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Cynthia Barnes Obituary
Ms. Barnes, 53, of Charlotte, NC, passed away unexpectedly at her home on September 16, 2010. She was born on April 23, 1957 in Great Bend, Kansas, the only daughter of Christian and Rosalie Peters Leiker.
She graduated from Great Bend High School after receiving her elementary education at Holy Family grade school. She then proceeded to earn her Bachelors degree from Fort Hays State in Hays, Kansas. Cynthia also earned a Masters Degree from Loyola University in New Orleans. She lived in several locations throughout the Midwest and Southwest United States, where she lovingly raised her children and always took an active role in service organizations, including the Girl Scouts and religious education. She spent the last 10 years working as the Archivist at the Catholic Diocese of Charlotte.
An extremely active woman, Cynthia enjoyed many hobbies including sewing, gardening, yoga, and herbalism. An avid recycler and staunch supporter of the environment, she tried to live in harmony with everything around her. Anyone and everything was welcomed with open arms into her life and her home with joy and happiness. She believed the best of everyone. Deeply spiritual, she sought to better understand the connection between the human condition and our place within the universe. Because of her willingness to share her journey with others, she touched and enriched the lives of so many that she now leaves behind.
She is survived by her four children Aaron, his younger brother Alec with wife Jessica and son Aiden Barnes of Charlotte, her daughter Carissa Barnes with Josh Morris of Christchurch, New Zealand, and her youngest daughter Katlin Barnes, who is currently attending school in Sheffield, England. She is also survived by her parents Christian and Rosalie Leiker, as well as numerous friends and family.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, September 21, 2010 at St. Gabriel Catholic Church. A Prayer Service will be held at 7 o'clock on Monday evening, followed by visitation until 8:30 p.m. at Harry & Bryant Company, 500 Providence Rd., Charlotte.
Memorial contributions may be made to: Christian Foundation for Children and Aging, 1 Elmwood Ave., Kansas City, KS 66103. http://www.cfcausa.org/
en/AboutUs/WhoWeAre.aspx,
913-384-6500|800-875-6564.
Condolences can also be extended at www.harryandbryantfuneralhome.com.
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Christy LeBlanc
September 12, 2023
After all these years, it still seems like yesterday that we were together; picnics in the park, climbing trees, knitting/sewing, riding bikes, going to the swimming pool and so much more! Over the years I have come to realize it doesn't really matter what we have or what status we attain in life. What really matters is the way we treat each other while acting out our vocations God has given us so that we can be accepted into Heaven along with as many others on this earth as possible! Cynthia lived her life that way daily and has shown us how we must live also until we meet again one day. Prayers for everyone until then. Love you Cynthia!
Elaine
September 12, 2023
Dear Cynthia: it´s been a hard, long year. If you can see this from Heaven, you now know we lost one of our unique souls to a rock climbing accident. It feels like we lost you all over again as he, like you, is now gone too soon! I can´t wait to meet God one day to ask Him what this big plan of life is all about. If I get to meet Him then I will thankfully be reunited with you and our Andrew (Bumkin / Kissy Cheeks) Munds and Aunt Roberta, Millie who also died this year and mom, dad, Joe Gunn and all our aunts and uncles and grands and great grands. One thing I know for certain, Heaven needed your help as do all of us still on this earth. Please continue to bless us all. We miss you! Elaine
Elaine Engel
September 12, 2022
Yesterday was another "911". All those beautiful souls gone but not forgotten; just as with Cynthia. Had I known she would be gone, I would have reached out and said one more heartfelt "thank you". Thanks for being such a beautiful human being to all you came in contact with. Thanks for your tender Christ-like heart. To Cynthia´s mom, dad, children and grandchildren: As days and weeks continue to pass, and as you carry on with you life routine, may you continue to feel comforted by my ongoing love, support and prayers! May God bless each of you! Elaine
Elaine Engel
September 12, 2022
Yesterday was another "911" September 11, 2022. All those beautiful souls gone but not forgotten; just as with Cynthia. Had I known she would be gone so quickly, I would have reached out and said one more heartfelt "thank you". Thanks for being such a beautiful human being to all you came in contact with. Thanks for your tender Christ-like heart. To Cynthia´s mom, dad, children and grandchildren: As days and weeks continue to pass, and as you carry on with life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by my ongoing love, support and prayers! May God bless each of you! Elaine
Patricia Durbin
September 14, 2020
Memories Forever!
