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Peter James Bridges
1956 - 2006
Peter James Bridges
1956 - 2006
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Peter Bridges Obituary
He was born in Yonkers, NY on April 8, 1956 the son of the late James Oliver Bridges, an advertising executive, and Mrs. Joan (Doerr) Bridges, a secretary. He earned a Music Education degree with a concentration in organ from Ithaca College. He taught at the Oswego Middle School in Oswego, NY for one year and then spent 15 years as a music teacher and choir director at the Roosevelt Intermediate School in Westfield, NJ.
Upon leaving Westfield, NJ, Mr. Bridges moved to New London, NH and worked at the East Derry School of Music. Subsequently, he opened a music studio at Ted Herbert Music School in Manchester, where he gave instruction in voice, piano and keyboard. He served as an Adjunct Faculty member at Southern New Hampshire University, where he directed the University Choral Group, the SNHU Singers.
Mr. Bridges served as a musical director and musician for over 300 productions over the course of his career. His career included numerous performances as music director for the New Thalian Players, The Palace Theatre, Music and Drama Company, the Peacock Players, the New London Barn Playhouse, Concord Community Players, the Misfit Toys Players, Manchester Community Theatre Players, the St. Anselm Abbey Players, and the Majestic Theatre. He also served as a volunteer Music Director for the Londonderry Leach Library Summer Drama Club.
Mr. Bridges' musical philosophy was to "glorify God and inculcate a love of music." This philosophy was most evident in his beloved positions as Director of Music at The First Baptist Church of Bradford, NH and Organist at St. Theresa Church of Henniker, NH.
In addition to his wife, Mr. Bridges is survived by a 19-month-old son, James Edward; his mother, Mrs. James O. Bridges of Georges Mills, NH; a sister, Cheryl Ann Bridges of Omaha, NE; and a cousin, John O. Hand of Washington, DC. A memorial service celebrating his life will be held on Sunday, June 11, 2006 at 2:00 P.M. at the Congregational Church of Hooksett, NH with The Rev. David Richardson and The Rev. Lynne Hubley, officiating. A reception will be held in the Fellowship Hall of the Church immediately following the memorial service.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the James E. Bridges Educational Fund, c/o Lake Sunapee Bank, P.O. Box 37, New London, NH 03257.
Chadwick Funeral Service of New London, NH is in charge of arrangements. For more information and to sign an online guestbook please visit www.chadwickfuneralservice.com.
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Heather Bridges
March 5, 2023
Peter, Our son was accepted to your Alma mater with a generous merit scholarship. I know you would be so proud. Unfortunately, the financial aid package is not enough for me to be able to afford to send him there. I wish I could. I am trying to figure it out. He really wants to go there. Praying for a miracle. Wishing you were here with us. I miss and love you always. - Heather
August 10, 2016
Dear Heather and James. It was just now that I heard about Peters death. No one, even my three children, ever told me. Perhaps they didn't know. Peter's death occurred two days after my bleeding stroke, and they were here, praying for me. Peter was a gifted music educator, and a good friend. I was an assistant superintendent of curriculum in Westfield. My three children were students of Peter, and I have such a fond memory of him. My three children, Patrick, Eileen, and Molly, have a great love of music and theater partly because of his influence. He loved music and his love was contagious. I'm so happy he found you and you have a beautiful son. God bless you both. RIP, Peter. Dr. Dave Rock, Orlando FL
Heather Bridges
June 1, 2016
Today marks 10 years since you left this Earth and returned home to God. I love you, Peter. You are my heart and soul. You were my best friend and the love of my life. I miss you every day.
Ben Schwartz
May 23, 2015
I was never one to be a singer, but I always loved music (playing the drums). When I came to Roosevelt Intermediate School, I very hesitantly joined chorus and that was where I met Mr. Bridges. He encouraged me to sing but also encouraged me to play the drums. In 1992, I played my first paying gig as a professional musician with Mr. Bridges at Orange Ave. Middle School in Cranford. I was saddened to hear of the news of his death a few years ago, but was happy he still taught music to students after he left Westfield before he passed away. I have Mr. Bridges to thank as a professional musician and music educator from a young age. He was good man, and I'm sure his family and students miss him greatly.
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James E. Bridges
April 25, 2015
Today I read wonderful things everyone had to say about my Dad. Although I didn't know him long,I'm sure he was a great man, as you all say he was. I just want to say that I miss him.
Christina Dunn
June 10, 2014
I met Peter and Heather during their time in the MICU at Lahey clinic. I spent some time with Heather in the waiting room while Peter was in surgery late one night. I was always in awww of the love and trust you both had for God. It was something that was inspiring to me and I will ever forget you both coming into my life.
Which faith and gratitude,
Christina
Heather Bridges
May 10, 2013
Went to the Barry Manilow concert last night and thought of you the whole time! I could just hear you saying, "Ok, Heather, what key is this in?" :-)
Mommy & Patrick meeting the cast of ImaginOcean
Becca Raymond
October 9, 2012
To this day I will remember a phone call I received from you telling me that "Helmut is a James!" I am getting chills typing this because I was, and am, so happy to be one of the first people you called (or at least so you told me!) Your little man is the spitting image of his daddy. I have loved watching him grow up, even if it is from a far. I know you have been watching him with pride as well.
I miss you every day, Peter. Your stories are ones that are told to Patrick all the time and I KNOW you had time to impart some wisdom before God sent him to me :) There are little things he does that make me think - that's Peter... and it could not make me any happier. He loves theater and music just as much as his mommy, but I think you may have had something to do with that too!
We love you and miss you so much!
August 12, 2012
I was listening to "Show tunes" on XMradio tonight. Made me think of PJB. He was the most infuential teacher I ever had...I'm sorry I never kept in touch with him.
Heather Bridges
May 7, 2012
Eight years ago today, I married the man of my dreams. He was my best friend and the most wonderful man I have ever known. Even though we only had two short years together, I will be forever grateful for his love.
Happy Anniversary, my darling Peter. I love you and miss you.
