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ROBERT EASTON BUTTON, 93, of Old Greenwich, CT, passed away on Saturday, August 9, 2008, with his wife Decima of 62 years at his side. He was the son of John Conyers Button and Olive Lyle Demarest of Englewood, NJ. Bob was an insightful, caring, and motivational leader, with a proclivity for poetry, humor and irony. He was devoted to human values, social responsibility and thoughtful expression. Bob Button began his career in communications, music and writing at Dartmouth College (Class of '36), where he was a member of the Casque and Gauntlet Honor Society. He went to work for NBC and obtained a law degree in 1939. He was a military intelligence officer in WWII and served on General Bradley's G-2 staff and General Eisenhower's Special Forces staff in Europe. He emerged from the military as a Colonel, having earned 2 Bronze Stars and 6 Battle Stars; and he was one of the first Americans to work on the Enigma code-breaking project at Bletchley Park, England. After the war he returned to NBC where he pioneered the early programming and sales of television. In 1954 he left NBC to join the Defense Office of Special Operations and later served as Director of the Voice of America. He was a USIS Foreign Service Officer in NATO-Paris (1958-64), Executive consultant at COMSAT Corp (1965-1973), and Satellite Director at Teleprompter Corp. (1973-1975). He was cofounder and President of TransCommunications, Inc. in Greenwich (1975-1993) where he cofounded Cablevision of Connecticut. His memberships included the Lions, Masons, Reserve Officers Association, American Legion, University Club, Old Greenwich Yacht Club, High Arctic Explorers Club, Broadcast Pioneers, and Playmakers of Connecticut. He led a 17 piece swing band, known throughout the area as the Bob Button Orchestra, and he directed a 24 voice retired men's chorus (The Melody Men) and a ladies sextet (Button and Bows, and the Decibelles). In 1999, he was named Community Leader of the Year in Greenwich. A founding trustee of the American College of Paris, he taught continuing education courses at Columbia University, U Conn, and U Virginia. He was a regular contributor to the Op-Ed pages of the Greenwich Time, and in 2004 he published his memoir Enigma in Many Keys, for which he received the Mark Twain Award from the Connecticut Press Club (2006). Bob also received the SE CT Volunteer Organization "Lifetime Achievement Award" in 2007. Bob Button is survived by his English wife, Decima; his daughters Marilyn Button and Phyllis Whitten and her husband Richard; and five grandchildren: Diana, Christina, and Carolyn Whitten, and Alec and Brett Phillips. He is predeceased by his brothers, John and Donald, his sister Anne, and his daughter Allyson Button Phillips A memorial service will be held on Saturday, August 16 at 11 AM at the First Congregational Church of Old Greenwich, CT, followed by a reception. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Bletchley Park Foundation at www.bletchleypark.org.uk, Women with a Vision/PCA, 4011 South Harrison St, Ft Wayne, Indiana 46807, or The Nathaniel Witherell, 70 Parsonage Road, Greenwich CT 06830. On-line condolences or remembrances may be made at www.griecofuneralhomes.com or [email protected]
Published by GreenwichTime on Aug. 14, 2008.

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John Zavitz

August 16, 2008

Decima and Family: Pat and I were saddened to hear of Bob's death. We have so many memories formed over the years, both musical and fraternal. We suspect old Murph will be there with his drums to welcome that wonderful piano player home. Thanks for sharing him with us.

Ray Wolf

August 16, 2008

Dear Decima and family,
We have wonderful memories of Bob at PCOG and were deeply saddened to learn of his passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Withsympathy and love,
Anna and Ray Wolf

Arthur and Charlotte Thomas

August 16, 2008

We regret very much to learn of the loss of Bob Button. We knew and admired him as the band leader that played at Senior Center events at the Western Civic Center in Greenwich. We also admired Mrs Decima Button for her gracious qualities and interests in music and as a chanteuse. Very sincerely, Charlotte and Arthur Thomas, Greenwich

Wendy and Dick Sherman

August 15, 2008

Dear Decima, Marilyn and Phyllis And family

We are so sorry for your loss. Memories will carry you through to the sun on the other side as you remember the wonderful times.

What fun we had visiting you Desima and Bob having tea and sharing stories. France and England will never be the same after our holidays there. We have wonderful memories to cherish.

The millennium party and the Bob Button band and the dance with your Dad in his tux. We will miss him so much.


Love Dick and Wendy Sherman

Jeff Craw

August 14, 2008

Decima, Phyllis, & Marilyn,
This old Pastor has lost a good friend. I have missed our visits since my move to Rhode Island, but you are part of my "life fabric".
If it were not for the fact that I have a large workshop to run this Saturday, I would have surely been in a pew in Old Greenwich come Saturday morning.
Decima, thanks for all the "tea & cookies"! You are quite a woman.
Respectfully yours with joy & gratitude for a life well lived.
Pastor Jeff

Jeff Waggaman

August 14, 2008

Decima and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kaye and Jeff Lewis

August 14, 2008

An elegant man and wonderful neighbor, his 'renaissance man' influence will inspire many for years to come. Our deepest sympathies to his family at this difficult time.

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