Name: Visitation for Manuel Vicera Calayo
Start: 2018-06-03T21:00:00.000Z
End: 2018-06-04T00:00:00.000Z
Location: Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home & Rosewood Memorial Park

Manuel Vicera Calayo

Virginia Beach - Manuel Vicera Calayo passed away on May 27, 2018. Manny was born in Long Beach, CA on Feb. 26, 1967.

Manny received degrees from ODU and the UVA. He enjoyed working as the Team Coordinator in the EP Lab at Sentara Norfolk General Heart Hospital with co-workers he considered as family. He will leave a legacy of love, music and laughter to be carried on through the lives of his wife, Tina Calayo, whom he was with for 32 years; and his children, Christian, Gabriel and Noah.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Maria Aurora V. Calayo; sister, Maria Melani V. Calayo; and grandparents, Julio and Taciana Vicera; Felix and Delfina Calayo. He is survived by his father, Manuelito Calayo; and siblings, Melina Heitkamp, Marydawn Bovatsek and Mitchell Calayo; and other extended family members.

Visitation will be held from 5 to 8 p.m. Sun, June 3rd at Rosewood Kellum Funeral Home. The Funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. on Mon, June 4th at the Church of St. Gregory the Great with burial to follow in Rosewood Memorial Park.. You may offer condolences to the family at www.kellumfuneralhome.com

In lieu of flowers, donations are being accepted to support the college education of his 3 sons 'Manny Calayo Family Education Trust' Address: Wells Fargo Advisors, 208 Golden Oak Ct., Ste 300, Va Bch, VA 23452

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 1, 2018.

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Dominic Messerly

July 2, 2018

Tina,
It seems like any words of condolences I might offer at a time like this could never be enough. I just dont know where to begin and exactly what to say, but I want you to know that Im thinking of you and your kids, Marydawn, Melina, Mitch, Mr. Calayo and all of the Calayo family. Im hoping that somehow, someday youll be okay. Manny was such a unique and amazing guy and I know that Ive never met anyone quite like him. For as talented as he was, he seemed to be equally humble and genuine. As impressive as he was as a musician, he was never above helping someone else learn to play. As far as I could tell, he was a hard-working guy but he was also the life of any party, and he knew that life was meant to be enjoyed. It seems like he was the ringleader of any fun that was going on. More importantly though, he was a dedicated father and husband and it was obvious that he loved you much more than words can say. The last time I saw you guys I dont even remember him talking much about his siutation. I think he spoke more about music, his family members , your kids, some politics, but he also took plenty of time to joke around. Ill never forget the time you two picked me up at the bus station on a surprise visit early on a Saturday morning. And I will never forget getting to play music with Manny even though it was just one brief occassion. It probably didnt mean much to him but it was a huge highlight for me. It really doesnt seem possible that he is gone and it makes me think of how unfair life can be. Manny was a class act, an admirable person, and I was extremely lucky to have known him.
Sincerely,
-Dominic

The Smelik Family

June 6, 2018

Tina, Christian, Gabriel, Noah and Calayo Family ~ Our hearts are with you all now as you grieve the loss of a truly amazing husband, father, brother, son, and friend. Although we only had the privilege of spending a handful of days with your beautiful family -- your fun-loving, welcoming nature made us feel like lifelong friends. Manny was one of the most warm, genuine, talented people we've ever met and he will be deeply missed. Sending love and prayers.

Jim Bovatsek and Family

June 4, 2018

We always enjoyed your company, music, and infectious smile when visiting for Thanksgiving over the years.
Rest in peace in a better place...or better yet keep making the music. Tina, our condolences to you and your family and of course to all the Calayos.

DeAnne Grove

June 4, 2018

To Tina Calayo and family - I am so sorry for you and your family's great loss. I agree with Tracey in that we all knew Manny was your soul mate. You both have done a wonderful job raising your boys and even though the days ahead will be difficult, I hope your 3 sons will never forget how loved they were by their dad. I pray that all of you can feel God's arms embracing you and giving you the strength and courage to take one day at a time, one step at a time and one minute at a time as you live through this challenging chapter of life. Rely on God's strength and the wonderful memories you all made - keep them alive and celebrate Manny as the wonderful husband, father, son and friend he was to all and how he will remain in your hearts forever. Please know that prayers are being sent your way. God Bless You Tina! Love, DeAnne Grove

Randy Padilla

June 4, 2018

Condolences, thoughts and prayers to the Calayo Family from the Padilla Family.

Mirna Medina-Gonzalez

June 3, 2018

Always in our prayers. You will be missed♥

Kim Custis

June 1, 2018

Tina, my heart goes out to you and your family. Manny was a very kind person who will be truly missed by all who knew him. Remember all the good times, and he'll never be truly gone. Keep God in your thoughts and heart, and He'll see you through. God Bless you and your family.

Hargrave Family

May 31, 2018

What light you brought to this world Manny. We close our eyes and hear that great voice and vibrant guitar play. I am honored to have shared that time playing music with you when we had the chance. What a great soul you are, you will stay forever with all who knew you.
The Hargrave family

Danna Hogge

May 31, 2018

Thoughts and prayers for your family. To say he will be missed is an absolute understatement.

Brooke Fox

May 30, 2018

And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,
Bear you on the breath of dawn,
Make you to shine like the sun,
And hold you in the palm of His Hand.
For to His angels He's given a command,
To guard you in all of your ways,
Upon their hands they will bear you up,
Lest you dash your foot against a stone.

❤❤❤

Tracey Kane

May 30, 2018

To the Calayo Family, It is hard to put into words how my heart is breaking for you all. Manny was a ray of sunshine for all who crossed paths with him. He was so positive, funny, humble, and genuine. He made an impact on lives and certainly will be missed by all. Tina, my sweet friend, please know that I am sending love to you I am so sad, I know Manny was the center of your heart and your soulmate. May his memories live on and know that death can not take the love you both shared away. Christian, Gabe, and Noah, your father loved you all so, your bond is unbreakable. I pray you all continue your love for music just like your dad, he is looking from above and will always watch over you. Keep his legacy pure and honorable. You are all in my prayers, May you feel God's love and peace only he can bring during this time of suffering. Love Tracey Kane

Chelle Zulick

May 28, 2018

Dear Family, Manny will forever be missed. A kind and gentle soul, a special man, husband, father, son, brother and friend. May gods grace be with you. Prayers and Blessings. Love Chelle