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OILER William Chad Oiler #30, age 41, died July 24, 2010, the victim of a senseless act of violence. He is survived by his loving family, mother, Pastor Betty Holland; father, Chester (Helen) Oiler; brotherm Todd (Sonya) Oiler; nieces, Jordin and Caitlin Oiler; nephew, Luke "Beamers" Oiler; and wife, Enola Oiler; aunts, uncles, cousins and too many friends to list. He was a good man with a good heart who loved his friends and family. He was an avid hunter and was passionate about racing at the Columbus Motor Speedway. He was loved dearly and will be missed terribly every day. Service for family and friends of Chad will be private with Pastor Denver Peters officiating. Arrangements with O.R. WOODYARD CO. SOUTH CHAPEL.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Jul. 27, 2010.

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catlin estep

July 6, 2011

dear chad i love and miss yhu alot yhu didnt diserve to die yhu wore a good man we all love an miss yhu garfield pasted and we no yhu are taking good care of him and wacthing down on us and making sure nutin hapinsto us well love yhu and i think about yhu alot

destiney estep

April 5, 2011

i miss you so much chad i love you and i no youare looking sown on all of us.ur the best and i think about u every night most of the time i cry when i found out waht happend i went stright too tears u were a good man and i am sure no one is going to forget you i love you soo much chad ur the best granpal ever.

Craig L

December 2, 2010

For its been years, but the memories are strong. The fun carefree years will never be again, but with me they will never be forgotten.
Craig L.

September 30, 2010

Chad,
There will never be words to express the deep sorrow that I have felt since you have been gone. You were a son that I took under my wing. It was so hard to finish out the season at Cols Motor Speedway this year without you. Know that I love you and was so proud of you. I can still see you greeting me with that infamous "Hi Mom" as you high stepped it to the trailer for something to eat. Then we would sit and chat about everything and anything.
You were such a good man with a contagious smile. A true zest for life.
I wish you could have truly known how many people truly loved you and looked up to you for who you really were.
The memories you have left behind are what brings us joy as we talk about all the fun and wonderful things you did with your life. No one could 4wheel, hunter, race, fish or camp like you and Bill when the two of you set out for an adventure. lol
I will always watch over Enola for you!

You will always be in my heart Chad!
I love you.
Mom Boni

Betty Holland

August 19, 2010

Gone way to soon!!!! Gone but will never be forgotten. I love you son, Love your mom

sonya oiler

August 19, 2010

My heart aches for you Chadley.

caitlin oiler

August 19, 2010

i will miss your bigg huggs and you not being at my 13th birtday sucksssssss. I cant believe you wont be there for my graduation or for my wedding... and i still remember what you and daddy said you was gonna do when i brought home my first birthday-ya know that sene from bad boys 2? hahahaha... you always told me you loved me and kissed me before you left and before you got off the phone... you were always there day or nite no matter what... who is gonna take luke hunting now? and fourrunning? mannnn i miss you soo much it hurts. Forever in my Heart Uncle Chad-You were one of a kind.
Love, Caiti -bugg Oiler

caitlin oiler

August 18, 2010

the thing that i am gonna miss the most bout my uncle chad is his hugs..and him always being there for us no matter what like when we were stranded on the side of the road all we would have to do is call him up and he would be right there..i am gonna be extremely sad when he wont be able to make my 13th birthday or graduation and my wedding..he always made this joke that when i would bring my first boyfriend home he would be sitting home in the front porch waiting with a shotgun..used to make me laugh my butt off that no one else could do..and now luke cant go hunting with him..he loved his saturday morning bob evans barn yard busters breakfast.....he knew all my tickle spots too..luvs ya

July 31, 2010

Chad you will be in my heart always you was a dear friend and will never be forgotten.God bless all of Chad's family and friends in this time of great sorrow with my deepest sympathy.Tim and Juanita Mcdowell

July 28, 2010

sorry for your family's loss, C & M TOWING

Duane Davidson

July 28, 2010

I didnt get to know Chad at the track to well but i dont know about everyone else but i will stripe my number for you.
Compact77

T Knapp

July 28, 2010

God Bless the Oiler family in there time of need! My wife and I were also friends of Chad's from Walnut Heights and Independence SR High. Just got back in touch with him and gone before we got to watch him race. Its a sad time but he is in a much better place.

