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Constance Pence Obituary

PENCE Constance "Connie" Joyce Pence, age 71, Sunday, March 21, 2010 at St. Ann's Hospital, Westerville, OH. Member of Worthington Presbyterian Church, graduate of Ohio State University with a Masters Degree, retired department head for the Department of Neuropsychiatry at Ohio State University. Co-founder and teacher at Six Pence School. Preceded in death by parents Mary Marguerite Cummins and Donald Roland Cummins. Survived by husband, Mel Pence of Columbus, OH; daughter, Rebecca (Earnie) Kapp of Robertsdale, AL; son, Tim Pence of Columbus, OH; grandchildren, Austin Robbins, Anthony, Joey and Jesse Kapp; sister, Sara (Ron) Smith of The Villages, FL; several nieces, nephews, cousins and numerous friends. Family will receive friends Thursday, March 25, 2010 from 11 a.m.-1 p.m. in the LONG FUNERAL HOME, 5528 Cleveland Avenue, Columbus, OH, where the funeral service will follow at 1 p.m. Pastor Jeff Deo officiating. Interment Lutheran Cemetery, 6004 Linnville Road, Newark, OH. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, 950 Michigan Avenue, Columbus, OH 43215 or American Heart Association - Ohio Valley Affiliate, PO Box 182039, Dept. 013, Columbus, OH 43218-2039.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Mar. 24, 2010.

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March 25, 2010

I was so sad to learn of Connie's death. Though it's been many,
many years since I've seen her, I remember Connie so fondly in our
young, single years. She was always so much fun and always had
the best stories to share. My deepest sympathy to Mel and the family
in this difficult time. May you find comfort in remembering cherished
moments and peace in loving memories. Rest well Connie.
Kay Penrod
An Old Friend

Gloria Gardner

March 25, 2010

I was saddened to hear of Connie's passing, she was truly an angel. My daughter Wendy Barnhill attended Six Pence after Cols. Public Schools told me she was uneducable, and Connie and her staff helped bring her out of her shell. My prayers are with her family

Karen Rhoads

March 25, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Lynn Burgess

March 25, 2010

Connie was a wonderful, compassionate person. While my son Andreas was at Six Pence she showed our family such respect and kindness. She was so very helpful to us and encouraging as well. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Vicki and Paul Finnegan

March 25, 2010

How it saddened us to hear of Connie's passing. We have so many good memories of our years at Six Pence School with Connie and the staff. Six Pence was a family not just a job, from the students served to those who taught and served. For those who don't know, when Six Pence opened it had six students and Mrs. Pence was the founder and first teacher, thus the name. Connie had the idea and started the school which provided an exceptional place for childrento learn.
We cherish our memories of Connie and wish God's peace and comfort to Mel, Becky, Tim,the grandchildren, and all who knew and loved Connie.

Janet Jones

March 24, 2010

Just looking at the Guest Book entries touched me as to how many lives Connie Pence has touched. The memories I have of Connie as a mentor at Six Pence and a dear friend will always be in my heart. My heart felt prayer are with Mel, Becky and Tim.

Doug Chapman

March 24, 2010

I am sadden to hear that Connie Pence passed away,I first met her at
six pence school in 1965. She beleived in me. I am curious to know when did six pence school close.

Douglas Chapman

Jane Collier

March 24, 2010

I was so sad to hear of Connie's passing. Our families shared quite a bond in "the day." It was great when they moved into "The Park" Fond memories of being there when both Becky and Tim were brought home to begin their lives with Connie and Mel. Oh my and their dog Tammy eating pacifier after pacifier.
I was lucky to receive some math tutoring from Connie at a young age. That is when the mentoring began. Connie and my Mother, Jo,and Step Father Marvin gave me opportunities to learn so much more than that. I began volunteering at Six Pence at an early age. Connie allowed me the chance to learn from her and the many wonderful teachers at Six Pence. I can recall too many wonderful stories to write here. Anyone who knew her, worked with her of for her, was better for it. Rest in Peace Connie. Warm hugs to Mel, Becky, Tim, Sarah and all the grand kids.

Joyce Matthews Johnson

March 24, 2010

I have to say, I have some great memories of Connie when I was a kid and Becca and I used to run around together. All those sleep overs that she would help out with. She was a great lady and a wonderful mother. Now she is somewhere that she will be happy and w/out any pain. Hope to see her again someday but where everyone is happy. Deepest sympathies to the Pence family.

Karen Rossetti Floyd

March 24, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Kandi Olverson-Harmon

March 24, 2010

I am truley saddend to hear the news about Connie (A.K.A.) "My Lunch Buddy" I'm going to miss the good conversation and all the fun we used to have working together on the 4th floor in Neuro Pysch. Christmas will never be the same without her and Mel putting on their Christmas get together for the "work gang" . She will forever be in my heart. GodBless Mel, Becky, Tim and the Grandkids. We were all blessed to have Connie in our life. You are all in my prayers.

Kathy Booth

March 24, 2010

Dear Mel, Becky, Tim, Sara and Family

My heart is aching today as I lost my very good friend Connie. At the same time, I rejoice knowing she is in a far better place. I know Barbara was there waiting for her. I have such wonderful memories of all of you. We always had such good times when we were all together. Six Pence School was just the beginning of such a great friendship. Just know she will always be with you in your heart.

marjorie smith smith

March 24, 2010

i am very sorory to learn of connie's passing. what a
great girl. (doc) pete smith always enjoyed her-and
the rest of the group. she will be missed.

Rebecca Kapp

March 24, 2010

My mom was an incredible woman. She loved her grandchildren so much and she was a wonderful mother to me. I know that she will be watching over us and protecting us always. I love you mom!

Mary Jane (Hershey) Kuhnle

March 24, 2010

Mel, Becky, and Tim
I was so sorry to hear of Connie's passing. It has been a long time since our days at Six Pence School but my memories of those days and Connie's bigger than life presence remain some of the most treasured memories I have. We were all so young and idealistic then...
Connie impacted the lives of many young people over the years she gave at both Six Pence and OSU. May her spirit live on in her kids and grand kids!
My prayers are with you,

Christine Ginder

March 24, 2010

As a high school counselor, I worked with Connie over a span of many years and always found her to be concerned for the youth in her care. She was an advocate for their best interests, which I respected. My sympathies are extended to her family and close friends.

March 24, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of Connie's passing. She was such a help to many of our students during their stays at OSU. We always appreciated her kindness and professionalism. Our hearts and thoughts are with her family.
-Reynoldsburg High School Counselors

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