Nicholas Anthony SPINELLA

Nicholas Anthony SPINELLA obituary

Nicholas Anthony SPINELLA

Nicholas SPINELLA Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Nov. 4, 2009.
SPINELLA, Nicholas Anthony, died November 2, 2009 after a long illness. He was born February 22, 1924 in Richmond, Va. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Beanie P. Spinella; two daughters, Debra S. Eubank and her husband, Thomas, and Joan S. Fargis and her boyfriend, Edward H. Brewer; three grandchildren, Thomas F. Eubank Jr. and his wife, Maryse, Nicholas C. Eubank and Lauren G. Fargis; one great-grandson, Thomas F. Eubank III; twin great-granddaughters, Ali A. and Mia L. Eubank; his brother, Joseph F. Spinella and his wife, Gloria; his sister, Beatrice S. Sykes and her husband, Linwood; his brother-in-law, John A. Passeri; and many nieces and nephews. Nick graduated from Benedictine High School in 1941 and received his law degree from The T.C. Williams School of Law, University of Richmond, in 1949, where he was a member of the McNeill Law Society and Phi Alpha Delta Legal Fraternity. He practiced law for over 50 years with his firm, Spinella Owings & Shaia. He was a charter member of the Henrico County Bar Association and a member of the Richmond, the Virginia and the American Bar Associations. Nick was also a member of the American Academy of Hospital Attorneys and National Association of Diocesan Attorneys. In 1979, he was the recipient of the Tradition of Excellence Award from the Virginia State Bar. In 1982, he served as a member of a legislative study commission of the Virginia General Assembly, which resulted in the enactment of the Natural Death Act. He was an active member of St. Mary's Catholic Church and was General Counsel for the Diocese of Richmond under Bishop John J. Russell and Bishop Walter F. Sullivan. He was a founding member of the Board of Bon Secours St. Mary's Hospital and served as General Counsel for many years. Nick was active in the Richmond Serra Club of Serra International and served as World President of Serra International from 1981 to 1982. In 1982, Pope John Paul II presented Nick the Benemerenti Medal, the highest papal award for laity, and in 1980, he received the Brotherhood Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews. He was a lifelong member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fourth Degree Knights and also served as Grand Knight. Nick was a member of the Giuseppe Verdi Lodge-Sons of Italy and the past president of the Italian and American Business and Professional Society. The family will receive friends Wednesday (today) at 4 p.m. at St. Mary's Catholic Church, where a Christian Wake service will be held at 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian burial will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday. Interment at Mt. Calvary Cemetery. The family wishes to thank the staff of Comfort Care Home, The Haven and Hospice of Virginia for their patient and loving care of our husband and father. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Mary's Catholic Church Building Fund, 9505 Gayton Rd., Richmond, Va. 23229 or the Alzheimer's Association, 4600 Cox Rd. Glen Allen, Va. 23060.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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October 29, 2022

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October 29, 2020

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November 18, 2009

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Jean Marretti

October 29, 2022

Sweet, kind soul...

Jean Marretti

October 29, 2020

Sweet soul of a man...

Bryan Byrne

November 18, 2009

To the Spinella Family:

I am very sorry for your loss.

God Bless you all,

November 17, 2009

Dear Beanie and Family:
This week, I learned of Nick's passing and therefore would like to extend my belated sympathy to you and the family. Nick was a fine man and I had the privilege to know him through his work with the Virginia State Bar Senior Lawyers Conference. The world has lost a great guy and I know you and the family have suffered during and after his passing.
May God bless and comfort you.

Pat Sliger
Virginia State Bar

November 12, 2009

Beanie, Joanie and Debbie:
Thinking of you....Love Ann, Randy, Jordan and Maddie

Doris Roberts

November 7, 2009

Dear Beanie and all the Spinella Family
Please sccept my sinncerest sympathy and know that I hold you in my heart at this time.
He was a fine man.
Doris Roberts

Michael Lazzuri

November 6, 2009

Bee, Joe, and Gloria:

I was informed of Nik's death yesterday (Thursday) by John Barrett. I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and the rest of the family. He is now craddled in the arms of Our Lord and end will be at eternal rest and peace. God bless all of you.

Linnea Nelson

November 5, 2009

Dear Joan,

On behalf of the VAIS Conference Planning Committee, I send our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Your dedication during such a difficult time is appreciated. I hope that you have time to be with your family. All my best in the days to come. Linnea Nelson

November 4, 2009

Even though it was under difficult circumstances, it has bee a pleasure to get to know you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss....we only wish we had know you and Nick earlier. Betty, Herb and Sherry-Esther's family.

