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Philip Stahon Obituary
Philip John Stahon, 44, October 2, 1964 - September 8, 2009.
Resident of Charlottesville, for over 20 years. Philip was born in Erie, Pennsylvania. He graduated from Iroquois High School and attended Gannon University.
Phil met his wife, Nancy, in 1999 and they were married in 2000. Nancy and Philip had one son, Jonathan, and although he never bragged about him, Phil always wore an expression that communicated the deep and sincere pride he had for Jon. Of all the certainties in the world, there is none more certain than that Phil loved his son.
Philip was one of seven children born to loving parents, Joseph and Martha Stahon of Erie, Pennsylvania.
Philip will forever be remembered by his devoted brothers, Joe Stahon and his wife, Mary, and their children, Daniel and Adam; and Steve Stahon and his wife, Diane, and their children, Lauren, Matthew and Katharine. Phil leaves loving sisters, Anne Nemeyer and her husband, Michael; and their children, Maegan, Aaron and Ben, Martha Leech and her husband, Rodney; and their children Sam, David and Luke, Maria Perkins and her husband, Matt; and their children, Olivia and Hayden and Sara Cavicchio and her husband, Chad; and their children, Michael, Nicholas and Isabella; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Phil was blessed with many friends. He will always be held close in the hearts of those who were fortunate to have known him. Phil loved the beach, enjoyed the travels he had and was a true friend. Phil touched the lives of many people with his kindness and generosity of time, and maintained his sense of humor all the way to the end.
Friends and family are invited to attend a funeral mass 12:15 p.m. Friday, September 11, 2009, with family visitation 11:45 a.m. at Church of the Incarnation, 1465 Incarnation Drive, Charlottesville, VA 22901.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Hospice of the Piedmont http://www.hopva.org/support.php)
Friends may sign the guest register at teaguefuneralhome.com
This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.
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October 26, 2009
Joe. I'm sorry to hear about Phil. I hope all is well with you otherwise. Jerry Dyer. Cary, NC
Maria Orlando
October 13, 2009
I knew Philip from Gannon and I was shocked to see this in the obituaries. I had no idea. It's been many years since Philip and I have spoken just because life took us in different, busy directions. I often thought about trying to catch up to him again and didn't. I wasn't even sure if he was still in Virginia. I am so sorry for all of you in his family. He was a good hearted guy. You are in my prayers. My sincere sympathy, Maria Orlando
Fred & Rachel Muroff
October 11, 2009
Dear Joe,Martha, and family
We are so saddened to hear of Philip's death. May God grant you His grace and understanding at this sad time. In Sympathy,
Bob, Pam & Rob Spampani
October 10, 2009
To the entire STAHON FAMILY...
We were so sad to learn of Philips passing. It is so difficult to understand why a young man with a beautiful family is stricken at such a young age. The hole in each of your hearts must be huge but know the terrific memories you have of Philip and the support of each other, will help mend that hole. Philip will always be in our thoughts and prayers and may God hold him in the palm of his hand.
Our thoughts and prayers also go to the entire Stahon Family during this difficult time.
Our Most Sincere Condolences ....
Rest in Peace Philip.......... Rest in Peace...
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Alfred Heyer
October 5, 2009
Dear Joe and Martha,sorry to hear of the passing of your son Paul. My condolences are with you and your family. AL
Patty (Carter) Mazzarese
October 1, 2009
Sara and Family,
My condolences are with you and your family.
Angie Kontur
September 25, 2009
Steve,
My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your brother. You are in my prayers.
Paul Randolph
September 21, 2009
Mr.and Mrs.Stahon@Family My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of your loss Your friend always. Paul Randolph@family
Michele "carcic" Edwards
September 16, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. Stahon,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
God Bless,
Michele (Carcic), jason, caleb and sydney edwards
Lisa Oldach
September 16, 2009
Dear Stahon Family, My deepest sympathies and prayers are extended to all of you. I attended grade school at Church of the Holy Family with Phil and even at a young age it was apparent what a kind and gentle person he was. I was truly saddened to see that he passed. God Bless.
Julie Sturm (Pletz), Class of '83
September 15, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Phil's passing. My highschool memories of him are ones of his kindness and especially that he was a gentleman. I will remember him fondly.
Tim Fuldesi
September 15, 2009
We offer our deepest sympathy. When tragedy strikes and takes the life of our loved ones, many cry out with great sorrow. Your tears are not unnoticed by the Creator of Life. Never was it his purpose for our human lives to be taken away. Although your deep pain will not easily disappear, prayer to God will bring comfort to you as you grieve. The Bible assures us God "is healing the broken hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spot." Psalm 147:3
Cheryl Johnson Kwiatkowski
September 13, 2009
To the Stahon Family,
Phil was a high school classmate. I'm so deeply sorry. My prays are with all of you at this difficult time. God bless and may God keep you in the palm of his hand.
Steve Stahon
September 13, 2009
We would like to express our sincere appreciation for the heartfelt messages sent by family and friends. It is comforting to know that Phil will be remembered by so many. Thank you for your prayers and kind words during this difficult time. Phil was an incredible son, brother, husband and father who will be sadly missed. The Stahon Family
September 13, 2009
To the Stahon Families,
We were very sad to hear the news.
You have our condolences and our tears.