You would be so proud of our son. This morning, he said to me, "It's your anniversary today. I think a lady as beautiful as you deserves a nice dinner out. I don't have much, but I think this will cover it." Then he handed me his big blue piggy bank.
He is an amazing, loving little boy who reminds me all the time of his Daddy.
Sabrina Prada
January 9, 2012
Mr. Bridges was the finest musician I have ever known. I'll be lucky if I ever get to sing with someone like him again. I was his student at Roosevelt, also inspired for life by his arrangement of "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas," which I can never sing without tearing up. I am permanently hooked on musical theatre (especially Cole Porter) thanks to him and was lucky to work on at least 7 shows with him from '81-'86 in NJ.
I have missed him for years, and my heart goes out to Heather and James. I'm glad Peter had so much love in his life. You have a friend in Canada :-)
Marnie Cambria Dardanello
August 3, 2011
Mr. Bridges was my teacher and mentor at Roosevelt. I was the awkward eighth grader with the glasses, but with his encouragement, I was able to shine on stage. I remember his confidence in me, his kindness and his complete passion for music. He loved harmony (we shared a love of the Carpenters!). I most remember practicing the duet for "Have yourself a Merry Little Christmas", singing by the piano in the church. The best advice he ever gave me for staying on pitch was "smile more when you sing." I am so grateful that he shared so many smiles and such joyful music. My condolences to Heather and James.
Heather Bridges
June 1, 2011
Today marks 5 years since you went to Heaven, my love. I miss you so very much. James does, too. We love you, Peter.
Heather Bridges
April 8, 2011
Happy Birthday, my love! I miss you and love you more than words can say.
Your wife,
Heather
Amy Shaw
December 9, 2010
I am so sad to learn of Mr. Bridges passing! Your letter to him helped me see him in a different light other than the warm, wonderful and talented teacher I knew him to be. How nice to know he was such a terrific husband and father as well! I've always had him in my (as yet unneeded) Oscar speech, as the person to thank for teaching me the most about music and performing it. I can only hope my little girl gets to learn from someone half as talented. I have a few nice Mr. Bridges stories/memories from my time at RJHS in the 80's if you're ever interested in getting in touch.
Koller Walsh
December 8, 2010
What an inspiration Mr. Bridges was to me. He helped me learn who I was and taught me to be just me. He helped me reach heights in singing I never would have made on my own. I am so sad to hear of his passing. So late too. Thank you Mr. Bridges for everything you shared with me growing up. You profoundly impacted my life in GREAT ways. My deepest sympathies to his family. What a wonderful man!
Krista Andress
December 8, 2010
One of Mr. Bridges' favorites. He was a great, inspiring, challenging music teacher.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zOpT8vsloeA
Heather and James Bridges
June 20, 2010
Happy Father's Day! We love and miss you!
With much love,
Heather and James
Heather Bridges
May 7, 2010
Happy 6th Anniversary, my love! I love you forever and miss you always!
With all my heart,
Heather
Brett Doerr
February 15, 2010
Heather, my father (William Doerr) was the brother of Peter's mother (Joan Doerr Bridges). I would like to contact you if possible. My contact information is [email protected].
Mike Radlauer
July 20, 2009
Heather, I just stumbled on this site. Pete was a good friend at Ithaca College. I lost touch with him after his graduation. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
I read Steve Kimmons's eulogy from January 17, 2007. Yes, I truly did believe that Pete's father was a professional wrestler. I even remember Pete cheering "Yay Daddy" when Superstar Billy Graham threw a challenger to the mat. He even made up a story about Christmas parties that he went to that were hosted by the Grand Wizard of Wrestling (Superstar's manager).
One of the best times I had in college was a road trip to Buffalo with Pete, John Hooks, and/or Dave Wilbur. Many college kids take road trips to perform acts of debauchery. We went to a recital by the organist, Virgil Fox.
Pete was also my accompanist for a number of vocal recitals. He could sight read anything that I put in front of him with a keen sense of musicianship. His criticisms were gentle and constructive. It doesn't surprise me that he was such a wonderful teacher.
Heather Bridges
June 1, 2009
Three years ago today, you slipped away from us and returned home to Our Father In Heaven. You are never forgotten, you are deeply missed, you are forever loved. Rest in peace, my darling.
With all my love,
Your Wife
Heather Bridges
May 7, 2009
Happy 5 Year Wedding Anniversary, Peter! I miss you lots and love you with all my heart! Love, Heather
Kate Holthausen
April 24, 2009
Peter - you would have been so very proud of one of your "students" - Jennifer as she conducted for the first time this past week-end. she was the musica director for Pippin and added her special touches - it was wonderful....
Rebecca Raymond
April 9, 2009
Happy birthday, my friend! I wish you could meet my Patrick, but I am sure you already blessed him before he came to me :) You are missed...
Heather Bridges
April 8, 2009
Happy Birthday, my love. James and I are having cake in your honor tonight. I love you.
Sandy Santangelo
Sandy Santangelo
March 16, 2009
Dear Heather,
I was honored to know Peter when he was the organist and choir director in Scotch Plains Baptist Church. He helped me to overcome my fear of singing in front of people, and introduced me to being a Praise and Worship leader, now I'm always looking for times to sing in front of people. He was an excellent man of God, and is in a beautiful place with Jesus. You are a lucky woman to be his wife. You have a beautiful son, may God richly bless you. With love.
Heather Bridges
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas, Darling. We're apart, that's true. But I can dream, and in my dreams, I'm Christmasing with you ...
All my love,
Heather
William Cort
November 16, 2008
I was a student of Peter's at Roosevelt Junior High in the early 80s. When I originally came to visit this site after I heard of his passing, I was sure that I had left an entry...but now it appears that I somehow never did. It was probably because, at the time, I felt that my words could not have been formed any better than the outpouring of love and memories from so many close friends, family and colleagues. Well, I just wanted to take this opportunity to express, very belatedly, how much I admired Peter's passion for music and teaching. He was a gifted man whose talent, energy and humor inspired everyone around him.