Kathleen O'Gorman
September 12, 2020
Dear Chris and Rosalie,
I think of Cynthia often and invoke her blessing on my life and work -- now mostly canine rescue, most meaningful and rewarding to care for "the least of these."
I promise to pray for you and your family in these moments of calling on Cindy. Life -- and gratitude are eternal.
Kathleen O'Gorman,
Retired (almost) from Loyola University New Orleans, Institute for Ministry
Elaine Engel
September 12, 2020
Dear Cynthia-
It has been too long. I miss you terribly. Your wonderful soft disposition is greatly needed in this world. If you can please help our entire family. Peace is the only answer!! Your job as one of Gods angels is no easy defeat. Blessing and Love to you always! Elaine
Jolene Rziha
December 21, 2019
Thinking of you today. Praying for you Cynthia. Christmas is a hard time when the people we love are not with us. Thinking of your parents especially this time of the year. Merry Christmas in Heaven dear Cynthia. Love, Jolene
Chris Leiker
December 20, 2019
Dear Cynthia, Today's date is December 19, 2019, we have been looking at pictures and discarding some, what a very hard decision. The Christmas cards arriving bring back lots of Old memories and Charlotte, N. C., thoughts have a great amount of Nostalgia but there are many others also such the Grand Canyon, the Colorado State Fair, the Children's Museum in St. Louis, Mo., and the IHOPS both in the Katy, Tx., area and the Charlotte. There are so many things like the park in Lacrosse, Ks. Bye for now and lets all continue to pray. Love Mom and Dad
Chris Leiker
September 12, 2019
It will be nine years in a few days, we miss you very much and we will continue to pray for you and continue to ask for you to pray for us. We love you very much. Mom and Dad
September 12, 2019
I can still see her beautiful radiant smile and feel her warm hugs when I close my eyes! Her passing left a HUGE hole in so many lives including mine. I will continue to pray for her and ask her to support and guide to her children, grandchildren and her parents! May God Bless each and everyone who knew her! Love, Elaine
Merke Baroni
September 12, 2019
Prayers that you are at peace Cynthia.
patricia Durbin
October 15, 2018
I wish Cynthia could read all the beautiful remembrances from her friends and family. So many of us who knew and loved her have cherished each thought. As I turn out the lights for the night, my last prayer is that Cynthia will always know that she is remembered and loved.
Sister Patricia Durbin, Belmont, NC
October 14, 2018
Thinking of you again today! I miss you.
November 8, 2016
I want to thank you for helping us during these trying days of the election. We will continue to ask you for help. Love, Mom and Dad
Laine Engel
September 18, 2016
Miss her everyday! May God bless everyone who knew her!
Kathleen O'Gorman
September 18, 2016
I pray to Cindi everyday -- a cherished member of my communion of saints!
chris Leiker
September 17, 2016
Friday, September 16, 2016, We miss you, also, four children, three Grand children, friends, spouses, May God grant you peace, Mom and Dad
February 26, 2015
2015. I decide to visit this site to see Cindy's smile. I miss her.
Jim & Jolene Rziha
September 14, 2011
Cynthia, we think of you daily. What a wonderful daughter and mother you were. You are missed. May God grant you peace.
It is hard to believe that it is almost a year since your death.
September 13, 2011
Cynthia, it has been almost 1 year since your death and I think about what a wonderful cousin, friend, mom, daughter but mostly what a great example you set, lived and are loved and remembered for. Love and miss you Geri Borst
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Joyce Higgins
November 8, 2010
I met Cynthia through the Association of Catholic Archivists. I felt like she was a kindred spirit. When we walked down the forest lined lane at St. Mary's in Chicago, she could identify each and every tree and the habits of the forest friends. Later while knitting her prayer shawl, she described a trip to the birthplace to St. Teresa of the Little Flower. Cynthia also enjoyed talking about her loving family. She will be great missed.