Todd and Charlie Comand and family
Ray and Mary DePlatchett
September 13, 2009
Dear Stahon Family, Our deepest sympathy to all of you on the passing of Phil. Although we hadn't seen him in a few years, we remember him fondly and were deeply saddened to learn of his passing. We will keep Phil, and all of you, in our thoughts and prayers.
Terri Homansky
September 13, 2009
Dear Uncle Joe,Aunt Martha&Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Phil was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. God Bless. Love Dave,Terri Homanksy and Family.
The Greene Family
September 12, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Kevin Ireson
September 12, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
We were shocked to hear of Phil's death. Phil was a truly great guy, and he will be greatly missed. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time.
Kevin, Becky & Casey Ireson
September 12, 2009
Dear Stahon family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you at this very difficult time. I was a classmate with Phil in highschool and remember what a great person he was. God bless you with the peace and knowledge that Phil will always be alive in your hearts and memories.
Evelyn Krieger Carpinello
Michael and Karen Schuller
September 12, 2009
Dear Mr and Mrs Stahon,
Karen and I are so sorry to hear the news about Phil. You will be in our prayers as well as your whole family.
Lynda Romanek
September 12, 2009
To Phil's wife, son, and the Stahon family,
You all will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Beth Hellms
September 12, 2009
May God comfort you and carry you through this very difficult time and the days to come. I didn't know that Phil was ill, but was blessed to have had numerous conversations with Phil while he was at the Airport on Fridays.
He spoke so fondly of his family. He was a wonderful person and I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that and in the memories you have of him. God bless you all.
Jim Pius
September 12, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. May you feel comforted in the love of your family and friends.god bless.
LaDonna Ripberger
September 12, 2009
Sorrow and sadness are weighing heavily on you right now. May the good memories you have fill your hearts. And may the love you have for Phil and the peace that is now with him allow you to move forward.
Lynn Beveridge
September 11, 2009
Dear Mr and Mrs Stahon and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jack Bock
September 11, 2009
To the Stahon Family
I wanted to express my condolences to the whole family. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Diana Palotas
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
I am so sorry. Philip was a classmate of mine at Holy Family and I have so many memories of our small class of 11. This was to be our 30th year reunion. Phil was a dear person. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Donna,Dan,Kim Lye Getto
September 11, 2009
Stahon Family-Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.May God give you comfort
Roger and Pat Kaeberlein
September 11, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
September 11, 2009
All of my sympathy & prayers & love to everyone.
Jennifer Stahon
Gordon Stover-McMichael
September 11, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences for your family. Know that our prayers are with you all. May the Lord comfort you and bring you His peace.
Gail Warren
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family..Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time of loss. You are such an awesome family and we know your commitment to each other will help you in your time of sorrow. May God give you comfort. Love- Gail Lasky Warren
Michelle Mason Peck
September 11, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Robin Hess Westcott
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
I'm sorry that I didn't know Phil had been ill, I would have kept you all in prayer. May the comfort of our knowledge that he is healed and out of pain now help in the coming, difficult times ahead. I will pray for healing of the heart for all of you, as that is the hardest pain to heal. Love and prayers,
Robin
September 11, 2009
We will never forget Phil's wonderful smile. Words cannot express our sorrow. Jim and Betty Schuller
Tracy Clorley-Mott
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now in your time of loss.Phillip was a wonderful friend with a beautiful heart and soul.I know the whole community of Lawrence Park feels this loss with you. May God be with all of you and comfort you through this most difficult time.
With Love, Tracy Clorley-Mott
Steve Cabaday
September 11, 2009
My deepest sympathies to the entire Stahon family. Try to take comfort in your memories of Phil, and know that we were all blessed to know him in our lives. May the Lord comfort and keep you at this time, our prayers are with you.
Tracy Clorley-Mott
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family.. My thoughts and prayes are with you in this time of loss. Phillip was a wonderful friend with a beautiful heart and soul. His loss will be deeply felt in the Lawrence Park Community. May God comfort you all in this time of sorrow.
With Love , Tracy Clorley Mott
Diane Hoffman (Kean)
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about you loss. Philip was way too young to be taken from you. Cherish your memories and find comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain. God Bless all of you.
Hope (Candy) Anderson (Ferrington)
September 11, 2009
Dear Martha and Joe, Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. All I can say is "I've been there, done that." It's so hard to bury one of your own children and I know what kind of heartache you are going through. Please try not to blame this on the good Lord, I was there too. Everything happens for a reason and some day, you might figure out why, as I did. Keep the faith in your hearts forever.
Mary Darnell
September 11, 2009
May God give you and Jon comfort during this difficult time.
Janet Lafferty-Artise
September 11, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless and comfort you.
Janet Lafferty-Artise
September 11, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers, may God bless and comfort you.
Janice Lasky
September 11, 2009
Dear Stahon Family,
My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. Growing up next door, my memories of Philip will be the fun times we all had as kids. May God bless you, and comfort you during this time of great sorrow.
Love, Janice
Christine Schuller-McEnery
September 11, 2009
We are all blessed with wonderful memories of Phil. You have our deepest sympathies for your loss, and we are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers during this deeply sorrowful time.
Jennifer Hicks
September 11, 2009
May memories be a source of comfort at this time. Caring thoughts are with you and Jon.
Glenn Soles
September 11, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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