Heather Bridges
October 31, 2008
My Darling Peter,
Five years ago today you asked me to be your wife. It seems like just yesterday. Please know that you are still, and will always be, my heart and soul. I love you forever.
Heather
Roosevelt High School 1974
August 19, 2008
August 19, 2008
The Order of the Ties 1974
August 19, 2008
Alan Chapin
August 19, 2008
Dear Heather,
My name is Alan Chapin. I was an old friend of Peter's, growing up in Yonkers. I went to Burroughs JHS and Roosevelt HS with him, so we were good friends before we got to High School. We would sit in the lunchroom and shoot Marx Bros. lines at each other, or sing Jesus Christ Superstar all the way through, and still have time for dessert. I always admired Pete for his always positive attitude, friendliness, and giving nature. He was truly a good person; always laughing and good natured, even when we teased him about his stutter. He was always up for a good joke; like when a bunch of us wore ties to school everyday and called ourselves The Order of the Ties. We even made the Yearbook.
And you could tell even way back in Junior High, that he was a gifted musician. He could sit at the piano and play anything you put in front of him, and a lot more stuff you didn't put in front of him. When we auditioned for shows, he would accompany anybody that needed him,
including me...and that was a job, let me tell you. After graduation we went our separate ways, and I didn't see or talk to Pete again. I would think of him every now and then, usually when I saw the Marx Bros.
Then when I saw he was on Classmates, I sent him a few e-mails, but never got a response. I guess he didn't see them. Then when I started organizing the 35th Reunion,
I specifically made sure he got an invitation. So when I saw his name on the Visitors List, I brightened...
only to be devastated after reading the RSVP that you must have sent.
Even though we never saw each other again after High School, I will truly miss him and feel sad that he doesn't brighten our world any more.
All my sympathies go out to you and James. I'm attaching Peter's Yearbook picture, just in case he never got the nerve to show you himself..;-) I will also post it along with some others in the Photo Album.
Again, my deepest sympathies, and thank you for letting us know.
Alan Chapin
Roosevelt High School
Class of 1974
Yonkers, NY
Heather Bridges
August 7, 2008
My Darling Peter,
Happy 51 Month Wedding Anniversary! I miss you so much, my love, and I never stop thinking of you. Please know that you are always in my heart.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
June 15, 2008
Another Father's Day without you . . . my darling, you are so deeply loved and missed. I carry you in my heart always and I know you are always with me. James reminds me more and more of you each day. He is your legacy and you should be most proud.
With all of my love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
June 1, 2008
Well, my love, it has been 2 years today since you left this Earth and returned home to our Heavenly Father. In many ways, I feel like it was just yesterday when we were planning our wedding and awaiting James' birth. Yet, there are many times where I feel like it has been 10 years since I heard your voice or felt you hold me. I guess that's because I miss you so deeply it defies description. Please know, my darling, that I am always thinking of you and I will always love you.
Your wife,
Heather
Rebecca Raymond
May 8, 2008
My dear friend....
You always knew this day would come, when I would be able to say I am going to be a mom :) Thank you for putting in a good word for me up there and fighting for me to have my babies...yep, I said babies!!
Not a day goes by when I don't think of you, Heather and sweet James.
You and your family will forever be in my heart.
Rebecca
Heather Bridges
May 7, 2008
Happy 4-Year Wedding Anniversary, My Love! I miss you and love you always!
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
April 8, 2008
Happy Birthday, Darling! James and I will have cake in your honor this evening. I only wish we could celebrate with you, but I know you are with God and having a wonderful celebration in Heaven.
With all my love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
April 7, 2008
Happy 47-Month Anniversary, My Darling! Words cannot describe the depth of the eternal love I feel for you, or how deeply I miss you each and every day. You are my heart and soul.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
March 7, 2008
Happy 46-Month Wedding Anniversary, My Darling! You are always on my mind, in my heart and you live forever in the face, smile, eyes, personality and laughter of our precious son. I love you forever.
Love,
Heather
Mary Haynes
March 2, 2008
Dear Heather, Your comment in Murray's guest book that he and Peter are now performing show tunes for God made me smile, and I found it very comforting. I always told Murray that it was taking an eternity for him to read music! Well, I guess I may have been literally correct, though I did not want to be. Murray admired Peter greatly and, as I have told you before, you are a hero and model for me for the courage you have shown. I am just beginning the journey which you have been on for almost 2 years. I will probably look at this site often to read your beautiful letters to Peter when I think I am journeying alone.
Heather Bridges
February 14, 2008
Happy Valentine's Day, My Darling! I never dreamed how amazing and wonderful love could be until I met you. I love you every second of every minute of every hour of every day and I always will. Thank you for loving me.
With all my heart,
Heather
Heather Bridges
February 7, 2008
Happy 45 Month Anniversary, my love! I love you always and forever!
Your wife,
Heather
Heather Bridges
December 24, 2007
Merry Christmas, Darling! Thank you for the beautiful music you recorded and left behind as a precious gift for all who hear it. You were truly with me at church tonight. I miss you more than words could ever say and I love you with all of my heart.
Love, Heather
Heather Bridges
November 14, 2007
My Darling Peter,
James and I moved back to our home 11 days ago and we are so thrilled to be back. I only wish you could see the beauty God has given us from the ashes that the devestating fire created. Thank you for sharing your faith with me and teaching me to trust in the Lord - - that is what got me through these past 4 months. I love you with all my heart.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
October 31, 2007
My Love,
Happy Engagement Anniversary! Halloween will always be a special day for me because it is the day you asked me to share my life with you! I am so proud to be your wife and love you with all my heart and soul. Thank you for loving me.
Your wife,
Heather
Jeremy Morel
October 9, 2007
Dear Heather,
I am a colleague of Peter's from Southern New Hampshire University. I was a member of the SNHU "Singers" and one of Peter's many admirers. A music and theater enthusiast myself, I enjoyed many a lunchtime conversation with Peter. He spoke fondly of you, and though we've never met, I feel like I know you well. Peter shared his website with me long ago, and while sorting through my bookmarks, I thought I'd pay a visit, just to see if I might be able to catch a fond memory of my friend. What a surprise to see that you've carried on his hobby, and made quite a fitting tribute to him!
