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Springettsbury Twp. - Benjamin P. Murphy, age 52, of Springettsbury Township, York died Wednesday, October 21, 2020, at his residence.
Born March 19, 1968, in Clarksburg, West Virginia, a son of Arthur T. "Tom" Murphy, III, and Joanne K. Murphy, of York, he was a 1986 graduate of York Suburban High School. He attended Fork Union Military Academy and Shippensburg University where he made the Pennsylvania State Athletic Conference All-Tournament Team in his freshman year.
Sports played a major role in Mr. Murphy's life. He was the first freshman to play varsity football at York Suburban High School and in 1985 he was named York County's Defensive Player of the Year. The York Daily Record had named him as one of the Fabulous 40 Athletes and he was No. 1 on York Suburban's Ten Best Athletes for three different sports all four years of his high school career. He played for the York Yankees in the Central League and played on four championship teams in the Colonial Tournament. He was the first York County player to make Tri-County All-Stars for football and also the first player in York County to make the American Legion Eastern All-Star Finals for three consecutive years.
If you are reading this and drank at Murph's or the Other Bar, you knew Ben. He has worked in the family businesses throughout his life. Ben spent many a night around the bar talking sports and serving drinks. Quick wit, hilarious one-liners, and timely comments were a staple for Ben. He had a knack, a gift for knowing what people needed on a particular night. If there were to be jokes at their expense or if a little pick me up/cheer up conversation was needed. That was Ben. In his honor please share your favorite "Ben" stories and one-liners.
In addition to his parents, Mr. Murphy is survived by his brother, Kevin A. Murphy, and his wife Jennifer, of York; nieces, Payton and Delaney Murphy; and his nephew, Callahan Murphy.
Funeral services are scheduled for 11:00 AM Thursday, October 29, 2020, at Kuhner Associates Funeral Directors, Inc., 863 South George Street, York. Viewings will be 5-7:00 PM Wednesday and 9-11:00 AM Thursday. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to York County SPCA, 3159 Susquehanna Trail North, York, PA 17406, or to Olivia's House Grief & Loss Center for Children, 830 South George Street, York, PA 17403.
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Diane King Susek
October 16, 2024
Dear Tom and Joanne...once again, especially at this time of year, dear Ben and both of you are on our minds and in our hearts. Please know that you are in our prayers. We'll never forget Ben.
Diane and Ron, Buddy King
Diane Susek
October 16, 2023
Dear Murphys....thinking of you and praying for you particularly at this time of year. We'll never forget Ben.
Ron and Diane (King) Susek and Buddy King
Catherine
May 6, 2022
For Ben's family,
Believe it or not, I found Ben's obituary by mistake today. His picture "stood" out-beautiful smile and kind face! I am sorry that Ben passed away. I pray your pain has lessoned and memories of Ben give you some peace.
John 14:6
Catherine
Tom Wilson
January 5, 2021
Tom & Jo Anne,
I did not know your son ,Ben but have known the both of you since grade and middle school at Mt Rose and York Suburban . I recently learned of Ben's passing so I wanted to take an opportunity to express condolences to you and your entire family. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Duffy Family
November 1, 2020
Tom Joanne and all your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of tremendous loss of your son, brother, Ben. We feel for you and know you will forever keep him in your hearts. Your memories and love of Ben are what you will always have in you❤
The Joyce Colleen Duffy Family
Mike hoffman
November 1, 2020
Tom and Joanne
The grief must be overwhelming. Please know that I am sharing your pain. I shall never forget that beautiful event in Clarksburg almost 53 years ago. Our clarksburg friends gathered to celebrate Ben”s arrival and my birthday as well.
Ben was very fortunate to have such a loving and caring family.
Hoff
Jim and Lorraine Shindler
October 31, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Toby Roberts
October 31, 2020
Tom & Family,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss.
I have many good memories hanging at Murph’s. I shared a lot of laughs with Ben back in the day. I know he will be missed tremendously. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Toby Roberts
Toby
October 31, 2020
Tom & Family,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss.
