Eugene Gordon Hay

Eugene Gordon Hay obituary, Charleston, SC

Eugene Gordon Hay

Eugene Hay Obituary

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Eugene Gordon Hay, 88, of Charleston, SC, retired Executive Vice President of Coburg Dairy, Inc., and husband of Charlotte Hanckel Hay, died peacefully at his home on Friday, March 15, 2013. Funeral services will be held at 1:00 pm on Monday, March 18, 2013, in First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, 53 Meeting Street, Charleston. Following the service, burial will take place at 3:00 pm at Johns Island Presbyterian Churchyard, 2550 Bohicket Road, Johns Island. The family will receive friends at the First (Scots) Fellowship Hall on Sunday, March 17, 2013, from 5:00 to 7:00 pm. Arrangements by J. HENRY STUHR, INC., DOWNTOWN CHAPEL. Mr. Hay was born on February 10, 1925 in Charleston, South Carolina. He was the son of Eugene Gordon Hay and Sarah Motte Legare Clement. Following the Depression, his family moved from Windermere back to the family farm on Johns Island. Mr. Hay's father and his uncle were married to two Clement sisters, and the two families farmed together on their land along the Abbapoola and Stono Rivers. Mr. Hay lost his father at the age of ten and the two families merged together with the seven children being raised as one family. The whole family was very active in the Johns Island Presbyterian Church. After graduating from Johns Island High School, Gordon entered Clemson Agricultural College (Military College) to attain a degree in Civil Engineering. In 1942, during his freshman year, he volunteered for the Navy. As a member of the 28th Naval Construction Battalion (Seabees) he was stationed at Camp Endicott in Providence, Rhode Island. From there, he was shipped to England aboard the Queen Elizabeth to train for the Normandy Invasion. His battalion landed at Omaha Beach the night of the invasion and then moved onto LeHarve and Cherbourg. He returned to the States in January 1945, was married to Charlotte Miles Hanckel on March 17, 1945, and one week later, left for the Pacific and the invasion of Okinawa. Upon his return in January 1946, he and his wife, Charlotte, moved to Clemson to complete his degree. While Charlotte worked at the Clemson Housing Authority to support his education, he earned his B.S. in Civil Engineering in 1949. The couple then moved to Raleigh, N.C., where he worked for the North Carolina Highway Department. In 1950, his father-in-law, Francis Hanckel, persuaded him to join the family business, Coburg Dairy, and return to Charleston. Gordon was responsible for the opening and operations of the following branches: Georgetown, Summerville, Beaufort, Orangeburg, and Myrtle Beach. In 1953, he was elected to the Board of Directors and was subsequently named Vice President in 1955. In 1970, he assumed responsibilities for plant operations and in 1973, he became Vice President of Personnel. In 1985, he became Executive Vice President. In 1987, Gordon was instrumental in the process of building the new plant and relocating the business from West Ashley to North Charleston. He retired in 1991 after 40 years, and remained active as the Vice President and Secretary of the Board of Directors until the business was sold in 1998. Gordon was an elder at First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, having served as a Deacon and chairman of several committees, including the Building and Pastoral Search Committees. He was also a member of Carolina Yacht Club; The Society of Colonial Wars; St. Andrew's Society of Charleston, SC; and Albermarle Supper Club. He was a long time Rotarian, a past president of St. Andrews Rotary, and was named an honorary Paul Harris Fellow. Gordon was an avid horseman throughout his life. He supported his children in many equestrian activities, including horse shows throughout the Lowcountry and events sponsored by the United States Pony Club. He was also a passionate supporter and member of the Middleton Place Hounds during its formative years. Throughout his life, Gordon cherished the time spent with his family and friends at the family property at Abbapoola and Legareville. He is survived by his wife, Charlotte Hanckel Hay; his three children: Charlene Hay Bruce (Billy) of Boykin, SC, Motte Legare Hay Hackman (Tom), and E. Gordon Hay, Jr. (Genny); his son-in-law, Stan E. Baird; seven grandchildren: W. Rankin Bruce III (Shalon), Charlotte B. McAhron (David), Lora A. Baird, Brock E. Baird, Genevieve P. Hay, E. Gordon Hay VI, and W. A. Legare Hay; two great-grandchildren: Macie L. Bruce and Anna R. Bruce; and three sisters: Mary Hay Jenkins, Ann Hay Thomas and Lydia Hay Pederson (Pete). He was preceded in death by a daughter, Polly Hay Baird; a sister, Motte Legare Hay; and two brothers, William Clement Hay and Daniel Ellis Hay, Jr. Memorials may be made to First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, 153 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC 29401; Johns Island Presbyterian Church, 2550 Bohicket Road, Johns Island, SC 29455; or Charleston Area Therapeutic Riding (CATR), 2669 Hamilton Road, Johns Island, SC 29455.

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Kes Woodward

April 15, 2013

My love and prayers to you all, so far away but near to my heart, all these years.

March 18, 2013

Charlene & Billy,
My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May the memories you have with your Dad sustain you at this time.
Prayerfully,
Gayle Hood Zeola
Lake Wylie, NC

Green Acres Services

March 18, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Marie Lambert (Waters)

March 17, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to the whole family. I have many happy memories from being at "the dairy" during high school (First Baptist). He was a kind man to all of us kids and we are better for having known him. God bless you all.

March 17, 2013

E. Gordon was not a BOSS but a friend. I worked with him at Coburg and I found in him a gentleman in all respects and and the whole Hanckel family were Great. I am very proud to have been a member of that Coburg
family. Our thoughs and prayers are with you in these difficult times. Haskell and Shirley Scott, Greenville S.C.

March 16, 2013

Mary Jenkins,

Les and I are so sorry to hear about your brother's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hay family, and the Jenkins family.

Let us know if we can do Anything to help you.

Love,
Country & Mazie III

Connie Walpole

March 16, 2013

Praying for all of you. I will miss Uncle Gordon so much,especially his kindness, smile and twinkle in his eye he always shared with everyone he met!

March 16, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hay family. Coburg Dairy has been a huge part of our lives and he was always someone Kenny admired!

Sherard and Ken Thomas

Sarah (Oliver) Baker

March 16, 2013

I am deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Gordon Hay. He was absolutely one of the finest gentlemen I have ever known. He was my "boss" in the personnel department at Coburg Dairy, and was a very gentle "teacher" who had a unique way of letting you know that you "did the job well, but let me suggest ..." Never did he insult you. He was a good and fair man and mentor. I was raised up with the Hanckel family and my love, thoughts and prayers are with Charlotte, the Hay children and grandchildren. I don't think I have ever known a more loving family. We have lost a great friend and will always remember the strength and character of this fine gentleman. May the Lord bless and comfort the family at this sad time.

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