Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
John Povey Obituary
He was born June 17, 1990, in Nashua, N.H., the son of Gregory Povey and Martha Crozier-Povey.
He was a graduate of Fair Haven Union High School Class of 2008.
John owned and operated Povey Painting in Castleton.
He enjoyed snowboarding and skiing and being a musician. He was much loved by his family.
He is survived by his father, Gregory Povey of Bomoseen; his mother, Martha Crozier-Povey of Castleton; by his sisters, Maya L. Povey of Castleton and Kaitlyn Povey and her son Jah-Dai Povey of Wolcott, Vt.; by his maternal grandmother, Mary-Lou Crozier of Lyndeborough, N.H.; by his god mother, Donna St. Germain, also of Lyndeborough; by his uncle, Jay Povey and his wife Patricia of Hampstead, N.H.; by his aunt, Ginnie Plourde and her husband Jim of Greenfield, N.H.; also by numerous cousins and friends.
He was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, David and Nancy Walsh, and an uncle, Scott Crozier.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, December 13, 2013, at 5 p.m. at the Ducharme Funeral Home, located at 1939 Main St., Castleton. The Rev. Elsworth Comins will officiate.
Visiting hours for family and friends will be held from 3 p.m. until the time of the service at 5 p.m.
Memorial contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home.
www.ducharmefuneralhome.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for John Povey
Sponsored by dad.
Carly Schneider
January 5, 2024
I posted this on my Facebook page earlier today and a friend suggested I share it here. Sending all my love to the Poveys
"Last night, I was guided through a very long dream by my childhood friend John Povey. It had been years since he visited me but it was so clear and so good to see him. I miss his smile, I miss how he made me full-body laugh. Johnny I hope you are at peace and know how much you are missed and loved. Thanks for being there with me last night."
Maya
June 17, 2022
Happy Birthday ❤ Miss you always
Gregory D Povey
June 17, 2022
Happy Birthday buddy....Man I miss you.
Dad
E
June 16, 2022
Missing you so much today. Your nephew looks just like you and it’s beautiful. I hope you’re ok. It’s been so long but I never forget. Love you more than ever.
maya
December 8, 2021
i love you.
i miss you.
we all do. think about you everyday
Dad
November 26, 2021
Xo
Emily B
December 3, 2019
Just wanted to say that I'm thinking about you. When I think about you and Castleton, I remember when we were all kids and you were the only kid I knew who could ride a unicycle around town. Still miss your spirit- you aren't forgotten.
November 23, 2019
Missing you buddy
October 22, 2019
Missing you buddy
David Soeby
April 18, 2018
Love you bro you have not been forgotten you are on of the most beautiful human beings I have ever met. Rest easy I'll see you in heaven when I get there.
Maya Papaya
December 7, 2017
Words do not express how much I miss you every second.
May 11, 2017
Thinking of you today buddy. Miss your smiling face!
Love,
Mom
MLP
May 8, 2017
"No matter how long its been, there are times when it suddenly becomes harder to breathe."
Sam
March 15, 2017
Miss you brother-man!
-lots of love
Dad
February 21, 2017
Yup..missing you doesn't go away..xo
Pete Lane
April 5, 2016
John Povey was a caring and compassionate man. Thoughts and prayers to you friends and family members that still remember the conversations and time spent with this incredible man.
Gregory Povey
December 27, 2015
Miss you John.
Xo dad
December 4, 2014
John, I did not know you well. But, when I met you, you were such an energetic..no electic presence to me. I dont know why, you just were. I do not understand but I loved you instantly and were so very comfortable with you. I know you are with love and peace. big hug kiddo..BIG HUG
Maya Louise Povey
August 12, 2014
I love you john your the best brother ever you left me too soon
mark matlock
April 17, 2014
i miss those happy summer days of passing the time painting and talkin together.. Remember the time when you dumped an entire 5 gal bucket of paint onto the back seat of your little yellow chevy aveo :)
Ema McKie
April 4, 2014
"only what we have lost is with us forever." John G. Povey in memory and heart always.
