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John Neff Obituary

NEFF John Neff, age 72, of Hilliard, departed this life on Sunday, December 31, 2006. He was preceded in death by his parents George and Grace Neff, and by two sisters Coryn Lehman and Pauline Williams. John is survived by his wife of 52 1/2 years, Hilda; three children, Carol Filkins (Derrick) of Indianapolis, Mark of Columbus and Mary Sinclair McKinney (Kelly) of Columbus; one brother, Richard of Columbus; and a sister, Georgie Wolford of Englewood. John enjoyed his teaching career at Upper Arlington High School, where he taught Sophomore English, Psychology, and Humanities, and was the Alcohol/Drug Educator for the district the last seven years of his career. He was a very hard-working man, throwing himself wholeheartedly into whatever he was doing. While at UAHS, he developed a course "The Bible as Lit" and taught it for many years. John also was very active in his church, for 25 years at the Hilltop Church of God, where he taught a young adult Sunday school class and was active in the State Board of Christian Education for that church. Since 1983, he has been actively involved at First Community Church, where he taught adult education classes, served on the Adult Education Council, and Spiritual Searcher Committee, serving as Chair at different times of each, and was a member of the Board of Church and Ministry for the Central Southeast District of the U.C.C. For 22 years, he was a member of the First Community Church Chancel Choir which was a deep joy in his life. Following his teaching career, he did some light catering and was quite the gourmet cook. He was a man of many talents and was very widely read. John was the first leader of the Alpha Group at Camp Akita, now called the L.I.F.E. Guard (Life Is First Eternal), which is a service group of campers to Camp Akita. The last job he had before his illness robbed him of his health was as manager of the Utzinger Memorial Garden at the Farm Science Review, a job he loved very much. He spent many hours in his own green house planting seeds to be replanted into his own garden and yard. A Celebration of Life Service will be held at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, January 3, 2007 in the main sanctuary at First Community Church, 1320 Cambridge Blvd. Columbus, Ohio 43212, where the family will receive friends from 5-7 p.m. and following the service. Reverend James Long officiating. Floral contributions or gifts may be made to First Community Foundation or to The Ohio State Development Fund, Acct. Alzheimer Initiative Research 306246, 660 Ackerman Road, Columbus, Ohio 43218. Arrangements by SCHOEDINGER NORTHWEST CHAPEL, 1740 Zollinger Road.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Jan. 2 to Jan. 3, 2007.

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kay morrison

January 9, 2007

Dear Hilda and family
I am so sorry to hear about John's death. He was a great teacher, and talented in so many things. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Love Kay Morrison (Marilyn)

Joy Daniels Schmitter

January 7, 2007

I fondly remember being a student in John Neff's English class at UA in the early 60's. He was indeed a terrific teacher. My sincere condolences to his loving family.

Jim Dixon

January 6, 2007

Dear Hilda and Family,

I'm sorry hear about John. I enjoyed being in his class. If I
knew earlier I would have been at
the church.

Our prayers are with you and John and family.

John will be missed.

Carolyn Casper-DuVall

January 6, 2007

Dear
Hilda,
I am so sorry, I missed the notice of John's death in the paper. I would have been at the church. Buck sent the notice to our class and I read it today. I hope you are alright. As you know, you have been
in my thoughts and I am interested in getting together. Please call
when you are able. You have my number. The John we all knew and loved will be missed.

Millard Byrne

January 6, 2007

Hilda,
I was saddened to hear of John's death. I can still remember his teaching English at UAHS in the early 60s and of course when he and I took a church group to the Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness. I will miss him. He always made it a point of saying hello in church to his many friends. I'm sorry to have missed the memorial service. Our prayers are with you and John and family.
Buck and Nancy Byrne

Jan Billman

January 4, 2007

Hilda -

I always enjoyed being in choir with John and know how important it was to him. My best to you and your family.

Jan

Stephen Jenkins

January 4, 2007

Dear Hilda and Family,

Sorry to hear about John. I can remember helping him clean pools. He was a good guy...

Steve Jenkins

Mark Jenkins

January 3, 2007

Hilda, Carol, Mark and Mary:

I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I have many great memories of him, from Hilltop Church to summer jobs painting swimming pools and working the book fair at the High School. He helped teach me that Christianity can be culturally subversive and intellectually challenging!

He and all of you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Mark

Bob & Harriet Dana

January 3, 2007

Hilda,
John brought great enthusiasm to all his diverse activities, be it singing, catering, gardening, encouraging others. He was a man for all seasons and will be greatly missed.

Mary and Paul Jenkins

January 3, 2007

Dear Hilda and Family,
We feel deeply the loss of our friend, John, yet also thankful that he is now released from his diseased body.
We have a deep andlong lovingly
friendship with you and know that
our Heavenly Father is with all of
you..you are always in our love and
prayers...Mary and Paul Jenkins

Laurie (Keith) Joseph

January 3, 2007

I will always remember Mr. Neff as one of my favorite teacher's at Upper Arlington High School. I am saddened to hear of his passing. My prayers go out to your family Mr. Neff and may God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Laurie Keith-Class of 1971

Wendy McBride - (McLaughlin)

January 2, 2007

Dear Mary and Mark,
I am so sad to hear of your Fathers passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you will miss him greatly. Love to you. Wendy

Pam Stark

January 2, 2007

Mr. Neff was one of the best teachers I had at Upper Arlington High School. He always made his classes enjoyable but challenging. He will be missed by many people. My prayers are with his family.

Linda Steelman

January 2, 2007

Dear Hilda and Family -
The joys in John's life will remain with us. He shared his love of learning with us all. His passion for music, for his garden, for sharing just one more book with us - will be long remembered. Stephen Ministry training, catering, the choir trips to Europe, and work on the Department for Church and Ministry are places our lives touched. Hilda - your smiling eyes and loving decisions surely made his last months easier.
My love to you all.

Marianne Riofrio

January 2, 2007

Dear Hilda and family,

I was saddened to hear of John's passing, but as you do, believe he is in a better place. He certainly left his mark in this world by giving of himself in so many ways. He will be missed.

Warmest regards,

Mr. & Mrs. Richard Converse

January 2, 2007

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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