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Alton Grayson Obituary

Alton Eugene Grayson "Poppie" MINT HILL - Mr. Grayson, 73, of Mint Hill, North Carolina, went to his eternal home to be with his Lord and Shepherd for eternity on October 22, 2013. Alton was born October 6, 1940 to Wanna Tompkins Grayson and Alton Atwood Grayson. He was preceded in death by both parents, and sisters, Judy Tiller and Joyce Hartsell. Alton was a loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He is survived by his "sweetheart" and loving wife of 40 years, Kathy; a son, Brent and his wife, Rebecca Grayson, of Fort Mill, SC, and their children, Amber and her husband, Lance Matzke, and their son, Aiden, of Indian Trail, NC, Amanda, Ashley and Reid; a daughter, Allison and her husband, Geoff Playford, of Charlotte, NC, and their children, Morgan and her husband, Jeff Rockett, and their daughter, Kylie, of Charlotte, NC, and Meredith Plyler and her fianc , Phillip Hladun, of Mint Hill, NC; a daughter, Dawn Scales and her children, Brian, Brandon and Brittany of Concord, NC; and son, Paul Grayson. Other survivors include his sisters, Brenda and husband, Richard Ferree, of Williamsburg, VA and Barbara Seay of North Augusta, SC; and his brother, Clifford and his wife, Jean Grayson, of Mint Hill, NC. Alton was a gentle, kind, sweet and caring man. He devoted himself to helping others. He truly had a servant's heart. He loved his Lord and Savior, and cherished Psalms 23. Alton was a faithful member of Blair Road United Methodist Church for 37 years. He worked with Southern Bell for 31 years. Alton was also a member of Mint Hill Masonic Lodge #742, Hornets' Nest Car Club, and the National AACA. His family will receive friends from 12:00 until 2:00 p.m. Friday, October 25, at Blair Road United Methodist Church, 9135 Blair Road in Charlotte, with a funeral service to follow at 2:00 p.m. Interment, with Masonic Rites, will follow in Sunset Memory Gardens. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Blair Road United Methodist Church, 9135 Blair Road, Charlotte, NC 28227. Condolences may be offered at www.mcewenminthillchapel.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Oct. 24, 2013.

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Dawn Grayson

November 18, 2014

Daddy It has been a little over a year that you've gone home we all still miss you so very much. There are no words how to explain how our hearts ache when we think about you being gone , but yet our hearts rejoice in the fact that one day we will see you again & the thought that you are not in pain & can breathe & you are so Happy & you are with Jesus in Heaven. What a reunion it will be the day we get to see you again I love you so very much & look forward to the day when the Lord calls my name I will see you again I think about you every day & miss your sweet smile & just to hear you say I love you one more time would be great but I will see you soon Daddy until that day we meet over there I will hold you in my heart I love you Daddy !

October 31, 2013

I worked with Alton for 11 years at Southern Bell and he was always a kind and caring gentleman. He would stop whatever he was doing to help anyone. Even though I didn't know of his passing until after the funeral; Rosemary and I were blessed to have seen both Alton and Kathy a few months ago. Our memories will always be the joy and hugs that we shared at seeing each other. Alton never said an unkind word about anyone and I never heard anyone say an unkind thing about Alton. I remember a quote that says:
"Conduct your life in such a way that in order for people to describe you will require them giving praise to God. Thank you Jesus for Alton Grayson. He finished the race, and He kept the faith. Chaplain Bill & Rosemary Matevie

October 30, 2013

We send our sympathy to the entire family. God Speed. David & Lori Tirey.

October 28, 2013

Kathy and family, I wanted to be with Mott when he came to the service last week, but couldn't get away. Alton and I went from first thru 12th grade together, went to Wilson Grove Church together and he was in our wedding in 1960. And my children were with Allison at LillieMae McCall's. He was a wonderful, caring man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Phyllis (Tucker) Simpson

October 27, 2013

Kathy and family I am so sorry to hear of Alton's passing. It makes me sad to be so very far away here in China and not to be able to
Pay my respects to him but I know Alton was a very Good man and The Lord has him in his house now...
I just learned about this today and I wanted to let you know how sad I feel . You and the family are in my heart.
Tim Tompkins
Hong Kong , China

Gene & Emalene Holder

October 26, 2013

It was such sad news to learn of the death of Alton. We cannot begin to recall all of the fond memories we have shared over 70 plus years as cousins. We cherish all those memories of time spent with the "North Carolina Grayson Clan" We send our heartfelt sympathy to Kathy and family and all of Altons many family members. I can think of a whole lot of people saying "welcome home". Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

October 26, 2013

As friends and fellow church members for several years we had the privilege of seeing Alton's Christ filled spirit. He was a humble person and truly an inspiration and positive influence to all. He will be truly missed.
Ben & Irene Price

October 25, 2013

I have such fond memories of the Grayson family at Wilson Grove Baptist Church. My father performed the marriage ceremony for Alton and his wife, and in going through Daddy's sermons and outlines after his death I found the ceremony he used at their wedding. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. May God's peace and comfort surround you during this time of grief.
Carolyn Digh Griffin

Chris Grayson

October 25, 2013

Praying that the Grayson family will find comfort in each other during this difficult time.

