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Rusty McAbee Obituary

KINGS MOUNTAIN - Rusty McAbee, 40, after 24 months of battling pancreatic cancer, went to be with the Lord on Nov. 13, 2013, at Wendover Hospice, Shelby.

He was born in Cleveland County.

He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Russell and Josephine McAbee; maternal grandmother, Ann Childers; nieces, Mia Ann Simon and Lydia Grace Simon.

He was a member of Second Baptist Church, Kings Mountain.

Rusty was a graduate of Kings Mountain High School. He completed his under graduate studies at University of North Carolina at Wilmington in Psychology, he then went on to University of North Carolina at Charlotte to complete his graduate studies in Counseling and School Admini-stration. Rusty was an Assistant Principal for East Gaston High School. Many say that Rusty was the life blood for the Facility and Staff at East Gaston. Often times, taking care of everything from coordinating the social committee for new facility to cutting the grass. There was nothing that he would not do for his beloved Warriors. As a guidance counselor and Assistant Principal, Rusty touched the lives of many students and their families. His passion and deduction to his career influenced everyone he came in contact with.

Survivors include his mother, Terry C. Broome and husband Harley, Kings Mountain; father, Kenny McAbee, Kings Mountain; sister, Melissa Simon and husband David, Kings Mountain; maternal grandparents, Jim Childers and wife Pat, Kings Mountain; brothers, Max Broome, Denver, and Fred Broome and wife Lindsey, MO; niece, Seanna Simon.

A memorial service will be held 3 p.m. Sunday at East Gaston High School Gymnasium, 1744 Lane Road, Mt. Holly.

Interment will be at Mountain Rest Cemetery, Kings Mountain.

Memorials may be made to Hospice of Cleveland County, 951 Wendover Heights Drive Shelby, NC 28150 or East Gaston High School Care Fund, 1744 Lane Road, Mt. Holly, NC 28120.

A guest register is available at www.harrisfunerals.com.

Arrangements by Harris Funeral Home, Kings Mountain.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Star-Telegram on Nov. 15, 2013.

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Judy Gibson

December 13, 2013

I apologize for the lateness of this note. I was shocked when I read of Rusty's death. I taught both he and Melissa at Kings Mtn. and I must say that he was a true example of an ideal young man. The last time I saw him, he was working at the hospital so I did not know that he had gone into education. It is a great loss for all that might have encountered him anywhere, but especially in the field of education. He always had such a positive spirit. May you find peace in God's love.

Dominique Robinson

November 20, 2013

Mr McAbee was a wonderful educator, he made a difference in the lives of all four of my children. He was always willing to go that extra mile, he made me feel that he understood my children and would always be there to assist not only them but me. I have never had an administrator show that level of care, he was one of a kind and he will be missed.

Roger Clemons

November 17, 2013

It's been a long time since seeing Rusty but if he was anything like he was when we were in youth together at Second Baptist then he was a great person. My prayers to the family.

Kevin Barnes

November 17, 2013

What a great service today for Rusty, we should all leave such a positive legacy.

renee jackson

November 16, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss From the Jackson Toney and Mckinney families

melonie jackson

November 16, 2013

So sorry for your loss I remember Rusty from school he was always so nice to everyone your family is in my thoughts and prayers

Stacy Snider

November 16, 2013

R.I.P. Rusty... you will be missed!

Carol McAbee Cunningham

November 16, 2013

Hard to believe Rusty has passed too soon. Our thoughts and prayers go out to those left behind.

Melinda Holland

November 15, 2013

So sorry for your loss, I'm thinking of you and your family.

michael smith

November 15, 2013

I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Rusty. I know that you all were very proud of him, and that he will be greatly missed. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Natasha Peterson

November 15, 2013

I remember when i was in high school he was a sweet,loving and caring man that i had ever meet in my life.He will always hold a special place in my heart.His family and friends and especially everyone at East Gaston will be in my prayers.He may be gone but he will never be forgotten

Shawn Pettus

November 15, 2013

I knew Rusty all of my life and can't think of a better guy. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Eric Ross

November 15, 2013

My prayers are with the entire McAbee family who hold a special place in my heart. May the peace of God which passes all understanding, keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

November 15, 2013

Thank you for all you did for the kids at school. May you rest in peace.

Maranda Ledbetter Scates

November 15, 2013

Rusty was an awesome guy and a great friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Heaven's gain!

Pat Tracy

November 15, 2013

Rusty was a true gentleman, and a pleasure to work with at East Gaston. We will miss his smile. I pray God will comfort you in your time of grief.

Janet Kennedy

November 15, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Heaven has received another angel. Rusty was the RD at Belmont Abbey when l was an RA and he was such a pleasure to know and work with.

Karli Thomas

November 15, 2013

Mr. McAbee helped me when my mom passed away at 40 from breast cancer..... he always found a way to make me laugh through my tears!!! I am so sorry for your loss!!! He was truely a great man!!! And boy was he hillarious!!!

Tony Lee Bryant

November 14, 2013

My sincerest condolences for Rusty ' family. May God be with y'all.

Pam Leigh

November 14, 2013

Dear McAbee family,

We are lifting you up to the Lord.

The Tony Leigh family

Sonya Gregory

November 14, 2013

Dearest Kenny, Terry, Melissa & Family, our heartfelt prayers are with you! Rusty was a wonderful young man who touched everyone's heart! Heaven is a more beautiful place today because Rusty walks it's streets of gold with Jesus! We love you!

Beth Hoefle

November 14, 2013

I cannot image what you guys are going through, and I'm so very sorry for your loss. In my heart, he will always be my brother. May God comfort you and give you peace in this time of grief! Love you!

Rex and Susan Gibbs

November 14, 2013

I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time.

Susan Melvin

November 14, 2013

So sorry to hear of his passing. I was friends with his sister Melissa throughout school. You all are in my thoughts and prayers!

Jada McDaniel

November 14, 2013

My heart hurt for you all when I heard you lost your precious son, brother, and uncle. Been praying for him for so long, now the prayers will be for you, his family. May God give you peace through it all.

November 14, 2013

TERRY, CHIP, JIM AND FAMILY. I AM SO SORRY ABOUT RUSTY. IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO, PLEASE LET ME KNOW. BO MANER

Kevin Lovelace

November 14, 2013

My deepest sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Rusty will be missed.

Lisa Johnson

November 14, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Rusty. It was always a pleasure to be in his presence. He had such a special of way of making you smile and feel joy. Keeping his family and friends close in prayer.

Kim Brooks

November 14, 2013

Deeply sorry Rusty has passed so young. I remember him from High School as a sweet, funny person. Sending thoughts and prayers to his family and close friends who I know will miss him everyday.

Jean Peterson

November 13, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Rusty's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Marlene Cash Reynolds

November 13, 2013

So sorry to hear that Rusty lost his battle. He has been such an inspiration to others and has had such a positive outlook. Praying for all his friends and loved ones during this time.

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