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Paul Berst
March 27, 2010
To the Family,
I wanted to take a moment and share a story I found that I believe encapsulates cousin Gene’s life.
There were two men were walking through a cemetery after a graveside service. One of the men couldn’t help but notice that all the grave markers had something in common They all had some type of a statement etched on the stone that summarized the person’s life; words like…”world’s greatest mom…or loving husband… or you will be missed.”
One of the men said to the other you know what really makes the best grave marker? “It’s those who loved you, and were helped by you… they will remember you. So carve you name on hearts, and not on a grave marker."
That’s what Gene has done! He has carved his name on the hearts of those who have been blessed by him.
Until we meet again cousin Gene
Peter Berst
March 27, 2010
Gene was my cousin. We hung out together when we were small,worked together when we were older, laughed every minute when we saw each other. Even after I moved away I would come to Buffalo I would try to see him. A kind heart, a great laugh,and an infectious love of life. A Berst he definitely was.
Paul Dominick
March 25, 2010
Gene was my brother-in-law but he was always a good friend. I still remember him in his youth with his George Harrison good looks and his little red sports car. He would ride to the beaches of Lake Erie with the top down and Beatle's tunes blaring on the radio. We all wanted to be him. He was a wonderful uncle to my sons. His enthuisiasm for life, his love of music, his infectious smile and hearty laugh made him a joy to be around. A wise man once said, "The dream never dies, just the dreamer. The song never dies, just the singer." We can all honor Gene by living our dream and singing our song. Thank you, Gene.
March 24, 2010
My wife Mamie and I knew Gene when we were all teenagers in South Buffalo. He was a good friend to us both. We haven't seen him in many many years but often thought of him in visits back to Buffalo over the years. We're sorry to hear of his passing, and know in reading the other comments that he was a good man. Sincerely sorry for your loss.
Matt and Mamie Parsons
Great Mills, MD
Molly Hartnett
March 23, 2010
Dear Carol and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. His passing affects so many people. I will always remember the wonderful times I had at the Berst house on Eaglewood, and our family parties. There was always a lot of laughter and singing. Gene will be missed so very much.
Love,
Molly Berst Hartnett
March 23, 2010
It was with GREAT sadness that we said goodbye to a wonderful man so full of life and love we thought sure he would always be here by are side. He would of been so happy to see all your faces yesterday because family and friends meant EVERYTHING to him. Please hold him close to your heart and remember all the beautiful memories you have...I love you dad..Love,Aimee
Fred Scott
March 22, 2010
Gene was a great friend, and co-worker he loved his family more than anything else , and would do anything for them. He had a great set of value's and would not waver from them no matter what. He was a great man, as repeated over, and over,and over today, by many people.as they showed their great respect to a great man.
March 22, 2010
Karen DiCarlo
March 22, 2010
Uncle Gene,
I always was in awe of you as a small child and how everyone seemed to come to life around you. You had such a presence of life, wonderful sense of humor and were also the best storyteller. I always loved hearing about all the funny stories growing up in a house with my Mom, Diane and 3 other siblings. You will be forever remembered for your generous heart and hard work ethic. You took care of your family like no other. We will miss you dearly but your memory will live on in our hearts forever. We love you Uncle Gene! Love, Karen (Prendergast) DiCarlo, Vince, Annaliese, Eve, Kayleen and Mariella DiCarlo
Justin Gray
March 22, 2010
Gene and I became best friends at age three and remained so our entire lives.
We did many things together growing up, from racing our tricycles together, to scouting, astronomy and ham radio. We would often speak to each other in morse code. I'm sure others overhearing us thought we seriously needed help!
Gene could always make me laugh, especially when he made one of his famous funny faces!
The true love of Gene's life though was his family. They meant everything to him. It is so sad that he will not be there anymore to see his children and grandchildren progress in their own lives. He would have liked that so much.
I've known Gene for 55 years. It is very hard for me to say goodbye. I have lost more than a good friend. I've lost a brother.
Regina Beale Zink
March 22, 2010
How sad I was to hear of Gene's passing. He was always so happy to see me, always asked about my family and how we were all doing. He was a great person and neighborhood friend as were all the Bursts.
I am sorry I could not make the memorial today and wish your family comfort and peace during this very sad time. Regina Beale Zink
Hamburg,N.Y.
Chris Bronson
March 21, 2010
Gene, How much fun you were, you and your sister (my friend Mary) out on the lake watching the stars when asteroids were zooming the night skies in early August. You loved life, a good laugh, and a guitar. I can see you now walking out toward the water, the lantern swinging by your side as you prepared to spend the hours, eyes glued upward to the inky darkness alive with stars. Now you are there.
Michael Dominick
March 21, 2010
It is with great sorrow that I journey back home to remember a loving man, with a heart of gold, that I called Uncle Gene. I will never forget his great smile, his hearty laugh or his legendary sense of humor. And even though this earth has lost one of its kindest and most generous souls, it brings me some small comfort knowing that as long as Gene lives in my heart he will always be with me wherever I go. But for the next few days… my heart will gently weep.
I love you Uncle Gene. Rest in peace.
March 21, 2010
Katie and family,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. We hope you can find some peace in this very difficult time. We are here for anything that you need!
Larissa & Gregg Jensen
March 21, 2010
Carol and family, we are so shocked and sorry to hear this news. We had so many great times together. Gene was all about conversation, laughter and music. May you have happy memories in these difficult times. God Bless. Tom & Katie Herdlein
March 21, 2010
My brother Gene... how will we all go on without him now? His suffering is over now but ours will begin because we will all miss him so much.. I LOVED sitting & laughing with him ! He & younger brother Terry..could really crack us up ! I will miss your good - kind heart..Gene always wanted to know how we all were doing..he always cared & you knew it... He LOVED being a Dad & a Grandpa... He is playing his guitar in heaven now & singing his heart out...love you Gene, your sister Diane xx
Jim,Diane, Caitlin,Meghan and James Doyle
March 21, 2010
Dear Carol and Family, We are so sorry for your great loss. Gene was a hard worker and loved to sell- cars ,furniture, it did not matter. His ability to look at the positives everyday was what I admired most about him. He loved his wife and kids very much and worked everyday for you. He was a great Irishman and had a heart of Gold and a laugh like a King. God Bless him and your family as you deal with your loss...Sincerely
jackie gonka
March 21, 2010
To the Berst family, I am so sorry to hear of your lost. Mr. Berst was always so kind and always had a smile on his face. I used to see him almost everyday when I worked at the library, and he will be missed. God Bless
March 21, 2010
TO THE BERST FAMILY OUR SINCERE CONDOLENCES ON THE LOSS OF GENE. THE MCDERMOTT FAMILY EAGLEWOOD NEIGHBORS
Mary Dominick
March 21, 2010
I don't know how to say good-bye to my beautiful kind brother. Music was important but family was everything to Gene. His laughter was quick to come and infected others. To his family I pray for their peace of mind and heart in knowing that they were his everything. The music and Gene will always be here. Mary X
March 20, 2010
We are sadden to hear about Gene. He was a great worker, very well liked, and very generous with what he had. He was always a team player, and well liked by his customers. He loved to sell, whether it was cars or furniture and loved his music. We have great memories of him as a wonderful person, he will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Pat, Donna, Patrick, Erica, Jessica and Jacqueline Kane
Kathleen Doyle
March 20, 2010
Dear Carol and family,
We are so sorry for the loss of Gene. He was a great person and a great employee, he always had a smile on his face and a helping hand. He will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family at this very difficult time. Jim and Pat Doyle Sr and Kathy Doyle
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