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Matthew Smitherman Obituary

Smitherman, Matthew Bynum

October 4, 1988 - December 11, 2022

Matthew Bynum Smitherman, 34, of Sealevel, NC went to be with our Lord on Sunday, December 11, 2022, at Carteret Health Care of Morehead City. He passed peacefully from the arms of his loving parents to go sit on Jesus' lap. Matthew was born October 4, 1988, at Forsyth Hospital in Winston-Salem, NC to Deanna and Bryce Smitherman, Jr. Matthew graduated in 2007 from Forbush High School in East Bend, NC. He went on to Beyond Academics for a two-year program at UNCG. Matthew loved the outdoors. He enjoyed riding his four-wheeler, deer hunting, fishing, and playing golf. Matthew represented NC in the International Special Olympics on the golf team. He brought home the bronze medal. His favorite golf partner was his great uncle, Larry Matthews, who certainly lived up to that title for Matthew and their golf games. Matthew was an old soul who really liked to visit and be surrounded by people. He loved hugs and had a contagious smile like no other. He could light up a room with his smile. He suffered from a rare disorder called Cockayne Syndrome. It is a genetic disorder he was born with but wasn't diagnosed until much later in his life. It really took its toll on him within the last 5 years. Matthew was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Mollie and Bryce Smitherman; aunt, Janice Baity; and his service dog and soulmate, Oreo. Matthew is survived by his parents, Deanna and Bryce Smitherman, Jr. of Sealevel, NC; brother, Bryan (Ashley) Smitherman of Durham, NC; sister, Rachel (Gino) Amato of Yadkinville, NC; five nieces and nephews, Wyatt Smitherman, Yates Smitherman, Mikenna Goodman, Jace Loman, and Alana Amato; maternal grandparents, Sue and Dean Matthews of East Bend, NC; aunt, Emily (Eric) Hazen of East Bend, NC; cousins, Oliver, Isaac, and Josey Hazen; uncle, James (Karen) Smitherman and cousin, Jade; uncle, Charles (Denise) Smitherman and cousins, Ashley Miller and Miranda Hines; and uncle, Steve Baity and cousin, Rhonda Finney. Matthew also leaves behind his new service puppy, Moe. A memorial service will be held at 3:00 pm on Saturday, December 17, 2022 at Gentry Family Funeral Service in East Bend, NC. The family will receive friends after the service at the funeral home. There will also be a memorial service in Sealevel, NC at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to one of the following: Share and Care Cockayne Syndrome Network, Special Olympics of Forsyth County, and Shady Grove UMC Cemetery Fund. Online condolences and life tributes may be sent to the family at: www.gentryfuneralservice.com.

Gentry Family Funeral Service

428 E. Main Street, East Bend, NC 27018
Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Dec. 14, 2022.

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Amanda Toomey

January 1, 2023

Dear Dean, Sue, Deanna, Bryce and Emily,

I am so sorry I missed Matthew’s memorial service. I really wanted to attend. I was so sad to hear of his passing, and I wanted to be there for you. I somehow missed the date of his memorial. Mom loved him and told me all about his bravery, and knowing your family, I know what a sweet and brave young man he was. You are truly special, and he had a life that was enviable thanks to your love and care. You are so special and I think of you always. My prayers are with you.
Amanda Poindexter Toomey

Donnie and Anne Mathis

December 22, 2022

So sorry to hear about Matthew.May god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ruthanna Burton

December 17, 2022

We will always remember Matthew on the riding mower, waving and flashing those pearly whites!! He was one-of-a-kind, God's special child. So glad he's flying free!!

Andy McGuire

December 17, 2022

We will miss you Matt

Alice Shepherd

December 17, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sherry and Robert Hunt

December 17, 2022

Bryce and Deanna
Things will never be the same for the two of you but we all must be happy for Matthew because we know he is with our Lord and must be having the time of his life. May you find comfort in knowing this. Just know that Robert and I will be here for the two of you as you have been for us.

Paula Dezern

December 15, 2022

Sue Dean and all the family
I’m so sorry to hear this. Matthew was a very special young man. He was very special to our mom. She loved him dearly
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Much love to all of you.

Abby Fobes

December 14, 2022

I’m so sorry for your loss. Matthew’s smile and hugs were always welcoming. May God provide peace and comfort to your family.

Dusty Lineberry

December 14, 2022

So sorry to hear about Matthew. Even though I haven’t seen him in years I still remember that big smile he always had when he came though the cafeteria line. I know he will be missed but he will be healthy and with the Lord. Praying for you all for comfort ❤

Michael Longworth

December 14, 2022

Thoughts and prayers for all ! So sad to hear this, Matthew was a great young man, I remember him well and that infectious laugh.

Verna Gregory

December 14, 2022

Sue and Dean, so sorry about your precious Matthew. Your family is in my prayers.

Donna Walker

December 14, 2022

Matthew brought so much love and light to everyone he came into contact with. He was pure joy! I’m praying for you all now and in the days to come.

Forbush High School Class of 72

December 14, 2022

RIP Matthew for your family

David & Angie Bell & Family

December 14, 2022

Prayers for the family in this difficult time.

Chelsea Cox

December 14, 2022

I graduated from high school with Matthew, he was always smiling and ready for a big hug. Joyful always. I´m so very sorry to hear of his passing.

Scarlet and Terry Matthews

December 14, 2022

Sending our sincere condolences to Matthew’s whole family!

Matthew had so much love for so many and was loved by many! Such a special young man who was a blessing to all who knew him! He held such a special place in my Mama’s heart!

Prayers for the family!

Debbie Speer

December 14, 2022

Deepest sympathies to all Matthew's family. He was very special.

Vickie Ashley

December 13, 2022

Sorry for loss.Matthew was just a sweet guy.

Sue Alves

December 13, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Praying.

Sandra Miller

December 13, 2022

Jerry & I are so sorry for your loss, but I know MATTHEW is very happy with our Lord JESUS and family members. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Diane WilliamsWilliams

December 13, 2022

He was a great person. I always loved his smile. Matthew you will be missed and we love you.

Amanda Harvey

December 13, 2022

To the best fishing parter and friend a person could ever have. I will cherish our memories forever ♥

Susan Beck

December 13, 2022

Prayers and love sent to you and your family today and in the days to follow. May God comfort you in this difficult time. ❤

Kelly & TJ Willis

December 13, 2022

Matthew,
My buddy I will miss your sweet Smile! I know your free and with our Lord.
I’m sorry we will miss your service, however we will keep your mama & Daddy in our prayers!

Gretchen Nicholson

December 13, 2022

I had the privilege and pleasure of teaching Matthew at East Bend School during my first years as a new teacher. He taught me way more than I ever taught him. I will never lose his big smile and shining eyes from my memory. Thinking of his family and wishing them peace and comfort. -Gretchen Miles Nicholson-

linda norman

December 13, 2022

prayers for u all ,,, he is not in pain any more ,,, he will be miss ,,,

Marilyn Kimmer

December 13, 2022

Matthew was a precious soul. I'm so thankful I had the opportunity to get to know him when he was in school. Prayers for your family.

Teresa Hobson

December 13, 2022

Bryce and Deanna and family , so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for comfort peace and love in the days months and years ahead

Benny and Donna Holcomb

December 13, 2022

So terribly sorry for your loss and praying for comfort and peace for your family.

Martin and Marnie Powell

December 13, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Your smile could light the world. Praying for you all.

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