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John Michael Tabak, devoted husband, father, and grandfather, passed away on Wednesday September 12th 2012 in Bridgeport Hospital following a short illness. John was born on April 5, 1921 in Stratford CT, son of Mary Hrasch Tabak and Andrew Tabak, immigrants from Toryska, Austro-Hungary in the early 1900's. He resided in Stratford for his 91 years, graduating from Stratford High School in 1941. He served in World War II as a B-17 Fight Engineer with the 457th Bomber Group of the 8th Air Force, in England, and in the Korean War as a helicopter specialist at Langley Field, VA. John worked as a Logistics Engineer for 39 years at Sikorsky Aircraft. In 1948 John and Beverly Virginia Gaito were married in Christ Episcopal Church, Stratford. They enjoyed 64 years together, travelling around the world after their children were grown. John was a very active participant in the Masonic Order, Lafayette Consistory (32, May 1, 1967); America-St. John's Lodge #8, A.F. and A.M. (joined March 27, 1956); Scottish Rite; DeWitt Clinton Lodge of Perfection; Washington Council, Princes of Jerusalem; Pequannock Chapter Rose Croix. He was honored to receive the Arthur M. Brown Meritorious Service Award at the Connecticut Council of Deliberation on June 10, 1994. John was also a member of the Pyramid Temple of Shriners, International Legion of Honor, the Stratford American Legion Post 42, Army Air Force Round Table of CT, Disabled American Veterans, 457th Bomb Group Association, Czechoslovakia Genealogical Society International, Carpatho-Rusyn Historical Society, Baldwin Senior Center Men's Club, Stratford Historical Society, Sterling House Community Center, Garibaldi Square Club, and the Police Square Club of CT. In addition to his beloved wife, John is survived by his precious daughter Lisa Mari Tabak and her husband, Lisle Gibbs of Delaware OH, his loving son Timothy William Tabak and his wife, Sandra K. Royle-Tabak, of New Bern NC, and his beautiful grandchildren Miriam Tabak Gibbs and Benjamin Tabak Gibbs of Delaware OH. Also surviving are a brother, Andrew and wife Carolyn of Winsted CT, sister Anna Karpinowich of Ansonia CT, sister Mildred Smith of Bridgeport CT and several nieces and nephews. John was predeceased by a brother, Alexander and sisters, Dorothy and Marion. Visiting hours will be on Friday, September 14, 2012, 4-7 pm at the Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford. Panachida will be at 5PM and Masonic Services will be at 6:30PM. Funeral service will take place on Saturday, September 15, 2012, 9:30 a.m., at the Carpatho Russian Orthodox Church of Saint John the Baptist, 364 Mill Hill Ave., Bridgeport. Burial will follow at Mountain Grove Cemetery, 215 Dewey Street, Bridgeport with Full Military Honors. Donations would be appreciated to the Shiners Hospital for Children, 516 Carew St., Springfield, MA 01104-2396. For more information or to make an online condolence please visit www.adzimafuneralhome.com



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Published by Connecticut Post from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2012.

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Charlie Kuroghlian

September 14, 2012

Such a kind and friendly man. Its been a honor being his neighbor and knowing him. Always a fiendly wave to Rosa ,myself and our kids.

Susan Bogue Brace

September 14, 2012

Lisa Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Carol (Estabrook) Beebe

September 14, 2012

With deepest sympathy to the Tabak family. John & his family grew up knowing my mother and the "Chernak" family and I met John while working at Sikorsky smiling & soft spoken - everyone knew John.

Sue Chantlos

September 14, 2012

I have never met a man so gentle and intelligent as Mr. Tabak. Truly a remarkable man, his caring for others was genuine and heartfelt. He amazed me as he meticulously cared for his yard, trimming bushes and raking, he was in such great physical shape! He would always smile and wave as he drove by. He was a great neighbor, an amazing man, and a truly intelligent, wonderful person. All who had the pleaasure to know him will truly miss him.

September 14, 2012

Worked with John at Sikorsky. Truly a wonderful man. Rest in peace John

Betsy Walsh

September 13, 2012

DAV Chapter # 15 The Officers men & women will miss John,are prayers are with you at this difficult time. Betsy Walsh, Sr. Vice CMDR.

Cathy Holden-Slosar

September 13, 2012

Mr Tabak was one of the few people in this world that you can say, what a nice man. I grew up across the street from the Tabak family on Flora Dr and us older kids were always playing ball in the street and not once did he ever yell at us. I can remember one time I was walking my bike with a flat tire home from the green and he gave me a ride home. Its funny the things you remember about people. I will always remember him as a great neighbor and a nice guy.

Nancy Tabak

September 13, 2012

Aunt Bev and Family,
Our sincere condolences are sent in the loss of Uncle John. We know he will be watching us from above. He was truly a warm, compassionate and caring man. The world has lost a great person. He was always so giving of himself. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We will cherish our memories of him always. Love, Nancy, Jim, David, Nicole and Bryan

Reggie Morse

September 13, 2012

John Tabak-a truly, really nice person-always so willing to help others-will be remembered as a gentleman.

Gail Joyner

September 13, 2012

Sandy and Tim....we are all thinking of you and praying that loving memories of John will surround you and that this will be a time when you feel the love of friends and family supporting and caring for you. Gail,Nan,Hollie and Carey

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