I have many good memories hanging at Murph’s. I shared lots of laughs with Ben back in the day. I know he will be missed tremendously. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Toby Roberts
Michael Carew
October 30, 2020
Tom & Joanne,
Very sorry to hear of the loss of your son. You are in my thoughts.
Mike Carew
Eric Zimmerman
October 29, 2020
Dear Murphy Family,
In such moments, words can be difficult to find.
With your loss, I wanted to express my sincere
condolences & pray that God's love will minister
to your hearts as you draw close to Him.
-When thinking of Ben, it takes me back to the
1980's at York Suburban Senior High School.
My sister Kristin, was the equipment manager
for the football team. Ben was a Sophomore &
already a shinning star of the team.
In his 52 years, Ben touched & blessed many
lives & will continue to do so in the hearts & minds
of all that loved him.
With Sympathy,
Eric Zimmerman
"Eric The Illustrator"
Cathy and John Mann
October 29, 2020
Joanne and Tom, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. God Bless.
Cathy and John Mann and family
Frederick Kissinger
October 28, 2020
I knew benny since he was a little boy used to live close to his grandmother we played softball at mt.rose playground and played basketball at hevners house. Next door to benny grandma house R.I.P my friend sincerely Frederick Kissinger and wife
Frederick Kissinger
October 28, 2020
I knew benny since he was a little boy used to live close to his grandmother we played softball at mt.rose playground and played basketball at hevners house. Next door to benny grandma house R.I.P my friend sincerely Frederick Kissinger and wife
Jeff Teeter
October 28, 2020
So sorry to hear about the passing of Murph. I Will never forget the all the road trips at Ship and playing against him in the Colonial. Murph always had the best one liners that just made you laugh. Thoughts and Prayers to the Murphy Family .
Jeff Teeter
Friend
Valarie Gettle
October 28, 2020
I’m so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My deepest sympathy and prayers for the Murphy families.
Lora Lightner
October 28, 2020
Tom, Joanne and Kevin--
You are on our minds and in our prayers. Zane and I send our deepest condolences. We are both so very sorry for your loss.
Steve & Michelle Brown
October 28, 2020
Tom, Joanne and Kevin,
It was with deep sadness to hear of Ben's passing. Wishing you all the best and accept our heart felt sympathies.
Joseph korsak
October 28, 2020
My condolences to the family and sorrow for the loss of one so young.
Bernard Walker
October 27, 2020
A real good sports mentor to me while I was growing up had great words of advice all the time he was like a big brother growing up you will be missed sleep well friend
Geoff Abendschoen
October 27, 2020
Will always enjoy the memories with the Murph boys growing up as kids in Mt. Rose... Ben and I were on opposite sides for township baseball as teens, but we came back together at York Suburban for hoops, ultimately beating York Catholic in districts (at Central High School), in '84!! Trojans for Life and Pals Forever. Rest easy my friend... Prayers for peace during this difficult time for you, your parents and the entire Murphy family, Kevin. ❤
Orvin E. Reidel II
October 27, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.God Bless you Tom and Joanne and family.
Megan Kelley
October 27, 2020
May you Rest in Peace Cousin. Praying that God keeps all my family during this time of grief with Love in their hearts.
Jay and Misty Goldstein
October 27, 2020
Kevin, Jen and the entire Murphy family, we are so sorry for your loss! Praying for peace and comfort for all of you!
Jay and Misty Goldstein
Greg and Kem Doby
October 27, 2020
Tom and Joanne, we pray that God may comfort you bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Ben was a fine young man.
Blessings,
Greg and Kem Doby
Jane Dellinger
October 27, 2020
Dear Friends
So sorry to hear of Ben’s passing
Sending love to all of you and
Comfort in the days ahead
Marc Troiani
October 27, 2020
Murphy Family: On behalf of my family, please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. It always gave me great pleasure that you raised your family in the same house I grew up in on Midland Ave. I can still remember Ben as a baby in your parent's house on when I delivered the Gazette & Daily...may God's love console you all at this most difficult time.