Sincerely,
The Knapp Family

Carol and Kim England

July 28, 2010

Our deepest smypathy to the family.

Stevie Newman

July 27, 2010

I luv ya uncle chad gone but never forgotten u will be missed im goin to columbus moter speedway saturday to c even know u really aint about to be dere but i know da is goin to have sumthin about u.. I miss u and da crazy part is dat i had just talked to u over da phone i didnt know dat was goin to be da last tyme i was goin to talk to u.. Its hurts soo bad to know dat ur gone.. I luv ya R.I.P...

Stevie

July 27, 2010

Dear Betty and Todd ,
You may not remember me but I have never forgotten the impact you had in my life. Especialy Chad , I don't believe Chad ever met a stranger. His love for his fellow man came streight from his heart. He is one of the best friends and almost cousins I have ever had. My only regret is that we lost touch so many years ago.
Sincerely
(Rob) Robert Hines Jr.

Pam (Peacock) Lemaster

July 27, 2010

The thoughts and prayers of an old friend are with you and your family in this time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Shonda Beebe

July 27, 2010

I knew Chad mainly from the racetrack. He was one of the nicest people out there. I remember when he was building his new race car. He was so excited he gave me pictures of his progress to keep. I will always hold them dear. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad and lonely time. May God help you to remember all the happy memories forever.

Traci Jordan

July 27, 2010

Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache:
but those who care and
share your loss wish you
comfort and peace of mind.
May you find strength
in the love of family
and in the warm embrace
of friends.

Deepest Sympathy
~The Jordan Family

July 27, 2010

Ms. Holland.... Ambassador Home Health would like to extend our condolences to you and your family. The salvation of the righteous comes from the LORD; he is their stronghold in time of trouble. Psalm 37:39.
Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.
Psalm 30:5
Alexis

Susan Payton

July 27, 2010

Enola, Betty, Todd, Sonya, Jordan, Caitlyn & Luke & family,
Please know that we join you in your grief, sorrow and prayers for Chad.
In His love,
Susan Payton & family

Psalm 27 - How comforting it is to know that when we wait on the LORD with great courage, he gives us the strength we need for all we face today!

Tiffany Estep

July 27, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Michelle McCoy

July 27, 2010

Chad will be deeply missed by his family and friends. I will miss seeing Chad at the track. He did always have a smile and made us all laugh. Our deepest sympathy goes to all who was touched by Chad. He's racing with the big guys now.

July 27, 2010

Dave and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you
and your family at this difficult time--our thoughts and our
prayers are with you--we remember him.

Dave and Anita Frickey

Walter & Judith Turner

July 27, 2010

In Loveing Memory of Chad. He will always be in our hearts. We will see you again Chad when we meet at Heaven's gates. We Love and Miss you!

Jennifer Lawwell

July 27, 2010

Our family would like to send our deepest sympathy to the Oiler family.
--The Lawwell Family

Sethe and Lisa Siddell

July 27, 2010

Chad was one of my best friends growing up in Walnut Heights, and continued until our 20s,and i have so many great memorier of Chad, we lost contact for a while but always seem to run into each other over the years. Thanks to internet social pages we had statred to reconnect. You will be missed very much and i will always love you my brother, May God be with your family during this time of need.

MISTY BROYLES

July 27, 2010

TO THE FAMILY & CLOSE FRIENDS, WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF CHAD. OUR FAMILY KNEW HIM FROM THE RACE TRACK & MY HUSBAND RACED WITH HIM. HE WAS A VERY GOOD GUY & HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. I DON'T RECALL EVER SEEING CHAD WITHOUT A SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE LOVED TO JOKE WITH MY HUSBAND ABOUT THE RACE. JUST A FEW WEEKS AGO WE WERE ALL SITTING IN THE PITS TOGETHER JOKING AROUND. IT IS HARD TO BELIEVE THAT HE IS GONE. WE WILL MISS YOU CHAD...RIP...OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU AT THIS VERY SAD TIME. SINCERELY, MISTY & BILL BROYLES

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