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Allen Goldberg
September 25, 2024
There is not a day that I don't think about Barry. We shared years of friendship at SUNY Downstate medical school and later on pediatric residency training at ale. Since we are both "Goldbergs", Barry was Goldberg. #1. We worked closely together in the laboratory classes, on rounds during clinical rotation, at during internship and residency at Yale.
Barry and I were very meticulous. We always completed our work carefully and meticulously. We were the last to finish our laboratory work since he was very meticulous and truthfully I was a bit slower. He was always patient we me. (pokey)
I still remember well our freshman labs. Everyone finished before us. We just 10 minutes to gobble down our lunch bags from home before the next lecture class where we had to be promptly on time as that started on the dot of the. hour. I always remember him saying to me, "Someday, some one will pay for this."Years later, while in pediatric training, I remember him saying, "Thet never paid for this!"
Barry, you were one of the finest persons I have known and always one of the best friends in my life. I miss you and Betty and your family.
With Love, Allen (The Other) Goldberg
Allen I. Goldberg
October 14, 2020
Barry and I were classmate brothers at Downstate and soul-mates in training at Yale Pediatrics. As "A Goldberg", he always kidded I was "Goldberg 2". He was right! I love you and always will.
Allen Goldberg, MD '68Downstate
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PS: You always told me when we ate a 5 PB&J minute sandwich outside the men's room at Downstate before the 2PM class (we were the only ones remaining in the laboratory from AM class): "They will pay for this!" They never did! But were were paid in spades from loving our patients and having the love return. With LOVE to you and Betty, AIG
Helen Bourne
October 2, 2007
My condolences to the entire Goldberg family. May all of your wonderful memories comfort you in this very sad time.
Frank Frandsen
September 29, 2007
Very sad to learn of His passing. Was just a wonderful person He was my Doctor from childhood into young adulthood. His words of wisdom still ring in my memory some 30 years later. My Deepest sympathy.
Steve Gibbons
September 29, 2007
Dr. Goldberg was a wonderful person and doctor during my years at Yale. He helped countless athletes to recover from injuries, including myself. May God bless your family the way Dr. Goldberg blessed so many of us.
Doreen Testa
September 29, 2007
Betty,
I can hardly look at a can of fruit cocktail without thinking about Barry. My son Alan was a patient of his and was to participate in a swim meet, but had a temperature of 103. We called "Dr. Goldberg" to see what to do. His advice was to buy fruit cocktail with heavy syrup, and have Alan drink only the syrup. After 2 days and consuming about 20 cans of the just the syrup his fever was down to where is was safe to swim. He missed coming in first by a hair! Hopefully the memories of the past will be of comfort to you and your family in the days and months ahead.
Stephanie Romano
September 28, 2007
Dr Goldberg was was my girls first pediatrician....i would have done any thing he told me to concerning there health and welfare...i remember he made the nurse give them their injections so the girls wouldn't connnect pain with seeing him. he was a wonderful doctor he will be in our hearts forever...Stevie,Julia and Victoria Romano
Kathryn-ann Nichols
September 28, 2007
Dr. Goldberg was a wonderful doctor to my 2 children. I remember being a new parent and how he would be so helpful and encouraging to me in that new role. He was always so considerate of my children's fears and he would always amaze me how he understood the quirks in their personalities. Even years later after he had left Milford Pediatrics he remembered my children at Amity High School. He was a beautiful person and a gift to the medical profession.
Betsy Hine
September 28, 2007
Betty, it was my honor and priviledge to care for Barry and get to know him and your wonderful family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ellen Scarano
September 28, 2007
I am so very sad to learn of Dr. Goldberg's death and I'm glad to learn it was peaceful. WHAT a wonderful doctor he was to my two girls up until the early 80's when he took the sports medicine position and left the pediatrics practice. He was also wonderful to me, a mother who needed encouragement sometimes. He listened and taught and threw in his humor to lighten my load many times. Around his 40th birthday, I had an appointment at the Milford office and it had snowed and iced a day or so before. The last parking space available was by the back entrance and the spot was covered with a large patch of solid, thick black ice. I eased into the space and hoped the car wouldn't slide away, hitting the nice car next to me. I mentioned to Dr. "Oldbird," as my daughter called him, that it had been interesting to park and I was glad I didn't slide into someone's Jaguar. He made a momentary face of concern and relief -- you've probably seen it -- as he quickly weighed his comment's impact and said, "If you hit it, I'd have to kill you" (he didn't really mean it!)-- it was his car. His favorite toy and I think had been a present to himself for the birthday. We had a good laugh over his reaction to the "almost" crash. I think he may have peaked out the door as I left just to make sure I didn't skid into it. :) I'm sure the people who had the advantage of his ministrations for their injuries were very blessed. I just referred to "Dr. Oldbird" a couple of weeks ago when talking with my daughters and they remember him fondly as well, though they were quite young when he left the peds.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your sorrow and God bless you all as you say goodbye.
Angela Maccarone
September 28, 2007
I will always remember Dr. Goldberg for his gentle manner. He was my first daughters pediatrician and one I will always remember for calming the fears of a new mother. He gave my daughter her nickname, Kath, and whispered to her that "dad has to get you a credit card to Bloomingdale's". We will miss you.
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