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Matthew M. Ellis

1985 - 2019

Matthew M. Ellis obituary, 1985-2019, Marlborough, CT

BORN

1985

DIED

2019

Matthew Ellis Obituary

Matthew Michael (Gut) Ellis, 34, of Agawam, MA, beloved husband of Rebeccah (Ziemba) Ellis, entered into Eternal Peace on Tuesday, September 24, 2019 at Hartford Hospital, where he courageously and generously donated his organs to save others' lives. He was born in Manchester, CT, on April 27, 1985, the son of Deborah Ann Ellis and the late Michael Peter Gut. Matthew was raised in Marlborough, CT, a town he appreciated for its country charm and where he was employed as a chef at Sadler's Ordinary Restaurant. He would often go fishing, kayaking, paddle boarding, and swimming, especially to ride the waves at the ocean on his boogie board. In the winter he would spend his free time snowboarding in Vermont. He was also a member of the Oxbow Water Ski Show Team, and was an avid car enthusiast who took great joy in driving his esteemed STI, Belle. In addition to his wife Rebeccah, Matthew is survived by his mother, Deborah Ann Ellis of Windsor Locks; his sister, Melissa Gut of John's Island, SC; his grandmother, Carol Ellis of Cottonwood, TN; his uncles, Robert Ellis and wife Tammy of Cross Plains, TN; Robert Gut and companion Lynn Boyan of Cromwell; David Gut and husband Roy Saucier of Newington; and several beloved cousins. A memorial service honoring Matthew's life will be celebrated at 11:00am on Saturday, October 5, 2019 at Marlborough Congregational Church, 35 South Main Street, Marlborough, CT. A reception will follow. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in honor of Matthew to your local animal shelter, or to aid his dear friend, Kevin Haggerty [https://www.gofundme.com/f/kevin-haggerty039s-support-equipment-needs].

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 3, 2019.

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October 8, 2019

Becci,

I'm so sorry for you loss. Treasure the memories. In my thoughts and prayers.

Cheryl Moran
Windsor

Jim Henderschedt

October 5, 2019

This is such a tremendous shock. My family and I will miss him dearly. He always had a smile on his face when I saw him. I am so truly sorry for your loss. May he be at peace with God!
The Henderschedt Family

Robin and Jay Farquhar

October 4, 2019

As a kid Matt was friends with our son in Scouts, birthdays, sleepovers and youth group. He was a kind and gentle boy. We have enjoyed his culinary skill many times at Sadlers. We send our sincere condolences to the family. He will live on through is generous gifts of life.

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Linda LaMar

October 4, 2019

Debbie, Melissa and family, Randy and I were heartbroken to hear of Matt's passing. There are no words that can ease your loss but know he is in a better place now. He will never be forgotten. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Susan Baroni-Schaeffer

October 4, 2019

Debbie, Melissa, Becci & Family - Our hearts are broken hearing the news of Matt's passing. The memories of Matt in Youth Group are many and then seeing him all grown up as he was working the kitchen at the Marlborough Tavern years ago was the nudge saying "They do grow up". There are no words to ease your pain and sadness but hope you know Matt will never be forgotten and you all will be wrapped in love by so many. All our love - Susan & Hank Schaeffer

Noel Kelly

October 3, 2019

Unfortunately I was never given the opportunity to get to know Matt but it I think it's important that I share with everyone how an important and inspiring role model he was for my son Aidan. Aidan had worked with Mat for the last 4 years at Sadlers and during this time was taken under Matt's gentle and caring guidance working in the kitchen. Aidan absolutely idolized Matt! Their mutual love of the outdoors and music gave them lots to chat about during the work shifts at the restaurant. Aidan often referred to him as the big brother he never had. He will be sorely missed. Such a sad loss of a special young man making such a big difference in people lives.

Donna Goodwill

October 3, 2019

Debbie and Melissa,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you both during this very difficult time, we're so very sorry for your loss. Mike was a wonderful young man.
Sincerely,
The Goodwill Family

October 3, 2019

Sending love during this difficult time. Please know Becci you are in our thoughts and prayers - Heidi & Mike Tanca

Lisa Francis

October 2, 2019

Matt was such a great young man. I will always remember him trying to use his culinary skills to "fix" or "alter" the cooking we would do during youth group camping trips. He will be missed and remembered by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Matt's family. Earth's loss is Heaven's blessing.....Lisa

Sandy & Brian McDermott

October 2, 2019

Matt left this world much too young, but we know his light is shining bright above. Our sincerest sympathy to all his family.

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