Jim McCaffery
October 26, 2020
Tom, Joanne, I’m so sorry to hear of Ben’s passing, he was a great guy. My prayers are with you all, god bless.. Jim McCaffery (CAL)
Jeff Pflaum
October 26, 2020
Tom, Joanne, and Kevin: Please accept my sympathy on the passing of Ben. My thoughts are with you!
The Trattner Family
October 26, 2020
Tom, Joanne and family - it is heart breaking to lose a child - always remember the good times as they will stay in your hearts forever - The Trattner Family
Kriste
October 26, 2020
My sincerest condolences to you all.
Hugs and Prayers,
Kriste Buchmyer-Feltman
Kriste
October 26, 2020
My sincerest condolences to you all.
Hugs and Prayers,
Kriste Buchmyer-Feltman
Mary Heilig
October 26, 2020
Joanne and Tom,
Peace and blessing to you both and your family.
Mary Heilig
John Keffer
October 26, 2020
Mr & Mrs Murphy - thoughts and prayers are with you during these tough times. Ben was always a really good dude to me - I know he’ll be missed by many. Take care
John Keffer
Nancy Reidel
October 26, 2020
Dear Tom, Joann and all your family,
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful son! I am heartbroken for you! Please know you all are being kept in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and keep you in his care while you grieve his passing. Take good care.
Love and hugs,
Nancy Reidel and Greg
Mark & Ruth Hoover
October 26, 2020
To they Murphy Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at the loss of Ben.
Jolanda Jones
October 26, 2020
You were definitely memorable! A kind and funny person who could always be sure to make you smile!! I will always remember that side ways smile that you would give on any given night at the bar or out when I’d run into somewhere. This really saddens me to hear this! My condolences go out to your family! You will surely be missed Ben!!
Kristen aka Cake-izzle
October 26, 2020
Ben was one of the few loyal people I knew. He always looked out for me & loved my daughter like his own. My heart is heavy, but I have to keep looking for the twinkle of his beautiful blue eyes.
Kevin Raber
October 26, 2020
To the Murphy Family
My thoughts & prayers go out to each of you @ this time. May God be with each of you & help you get through this difficult time. Ben being the competitor he was I ' m sure it fought this all the way to the end trying to beat death. So sorry for your loss you each have plenty of people to help through this difficult time.
Christopher C Eisenhart
October 26, 2020
Dear Tom and Joanne,
My deepest condolences.
Christopher Eisenhart
Shawn McCreary
October 26, 2020
Dear Tom, Joanne and Kevin, So sorry to hear about Ben.. I played against him in high school and had the opportunity to play with him in the early 90's. Incredible competitor, great heart and soul. The one thing I remember about Ben is the bigger the stage the better he played. In the 1994 York Colonial Tournament Ben rocked the whole weekend, catching multiple games every day and delivering the big hits when needed, believe he was the MVP. I will miss him..
Shawn McCreary
John Deininger
October 26, 2020
Tom and Joanne
I’m so very sorry about your loss. My prayers are with you.
Murrays
October 26, 2020
Our lives intersected for a few short years when our sons (Kevin Murray) played sports in high school. Ben was an outstanding athlete. We can only imagine your unspeakable grief. You are on our minds and in our prayers.
Joe c.
October 25, 2020
My condolences to the Murphy family. RIP Ben. Thanks for all the fun we had hanging out on and off the field. You were one of a kind for sure. I’m glad I knew you and glad to call you a friend.
Ronald E. Pentz
October 25, 2020
Sorry for your loss Murphy Family, I knew your son in school and out. Miss his cheerful personality
Ronald Pentz
Todd Wise
October 25, 2020
Tom, Joanne and family,
So sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. I just saw and spoke with Ben Monday morning when he stopped in at Planet Fitness for an early morning workout. As usual, Ben made me laugh with our conversation and he talked longer with me than he worked out...lol. Great memories at Murph’s with Ben too! I will miss him! Thoughts and prayers are with the Murphy family during this difficult time.
