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John Byrd Obituary
Palm Springs, CA
On July 28, 2019 John Byrd, lll, 63, passed away in Germany while on vacation. He was there on vacation to see friends and family member. Born in Durham, NC on Jan. 1, 1956, John graduated from Northern High School. After graduating he moved to Denver, CO. In his last 10 yrs he lived in Palm Springs, CA. He was self employed for about 24 years. He loved his job, his family and his friends. He was always kind, talented, giving, funny and made everyone he came in contact with feel liked and appreciated. He leaves behind a mother, Myrlene Dicheck; a dad, John (Sonny) Byrd (Dalphna); sister, Becky May (Gerald); Neice, Tammy Hutchins (Stan) Cody and Kyle; nephew, David Wilson (Sheryl) Courtnee and Nathan; many friends, cousins and 3 aunts. Also his High School sweetheart, Liz Johnson. He will be missed but never forgotten! No funeral arrangements at this time.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Byrd
Jim Boutin
July 29, 2020
Not a days goes by! RIP John
Walking the park together... strawberry fields forever
Shawn Bunch
September 26, 2019
We love Sushi Seki
Shawn Bunch
September 26, 2019
Shawn Bunch
September 26, 2019
We truly care about about each other :-)
Shawn Bunch
September 26, 2019
I love this man so much. John has been such a loving inspiration and positive role model in my life. He was always tell me about his family and how much he loves you all. Christmas and holidays were his specialty. We spent a lot of Easters together in NYC and he took me to the top of the WTC for the first time which was my childhood dream. I love him so much and will forever. If anyone would like to reach out to me I would like that. Much love to all his friends and family. Though my heart hurts, Im blessed to have gotten to experience his love. Forever a light in my life. I love you John Byrd.
Harry R Courtright
August 26, 2019
I lived two doors from John here at Palermo and shared many glasses wine and conversation with him over the years. A kind, funny, sweet man who sure knew how decorate a Christmas tree. I will miss him. Blessings dear John.
Rev Paula T Webb PhD
August 26, 2019
To say that I am in shock and saddened at John's passing is an understatement. John had such a joy of life that was so infectious to all who met or knew him, including myself. John was a beautiful man and loving spirit. When he spoke with you, you knew he was 'there' with you and genuinely listened and cared. He will be greatly and deeply missed. The neighborhood here in Palermo will never be the same without seeing his ever-present smile and robust laugh.
Christmas 2018 Idyllwild/PS with Jim Boutin
Jim Boutin
August 25, 2019
John with sister and mom
Becky May
August 24, 2019
Moms birthday 2018
Becky May
August 24, 2019
Christmas 2018 at dads
Becky May
August 24, 2019
Cousins in the desert.
Mary Powell
August 24, 2019
Hiking in PS
Boutin James
August 23, 2019
RIP John!
Jxo
Deborah Butitta
August 18, 2019
Deborah Butitta
August 18, 2019
Deborah Butitta
August 18, 2019
Deborah Butitta
August 18, 2019
Deborah Butitta
August 18, 2019
John's Visit to Indiana
Sharon Cady
August 17, 2019
My heart was incredibly saddened by the news of John's passing. It was evident he was loved by so many. My earliest memories were of playing in his yard when we visited NC from Indiana. Of course, I had a cousin crush on him! As adults we saw each other at family reunions and he was the best. He was always open, warm and funny. His presence always added to the experience. You will not be forgotten, cousin Johnny.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your mother, dad and sister. They will miss you more than words can say.
We were privileged to have John show us around his work when he was doing a conference in Indiana. This is a photo from our lunch.
What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. Helen Keller
Tom Williamson
August 12, 2019
Our hearts are broken here in Berlin. Our beloved John has passed. All our thoughts and prayers go out to all of Johns family and friends. How lucky I was to enjoy John for an entire day here. Although we had conversed, we had not seen each other in years. We had a day together to re-bond. His intelligence, whit and charm were delightful, and his positive energy was absolutely contagious. We joyously laughed our way through the day discussing memories, histories and hopes. This is how I choose to remember my friend John, as a beam of light and love for everyone who touched his life. Taken too soon, and the world is truly darker without his light.
Tom Williamson
Juergen Becker
John in Berlin
Tom Williamson
August 12, 2019
Luke Pilato
August 9, 2019
John was a great friend, mentor and colleague. I don't know if I've come across a more genuine and kind person in all my years. An absolute pleasure to be around EVERY time. We were supposed to work together again at the end of this month and we were both very excited. Like many in our industry I'll never forget John and will miss him always. If there is anything I can do to assist with John's passing please contact me. Rest in Peace John Byrd. Thanks for being you! See you on the other side.
Patricia Espinoza
August 9, 2019
Johnny's smile and that twinkle in his eye will be forever remembered (see attached photo from 1970 of Johnny with cousins Jimmy and John)! Every Barefoot family reunion he attended, he shared himself with us. I have many happy childhood memories of Johnny, and even the last time I saw him in recent years - he hadn't changed! Always a generous and happy person. My prayers and love go out to all that loved him, shared his life, and mourn his loss.
Wayne Romanowski
August 9, 2019
I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news. John and I have been friends and coworkers for 15 years. He is going to be dearly missed by everyone who's life he touched.
My condolences to all of his family. He spoke highly and often of you and I feel like I've gotten to know many of you through stories he shared.
If there are any arrangements for a memorial service please let us know.
Karen Barefoot Heflick
August 8, 2019
Goodbye Cousin Johnny. I didn't see enough of you in recent years and I will miss you dearly. I will always remember the little gifts you sent me when we were kids. I lived so far away from extended family but you always let me know you loved me and missed me. You will always hold a special place in my heart. I love you.
Always in our heart
August 8, 2019
August 7, 2019
Aunt Myrlene, Uncle Sonny, Becky, and family,
My heart is so torn, and broken, at this favored cousin's death. I will mourn Johnny for as long as I live. My favorite childhood memories of playing at his treehouse, laughing, & that gleam in his eyes when he smiled. He never failed to send love notes through life to remind me of how special I am to him, and reminding me to embrace life, forgive, and laugh a lot. I can hardly bare that he's gone. I can rest assure that we'll meet again in heaven. Until that time, I will savor my memories. I will smile again one day, instead of cry. He wouldn't want us to cry about anything.
God bless you dearest family. My heart, and prayers are with you all the way, and every day!
Much love,
Grace Barefoot Hooper
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