Douglas W. Crate Jr.

Douglas W. Crate Jr.

Douglas Crate Obituary

Published by BDN Maine on Jul. 8, 2008.
WATERVILLE and BANGOR Mr. Douglas W. Crate Jr., 81, died peacefully July 3, 2008, while family gathered to lovingly support his passing at Maine Medical Center, Portland, after a brief illness. Doug was born Nov. 15, 1926, in Philadelphia. He married Sally Church Alexander, July 24, 1948, and had four sons. He served in the U.S. Army in Germany at the end of World War II and was a life time member of the Elks. Doug taught fourth grade in the Bangor school system. Doug's interests included: "n" size trains, politics, sports, good conversation and family. He will be missed by his special friend and companion through out the last two years, Pauline Ingalls and her family of South Portland. He is survived by three sons, Douglas W. III and his wife, Misha, of Winterport, Stephen C. and his wife, Allison, of Waterville and Jeffrey S. and his wife, Pam, of Gardner; his brother, William Crate and his wife, Marion, of Beverly, Mass.; sister, Millie Edelman and husband, Ray, of Glassboro, N.J.; eight grandchildren, three great-grandchildren, several nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his sister-in-law, Dorothy Philips of Spokane, Wash., and her family. He was predeceased by his wife, Sally Church Alexander Crate, July 2005; and son, Robert Henry Crate, February 2001. Visiting hours are 1-2:30 p.m. Saturday, July 12, with a memorial service celebrating his life 2:30 p.m. at Gallant Funeral Home, 10 Elm St., Waterville. All friends and family are welcomed. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Friendship Cottage, in care of Douglas W. Crate Jr., P.O. Box 1107, Blue Hill, ME 04614. A memorial webpage about Douglas may be viewed at www.geocities.com/scrate/dwcjrmem.html "We are but travelers in the wilderness of the world; the best we find in travels is honest friendship."


This obituary was originally published in the BDN Maine.

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David Conrad

February 11, 2013

"Mr. Crate" was my fourth grade teacher at the Bozorth Campus Elementary School in Glassboro NJ, more than 45 years ago. His was a strong guiding force, what a rarity to find a man of such conviction and verve in an elementary school setting.

December 22, 2009

Lynn (& David) Foster

December 20, 2009

We met Doug when he and Sally moved into a house on Beamer's Knob in VA. He was such a special person, a total delight to engage in stimulating conversation. I loved his stories about school ~ it was so obvious that he was that teacher we all would love to have for our own or for our children.

We had a place that we had purchased directly across from them. We came there most weekends when our children were young. We so looked forward to watching the hummingbirds come to Sally's feeder while solving world problems (at least dissecting them).

Doug visited us after we moved to VT and my father was here for a visit from CA - we discovered that they were months apart. It was funny I never knew how old Doug & Sally were ~ to us they were ageless. He will live on in our hearts.

Robert DelMonte

January 9, 2009

To Doug and family,I'm so sorry to hear about your loss our thoughts and prayers go out to you.I just lost my mother Rose Delmonte in aug 2008 and just wanted to let you know i share your sadness...

Kimberly (Jackson) Doyle

August 4, 2008

I had the honor of being taught by Mr. Crate in 6th grade at Downeast Elementary School during the 1981-1982 school year. He was a tough, but loving teacher who was one of my favorites. He instilled a sense of hard work in all of us that year and that has carried with me since. I have always fondly remembered Mr. Crate and his teaching style stood out in my mind over many of the other teachers I had over the years. I am honored to be able to say I was one of his many students.

elizabeth caldwell

July 14, 2008

Steve,
So sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. I know how painful that can be. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Sally Lambert

July 10, 2008

Steve,

As one of your Centering Prayer List Friends, I send you my condolences on your loss and my prayers for your family and friends. When I read your father's obituary, I immediately thought of this saying from Jesus, "Suffer the little children to come unto me for such is the kingdom of Heaven." Someone who never "left the fourth grade" is certainly one of God's children, especially at heart.

May God wrap you in the warmth and tenderness of his love.

Peace and blessings,

Jerry Metz

July 9, 2008

So sorry to lose Doug. Looking at his smiling face in the photo I find myself smiling back and hearing, from far away, that contagious cackle of a laugh. What a great guy!

Steve Crate

July 9, 2008

Dad... your creative and honest approach to life will be missed. You will live on in me and all others who you touched with your teaching and wisdom.

Linda Fickett

July 8, 2008

I am sorry for your loss. I only had the pleasure of knowing Doug for the past two years. He was a very special friend to my mom, Pauline Ingalls. They visited my home many times and I always enjoyed his company. I, and the rest of my family, will truly miss him.

Greg & Karen Ingalls

July 8, 2008

My deepest sympathies for the loss of Doug. He visited with our family during holiday times along with Pauline Ingalls. We will miss him.

Sincerely,

Greg & Karen Ingalls

Jennifer (Yates) Reynolds

July 8, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I had Mr. Crate for the 4th and the 6th grade. I requested him for 6th grade because I had such a wonderful experience in 4th grade. Mr. Crate understood me when many didn't. He had a big impact on my life. He always believed in my potential and he made sure I knew that.

I went back to visit him for several years after I completed the sixth grade. I wish I had seen him more recently.

I don't know if he kept up with sailing, but when I had him as a teacher it was a passion of his. I hope he did.

I hope his passing was peaceful and I will never forget him.

Bob West

July 8, 2008

Please except my condolences on your loss. Mr. Crate was a fantastic teacher and a man of integrity. I had the pleasure of knowing him while he taught at Union Street Junior High School in Bangor.

Cathy (Wood) Allard

July 8, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a great Teacher. I was lucky to have had him for the fourth grade and the sixth grade. I still think of the stories he would tell us 30 years later. My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

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