I just wanted to let you know that I admired your husband greatly, and I know he's smiling down from Heaven each and every day.
May God bless you, your beautiful son and your family.
Be well,
Jeremy Morel
Heather Bridges
October 9, 2007
My Precious Love,
Today is James' third birthday! It seems just yesterday we were holding our newborn son in our arms. I remember how proud you were and how many pictures you took! Thank you for loving me and for letting me be the mother of your son. He continues to remind me more and more each day of you.
With all of my love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
October 7, 2007
My Darling Peter,
Happy 41-Month Anniversary, my love! You are always and forever the love of my life. I miss you and love you and will always be proud to say that I am Mrs. Peter Bridges.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
September 7, 2007
My Darling Peter,
Happy 40 Month Anniversary, my precious love! You are always and forever the man of my dreams, the one who makes my heart sing, and the love of my life! I am so proud to be your wife and I miss you every second of every minute of every hour of every day!
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
August 27, 2007
My Precious Love,
Another birthday without you . . . you know, I miss you everyday, but on these special days, I miss you even more. I wish you were here. I love you with all my heart.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
July 5, 2007
My Darling Peter,
On Tuesday of this week, we lost our house to a devastating fire. James lost most of his belongings and much of your musical equipment and books were lost. But, thankfully, we recovered many of our reminders of you. I just praise God that James and I are safe and were not home when the fire started. Please watch over my precious pets that have joined you in His Holy Presence. I love you with all my heart.
James and Heather Bridges
June 17, 2007
Happy Father's Day, Daddy! We love you so much! We miss your kisses, your hugs, your laughter, your kindness, your music - - we miss you every second of every day! Enjoy your day as you celebrate with God!
Love,
James and Mommy
Heather Bridges
June 7, 2007
My Love,
Happy 37-Month Wedding Anniversary! I love you more than you'll ever know and I miss you all the time.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
June 1, 2007
My Precious Peter,
Well, darling, today marks the one year anniversary of your return to our Father In Heaven. Many people told me as time passed, not having you here would get easier, but the truth is, I miss you MORE each passing day, not less. I thank you for all you gave me - - your love, your friendship, inspiration, laughter, faith, and our beautiful son. Be at peace with God and know that I will always love you with every fiber of my being.
With All My Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
May 20, 2007
My Darling Peter,
What a day - - James sang his first solo in church today! He held the microphone and sang "Walking In the Light of God" from beginning to end. Pretty impressive for 2 years old! I know you would be so proud, and I know that you were there with us! I love you with all my heart!
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
May 7, 2007
Happy Annniversary, My Love!
It's hard to believe that 3 years ago today, we were married! Time surely passes quickly. I am so blessed to be your wife and so thankful that God brought us together. You are the most wonderful man I have ever known and I will always love you more than words could say. I am so proud to be your wife and the mother of your son. I miss you and love you, my Pookie Pajookie.
Love Always,
Heather
Heather Bridges
May 2, 2007
My darling,
One year ago today, you had your liver and kidney transplant. What a miracle that was! I remember your joy when you got the news that afternoon - - we wept together and held each other. It was the perfect end to a perfect day - - you were up, alert, talking. Pastor Lynne had come to see you and you had chatted with her all day about ideas you had for the church. It was also the day you promised to bring Godspell to FBC Bradford. It is so hard to believe that a whole year has passed since that day. A lot has happened and a lot has changed. But there is one thing that will never change - - I love you forever and will always be devoted you.
Love,
Heather
Jennifer Holbrook
May 2, 2007
My dear friend -
Well, I did it...even though I thought it couldn't be done, I finished my Master's degree. I'll be returning "home" to the east coast in just over a month.
Your endless joy of teaching has guided me these past 4 years as I have taught in Los Angeles and I'm looking forward to bringing that back east when I teach in Boston next year. Know that you are missed everyday and are in my heart. When I hear songs on the radio that you prepared me to sing or I hear anything by Irving Berlin my thoughts immediatly go to you and your lovely family.
Heather and James I'll be sure to come up and visit as soon as I get back! I can't wait to see the two of you!
Much love always,
Jennifer
Heather Bridges
April 29, 2007
My Precious Love,
I just wanted to say that I miss you terribly and I wish you were here. But, my darling, I know that you are at peace with God and that makes me very happy. Please know that you are loved and thought of all the time.
With all of my heart,
Heather
Heather Bridges
April 16, 2007
Hello My Love,
Yesterday was the final performance of Godspell. I am sure you were watching. Thank you for leaving us such beautiful recordings of the score to use for the show. It really felt like you were there with us. I love you with all my heart, and I miss you so much.
Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
April 8, 2007
Happy Easter, Happy Birthday and Happy 35-Month Wedding Anniversary, My Love! Such a lot to celebrate today! My only wish is that you could be here with us to celebrate. But I know you are having quite a celebration with Our Father In Heaven as well. Maybe we'll be playing "Christ the Lord Is Risen Today" at the same time today - - me on the FBC organ and you on the heavenly organ! Please know how much I love you and miss you every second of my life. James and I will be having a cake to celebrate your birthday tonight so listen for when we sing to you, darling!
With All of My Love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
March 17, 2007
Happy St. Patrick's Day, My Darling! Meeting you, falling in love with you, marrying you and having your child was the luckiest thing that ever happened to me! You will always be my four-leaf-clover and I will love you forever!
With All Of My Heart,
Heather
Heather Bridges
March 7, 2007
Happy 34-Month Wedding Anniversary, My Love! It is hard to believe that this Sunday marks the one-year anniversary of the last church service you played in Bradford and next Monday marks the anniversary of the day that this roller coaster ride of hospital trips and ups and downs began. Where did a year go? I don't know. . . what I do know is that I will always love you more than words could ever express and I miss you every second of every minute of every hour of every day. Happy Anniversary, Darling!