Lea Grove
October 25, 2020
Dear Murphy Family,
~My sincerest condolences... my heart is with you all! I’ll think of Ben smiling and trust he’s at peace. May you know comfort during this time and in the days to come. I’ll forever remember Ben! So very sorry for your loss! ❤
Love and hugs,
~Lea Grove
Brian Marshall
October 25, 2020
Tom, Joanne,Kevin
I am so sorry to hear of your Loss.
Please know thoughts and prayers are with you!
Tony and Syd Ferro
October 25, 2020
Dear Tom, Joanne And Kevin, I cant even imagine the pain you are feeling right now but please know that prayers and thoughts are with you all. God be with you. Tony and Syd Ferro
Doug Baker
October 25, 2020
Mr. Murphy, Mrs. Murphy, Kevin:
So sorry to hear the passing of Ben. I will always remember the good times with Ben at Ship and the Study Hall. Competing against Ben was always the best. Most people knew Ben from the playing fields but was a different guy off the fields. One most people didn't get to know. He was a great person who always made me laugh. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. RIP my friend.
Kelly Gross
October 25, 2020
Dear Murphy family. Sorry for your loss. I was a high school and central league baseball official. When I was behind the plate and Ben was catching he was always respectful and professional towards me. Always a class act. I was stunned to see his passing.
Mike Smith
October 25, 2020
Tom, Joanne, and Family
So sorry for your loss. I remember Ben when he first came into Murph's and the laundromat. Ben was always very friendly and a good guy to be around.
Eugene Slattery IV
October 25, 2020
Mr. Ben P. Murphy , U Had That Exceptional Edge About U That All Athletes Strive For. Humbled E.T. Slattery IV
Kathleen Haldeman
October 24, 2020
Tom, Joanne and Kevin,
My brother, Greg and I want to extend our deepest sympathies to your family. We worked every weekend so we would come into the Study Hall on Mondays and Tuesdays. Ben would always treat us right and the laughs never stopped.
Can only imagine his grandfather was waiting for him. Art was so very proud of him.
We wish you peace during this time. We are thinking of you.
Kathy Haldeman and Greg Frank
Steve Christman
October 24, 2020
This is terrible news, even though I haven't seen Murph in many years it hurts to hear about his passing. We were teammates and friends at Shippensburg and there was no one more fun and friendly than Ben. Tremendous athlete, friend and great personality. My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family.
Judy Harnish Sprenkel
October 24, 2020
Tom & Joanne, I am so sorry your loss. We are not supposed to outlive our children, life isn't always fair. My youngest, Mindy, passed away 7 yrs ago. She was a friend of both your sons in school.
My heart goes out to you. Sending my condolences from Fl.
Consuela
October 24, 2020
Ben will always have a special place in my heart
Phil Ferro
October 24, 2020
Tom, Joanne and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. My prayers are with Ben and the Murphy family. May he Rest In Peace.
Jamie Ellis
October 24, 2020
Mr. & Mrs. Murphy and Kevin,
I am so sad. That’s all I can really say. As much as this pains me, I can’t imagine the pain you are feeling. Ben was always so nice to me (in his “Ben” way). Tough on the outside, but soft on the inside. Your entire family has meant so much to me over the years. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Ben - rest gently my friend.
Jamie Ellis
Diane K Susek
October 24, 2020
Joanne and Tom...we are so sorry for your loss. Ben was a great baseball player and we watched him play many many times along with Jay and we enjoyed his talent, personality, enthusiasm and great smile! May God comfort you and the entire family. Prayers and love will continue. . . .Ron and Diane (King) Susek, and Buddy King.
