James Edmund Toth

James Edmund Toth obituary, Lexington, SC

James Edmund Toth

James Toth Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by South Carolina Cremation Society - West Columbia on Sep. 2, 2023.

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Obituary of James Edmund Toth
COL. JAMES EDMUND TOTH, USMC (Ret.)
James Edmund Toth, 86, died on August 25, 2023, in Lexington, SC, of natural causes.
Jim was born December 22, 1936, in Urbana, IL, to Edmund F. and Georgina (McCallum) Toth. He grew up there, attended the University of Illinois, and started his long military career in the University's Navy ROTC program. Also in Urbana, he was introduced to the bagpipes as a youth and played the instrument his entire life, encouraging and teaching others, including his sons and granddaughter, to play and love them as he did.
Jim married Mary Elizabeth (Molly) Havel in 1958, and is survived by Molly; daughters, Elizabeth (Edward) Maixner, Herndon, VA, and Theresa (Tab) McCullough, Lexington, SC; sons, Robert (Sarah) Toth, Huntsville, AL, and Andrew (Tammy) Toth, San Antonio, TX; sister-in-law, Carol Toth; brothers-in-law, Victor Havel and Bernard (P.J.) Havel. Col. and Dr. Toth have ten grandchildren-Rhabi Maixner and Molly Dillhoff (Kate Mollen); Kyle and Katherine Toth; Megan Keatley (Brandon), Katherine and Kelly McCullough; Richard Stringer, Venice (Amanda) Toth, Victoria Toth; and two great-grandchildren, Marlo and Claire Keatley. He is predeceased by his parents and his brother, Richard.
Jim was proud to serve in the U.S. military for fifty years. In his 30 years as an active-duty U.S. Marine, he served with the Second, Third, and Fifth Divisions; First and Second Air and Naval Gunfire Liaison Companies; and USS Newport News (CA 148) and Second Fleet Headquarters. Besides further assignments to the U.S. Navy and U.S. Army Operating Forces, he served with the Marine and Army Forces of the North Atlantic Treaty Organization and Republic of Korea.
Jim served much of his career in the Air Naval Gunfire Liaison Company (ANGLICO). It was a fire support and liaison unit of the 28 Marine Regiment, and its mission was to establish for Marine commanders a system to coordinate control of fires in support of joint, allied, and coalition forces. When commanding that unit in the late 1970s, he led the development of what became called the "Universal Spotter," a Marine trained to coordinate control fires resulting from artillery, naval gunfire, and/or air attacks.
It's part of the nature of military service that we won't know all of Jim's contributions to his country. At his military retirement in 1988, for example, the U.S. Marines commandant [General Al Gray] called out Jim as the source of the concept [in the 1970s] for the Navy to develop a scheme to preposition small fleets of ships near potential world trouble spots, so that Marine and Navy personnel and aircraft could be flown to them in a flash if and when needed and their equipment would already be in place for them. The first such prepositioned fleet sailed in 1979.
As a retired colonel, Jim chaired the Department of Military Strategy and Logistics at the Industrial College of the Armed Forces (now The Eisenhower School for National Security and Resource Strategy). He took part in several national strategy reviews and the U.S. military's joint doctrine development assignments including for the 1990-91 Gulf War.
As a historian, Jim was passionate about historic preservation and led efforts to save and preserve two historic homes in Virginia, and the Stone Church in Ft. Defiance, VA, where he and Molly retired and lived their best lives for 18 years.
Some might suspect that the assignment of the title "man's best friend" came from Jim Toth. While it was clear Jim loved his kids and grandkids dearly, they often swore he held his dogs in higher esteem. Jim and Molly rescued and took care of many, many dogs in their home over their married life of 65 years.
Jim shouldered huge responsibilities throughout his life, be it as an elder brother, loyal son, devoted husband, or caring father. But his passion was serving his country and leading his fellow Marines in protecting and shaping the boundaries of freedom. That's surely what steered his life, whether serving with his compatriots in Vietnam or elsewhere, or helping a family member or neighbor in need.
South Carolina Cremation Society is assisting the family. Family and friends may sign the online guest book by clicking on the "Tribute Wall" tab above.
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August 23, 2025

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August 23, 2025

Merciful Lord Jesus, grant him everlasting rest.

Mark Helgeson

August 27, 2024

Merciful Lord Jesus, grant him everlasting rest.

Mark Helgeson

August 23, 2024

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let Thy perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen.

Mark Helgeson

June 15, 2024

Colonel Toth, thanks for two great years at 2nd ANGLICO. Thanks for your leadership and your mentorship. I owe my Marine Corps career to you. Semper Fi, sir!

Clair K. Blong

March 10, 2024

I knew Jim when he was on the faculty of the NDU/ICAF. He was an outstanding faculty member and gave good counsel to many of his faculty and student colleagues. A great pleasure to know of his many outstanding contributions to our National Defense over decades.

Frances Mendoza

October 8, 2023

Col Toth was my boss at ICAF. He was a real gentleman. Enjoyed working along side of him for many years.

Debbie Snyder Thompson

September 16, 2023

If this is the man who was Capt. Toth and lived in New River apts. in Jacksonville, NC, around 1958, I remember you fondly. I was 9 years old at the time. We Snyder kids lived next door and loved to hear him play his bagpipes. Sometimes, he would go over into the woods to play so he wouldn't bother anyone, but we kids would run and gather around him as soon as we heard him start playing. Thanks for the memories!

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