Pete King
February 24, 2014
Honestly, to know him was to love him. He really tried to reach out to Me, be a good friend, and look out for the interest of others. His heart, soul, and mind was awesome. I'm so saddened to learn about his passing. John, you had an amazing heart for people, and you never gave up, and gave great advice. God bless you, you were amazing.
This is a picture of those who were able to attend John Poveys memorial service in Minneapolis. Many more ppl wished they could have attended.
Tommy Kuusisto
January 11, 2014
Had a memorial for John here in MN. It went really good, it was great to get together and share our memories of John. He was such a great friend to so many people!
Here is a link to the event page where people have posted. There is even a pic of us all at the memorial service. If it doesn't work as a link just type the following into your browser. -
https://www.facebook.com/events/262071853945808/268246326661694/?notif_t=plan_mall_activity
If you can't find it get a hold of me - www.facebook.com/tommy.kuusisto.9
Lisa
January 9, 2014
John was a very compassionate caring funny guy, who was there for others before himself at times, he is missed terribly, prayers to his family
Little Maya Povey
January 2, 2014
Thank you all I loved my brother more than anyone thank you for all the love and support
Sue Billow
December 24, 2013
Dear Martha and Greg and family,
I was deeply saddened to learn of John's passing. Please know you are not alone in your grief. God bless you and your family as you go forward one day at a time.
Autumn Templin
December 17, 2013
The first time I met John he was more open and genuine with me than just about anyone I had ever met--not to mention witty and fun. His spunk was ever present. He was definitely a bright refreshing light in this world. It seems sad, but I can't help but believe that it is the brightest lights that attract the greatest attention from the spheres and are thus sometimes called back to the stars too early. I will never forget him. My condolences to family and friends. If I can be of service in any way please don't hesitate to e-mail me at [email protected]
Thomasine Williams
December 15, 2013
My thoughts & prayers are with you Greg as well as your family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Ingrid Ostenaa
December 15, 2013
I just found out today that John is gone. I am hurt and in shock. John was at my house shortly before he moved home and he spoke a lot about his family, expecially his little sister. He was so excited to be going home to her. I can not imagine the pain you all are in. You are all in my prayers. I hope you are able to find comfort in each other and in your memories of him. John was one of the funniest, warmest, smartest and most engaging young men I have ever met. I was fortunate to have met him, and I will miss him immensely.
Doug Parkes
December 14, 2013
"They are not dead who live in the hearts they leave behind" Tuscarora saying.
Rick A.
December 14, 2013
still fall pond
a red leaf
uses a blue dragonfly
for a sail...
Alice Wright-Blakeley
December 14, 2013
Just had a phone call from Cindy F. and was shocked and sadden to hear of his death. My sympathy to all of you. No words are enough at this time. I remember his Grandmother (Nancy) and I taking John to play golf as a 12 or 13 year old, what a wonderful, polite boy. He was a delight always.
December 14, 2013
To Martha, Greg and the girls, and the rest of your family, I can think of no greater loss, he was just beginning his life, I am praying for your family. Love you Martha, Heather M
Barbara Hohn
December 14, 2013
Martha, Greg & Family,
I was so very saddened and shocked to read of John's passing today. He was such a wonderful young man. I do feel your pain, not quite as deep, but I do feel it. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all and keep you through this difficult time.
Guy & Diane Auger
December 13, 2013
To the whole Povey Family,
So very sorry to hear about John's passing. We will always remember him as the happy boy playing Little League with our son. May all those warm memories remain in your hearts & minds forever.
Guy & Diane Auger
Sttaci Goodman
December 13, 2013
I am fortunate to have met and spent time with John. Whether it was while working or volunteering, John was a funny, kind and good hearted soul. It's a very sad time, and I will always appreciate the memories.
December 13, 2013
I am so sadden to hear this terrible news. John Povey was my hero. He saved my Sons life in a 2009 car accident. RIP John.
My condolences to all of Johns Family.
