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Anne Weaver Obituary

Anne Vonckx Weaver, 84, of Scituate, MA (most recently of Allerton House, Weymouth) passed away peacefully on February 1, 2021. She is survived by her children, the six Ms: Marc Weaver of Boulder, CO; Marcia Weaver (Michael Chapko) of Seattle, WA; Martin Weaver (Jennifer Pasanen) of Brooklyn, NY; Megan Tooker (John) of Bellefonte, PA; Matthew Weaver of Freeport, ME; Meredith Weaver (Paul Piquado) of Geneva, CH; her ten joyful grandchildren (Alana, Makara, Andrew, Julia, Quinn, Sean, Adele, Tate, Danica, and Adam), her brother Paul (Skip) Vonckx (Zanny Milo) of Seattle, WA; and her nieces, Elizabeth Vonckx (and her son, Martin) and Hilary Vonckx (Alex Clark) also of Seattle, WA. She was predeceased by her husband Wayne Weaver, her parents Paul and Alice Vonckx of Hingham, MA; and niece, Jennifer Vonckx of Seattle, WA. Anne was born in Arlington, MA. She grew up in Hingham and spent much time in Hingham Harbor sailing and swimming. She loved music and was a gifted piano player. She graduated from Thayer Academy and Smith College, where she was known fondly as Marty because of her appreciation of martinis. She moved to NYC to work in publishing at Scholastic and Book-of-the Month Club. Her adventures took her to Los Angeles, and Denver where she met Wayne. After enjoying the Flatirons, they moved to the South Shore to raise their family. Anne loved Scituate and all it had to offer: her garden, the Spit, sailing, reading a good book, and plenty of opportunities for enjoying time with her many great friends. She prided herself on not being beholden to the clock and believing that rules could be bent for the benefit of good contributors to the community. She was adept at making new friends, making people comfortable, and sharing her pies. She is known for her thoughtful, if odd, gifts and leaving them unprompted on her friends door steps. She was a longtime member of the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church and was active with their music program and choir. She traveled the world and shared this joy with her family. She took her grandchildren on sailing trips, sightseeing in Egypt and Uganda, learning about evolution in the Galapagos, enjoying the arts in Paris, experiencing nature in Alaska and Yellowstone. She most recently traveled with family members to Argentina, Italy, Mexico, Maine, U.S. Virgin Islands, NYC, and Quebec City. She enthusiastically shared her passions for adventure, nature, conservation, womens rights, music, and culture. She was always up for getting something planted, jumping in the ocean, and digging for clams. Her can-do and will-do attitude will be missed. Due to COVID, her family is planning a celebration of Annes life in the future. If you feel compelled to donate in her memory, donations may be sent to the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church Music Program or the North and South Rivers Watershed Association.

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Published by The Scituate Mariner from Feb. 9 to Feb. 17, 2021.

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Julie Lyons

February 20, 2021

So shocked sad to hear about my good friend Anne.. She was a kind person tough love sometimes . Great former teacher . Who turned into a friend. For 30 years. She loved taking charge was a good teacher mentor friend. Will be missed. Our times together dinners traveled to Maine for a mini vacation day trips. Visits to Scituate. Lots of tea healthy food conversations.. Anne rest in peace untill we meet again in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with Anne's whole family kids grand kids her brother.

Julie Lyons

February 20, 2021

Shocked to hear as we just spoke not that long ago saw her a year and half agoo we had a nice long visit glad we did. We talked every month shared cards calls Anne was a very good teacher mentor friend loved her family church gardening liked it all to be nice pretty. She always had away of things would always guide you love you in her Anne ways . We did so many different things went places She was a former teacher who a
became Good friend built a longtime friendship for 30 years. May she rip know she will be missed. So sorry to hear about her loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to her whole family.

Susan Leigh Anthony

February 13, 2021

It was sad to hear of Anne's passing. I knew her from my affiliation with the Unitarian Church and always admired and liked her so much. My condolences to her family.

Dan Taylor and Rockland Trust Staff

February 10, 2021

Wonderful lady who will be missed!!

Ann Finnie

February 9, 2021

So sad to learn of Anne's passing. She is a wonderful lady, and while I didn't know her as long or as well as some, the friendship we shared was meaningful. I loved her straight-forwardness, and humor, among many other qualities. She will be missed my many. My condolences to all of you, her family.

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