Matt Solomon (AIS)
October 11, 2010
I have had the pleasure of working with Cynthia through a business relationship as a vendor for the Diocese of Charlotte (DOC) for many years. Cynthia was a dedicated staff member of the DOC and was very professional and detail orientated in her daily job duties while representing the organization extremely well. She often spoke about her family and loved ones and ‘lit up’ whenever their names came up in a conversation. Cynthia will be missed and never forgotten.
Merke Baroni
October 5, 2010
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Cynthia's family. I met her through the Association of Catholic Diocesan Archivists and came to be a friend as though we'd known each other forever. She was a gentle, loving soul who appreciated all around her and who touched many hearts. She will be missed.
Geralyn Borst
October 5, 2010
My deepest sympathy to all of Cynthia's children and Aunt Rose and Uncle Chris and Mark Barnes. Cynthia and I went to Prom at Marian High School our Junior year in 1974. We double dated. I have many childhood memories or all the cousins getting together for one reason or another. Cynthia always was thoughtful, willing to help and full of passion for loving all. She will be missed but remembered in life after death. Love Geri
Linda Lloyd
October 2, 2010
Cynthia graced our lives almost from the first day we moved to Charlotte. Our daughters, Meredith and Katlin, were inseparable for awhile, and we grew closer and closer even as they grew apart over the years. She was the highest quality of human being who was always there for her friends, no matter when or where or how difficult the problem. Cynthia was one of the best friends I've ever had in the 65 years I've had. The only way we can understand her passing over at such an early age is God must need her strength and compassion and loving kindness more than we do right now. We deeply regret we only learned today of Cynthia's passing, and could not be with her family and friends at the Mass to celebrate her awe-inspiring life.
Marie Theriault
September 26, 2010
Cynthia touched my life so gently. She was a new friend to me that I met through yoga, and I was so looking forward to getting to know her better.
I do know that her heart overflowed with love for her children and grandson and all of creation. I feel so blessed to have spent time with her, and I will hold the memories close to my heart.
She shines like an angel in all of the photographs. My love and prayers go out to all who also shared in loving her.
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Sister Janice Thome
September 23, 2010
I was very shocked to receive the news of Cindy's death. I do have very neat memories of her as a student of mine at the then St. Pat's school. She was always in a positive mood and very gentle and open. Many of the pictures capture her very genuine smile and the peacefulness I remember in her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you!
September 22, 2010
In thinking of Cindy, I will always remember her-sweet, gentle spirit and ever ready smile! I'm thankful I had the opportunity to visit with her at our class reunion in July. My deepest condolences to her parents and children-you meant the world to her!
Sheri McDorman Williams
Lisa Miller Edgett
September 21, 2010
Cindy was truly an inspiration to everyone she met. During our years at GBHS together, we talked, laughed, and even cried together. She always helped me to see the good and positive sides of people and situations. Cindy had a kind word for everyone she knew. She was a role model and true leader in every sense of the word, and I'm pleased to be able to call her my friend. I will always treasure the memories of her. To the family - I extend my deepest sympathy and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Dave and Mary Leiker
September 21, 2010
Dear Chris, Rose and the Barnes Family.
I've been at a loss to express the sadness we've felt with Cynthia's passing. My memories of Cynthia started while growing up and our family's frequent trips to Great Bend and your trips to McPherson. Her smile is the one feature I'll always remember. Please know that we will be thinking of you in the days to come. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Charles & Joyce Esfeld
September 21, 2010
May God's infinite love and compassion give you peace to carry you through this time.
Raj & Selina
September 21, 2010
September 21, 2010
Dear Mr.& Mrs.Leiker Mark,Aaron,Carissa,Alec,Kaitlin,
We are deeply sorry and extremely heart broken. Cynthia was truly a great friend of our family. Cynthia and I enjoyed so many hours together as neighbors. Even as she was in NC, she was never far from my thoughts.. Now I know that "Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ. He anointed us, set His seal of ownership on us, and put His Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come" 2 Corinthians 1: 21,22. I pray for comfort and the peace that passeth all understanding for all of you in the days to come. We will always treasure the memories we had with her.
~ Raj & Selina, Judith, Joanne & Jeremy
Maurice Hammeke
September 21, 2010
We offer our deepest sympathy along with our thoughts and prayers.
Maurice & Norma Hammeke
Mrs. Teresa Stewart
September 21, 2010
May our precious Lord and Savior bless those who mourn.