Heather Bridges
February 14, 2007
Happy Valentine's Day, My Love! As I sit home with James today during a nasty Noreaster storm, I find myself remembering Valentine's Day last year, when you tricked me into thinking you had forgotten about Valentine's Day, only to send me a beautiful flower arrangement at work. I just love you so much and I miss you more than words can express.
With all my love,
Heather
Mark Zettler
February 8, 2007
I was saddened to learn of Peter's passing just a few weeks ago. As an Ithaca College graduate, I read of Peter's death in the quarterly journal we all receive.
Upon reading that I immediately started to reminisce about my life at Ithaca College and the times I spent with Peter and other friends who have written in this guest book.
I will always remember Peter as a funny, happy and very talented fellow. Two vivid images come to mind that typifies what, to me, Peter Bridges was all about:
1. As music majors we all practiced a lot. As a percussion major I often found myself up on the top floor of the music school in the band room at all hours of the day and night. Across from the band room was the auditorium/concert hall, where the organ resided. Of course Peter spent time practicing as well (truth be told, not all that much time!), so I often found him in there banging away on some “serious” music. Upon seeing me (or anyone else for that matter) enter the stage, the most sacred of tunes instantly turned into “Take Me Out To The Ballgame,” or “Charge!” or any number of truly hilarious tunes that were never far from Peter’s fingertips. Ford Hall never sounded quite as good as when it sounded like Yankee Stadium (or better, Shea Stadium for Peter) or an old time roller rink as Peter would shout, “Ladies’ choice, pick a partner…!” To me, my four years at Ithaca College were never funnier than those brief moments watching Peter’s magic fingers at the keyboard, playing something so incredibly silly on such a “serious” instrument, with that twinkle in his eye and that sly little chuckle that turned into a much larger belly laugh as the audio gag continued on and on. Just a few years ago, I brought my daughter to campus for a tour and we wound up in a darkened Ford Hall. I remember thinking of Peter and those sounds he insisted the organ make that were just so hilarious, so wrong and yet, so right. I am sure those tunes reverberate there still. Well, at least I hope they do!
2. As I recall, Peter was a “chef” at a Ground Round restaurant in downtown Ithaca for a time. Of course we would go in there to eat and see Pete. There he would be surrounded by food! I would order my customary hamburger and we’d sit and laugh and eat lots of peanuts and popcorn while the “chef” did the same. One day my hamburger arrived and as I took a bite what did I find? A hair embedded right in the center of the burger. YUCH! Peter’s answer to the problem – LAUGHTER!! He thought it was hilarious and looking back on it, in a strange way, I suppose it was. Needless to say, I never ate there again. Sorry Pete – not your fault, but no more Ground Round burgers.
Though I probably haven’t seen Peter since about 1980 or so, I still remember him as a fun and funny and very talented friend. His passing brings thoughts of my own mortality and memories of a time in my life that may have been my very best. It was good to have Peter Bridges be part of those times.
My condolences to Peter’s wife, son and his extended family.
Heather Bridges
February 7, 2007
My Precious Love,
Happy 33 Month Anniversary! I miss you so much and not a second goes by when you are not in my thoughts!
We started Godspell rehearsals at church on Sunday. What a joy it was to hear your recordings of the score and sing with them . . . it was like having you there with us!
James is growing up so fast - - he is an incredible little boy - - just like his Daddy! You will be proud to know that his new favorite song is "September". He is especially proud that it is "Daddy's music."
I love you with all my heart.
Love,
Heather
Michelle Cosulich-Giordano
January 29, 2007
I was a student of Mr. Bridges in the mid-80's at Roosevelt Junior High in Westfield. He was, by far, the best and most involved teacher that I had ever had. I remember our early morning Sharps and Flats rehearsals and the beautiful music we made. None of that would have happened without Mr. Bridges. He was one of those rare teachers who was there for the love of his students and the beautiful music he made. While it has been many years since I have spoken with him, I have thought of him fondly throughout the years. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Heather, please know that I will keep you and James in my thoughts and prayers. Michelle Cosulich
Heather Bridges
January 22, 2007
My Darling Peter,
What a joy to read all the entries from your close friends from college. I feel as I though I am there with you when I read them. And, boy have I laughed, because their stories are just so you and they show many of the things about you that made me fall in love with you!
I was not at all surprised to learn that you watched soaps every day in the dark - - how often did I come home to find you and the baby lying in a dark living room watching "Judging Amy" while you ate chips and salsa? And just how many movies made you cry - - Gone With the Wind, Miracle on 34th Street, White Christmas, It's a Wonderful Life. I loved that about you and I especially loved how I'd ask you why you were crying and you'd start to laugh and cry at the same time and say, "it's just so beautiful!" I would have loved to have tried one of your infamous chocolate cream pies - - but I can attest to your steak dinners and your friends are right - - they were the best!
I could go on forever listing all the wonderful things about you . . . what a great Dad you were, how romantic you were remembering our engagement anniversary and wedding anniversary every month, how much fun you were every second we were together! Even in the hospital your sense of humor was unflappable! Simply put, you were the most remarkable, amazing, talented, funny, loyal and loving man I have ever known and I will always love you with all of my heart and soul. I miss you more deeply than words can describe, my "pookie pajookie", and I am so very proud of you.
With all of my love,
Heather
John Hooks
January 22, 2007
Heather, and my beloved IC companions. It is hard to believe that Pete has left us. It is harder still to realize that 30 years have passed since we shared some many memorable moments with, without question, the most easy-going, unflappable, and hilarious of our group -Pete Bridges.
As many of you know, Pete and I lived fairly close to each other in Westchester County, NY and often shared rides to and from IC on infamous Rt 17. We had rest stops preplanned to take advantage of a HoJo's or Pizza Hut, or any of the fast food restaurants we frequented (I think I still have a credit on my Saga Meal card, because we only ate at the IC caf on "steak nite").
