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RICHARD STOPHER Obituary

RICHARD C. STOPHER, 89, of New Haven, died on Wednesday, May 11, 2011, at The Cedars, Grabill. He served in the U.S. Navy during World War II. He was a member of American Legion Post 330 and VFW Post 2457. "He was a proud and loving father who enjoyed ice fishing, golf, bowling and the annual reunion of his Navy LST 266 shipmates." Surviving are his sons, Richard Stopher Jr. of New Haven, Roger Stopher of Rome City and Ronald (Pam) Stopher of Fort Wayne; daughters, Judy (John) James of Harlan, Kathleen (Richard) Renier of New Haven, Joyce Ruckman of Fort Wayne, Carolyn Thomas of Pekin, Ill., and Brenda Stopher of Phoenix, Ariz.; 12 grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; and brother, Walter (Bonita) Stopher. He was preceded in death by his wife of 54 years, Elsie, in 1995; and siblings, Harriet, Ruth and Charles. Funeral service is 11 a.m. Tuesday, May 17, 2011, at Hockemeyer Funeral Home, Harlan, with calling one hour prior. Calling also from 2 to 8 p.m. Monday at the funeral home. Burial in Harlan Memorial Cemetery, Harlan, with graveside military service conducted by American Legion Post 330, New Haven. Preferred memorials to Heartland Hospice or American Red Cross Disaster Relief.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers from May 14 to May 15, 2011.

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Lyndsay Venturi

May 19, 2011

My deepest sympathy to your family. Your dad sounded like an amazing guy. Thinking of you.
Carolyn's friend and co-worker,

May 17, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to the family. Brenda you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Brian and Julie Jurgens

May 16, 2011

For Brenda and all the members of your family our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Dean and Morgan Strause

Julie Elliott

May 16, 2011

Brenda, you are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of grief.

God Bless your family.

May 15, 2011

Our family is saddened to hear of the loss of your dad Dick. He will surely be missed. Continued thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Richard Thibeault, Judy Kadeg, Sharon Buzzeo & Phyllis Holdsworth

judy scott

May 15, 2011

Sorry ot here about ur dad Brenda my deepest sympathy are with u and ur family..

Gail Hadley-Goggin

May 15, 2011

My deepest sympathy as well as thoughts and prayers to the family. I pray for comfort during your time of grief and sadness. I also pray that the wonderful memories you have of your dad will warm your hearts and give you peace.
Gail Hadley-Goggin (classmate with Ron)

LeRoy & Kathy Samra

May 15, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Dean Thomas & Brie Kelly

May 14, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lisa-Burrier Underwood

May 14, 2011

I remember seeing your dad always out in the yard taking care of your house. He always seemed to have a smile on his face. My deepest sympathies to the family at this time.

Kathy and Richard Renier

May 13, 2011

Dad, I hope you're resting in peace now. How I will miss you! You were always there when we needed you. Give Mom a hug for me, and let her win once in a while at cards! Love you bunches, Kathy

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