Kim Stone
Sarah McWilliams
December 13, 2013
John would light up a room with positive energy and laughter. He had such a warm spirit when he was well. He will be missed, so incredibly tragic. Prayers to the family. He was like my little brother in Minneapolis. He will be missed dearly.
Barbara Hohn
December 13, 2013
Martha, Greg and Family,
I was very saddened to read of John's passing. My deepest condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to you all. My prayers are with you at this time. May God Bless you and keep you. John was a wonderful young man and he will be deeply missed by many.
Carrie Major
December 13, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
mark matlock
December 13, 2013
mark matlock
December 13, 2013
mark matlock
December 13, 2013
matthew dosser
December 13, 2013
He was a sweet kid. Breaks my heart
Mark Hustedde
December 13, 2013
So sorry for your loss. John was a bright spirit. He had a way with words with myself and others. I'm saddened and shocked. My thoughts and prayers for all those he left behind.
Jason
December 13, 2013
I love you John!! We flew through the sky skydiving, now you fly with the angels. I'll never forget you
john tepper
December 12, 2013
I met john , when he wss living in minneapolis ,he would be there for anybody that needed help ,he was a good friend . I remember the day when he was to move back to vermont to be near his family. John will be dearly missed by his friends here in minneapolis as well . My prayers go out john and his family .
See you soon brother ...
December 12, 2013
Greg - We are very sorry to hear of John's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Nicole and Jamie
Meg Fitch
December 12, 2013
Dear Greg, Martha, Katie and Maya--I am so, so sorry. John, along with all of you, has been a part of the library's life. I just still can't believe this. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
April Hanson
December 12, 2013
John was without a doubt one of the nicest, most generous, genuine person I have ever met. I will never forgot all the times he lifted my spirits. God rest his soul.
December 12, 2013
So sad, so sorry to hear of John's passing. Blessings for him and for the Povey family.
Margie Francescani
December 12, 2013
Greg and Family - From our family to yours, we are thinking of you and let us know if there is anything we can do.
Roger Pinsonault and Family
Victor Perrige
December 12, 2013
Very sad news to get today. My prayers are with John's family. I was the first person to meet John when he arrived in MN after taking a cab from the airport when he arrived. He always said that I was his first MN friend. John helped me move a few years back just because, I didn't ask for his help, he just was there for me. John and I volunteered together at the Film Fest a few times. We rode bikes together and had some great conversations. He certainly had wisdom, understanding, and care way beyond his years. God Bless! We will all certainly miss him a great deal!
Jeff Breslen
December 12, 2013
Greg, Martha and family,
I am terribly sorry to hear of John's passing. I hope that memories of his energy and kind spirit will help you through this difficult time.
Preston Urrutia
December 12, 2013
John was one of kindest, brightest, welcoming, and funniest people I have met. I will always remember when you ate a fistfull of raspberries! ;-) My prayers go out to the Povey family. John touched my heart.
December 12, 2013
I always liked John very much. Smart, fun, nice. Good guy! Sad, so sad. I wish every good thing for all John's people. This makes me very, very sad. Mark Gardner, Minneapolis MN.
David Soeby
December 12, 2013
John was one of the kindest people I have ever met. I will miss you friend. You helped me so much to grow as a person and be comfortable being me. You will be missed. Much love brother
alycia adcox
December 12, 2013
So sorry for your loss. John had such an uplifting spirit and will be missed by many. Take comfort in knowing you now have an angel to watch over you. God bless.
Ross Povey
December 12, 2013
Greg,
Karen, Michelle, Ashley, Allison, and myself extend our deepest sympathies for the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 12, 2013
John enthusiasm, humor, and helpful nature, touched so many. When he smiled, it was impossible not to smile back. Prayers for his family during this time.