October 25, 2013

Our hearts are so saddened by Alton's passing. Both of you were always so friendly and gracious to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. Neal sends his love as he will be unable to be there today. Neal and JoAnn Helms

Helen Neubauer and Cheryl Pulliam

October 25, 2013

Both of us have such fond memories of the Grayson family while at Northeast. Please know that the entire family remains in our thoughts and prayers at this time. We care.

Richard Gallaher

October 25, 2013

Brent, just heard about your father's passing. He was always such a pleasure to talk to, I don't ever recall him having a bad day. I will never forget his cabinet deliveries on the four wheeler... There is peace in the hearts of all who knew him.

Bill Tompkins

October 24, 2013

Alton was my cousin and my hero as a young boy growing up. I never would have guessed we would in later years work on projects together in Corporate Communications at Southern Bell/Bellsouth. Alton was always the perfect gentleman and great guy. I only realized a few days ago that he was sick and I was so sad to open paper and find he had passed. I am just home recovering from knee replacement surgery and even sadder will no be able to attend his service. I loved Alton and he will always be special and remembered by me. May God be with all his family.

Deloris (Linker) Birmingham

October 24, 2013

I'm sorry to here about Alton's passing and that I will not be able to be at the funeral. I was one of Alton's cousin from his mother's side of the family. While we were in school I always felt that Alton was a Godly man and will be missed by you and the children.

The Agnew family

October 24, 2013

Brent and Rebecca, your Dad was such a nice and good man. We enjoyed getting to know him over the years and will mourn his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Find peace and joy in knowing that he is home now.

Steve, Betsy, Jason & Matt Williams

October 24, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about Alton. He was such a nice and friendly man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Andrea Garrison

October 24, 2013

Kathy & Family, we are so saddened by the passing of Alton. We will truly miss his smiling face and gentle manner. Such a wonderful gentleman. I feel honored to have met him and known him for a few short years. Let me know if there is anything I can do. May God wrap his arms around you all in this hard time. Love to you, Andrea & Harry Garrison

Bill & Bonnie Smith

October 24, 2013

Brent, Rebecca and family
Thinking of you at this time of sorrow. We miss seeing you.

Marty Meredith

October 24, 2013

Brent and Rebecca,
When I learned of the news, I was deeply sad for you both. I have prayed for your strength as God can fill you both with His perfect love. My heart goes out to you. Alton was a very nice and pleasant man. I had the priveledge to get to know him when you brought your dad to our weekly lunches. He had such a positive outlook on life and I enjoyed getting to know him. Brent, you reflect the image of your father and I know he is proud of you for who you are and what you have done with your life and family.

October 24, 2013

Brent, Rebecca and Kathy ,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Alton. You will be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this saddening time. We are here for you. May God be with you! Love,
Mark and Kelly Eudy (Mint Hill, NC)

Corey & Maria McFadden

October 24, 2013

Brent and Rebecca! We are so sorry for your loss and are praying for you and your family!! We love you guys so very much!!!
McFadden Family,

Johnny Lord

October 24, 2013

If a dictionary included a picture for the word "Humility" Alton's picture would be located there as an example! A wonderful man he was; I had the privilege to serve as one of his pastor's for 10 years. May God hold you Kathy in the palm of His hand as you celebrate the life of your wonderful husband. God speed Alton!

Mike & Danya Holthe

October 24, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss, you are and always will be in our thoughts and prayers, We love all of you very much.

Love Always
Mike & Danya

Betty Bradley

October 24, 2013

Your smile and gentle voice made my day ay Auto Fair.A beautiful and loving child of God who shared God's love with all.

Trudy Nett

October 24, 2013

Brent I am so sorry to hear of Alton's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

tommy and sharon thomas

October 23, 2013

Dawn I am so sorry I won,t b able to b there Friday. I am still in the wheelchair and don,t have anybody that can bring me at that time, but please no that u will b in my heart. We love u.may god strengthen u and ur family in this difficult time.

marty smith

October 23, 2013

what a great man! he will be missed! a true gentleman.

Lisa Bodi

October 23, 2013

Geoff, Ally & family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Wish we could be there to help you through this difficult time. We love you.
Ed, Lisa & family

Kathy Harkey

October 23, 2013

So sorry for your loss Dawn and family.Praying for all of you.

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