Her wisdom and clarity touched my heart. Her stories made me laugh. Her love made me smile.
Lisa May
September 21, 2010
I was so very sorry to hear of Cynthia's death. I got to know her through our work with diocesan archives. She was an important part of our archives community and she will be very much missed.
September 21, 2010
To Cindy's family, My deepest sympathy to all. Cindy was a classmate and a friend. I am so glad I had the chance to see her at our recent reunion. Her beauty and her love for life will always remain with me. May your memories bring smiles back to your faces. God bless. Rhonda Rexwinkle Penka - GBHS Class of 1975
Kevin & Mary Nemetz
September 21, 2010
We extend our deepest sympathies to all the family. Our memories of Cynthia go back to the days in Omaha when we all were first starting out. Her death is such a loss to so many in so many ways. We will continue to think of her as smiling because surely, what else would one do in the presence of God. Please know that you all are remembered in our thoughts and prayers.
Sister Celeste Albers
September 21, 2010
I remember getting to meet Cynthia when Rose brought her to the parish offices and I got to meet her and her two little ones. Everytime I saw Rose and Chris I always asked about how Cynthia and her family were doing. I loved to hear them tell me about Cynthia's latest endeavors, including her getting her degree from Loyola in New Orleans and the beautiful cape she made. My sympathy to your entire family, and know I hold all of you in prayer. Peace
William Bissenden
September 21, 2010
All the members of the Association of Catholic Diocesan Archivists send the deepest symathies to all of Cynthia's family. Cynthia was an active participant in our organization and her presence and contributions will be missed.
Deacon William J. Bissenden
Jan Leiker
September 21, 2010
Somehow my 1st message doesn't seem to be here. I am so glad I got to have dinner with Cynthia, Chris and Rose the night before she flew back home. (She and Chris were making little paper airplanes from the paper napkin rings). That is one of the things that are so special about her. She could fit in in any situation. We took her to Arizona with us one time when our kids were little and we had so much fun. She will be missed dearly-I think God needed a Special Angel for a Special Assignment-and so He called Cynthia back to Him. We are praying for all she has left behind. What a sad time-but what great memories! Jan Leiker
William Bissenden
September 21, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Sandra Morris
September 21, 2010
My love and thoughts are with the family.
I have wonderful memories of Cynthia's visit to New Zealand. She showed a great passion for nature and I give thanks that I had the opportunity to meet such a open, loving woman.
Kevin Leiker
September 20, 2010
Uncle Chris & Aunt Rose,
Cynthia was an extraordinary person and truly an extension her parents. I have a fond memory of her vacationing with us in Rio Rico, AZ because, as a small child, I had wandered off to the deep end of the swimming pool and was struggling to stay above water. She immediately rescued me before anything happened and I will never forget.
I am truly sorry for your loss and I will continue to pray for the Barnes family as well as each of you during this difficult time.
J.P, Merrily McCamey
September 20, 2010
We were saddened to hear of the passing of your daughter. We will certainly be praying for the Lord to strengthen you both... God bless you.
September 20, 2010
We were saddened to hear of the passing of your daughter. We want you to know we will certainly be remembering you both in prayer that the Lord will strengthen you and help you through this.
God bless you--- J.P. & Merrily McCamey
Scott Ward
September 20, 2010
Those of us who were blessed with the gift from God of knowing and loving her were in the presence of an angel.
Brenda (Engel) Munds
September 20, 2010
Uncle Chris, Aunt Rose, and Family,
Thank you for sharing pictures of Cynthia. She was a special gift. May you find comfort in each precious memory. My heartfelt sympathies to you all. May we all learn from her strong spirit. Love, Brenda
Steve Goetz
September 20, 2010
I was shocked and so sadden to hear of Cynthia's death. She was a great friend to me and I will miss her. My condolences to her family.
September 20, 2010
Uncle Chris and Aunt Rose,
My heart aches for you. Cynthia was always the best big cousin. She never grew inpatient with any of us. She loved playing games. I remember being at your house one weekend and she had to go to St. Pat's to practice the readings and singing for church. She let me go with her. I was sitting in the pew watching her and thinking...how does one grow up so smart, pretty and dedicated to God and family. She had such grace and poise, yet she was so normal and down to earth. She was beautiful both inside and out. You are wonderful parents and a blessing from God to all your nieces and nephews. I am sending you a hug with all my love and our deepest sympathies. I have prayed for all of you at least 20 times a day and will continue to do so. I am so sorry we can not come tomorrow, but I promise I will come visit you when you return.
