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Richard W. Decker

1926 - 2017

Richard W. Decker obituary, 1926-2017, Baltimore, MD

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1926

DIED

2017

Richard Decker Obituary



Richard Warren Decker, passed on March 18, 2017. He was born on March 7, 1926 in Parma, Ohio, the 4th son out of 5 of Earl & Laura Decker. The youngest of the Decker boys, James Underhill and wife Jean still live in Ohio. He married Rosemarie Kurtos on July 5, 1947, a classmate from Strongsville High School in Ohio. She preceded him in death on October 4, 2013. He joined the Navy out of high school and served during WWII in the Philippines as a communications person. After returning home & with Rosemarie, he pursued his bachelors' degree at the University of Iowa Ames & a Masters at Kent State University in Physics and Mathematics. Richard worked his entire career at Westinghouse Electric; the first 10 years at the research lab in Pittsburgh, which he said was the best part of his career; all fun, very little bureaucracy. He worked in fundamental tube design & x-ray work; recall when Kathy swallowed a safety pin; he took her to the lab; did some calculations, and imaged Kathy's belly to see if it was open or closed. When he transferred to Baltimore, Westinghouse was building up its defense business; and as a physicist, he was charged with solving complex manufacturing problems that required a strong background in fundamental physics. He rose to the title of Principal Engineer. He enjoyed travel and crisscrossed this country & parts of England many times. He shared this love of travel with his family, most of who inherited his wandering spirit. He also was an avid poker player, enjoying many a lively evening with friends from Holmehurst Ave of Catonsville. He enjoyed serving on a number of administrative boards; one as President of the Underhill Society, a genealogical society and the urban improvement project in Catonsville, MD. He enjoyed the company of the children on the street in his later years, entertaining them as he & Rosemarie sat on the swing on the front porch. Mr. Decker also participated for over a decade in the memory-writing group in Elderhostel program, Notre Dame. He & his writing colleagues produced a book of memories, Filling in the Dash, of which he was very proud. He spoke often and highly of his children & their spouses; the oldest, Kathleen and husband John Macleod, Hereford, AZ, Rick and wife Dr. Su Willard of Kingsville, his highly independent daughter, Karen of Urbana, Illinois, and Russell & his wife Lauren, Arnold, MD. He is the proud grandfather to one granddaughter, Brooke (husband John Bellinger) and seven grandsons; Christopher MacLeod (wife Cait), Jonathan Decker (wife Sarah Mendiola), Justin Decker (wife Katie), Matthew MacLeod, Ryan Decker (wife Danielle), Andrew MacLeod (wife Amy), and Daniel Decker (wife Mallory). Our family is blessed with three great-grandchildren, Brooke and John's daughter Willow, Justin and Katie's son, Gilmore and daughter Gabrielle. A Celebration of Life on Monday, April 10, 4:00 p.m. at Charlestown Village, Renaissance Gardens. In lieu of flowers, make contributions to Gilchest: Guiding the Way, a non-profit hospice, these lovely people made dad's final months reasonable.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Mar. 22, 2017.

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Carl Underhill

March 24, 2017

It is with deep sadness that I extend my personal condolences to the Decker family. It was my privilege to have known Dick for a number of years when we both served on the Board of Directors with the Underhill Society of America. I remember fondly the gentle form of leadership Dick demonstrated with a Board that had such wide differences of opinion. Through all that Dick focused on the important and his example still inspires me as a form of leadership worthy of emulation. Dick gave unselfishly of his time and many talents. I recall several articles that he authored on the history of his family that were published in Society publications. Similarly, he would go out of his way for long-distant members of the family. An example of this was his trips to Bellaire, MI where my great aunt had organized our branch of the family. It was just a family picnic but it was significant that he took the time to drive from Maryland to Michigan just to represent the Society to the Underhill family assembled in Northern Michigan. It was always a privilege to know and to have served with Dick. His counsel and his friendship means a great deal to me. My best wishes to his family!

Joan Pugh

March 23, 2017

I remember Richard as a fellow member of the Wednesday Writer's Group, a group he joined after he left the Notre Dame group. While a member of the WW, his writings were published in the book, FILLING IN THE DASH. The memoirs he shared were nostalgic, informative and humorous. My favorite was the one about the Valentine Day card. It brought tears to my eyes. His stories about life in the Navy during WWII made me laugh as well, especially his shore leave antics. To this day, members of the Wednesday Writers who knew him, comment about him if someone shares a poem that rhymes. They were the only kinds of poems he liked. He often spoke of "the wife" with much affection and devotion and was very proud of the accomplishments of his family. When he no longer was able to attend the WW, I especially missed being greeted with his big bear hugs. He brought to the group an unique perspective of life through his memoir writings.

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