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Mildred Kosches Abraham

1930 - 2022

Mildred Kosches Abraham obituary, 1930-2022, Charlottesville, VA

Mildred Abraham Obituary

Mildred K. Abraham, 91, of Charlottesville, Virginia, passed away peacefully on June 17, 2022, in the home that she loved so much at Westminster Canterbury of the Blue Ridge.

Born on November 28, 1930, in the city of New York, she was the daughter of Margaret and Monroe Kosches. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband Henry, her parents, and her sister, Joan Rodger.

Mildred resided for most of her childhood years in Woodmere, Long Island with her parents and her sisters Joan, Susan and Peggy. It was there that she first gained her love of books and reading. She received her undergraduate degree from Russell Sage College, a master’s degree in English from the University of Pennsylvania and a master’s degree in Library Science from Drexel University.

Mildred met her husband of more than 60 years, Henry J. Abraham, while studying at the University of Pennsylvania and spent their life together sharing their love of travel, books and spending time with friends and family. Mildred and Henry traveled the world together visiting dozens of countries, but no place was more special to her than her beloved Italy, which she visited more than thirty times in her life.

Mildred worked most of her adult life as a librarian. First as the head librarian at the Shipley School in Philadelphia, then at the Blue Ridge School near Charlottesville. She later joined the faculty at Alderman Library at the University of Virginia shortly thereafter and soon became a Research Librarian at the Special Collections Department where she had a distinguished career before retiring in 1993.

Mildred’s love of books and reading inspired her in 1995 to create the nonprofit organization Book Baskets that provides new and used books to children who are less able to afford them and have few books of their own. Twenty-five years later, Book Baskets continues to provide the gift of books to children in the Charlottesville and Albemarle area with an average of 20,000 books donated annually. This work led her to receive the honor of being selected in 2014 by the Daily Progress as one of the “Distinguished Dozen� who were recognized for exemplary service to their community.

Mildred is survived by her sons, Philip and Peter, their spouses, Janet and Anne; her grandchildren, Ben Abraham, Lauren McKown, Marnie Abraham and Liesel Abraham; and her sisters, Susan and Peggy.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Book Baskets, 105 Whetstone Place, Charlottesville, VA 22911.

A private funeral service will be held. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.hillandwood.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Progress on Jun. 22, 2022.

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Jacqueline Pak

September 6, 2022

To family of Mrs. Abraham, Philip and Peter, and Benjamin,

It is with deepest sadness that I learn of Mildred's passing. I worked with her at the rare book library as a student at UVa' decades ago. She was my direct supervisor who became my lifelong mentor. She and Henry had profound influence in my life. Without telling her in the past years, I tried to find a position in Charlottesville so I could spend some time with her and Henry in their final years. I spoke with her a few months before she passed. She was the most admirable and cultivated lady full of curiosity, kindness, compassion, warmth, love, and engaging interests in life and others. She will ever be my role model. It is a huge pride and joy in my life that I came to know her and Henry. We met many times at various places, including London where we played together attending cultural events for a week. She was truly a unique and special being from whom there was always much to learn. I will always remember and cherish her as my mentor with beautiful and loving memories of her as long as I live. May God bless her and Henry and family. May she watch over us as an angel. With deep love, affection, and fondest of memory and respect, Jacqueline Pak

Kay Slaughter

June 26, 2022

although i had not seen Mildred in recent years, i enjoyed eunning into her. A few years ago, we ran into each other at Starbucks and i learned much about her interest in historic houses and collecting books. She was always so down to earth, funny and kind. I had known and enjoyed Henry as well but i knew them individually rather than as a couple. My deepest sympathy to the family.

Margaret Joy Bailey

June 23, 2022

I always enjoyed seeing Henry & Mildred at the Paramount for the Met,and Charlottesville operas.
We attended Italian language classes together which were always great fun.
Mildred was a gracious and lovely woman;she will be missed by many!

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