Love,
Marilyn, Jon, Paul, Robin, Elizabeth and Michael
Kurt Kennedy
September 20, 2010
Chris, Rose and The Barnes Family: Words cannot adequately express the sadness I feel. I have so many wonderful memories of Cynthia as a neighbor and childhood friend. Kickball games on Harding Street and our dogs "Queenie" and "Kingie" come to mind. Please know that my prayers are with you.
Allison DeMoss
September 20, 2010
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of the lovely woman that brought so much joy. My heart goes out to you all.
Rhonda, Rob, Ryan, Jordan & Sam Gleason
September 20, 2010
Our prayers go out to all of you during this sorrowful time. May God wrap you in his loving arms and help you through your grief.
Cynthia was such a beautiful person, both inside and out. One thing's for sure... Heaven has gained a very special angel!
Judy Leiker
September 20, 2010
Uncle Chris and Aunt Rose, please know that I love you and am praying for God to bring you peace and comfort.
Tammy Baker Clowers
September 20, 2010
It was so good to see Cynthia at our class reunion this past summer. I will cherish that visit even more now. My thoughts and prayers are with her parents, her children, and the rest of her family.
Marisa Walters
September 20, 2010
My deepest sympathies to all of Cindy's family and friends. It was so good to see and talk with her at our recent high school class reunion. She was as beautiful inside and out as she was in our days at St. Pat's grade school and through our high school years.
May God's loving arms hold you close during this difficult time and may you find peace and comfort in knowing she is with our Holy Father.
With my deepest sympathy,
Marisa (Bell) Walters
Cindy Niederee
September 19, 2010
To the Barnes Children, and Mr. & Mrs. Leiker, ~ My deepest sympathy on the loss of your lovely Mom and daughter. May your memories, family, & faith be a source of comfort at this sad time. My memories are those of how beautiful Cynthia Ann was inside and out. My prayers are with you. ~
Susan Broeckelman
September 19, 2010
Chris & Rose, my thoughts & prayers go with you, your grandhildren & great- grandson. We pray that God will give you comfort & peace. My fondest memory of Cynthia was when she won first runner-up in the Miss Kansas pageant. Jean & I went with you one of the nights.We were so proud that we knew one of the contestants!! God bless you all
Susan Karlin Broeckelman, Mankato, Ks
Galen & Jenny Leiker
September 19, 2010
Dear Uncle Chris and Aunt Rose and the Barnes family, We regret hearing of your loss and our hearts go out to each and every one of you, our prayers are with you. Love, Galen, Jenny, Ryan, Alexis, Kaitlyn.
Steve & Susan Lockwood
September 19, 2010
We are truly saddened to learn of Cindy's passing. Our memories of her go back to childhood days and our years at high school. She was a special person and will be missed by many. Chris and Rose, all our thoughts and prayers are with you and Cindy's children.
Debbie (Herren) Filler
September 19, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about Cynthia. I have not seen Cynthia since our 20th high school reunion when the 8th grade class of St. Patrick was reunited. My prayers are for her parents and children.
Elaine Engel
September 19, 2010
Uncle Chris, Aunt Rose, Aaron, Carissa, Josh, Alec, Jessica, Kaitlin, & baby Aiden~
I've been trying to find the right words that might heal your hearts and comfort your souls. All thats running through my mind is angels smiling because Cynthia is one of them now!
Even though Cynthia left a HUGE space in this world that can never be filled, she also left behind her love, light, joy and hope in so many hearts! I for one was blessed to have been touched by her.
I pray for your healing when the time is right for each of you in your unique way. In the meantime may the love of family and friends give you strength!
Love your niece and cousin,
Elaine
Sister Patricia Durbin
September 19, 2010
Cynthia's life portrayed so lovingly the beauty of friendship. What a privilege to have known and worked with her these past ten years. God gifted Cynthia with many talents, the grace of caring, and a deep spirituality that was reflected in her short life. She did everything with quiet perfection.
