Memory be Eternal.
April 4, 2013
Dr. V and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you at this time.
Greg, Arlene, Sawyer and Chesney Rineberg
April 4, 2013
Michelle and Mark: We are saddened to hear of your devastating loss of Perry. Our thoughts are with you. Barb (Morrow) and David Kurland
Cindy Worthen
April 4, 2013
Mark and Michelle. I am so sorry to hear of your huge loss. My heart is with you. Keeping you in love and light.
Bob & Marjorie Norum
April 4, 2013
So sorry to hear the sad news about your son. Please know that you are very much in our thoughts at this time.
April 4, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of meeting both of your sons at a derm society gathering years ago.
Renee Boddy
April 4, 2013
I met Perry while working with him briefly at Halloween City in 2010. I knew immediately that he was a kind, warm-hearted young man, and he always treated me with kindness and respect. He always had something nice to say and I felt he was sincere. I am saddened to hear of your loss. I am happy for knowing I met this special person in my lifetime.
Sharon and Glen Koegel
April 4, 2013
Mark and Michelle, we are so very, very sorry to hear about Perry. You can be assured that there is another star shining brightly in the night sky. May he rest in peace. Sharon and Glen
Daryn Wiseman
April 4, 2013
I didn't know Perry that well. What I can say is that he was extremely kind & engaging every time I talked to him. I could tell that he was a passionate & energetic man - and that he appreciated the people who were closest to him.
May he rest in peace.
Laurel Lewellen
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle: Keith and I are so sad to hear of the death of your son, Perry. Words are so hard to come by, but you are all in our thoughts with our very best wishes. Love, Laurel and Keith
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle, dear Owen,
we are all so sorry and sad for the tragedy that happened to you. I remember when I met Perry in Milano, he was such a sweet, cheerful and lovely boy whith a special sensibility.
All your cousins from Italy want to support you in your sorrow and express you their condolences and love.
Silvana, Marcello, Camilla, Piero, Irma, Stefania, Bruna, Pierluigi, Barbara, Daniele, Battistino, Anna, Enrica, Alberto, Nino, Caterina, Rudy, Bruno, Lidia, Giovanni, MariaElena and their families.
Daryl Cross
April 4, 2013
Perry worked for me as a Security Guard. I liked him very much from the moment I interviewed him. We had many discussions together which were always entertaining to say the least with Perry's sense of humor. We at CPI are very saddened and hope for comfort for your family as there are no words that can serve to express the grief of losing such a fine young man as Perry was. Our thought and prayers are with you.
Gail
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle,
My deepest condolences for the loss of your son. I cannot imagine a greater source of sorrow. My family and I will keep Perry and you both in our prayers.
We love you Perry! Your Alpine Utah family!
Brek Sudweeks
April 4, 2013
April 4, 2013
i am so sad reading this i worked with cowboy as well as knew him well he was an amazing person i am so sorry for your loss i am so at a loss for words i really cannot believe this has happened i will keep you in my prayers
Baja California, Punta Chivato
Mark Sudweeks
April 4, 2013
Laeysa Sudweeks
April 4, 2013
Perrys Last ride in Beautiful British Columbia, We will miss you buddy!
In Baja California, Alpine Utah, Chilanko Lodge British Columbia
cheryl sudweeks
April 4, 2013
Mark and Michelle, you were the best parents a kid could have. We are so thankful we could share Perrys life! It felt good to know Perry had my back in Mexico, Utah, and Canada... I Loved the way he wasnt afraid to let people know where he stood! he wanted the world to be perfect.. and always took a stand! He knew how I love a sunrise and a sunset... I remember them all and i can probably count them all!... I can still remember the beautiful sunsets I have shared with you Perry! we will miss you! I am so sad today knowing you are gone! We Love you! Cheryl and Mark
Darlene Thomas
April 4, 2013
Dear Mark and Michelle,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I have many fond memories of Perry as a teenager and loved his personality. Your family is in our prayers!
April 4, 2013
We are so saddened by the loss of your son. Perry was a unique and wonderful person. Love, Jane & Steve
Henri and Sarah
April 4, 2013
Mark and Michelle, we are saddened to read of Perry's death. Our hearts are with you.
April 4, 2013
Mark, Michelle and Owen. So sorry to hear of Perry's death. I remember many great memories of play dates with our boys when he was young. Prayers and Sympathy are with you all.
Donna & Jon
April 4, 2013
Mark and Michelle, We're so sorry to hear of the death of your son. Our thoughts are with you and we hold you both in our prayerful meditations as you move through this sad time.
these are my Angels to you
Camilla POdestà
April 4, 2013
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