Mickey Jaslow
October 24, 2020
Joanne, Tom & Kevin-
I am so sorry to hear the news of Ben passing. He was one of my best friends. I have played against Ben in baseball since I was 14 years old, and then I had the opportunity to play with Ben in the Central League for Victory AA and the York Yankees. After our playing days, I enjoyed traveling with Ben to many out of state stadiums and ballparks. Through these travels, I got to know the Ben that most people didn’t. Ben had a huge heart and he cared about people even though he didn’t like to let on that he did. I have so many memories of Ben that I don’t know where to start. I guess one of my favorite stories is when he was at the OTB and he grabbed the remote behind the counter and hid it in his shorts and would change the channel just as the horses were coming down the final stretch—he would switch it to a cartoon! People went berserk! I have so many memories with Ben that I could write a book! Ben was one of a kind and I will miss him.
Mickey Jaslow
Michael Daniels
October 24, 2020
Tom, Joanne, and Kevin,
I’m so sorry. The news still hasn’t fully sunk in. Ben was in so many ways larger than life, and I feel fortunate to have had so many great interactions with him and your family - from the Midland/Ogontz days, to the Study Hall, to that first York Yankees team. I hope you find some comfort in the outpouring of support from all over the community. You’ll be in my thoughts.
Amy zellers
October 24, 2020
My entire social 20's was shaped by the murphy family and my heart and love goes out to tom and joanne and fam. Ben was always there for me with a smile, quick wit and laugh. He will most certainly be missed and this breaks my heart. Mrs. Murph i wanna hug u so tight right now. Ill forever be thinking of u. Cheers to the good times and just know we all have amazing memories to carry with us.
Love amy zellers
Rosalie
October 24, 2020
I have great memories of Ben....He was a good guy with a big heart. My sincere sympathies to his family and those who loved him. ❤
Jeff Paules
October 23, 2020
Mr and Mrs Murphy, Kevin and family-
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I remember when I met Ben in Jr High, and he was always so full of life. Always joking around and having a good time- and in class too, he'd make classes interesting for sure.
He was one of the best athletes I've ever met. He inspired many (including me) on and off the field. I'll never forget our senior year together on the football team. It was an honor to block for him as one of the big guys up front.
Hold on to your memories of him. So so sorry Murphy family. Prayers.
Jeffrey Cannon
October 23, 2020
My condolences to the entire Murphy family, I have nothing but fond memories of Ben. Rest in peace.
Cindy and Stet Eaton
October 23, 2020
Tom and Joanne we are so saddened at hearing this terrible news!! My heart is breaking for you! No parent should have to bury their children!! I will remember the banter with Ben at Murphy’s and the fun we had talking sports with Ben! Because as you know it usually turned to banter unless we agreed with him!! Keep your memories close to your heart. So sorry we can not attend to give you both a hug. Love and hugs to the whole family. Cindy and Stet.
Mike snyder
October 23, 2020
What a great athlete from elementary to years after college. He was such a Gamer. He would always come up with the big play to help his team win.. It was a joy to watch him play all three sports. Im sure he was great at the others too. He comes from a great family. My prayers are with you. Deep down he did have a good heart loved his family..
Denise Potter
October 23, 2020
Joanne, Tom, Kevin and family -
Hold on to those great memories. I have some too that I will cherish.
Terry Geier
October 23, 2020
Tom, Joanne and Kevin,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Coaching Ben was a pleasure. It is never easy to lose a loved one. Try to keep the good times in the front of your mind. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Mick & Tammy Kolb
October 23, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you
Ron Zeager
October 23, 2020
Tom,Joanne and Kevin,
So sorry for your loss. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ron Barner
October 23, 2020
My condolences to Ben’s family and friends. I knew Ben as a teammate briefly on the Victory Club’s Central League Baseball team in the late ‘80s, but lost touch later. Ben was a pure athlete who loved to compete. I’ll remember him most for how he seemed to love life and the impact his infectious smile had on those of us who were fortunate to share the diamond, the field, the court, etc. with him.
Peace and comfort to all who knew him.
Gary Markle
October 22, 2020
Tom, Joanne, and Kevin,
So sorry to hear about the passing of Ben-
You are in my thoughts and prayers-
Peace in the coming days, weeks, months-
Gary
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