~ Alyson
Lindy WIlson
December 12, 2013
My heart goes out to the family of this remarkable young man. He was well-loved here in Minnesota and he touched many with his infectious enthusiasm. The last time I saw John he was giving me a ride to a service event. I asked him why he was leaving Minnesota and he said that he wanted to get back to Vermont and be with his family. He spoke lovingly of parents, grandparents, and siblings and wanted to get home to be with you all. I am so sorry for your loss. May the spirit of love be with you always.
a k
December 12, 2013
Very sad to see the news. RIP John
December 12, 2013
Deepest sympathy for your loss. Andi and Bruce Boutwell
Nathan Peterson
December 12, 2013
John was a great guy. He was always goofy and had a smile on his face. I hadn't driven a car in about ten years and John let me drive the "bumblebee". I was scared but he kept telling me I was doing a good job. He will be missed.
You will be missed by many John Povey!
Tommy Kuusisto
December 12, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss. My deepest condolences to all of John's friends and family. John was smart, fun, funny, talented, genuine, loving, caring... I can't say enough good words about John Povey. Calling him a good friend would be an understatement. I was always amazed at his willingness to listen to me complain about my problems. I always felt comfortable talking with him, and felt like he genuinely cared. I will never forget the countless nights we sat up til sunrise just talking about life, thinking our philosophies were much more profound then they actually are... Haha! I feel so fortunate to have had John in my life. He always made me feel so special and proud to be me! I'm happy to say that I believe I helped him out a bit too. He would always tell me how much he appreciated and respected me and I would tell him the same. He was like a brother to me, and kind of like a counselor too. I always told him that he should pursue a career in counseling or something along those lines. I know he would have done well at it. He was such a great listener, a comforting soul, and such a smart guy. I never thought about the fact that he was 13 years younger than me. John was so mature for his age. Sometimes I thought he was too smart for his own good though. He could never keep out of that busy head of his, no matter how hard he'd try. I always worried about him and told him that a lot, but he had a way of holding his head up high and convincing me that he'd be alright. Unfortunately I think he was in a lot more pain than his friends knew about. That was John though, he never wanted to inconvenience anyone else with his troubles or with any of the serious things that were on his mind. I feel lucky to be someone he could confide in. If I helped him out even a fraction of a percentage as much as he helped me out, it would still be a whole heck of a lot! And what a sense of humor too! We sure had a lot of laughs. I'm gonna miss him so much, I already do. But I know I will see him again in another life, or an afterlife. He was certainly one of a kind to say the least! R.I.P. John. I love you man!!!
December 12, 2013
John was a truly smart, creative and loving guy. He was always there to listen when you needed to chat and gave great advice. R.I.P man, you will remain in are hearts forever. My prayers go out to his loved ones.
December 12, 2013
John was one of my best friends back here in Mpls. We had many long talks which rooted our friendship.
mike spillane
December 12, 2013
Greg-I am sorry to hear of the loss of your son John, I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. The Brothers and Sisters of the IBEW also wish to extend their prayers and support to you as well-if we can help in any way, please let us know.
Katie Knaeble
December 11, 2013
"Little" John (who was not so little anymore) was such an awesome person, had the biggest heart, and a great friend to many. He blessed so many people's lives and he is greatly missed! Love you bud!
Brittany Ploof
December 11, 2013
I know there is nothing anyone can say that will make any bit of this less heart breaking. Just know that John was loved by many and will be missed dearly. Your family is in my prayers. RIP John.
Bill & Emily Povey
December 11, 2013
Emily and I visited and spent the night with Greg and his family in September. We were deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. John was in the prime of his life and will be greatly missed.
December 11, 2013
Katie, Sending love and light. We were very sorry to hear of your brothers passing. May your memories bring you comfort.
~Lyndsey Canfield and Josh Moore
Kimberly Bean
December 11, 2013
So sad, such a great person, could always make you smile.. gone way too soon. RIP
December 11, 2013
Our deepest sympathies from the entire Waterman/Danyow family.
Ed and Tammy O'Shea
December 11, 2013
There are no words for us to express our sadness to you all. Sending love, prayers and Gods Blessings to you all.
Showing 1 - 76 of 76 results
Make a Donation
in John Povey's name
Please consider a donation as requested by the family.
Memorial Events
for John Povey
How to support John's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor John Povey's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
