6 Entries
Alexander Shakow
April 3, 2019
Ny deepest condolences to all of Stokes' family. My friendship and admiration for him dates back to the time he was USAID Mission Directer in Indonesia and I was in charge of the USAID Washington office that supported him. Later we were colleagues at the World Bank. He was a very smart, thoughtful, kind and considerate person, a great diplomat and economic adviser at a crucial time in Indonesian history, widely admired by all who knew and worked with him. My wife and I saw too little of him once he moved to Tucson, but remember vividly our joyful visit with him there. We lost touch in the last decade, much to my regret, for he really was a very special person from whom I learned much early in my own career. I cherish those memories of this fine gentleman and the long and very good life he led. Once again, my deepest condolences to all the family, including especially his children whom I knew at a very young age. Alexander Shakow
Diane Bolduc
March 21, 2019
How blessed your lives have been to share them with such a man, how deep your sadness at his loss, how great your joy being comforted by so many loving memories. Leslie, never having met your dad, I have seen his spirit reflected in Lindsay, and in each of you, and know that the blessing is passed forward from his family to mine. Deepest condolences to you and your family from Dave and me.
March 20, 2019
Dear Leslie and family, Nancy and I send our condolences on your father's passing. I never met him but, reading his obituary, he looks like a tremendously accomplished man. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time...Ron Barber
Barbara Gray
March 18, 2019
In 2001, as a new economics teacher, I had the great fortune to have Stokes Tolbert's grandson Alex in my class. That happy coincidence led to Mr. Tolbert appearing as a guest speaker for the class. Mr. Tolbert was charming, erudite and his breadth and depth of experience, particularly about the World Bank, provided fascinating information for my students. He certainly made a lasting impression on me. My sympathies for your loss, and my admiration for a live well-lived.
Cynthia Hagerman
March 17, 2019
Stokes will be greatly missed. He was the consummate gentleman and a great asset to the Opera Guild of Southern Arizona. As Henry Dyke wrote "he is gone from our sight but others are watching him coming and glad shout, Here he comes.
Kathy Parrinello
March 17, 2019
Dear Tolbert family - We thoroughly enjoyed meeting Stokes at Paige and Jim's wedding - and enjoyed a number of wonderful family gatherings of our own at his family "farm". I feel like I know you better than I really do through the wonderful stories and experiences Paige has shared with us over the years. Much love to you all as you celebrate the wonderful life of your remarkable Dad. Love Kathy and Rich Parrinello
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