Pete and I shared a love of food (I had a metabolism to match back then!) and organ music (Arguably, Pete was the best Organ major we had until "E. Power Gower" came on the scene!).
Perhaps the funniest moments on our 4+ hour journey were when Pete would lead me into a restaurant as though I were blind, and leave me alone to make my way to the table all the while bumping into other patrons and apologizing for knocking over their drinks or silverware. Pete would laugh so hard I thought he would soil his pants.
I'd give anything to be able to act out that childish prank and others with him just one more time, but alas, it will need to wait until we can do so together at the Lord's table.
Steve Kimmons
January 22, 2007
A few of the comments I've read since I wrote my entry reminded me of two other funny memories of Pete:
Dave Wilbur mentioned Pete's love for accompanyiing. There was one
particular piece that Pete will forever be tied to - the Eccles Sonata. I'm not sure what instrument it was written for originally, but I do know that it's been transcribed for practically every solo instrument. Pete learned the accompaniment during our sophomore year, and was thereafter called upon by EVERYONE who performed the piece for the next two years! He was so identified with the piece, that some of us called him "Eccles the Clown"!
In the days before computers, inserting text into the middle of an
already written paragraph meant retyping the entire paper - something Pete REFUSED to do. Instead, he would use a phrase like "Oh, by the way" and tack on his additional thought at the end of the paper, without having to retype anything. Is it any wonder that he had to retake English several times - and even wound up taking "English as a Second Language" at Tompkins Cortland Community College!
Bob Schwartz
January 19, 2007
I met Pete during my Freshman year at Ithaca College. Along with John Hooks, Dave Wilbur and Steve Kimmons, we had a lot of great times. Pete use to love to watch professional wrestling (OK, it wasn't really professional") on Saturday nights...and we would all get a big kick out of the acting. While I have not seen Pete since Ithaca, I have great memories of our friendship He was an extraordinary musician, organist and friend. I was shocked to read of his passing. Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with you and James.
Bob Schwartz
Ithaca College
Class of 1979
David Wilber
January 19, 2007
Dear Heather: My deepest condolonces to you and James on Peter's passing. I was Pete's college roommate for two and a half years at Ithaca College. I have so many fond memories of Pete I don't know where to start.
We would often go out for dinner even though our parents had paid for the meal plan. Our good friend, Steve Kimmons, would often scold us for this "frivolous" spending. Many times after going to bed at night I would comment that I was hungry. That's all Pete needed to hear. We'd be off to Howard Johnson's at 12:30 am for a late night ice cream sundae or sometimes a full meal (no wonder I gained 40 pounds in college). Pete loved chocolate cream pies so we often made them in the 3rd floor mens room of the East Tower where the only sinks were (real whipped cream of course, Pete wouldn't have it any other way). When we moved to an on campus apartment Pete often prepared the greatest steak dinners I have ever had. Those are only a few of the food stories. Pete simply loved to eat.
I traveled with Pete several times to his home in Yonkers where we would play for the church services at the First Baptist Church in Bronxville. We also played for several church social functions. I still have a cassette tape which Pete's father labeled P and D at FBC. Pete was a tremendous musician who enjoyed accompanying people for their recitals. Pete accompanied me on all three of my recitals and played along with another college friend, Pat Dorian, at my wedding.
Pete was a huge New York Met's fan. On many of my trips to Yonkers, Pete and I would go to all of the Met's games in a weekend series. Before each game we would stop at Albaneses to get three subs for the game (back to the food thing again). According to Pete we could only eat them at certain parts of the game (beginning, end of 3rd inning, end of 6th inning) which we did.
When the snow flew in Ithaca, Pete, John Hooks and I would go out to a parking lot in John's volkswagon. John would get the car up to 30 mph and I'd pull the handbrake sending us into a wild spin. Because of his size Pete insisted on sitting in the back seat because he thought the car spun better with more weight in the back. Not sure if the physics of that is correct but we sure had fun. How foolish when I think back at it now.
Pete loved Soap Operas. He made sure to schedule his classes in the morning so he could be back in the room by 1:00 for 3 hours of soaps. He closed the blinds so the room was as dark as it could be, got into bed instructing his friends to not bother him. At 4:30 I'd come back to the room to get Pete for dinner (food again).
I certainly wish that I had made more of an effort to contact Pete. I was in Franklin, New Hampshire conducting an honor band last March and thought of Pete as I drove through New London.
Please accept my condolonces Heather and may God Bless you and James.
Steve Kimmons
January 17, 2007
I first met Pete during a firedrill between the two tower dorms during our first semester at Ithaca College in the Fall of 1974. Since we were both music majors, we had been aware of each other, but during this particular conversation, we clicked. One thing we quickly realized is that we were both unhappy with our current roommates. It became almost immediately evident, that we were destined to be friends - and would be great roommates as well. And so, we were for the next year and a half. Simply put, Pete is central to MOST of my happy memories from Ithaca College during my freshman year and for my entire sophomore year.
Pete taught me true appreciation of the Warner Brothers cartoons - especially Bugs Bunny ("Get down, Bugs!") - and the Little Rascals. Watching these each day became our daily routine before going to the cafeteria for dinner - and I find it impossible to watch either without thinking of Pete. Our biggest laugh was when the film machine at the tv station (old technology) stuck and Stymie's head EXPLODED!
We really hit our stride when we moved from 1305 West Tower to 310 East Tower in our sophomore year. We bought some homemade bunkbeds, so we would have more floor space. I was much smaller than Pete, so I was always in the upper bunk. The bed SHOOK when Pete turned over, and I've often told the story of him talking in his sleep. He never said much - but rather uttered words of encouragement to himself whenever he turned over. ("Okay!" "Let's go!") The funny thing is, at the end of the year when we dismantled the bunk beds, we realized how much MORE room we had without them!