There were no "goodbye's". Cynthia just stepped into eternity leaving behind a life of love that affected so many friends. Cynthia was a "pearl of great price."
Evelyn Thibeaux
September 19, 2010
I didn't know Cynthia except through the many people at the Loyola Institute for Ministry (New Orleans) who have spoken so lovingly of her. Cynthia touched all those with whom she studied for her Master's Degree from LIM, and she continues to touch us deeply through her creative work - especially a beautiful liturgical vestment that celebrates the wonders of God's creation. May she have peace, singing the song of the universe in God's presence. Evelyn Thibeaux (LIM faculty)
Lorrie Campbell (Stieben)
September 19, 2010
Chris & Rose,
I have my whole childhood of memories that have Cynthia and both of you woven throughout them. My hope is that Cynthia's life was filled with joy and love and laughter.
My heart breaks for you at this moment, but you were both blessed to have her as your daughter. As her chidren were for her as a mom. She was the best big sister anyone could have asked for.
Jerry & Judy Karlin
September 19, 2010
Dear Chris and Rose and the Barnes children, we were deeply saddened to hear of Cynthia's death. I know Cynthia was a wonderful mother and daughter and will be truly missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
September 19, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the family. Cynthia was a neighbor I didn't see often enough. However, when I did, I was always touched by her friendliness, gentle spirit and appreciatation of the beauty around her. She will be missed.
Becky Chambers (South Hall)
Kathy Bobbitt-Chamberlain
September 19, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the family. I remember Cindy as a beautiful sweet girl in High School. She was always nice to everyone & it seems that she continued that through her life. Know that my prayers are with you all.
Marcy Temple Wyrens
September 19, 2010
My memories are of the many times we would spend in Hays visiting Grandpa Peters and Auntie and Uncle Fred. We saw each other rarely as adults but would keep up to date through our mothers. My deepest sympathies to your children and to Aunt Rosie and Uncle Chris
Barbara Steiner
September 19, 2010
Dear Rose and Chris,
As with so many of your friends here in Great Bend, I was stunned to learn of Cynthia's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart goes out to you. Barbara Steiner
Jeanette Leiker
September 19, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the family. Cynthia will be missed by all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Tony, Jeanette & Kent Leiker
September 19, 2010
To Chris & Rose and the Barnes Family:
Our deepest sympathies to all of you. May all of our prayers of Faith and Hope and Love in Christ be with all of you.
I wish we could be there with you. At the very least our prayers are.
Love:
Linus & Gwen Leiker
September 19, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Barnes/Leiker family.
Roxanne Schenk Rich
Class of 75
Kathleen O'Gorman
September 19, 2010
Cynthia distinguished herself as a Loyola University (New Orleans) graduate, earning her Masters in Pastoral Studies degree with a specialization in Religion and Ecology. I met her when she came to campus for the first time for Commencement in April of 2006. She had made a liturgical vestment celebrating the universe story as part of her coursework. Creative and beautiful it was with the universe story portrayed on the back through stars and galaxies and the earth with its beautiful life forms on the front. Our celebrant, Fr. Jerry Fagin, SJ, wore the chasuble in our liturgy of celebration. Cindy upon request said a few modest words about the meaning and motivation inspiring her work of art which became as powerful as it was memorable a representation of unity, learning, and mission. About a year later she visited Thomas Berry in Greensboro and shared her vestment with him as a kind of tribute to all he had taught her. While she is gone from us all too soon, I expect she's enjoying a new and deeper experience of that Creation from whence we all come and to which we all return. I now pray to you, Cindy, for wisdom and steadfastness.
Carrie Ledbetter
September 19, 2010
To all of Cynthia's family, Our thoughts, prayers and hearts are with you. Jane & Hubert Dreiling & Carrie
Toni Hemming
September 19, 2010
"Although I did not know Cynthia very well, I did have the pleasure of chatting with her over the years and was inspired by her deep love of nature, protecting the environment and her commitment to family and friends. Our hearts go out to Cynthia's family." Warm regards, The Hemming Family (South Hall)
Rene Netherton
September 19, 2010
I have always thought of Cynthia through the years as we were born the same day, same year and same hospital. She was truly a special force of nature and her passing has left the world a little darker.
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