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Constance McMillan Elson

Constance McMillan Elson, age 78, died on November 15, 2020 from an aggressive colon cancer. She is survived by three sisters, Deborah McMillan, Kate McMillan (Bill Krauss) and Martha Donaldson (John Donaldson); two former husbands, Elliot Elson and Dan Evett. She was predeceased by her son, Peter McMillan Evett, who died at age 8, and her partner and boat companion, Frederick Fitzmeyer.

A graduate of Catalina High School in 1960, she completed her bachelors at Stanford University and a PhD in mathematics at University of California at San Diego. She was a professor of mathematics for 30 years at Ithaca College in upstate New York. In 1999, she left her tenured academic position and worked at several positions in Boston, the last of which was at Massachusetts General Hospital as a biostatistician on a large multi-hospital study of multiple organ failure. In October 2007, she and her partner Fred sailed out of Boston Harbor and spend the next 5 years exploring the West Indies, Colombia and Panama. In 2015, she returned to Southern Arizona, and became an active volunteer with the Arizona Desert Museum, the Tucson Samaritans, Keep Tucson Together and the Kino Border Initiative.

Throughout her entire life Connie was a passionate lover of American Wilderness, hiking at her blistering of 1.5 mi/hr in Southwest Deserts and in our national forests; canoe trekking in Quebec: skiing in the Mountain West and in New England; easing her beloved sailboat Tashtego into coves and anchorages throughout the Caribbean.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Nov. 20 to Nov. 23, 2020.

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David Lewis

November 10, 2024

Connie was One-of-a-Kind! I was honored to share a few of her many adventures with her, as well as her love of mathematics and teaching it. The world and her many friends and recipients of her generosity are poorer for her loss, but better for her presence.

Allen Dodworth

September 18, 2021

I will never forget Connie and the happy times we had together at Stanford so many years ago. She was a wonderful woman, and went on to a full, well-deserved, great life of teaching, travel, sailing, with her many friends.

ANDREW LEWIS

December 24, 2020

So sad to read today that my favorite teacher from when I went to Ithaca College has passed away. She was also the only one at IC who saw that I was getting distracted from my studies at one point, and pointed this out to me.

NORMA PRICE

November 28, 2020

To Connie's family: She was truly an interesting, intriguing woman. I am glad I got to know her & wish she had lived longer so I could have spent more time with her.

Sean Carroll

November 27, 2020

I am very sorry to hear of Connie's passing. She would come to the Kino Border Initiative's center in Nogales, Sonora, Mexico to serve and support the migrants we accompanied there. She always had a deep concern for their well-being. I am grateful for all she did for our work on the border. May Connie rest in peace.

Diane Raab

November 25, 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. Constance sounds like she had a wonderful life. I hope she's off exploring new territories. With love, Diane

Dixie Lee Gilbert

November 23, 2020

What a fascinating life Constance had! Oh, the stories she could tell! May that smile of hers remain in your hearts and see you through this sad time. Much love,Dixie

Randel J Morgan

November 23, 2020

Randel J Morgan

November 23, 2020

Has a senior at Ithaca college and failing my numerical analysis course with Connie Ellison at midterm she never gave up on me and went the extra effort to ensure that I could pull my failing grade around into an A at finals.
This photo was taken during the Antigua boat race when Fred and Connie invited me down to spend the time with them and the Caribbean.

Erin Perry Jones

November 21, 2020

Connie was a great friend and neighbor of my mother, Genevieve Perry, in Ithaca. My condolances to you at this time.

Dave Comerford

November 21, 2020

Connie was an active member of Winthrop Yacht Club before and after her voyage to the West Indies.
She was the first to offer an opinion or to help out in any situation. I enjoyed our encounters and her stories at WYC.
She will be missed by all.
Past Commodore.
Dave Comerford

Jason Wiley

November 20, 2020

Connie was a volunteer of mine for several years at the Arizona - Sonora Desert Museum. Although we were generations apart, we did enjoy each other’s company. Each week when she showed up to volunteer, we had to tell our gossips of the week. Although she was a very opinionated woman, and even boasted about being a ‘Yenta’ she was well intentioned.

After she could no longer volunteer, we did fall out touch a bit, and for that, I am sorry. I had been looking of more of a leadership role at other botanical gardens, and she new that I was passionate about doing so, and knew of the many interviews I had. The week prior to her passing, I finally landed a Director title at another botanical garden. Later that week, I had texted her about it and never heard back. I was unaware of her condition at the time and I just knew that it was unlike her not to reach back to me. So, later in the week, I gave her a call... still no answer. The following week, I let some of my coworkers know that I’m concerned that she hadn’t gotten back to me. Later that day, I found out she had passed. I want to take this opportunity to let her know that ‘I made it! ‘

You will be missed Connie.

Cheers,
Jason

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