We deeveloped a strong bond with John Hooks and Dave Wilbur, who were both music majors as well and were roommates at the other end of the hall. The four of us were inseparable. The nightly tradition (after viewing Bugs Bunny cartoons and Little Rascal shorts) was to walk down the stairwell from the third floor to the lobby, singing "What a Friend we Have in Jesus" in amazing four part harmony - made even more impressive by the acoustics of a 13-floor staircase! Our rule was the the song began when the third floor closed and ended when the lobby door opened. And we always looked around when we emerged into the lobby, as though we didn't know where the singing had come from.
Another funny memory is our ongoing goof on a guy named Mike Radlauer. We had Mike convinced that Pete's dad was the professional wrestler Superstar Billy Graham. We all bought into the ruse, and I bet, to this day, Mike still believes it!
Pete had a tender side that he wasn't afraid to show. He saw "Gone with the Wind" every chance he got, always sitting in the back row of the theater with a box of kleenex (for his tears.) And the only time he ever got angry with me was when he was watching "Sound of Music" on tv - and I interrupted with a sarcastic comment one too many times.
John Hooks transferred to Pace University after our sophomore year; and I headed to the Ithaca College London Center for the first semester of my junior year. It was only natural that Pete and Dave then became roommates. I know they developed a special bond too; and, sadly, when I returned from London, I felt like the odd man out.
After that, Pete and I drifted apart. Many years later, I became Director of Alumni Relations at Ithaca College, and it gave me the opportunity to catch up with Pete. In 1993, not long after my daughter Emily was born, I dropped in on him at Roosevelt Middle School. Fittingly, the last time I saw Pete was sitting at the piano that day, surrounded by his middle school chorus, making glorious music.
Pete died on my 50th birthday, and I'm so sorry that it took me so long to hear the news.
Heather, I lost my first wife in 1997, when our daughter was not quite 4 years old. I'm pleased to see that you've moved from grief to celebration. Your son deserves to know his Daddy as you did. Pete was a very special man.
To me, he was a special friend more than 30 years ago, but memories remain very strong. Rest in Peace, my Friend.
Heather Bridges
January 15, 2007
My Darling Peter,
I have been thinking about you a lot today. I think about you everyday, of course, but I couldn't think of anything else but you today. I watched our wedding video - - yes, we finally have it - - I received it as a Christmas gift. What a wonderful trip back in time. I can't wait to show it to James when he is old enough to really understand it. I just wanted to tell you how much I love you and miss you and how I proud I am to be Mrs. Peter J. Bridges. You are my heart and soul and love.
With all my love always,
Heather
Heather Bridges
January 1, 2007
Happy New Year, Darling!
I can hardly believe we have begun a year that doesn't have you in it. You have been gone 7 months now and I miss you more and more each day. I love you more than words could ever express. James still talks about you all the time. He was even doing "nice to meet you" the other day - - the last thing you taught him. He was so proud to do it. He loves you very much. Happy 2007, my precious love!
Always,
Heather
Heather Bridges
December 24, 2006
Merry Christmas, my precious love!
What a celebration you must be having in Heaven with our Lord and Savior! I miss you more than words could ever say, but I know you were with me as I sang "O Holy Night" at church in Bradford tonight. You are my heart, my soul, and my love. Merry Christmas.
NANCY ADAMS
December 12, 2006
Dear Heather,
I feel as if I know you, even though I have not had the great pleasure of meeting you. I have heard many stories about you and your brothers over the past few months. Your Dad loves all of you so much and cherishes all the memories he has of you as children. I have enjoyed hearing every single story that he would share with me! He has such great pride in you all as adults.
I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your site. It is so well prepared and shares many interesting insights into your lives. It warms my heart to see the love and devotion that was obviously shared by you and Peter. He was a great man and the love of your life and it comes through on each and every page.
Little James is adorable and surely your total life and reason for living. I know how difficult it is to raise a child alone as I raised my daughter alone from the time she was seven days old. In knowing you were having to do it all, I have prayed for your strength, good health, prosperity and peace of mind for many months now and will continue to do so.
I well know the feeling of being in a room full of people and still being overwhelmed with the feeling of being alone. You are a strong lady and have so much faith and this will sustain you. It is so admirable that you are continuing Peter’s work and that people will be blessed to enjoy it still.
I will close for now as I just wanted to drop you a short note. If you care to contact me, I am [email protected].
In addition, wishing you a Blessed and Beautiful Holiday Season.
Sincerely,
Nancy W. Adams
Winterville (near Greenville) NC
Marie Pastore
December 4, 2006
Dear Heather and James
I was a friend of Peter's from Our teenage years at First Baptist Church in Bronxville. Peter and I were Choir mates and we did the youth services with the other teenagers. Peter was musical director for our youth services. I was so sorry to hear about Peters passing. Please know that his friends at First Baptist were praying for him and are now praying for you and James, and also for Joan. I have gone to your website and enjoy seeing the pictures of James as he is growing. I have shared some with members of First Baptist that do not have Internet access.
May God Bless You both.
Heather Bridges
November 30, 2006
My Darling Peter,
It is hard to believe that tomorrow will mark the sixth month anniversary of your return home to Our Heavenly Father. Six months since I've held your hand. Six months since I made the long commute to visit you in the hospital. Six months since I rested my head against your chest and felt your warmth and love. I miss you so much my precious love. Be at peace with God and know that you are deeply loved and deeply missed.
With all my love,
Heather
Faith Dominy
November 8, 2006
To Heather and James,
Peter was a classmate of mine at Ithaca College many years ago, and I still remember him, although I didn't know him well. This evening while looking at class notes on the IC alumni site, I read this sad news. Your love for each other shines through in this website, and I want to extend my sincerest condolences on your loss.
Heather Bridges
November 7, 2006
Happy 30-Month Anniversary, my precious love! I love you and miss you more than words can describe! You are always in my thoughts, always in my heart, and with me in all I do. I love you.
Heather Bridges
October 28, 2006
Hello My Love,
James and I attended Children of Eden at the Federation tonight. The 50/50 was done in your memory and given to James. He ended up with the entire pot due to the kindness of a stranger. The show was beautiful. You would have been proud. I know you loved this show and had planned to musically direct it with Alan directing. And, my darling, truly the only thing missing in the show was you. And, my love, that is a very big thing. I LOVE YOU.