November 4, 2009

Even though it was under difficult circumstances, it has been a pleasure to get to know you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss....we only wish we had know you and Nick earlier. Betty, Herb and Sherry-Esther's family.

November 4, 2009

Dear Beanie and the entire Spinella family,

We wish we could make everything better for you and that we could make your hearts feel light again, and bring big smiles on your faces.

Unfortunately, there are no magical solutions, no magic wand and no magic words. Only time, and the love you'll hold in your hearts forever for Nick, will provide you with the strength that you'll need to get through each day.

His love and special memories will live on through many generations to come. Try to keep things in perspective and realize that you were blessed with many years of happiness with friends and family and a beautiful marriage for 61 years filled with lots of fun. With your strong, inner qualities, wisdom, and optimistic outlook, we know you'll be okay. You have a loving family and the Haven family who loves you and will always be here for you.

We love you and feel your pain. Thank you so much for the opportunity of getting to know Nick and each of you. Each of you have touched our lives in a very special way and will always have a special place in our hearts. With our Deepest Sympathy, Your Haven Family, Linda, John, Bertica, Chris and caregivers.

John Donati

November 4, 2009

Yes, I am glad the Spinellas was a small part of my life.What a wonderful
family. Heaven gates are opening for Nick. They paid respects to my wife Jean when she passed in the year 2000.
I would pay my respects to Nick,but I have to bad knees and have trouble walking. We lose but Heaven gains.

Donna Dunn

November 4, 2009

To Cathy and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers! Donna Dunn

Marie Truda

November 4, 2009

Dear Bea & Junie & Family,

Please accept my deepest sympathy on Nick's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

With Love,

Richard McNamara

November 4, 2009

When my father, Peter McNamara, passes away in 1982 I spent a long and lonely train ride from my college to Chicago. Alone at O'hare airport I began to 'lose it.' At that point, I looked up and there were Nick & Beanie in line. On this one occasion they had chosen to wait at the gate rather than in a VIP Lounge. I only wish I could be there for Beanie and the Spinella family the way they were there for me in my time of grief. God Bless and take care of you in this time of mourning.

November 4, 2009

Beanie, Debbie and the Spinella family,

I had the privilege of working for Nick at Spinella, Owings & Shaia for many years. That wonderful smile is what greeted me most mornings. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your entire family. May God bless you and keep his loving arms around you and the entire family. My best memories of Nick are his wonderful family at Halloween coming in all dressed up and scaring everyone and passing out goodies, and that delightful smile of his twinkling eyes and all, watching from his office door. Such a wonderful man, such a wonderful family. Be blessed.

Sherrie Harris

November 4, 2009

JOAN--YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMIY ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!! LOVE, TOM, JUDY, WHITNEY AND RYAN PACE (Keswick, VA)

Shawn Majette

November 4, 2009

Deepest sympathy for the family of our fallen friend and colleague, a credit to the cause of Christ, and His justice.

Shawn Majette and Family

[email protected] Cicherski

November 4, 2009

You were an inspiration to us in the Serra World for many wonderful years. God Bless you and your family.
Bill and Sue Cicherski

Mount Calvary Cemetery

November 4, 2009

To the family of Nicholas A. Spinella,

We at Mount Calvary Cemetery wish to express our deepest sympathies for the loss of your loved one and we pray that God will help to ease your pain in the days to come. We are proud and honored to be chosen as the final resting place for Nicholas. This is a responsibility that we do not take lightly and we pledge the highest level of perpetual care to honor his memory. Please do not hesitate to call us with any concerns or if there is anything we can do to make these difficult experiences any easier.

Jim Glass
General Mgr.
Mount Calvary Cemetery
804-355-5271

David Cheatham

November 4, 2009

My sympathies to Debbie and Tommy in your time of loss. Beth and my thoughts and prayers are with your family. HFF

Tony Sakowski

November 4, 2009

Dear Beanie and family,

I'm in South Dakota but wanted to express my condolences to all on Nick's passing. I have such great memories of our many runs together years ago, and his significant friendship. I wish that I could be with you but I'll not return until later on Thursday. I know that Nick is smiling and running in heaven.

Tony

Sissy Pohlman

November 4, 2009

Dear Beanie, Debbie, Joan, and family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers!! I just wanted to say thank you for giving me the honor and privilage of caring for Nick. I love him and you guys very much and will miss him; but I know that he is in a much better place, happy and healthy once again. Take care, God Bless, and much love, Sissy Pohlman, friend and past ComfortCare Homes Nurse.

JEANINE MARRETTI

November 4, 2009

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

LOVE JEANINE AND MICHAEL

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