With all my love,
Heather
Heather Bridges
October 21, 2006
My Precious Love,
We had James' 2nd Birthday party today - it was a party for James and Sam. What a wonderful celebration it was!
Yesterday we attended the St. A's Family Weekend show which was dedicated to you. The students did a wonderful job. I know you would be very proud.
I want you to know I never stop thinking about you and wishing you were here . . . especially when I go to events like these. I LOVE YOU MY DARLING PETER AND I ALWAYS WILL.
Love your adoring wife,
Heather
Heather Bridges
October 9, 2006
My Darling Peter,
Today is James' 2nd birthday. He has grown up so fast. I know you are bursting with pride at how beautiful a child he is. And he bursts with pride to talk about his Daddy.
I wish you could be here to celebrate with us. It seems like just yesterday that we were having breakfast in Disney World celebrating James' first birthday with Winnie-the-Pooh and his friends. What a cherished memory that is - - I will hold it in my heart forever.
I want you to know I still love you passionately and I always will. I never stop thinking about you and missing you and it will be like that forever.
Enjoy this day as you celebrate with God -- I am sure you are making beautiful music!
With All My Love,
Heather
p.s. Happy 29 Month Anniversary (2 days ago), Pookie Pajookie!
Heather Bridges
September 23, 2006
Well, sweetie, today is September 23rd. I just had rehearsal number two for our last minute entry of "Christmas Stories" for the Community Theatre festival and I can't stop thinking about you. What I wouldn't give to hear you tell a silly joke or chime in with a musical interlude just when everyone needs a little break. You always knew just what was needed in every situation. I love you so much and I miss you every second of every day. You are my everything - - my heart, my soul, my love.
Mia Laine
September 12, 2006
I was a student of Pete Bridges from 1980-1983 at Roosevelt Jr. High and he inspired me to be a music teacher. He was the best! Simply put...he loved each of his students like his own kids. I'm thrilled that he met you Heather and that he had a son of his own. My deepest sympathy go to you and your family and your friends. I would not be where I am today...an elementary music teacher and a performing pianist without the shoulders of Pete Bridges and his love and great ability to teach music. I am forever grateful for his life! Mia Laine (formerly Mia Ginsberg, WHS, 1985) Now in Phoenix, Arizona ([email protected])
Heather Bridges
September 7, 2006
My precious love,
The Spruce Moose Lodge called today to confirm the reservation for three that you made for Columbus Day weekend - - you never cease to amaze me! The owner told me you had booked it when you were in the hospital and had told her that you were planning to be fully recovered from your surgery by then. No doubt this was a surprise trip to celebrate James' birthday since I didn't know about it. Your thoughtfulness, caring, kindess, and love inspire me every day and this was just another testament to why you are such a deeply loved man. Thank you, my love.
With love from your wife who truly adores you,
Heather
p.s. Happy 28 Month Wedding Anniversary!
Heather Bridges
August 28, 2006
Dear Peter,
Yesterday was my birthday. I had a nice day. Kathy and George and the kids brought me cake and flowers, and Kathy and Caroline took me out for dinner and a movie. It was a lot of fun. I am so lucky to have such wonderful friends.
But as fun as it was, it was not the same without you. Nothing is the same without you. I miss you. You are my heart and soul.
Love always,
Heather
Heather Bridges
August 15, 2006
My Darling Peter,
James told me today "I be like Daddy. I play Daddy's piano. I play Daddy's music." He is so proud of you and he loves you very much. He loves to listen to the Godspell soundtrack whenever when we are in the car. He calls it "Daddy's Songs" and he knows every word to every song and sings along, on pitch no less! He is such a beautiful little boy, and I just want you to know how much he loves you, and so do I.
With all my love,
Heather
Heather and James Bridges
August 3, 2006
Dear Daddy,
We just want you to know we love you and always will!
Love,
Mommy and James
Heather Bridges
July 10, 2006
Pookie Pajookie,
"Guess What? I LOVE YOU! That's JUST it!"
Christopher Wetmore
June 22, 2006
I would like to offer my condolences to you and your family. I worked with Peter in Winnie-the-Pooh at Peacock Players a few years ago. He was a very good musical director and very fun to work with! He was a good man. During rehearsals, it very obvious that he enjoyed working with children and enjoy sharing his gift of music with them. Again, I'm sorry to hear about your loss! Please, let me know if I can do anything for you.
Sincerely, Chris Wetmore ("Owl")
Stephanie (Lessard) Gosselin
June 22, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. He was one of the best musical directors I have ever had the pleasure of working with. His life was much too short. But, he did SO much with it and affected so many people in a positive way...I know his legacy will go on and he will inspire from above. My best to Heather and 'the little one'. Deepest sympathies to all
Wendy & Jack Trommer
June 19, 2006
Our heart goes out to Heather and James for the loss of Peter. Your time together was all too short. May you find strength in the prayers of all of us who are thinking of you.
James and Heather Bridges
June 18, 2006
Happy Father's Day to the best Daddy ever! We love you and we miss you! We hope you are enjoying Father Day's with Grandpa in Heaven! Love, James and Mommy
Michelle (Brolin) Wyrwa
June 13, 2006
Having just learned of Peter's passing, I can't help but be saddened by his passing and yet inspired by all of the people that he touched throughout his life. I was a student of Peter's in Westfield in the 80's, and although much time has passed since we last spoke, I am grateful to this day for all that he taught me both musically and personally. I am in my 30's now, with a 2 year old daughter who shares my love of music. Music brings joy to our lives every day. Peter played such a huge part in developing that love. He also helped me grow as a person in so many ways. He was a teacher and a friend. For all of these reasons, I will always be grateful to him. I am so glad that he found such happiness with a wife and child and my heartfelt sympathy goes out to them. Please know that his spirit will go on forever as his many students and friends pass on their love of life and music to their students, friends and families for generations to come.
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