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Michael Unger
April 30, 2023
At a time when I felt very alone and didn´t understand my Catholic faith, Monsignor Jamail offered to meet with me once a week. This lasted about 6 months. In that time he listened to every thing on my mind. All the while he guided me closer and closer to Jesus. We ended with my first confession in 15 years. I was a new man, strengthened in my faith and love for Jesus. At the time, these meetings seemed so random. But looking back now, I realize that God answered my prayers for help through Monsignor Jamail.
Dear Lord, please bless Monsignor Jamail and let him live in heaven with you forever. Monsignor Jamail please pray for us.
Michael Unger
Mary Wright
May 4, 2021
God bless monsigniour jamail.
Mary Beth Wright-Unker
October 29, 2019
17 years later, I found this page. I loved Monsgr Jamail and often went to vespers service after work with him. The kindness radiated from him always. I was very troubled but those weekday services with him helped me press on. Life took us out to katy area and then my husband left me but I still cherish the time I had with mnsgr even though I wasn't even catholic, just going to church with my husband. Even after all these years I cried reading all these beautiful remembrances. Jim and Margaret Henrikson, thank you also for premarital counseling and even coming to my wedding. You two were also wonderful. I still miss st. Vincent's.
Mary Beth Unker, clear lake area
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Lucy Burger
July 7, 2003
I have already written an entry in the book last year, but I wanted to add this as well: I have composed a piece of choir music with Monsignor Jamail in mind. Part of it I composed for him right before he died, and part of it just lately. Here are the words:
May none of God's wonderful works keep silence, night or morning. Bright stars, high mountains, the depths of the seas, and the rushing rivers: may they all break into song, and the angels in heaven reply: Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
The printed piece has the words "composed in Thanksgiving for the life of Monsignor James Jamail" just under the title. It has crossed my mind that perhaps some member(s) of the family might like to have a printed copy of the music, so this is my way of letting you know if you are in the family and think it would be nice to have a copy of this music, I'd be happy to send it to you for your memory book or just to have. Just e-mail me and I'll be happy to answer and put a copy in the mail to you. I used to go to church at St. Vincent's when I lived in Houston. Sincerely, Lucy B.
Sally Schwartzel
June 30, 2003
Monsignor Jamail was an angel in my family's life. Every hard time in our lives, Monsignor was there for us. I don't know what we would have done without him helping out our family. He is truly missed to this day, even more than a year after his passing. I think that God just wanted another angel to keep him company in heaven. God is so lucky and I feel honored that I got to know such an incredible man. Knowing that he is looking out for us all gives me strength every day. We love you and miss you Monsignor.
yvette jamil - shehadi
June 17, 2003
I am sorry that I never got to hear mass from Monsignor Jamail during my year stay in Houston due to his illness. I will always wish that I had the honor to have met him.
my sincere wishes to his family,
yvette jamil shehadi
Roy Hiller
December 15, 2002
Msgr. Jamail was truly a father to his SVDP parishoners. Though I have been away from Houston for over 10 years, St. Vincents still feels like my home due to his warmth.
Erin Healey
November 28, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was an inspiration to my family. He was a warm and giving person. My mom enjoyed working with him at the church and will miss him greatly. Although I have not lived in Houston for 10 years, I enjoy attending mass at St. Vincent's when I am home. I will miss Monsignor's smile and warm greetings. He will not be forgotten.
Erin Healey
St. Vincent Class of 1989
Diane Patin
June 5, 2002
It was a great honor to know Fr. Jamail during the five years that I was a member of St. Vincent's. I will never forget his encouragement and support as a group of us started a folk-mass choir at the 5:00 service. His support and positive guidance helped us as very young people to try give back to the the church.Even though my membership was in the early 70s, I have never forgotten his caring and concern for all people. Young or old-it didn't matter for his spiritual beliefs broke through all barriers. As a teacher at St. Vincent's I saw how he was concerned for the spiritual and physical welfare of the children, their parents, and the faculty. Everything and everyone counted-all mattered. Since leaving St. Vincent's I always try to stop by at least once a year and reflect on those short five years and remember what I received during that time. Most importantly, I reflect on what I have given back to others. Fr. Jamail set the example of giving by living each day as a day for many opportunities to share. I thank God for such a wonderful guide who left some wonderful signs to follow along on the path of life.
I will never forget Fr. Jamail.
Sandy Atha
June 2, 2002
Msgr. Jamail walked gently on this earth. Our paths crossed over 30 years ago in South Dakota. Years later in Houston our paths crossed again. He listened to me patiently as I raised three children alone and many others at Jean Donovan House. In my 40's he supported me when I took a mission in Nicaragua. When the huricane hit our village and destroyed our church, he help us raise money to repair the church, help the needy and educate the young. Each visit home, he gave me a blessing the day before I would leave. When the elections came and I had to leave, he told me that he prayed for me by name everyday. I believe that without his prayers I would have died in Nicaragua. He has been more then a supporter, he was my mentor and I miss him. The children of Matagalpa Diocese have lost a wonderful friend.
Msgr. Jamail knowing that I am a native American showed me how my native ways were a spiritual aspect of my life. For the first time in my life, I felt proud of my heritage. I am at peace knowing that he is walking gently with my Lord.
Sandy Atha
Houston, Texas
Rebecca Stevenson
May 29, 2002
Monsignor has been a huge inspiration for my family. My mother was diagnosed with cancer about 3 1/2 years ago, and it has made a lot of changes for our family. I was very upset, and it made me wonder why God would give this disease to such a great woman. She has brought eight children into this world, and she has done everything a mom should do. My mom was very close to Monsignor. He came over to our home many times to give my mom communion when she was too sick to come to church, and he even came by just to visit and talk with her. I could see in my mothers eyes that it meant a lot to her. He cared for her so much and it made her feel strong. When I heard the news that Monsignor was diagnosed with cancer, I asked myself, "A priest with cancer?" Why would God choose him? Then I started thinking.....Monsignor is more than perfect. He is strong, loving, faithful, honest, hard-working, kind, and very caring. Then I thought about my mom, who is also perfect. She is also very loving, hard-working, faithful, beautiful, and caring, and then it hit me..."God wants the best." Monsignor will be deeply missed by our entire family, and we thank him for all the love and support he has given to us and the many others. We love you very much and always will.
Love, Rebecca
elizabeth godwin
May 28, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was responsible for my conversion to Catholicism in 1992. Thereafter, he continued to guide me and take an interest in my family. He had more influence on my life, spiritual and otherwise, than any other person that I have known. I am eternally grateful for his compassion and efforts on my behalf. Though it has been several weeks since he left us, I still sense his presence when I enter the church. His spirit remains with the parish and church that he loved so dearly.
Susan and Dorothy Getz
May 27, 2002
Please accept our condolences. Monsignor Jamail was truly a friend and a very special person to our family. Monsignor Jamail will be greatly missed, however, I know that he will now be with us even closer than he was before. My mother and myself send our prayers and thoughts to the family and friends of this dear saint. Just me - Sue
Debra Guercio-Spence
May 26, 2002
Dear people of St. Vincent De Paul Parish;
I am writing this letter to you with much sorrow in my heart. I too, grieve the loss of your beloved pastor, Monsignor Jamail. He was not just one of those priests who I heard about from someone else. For many years, I was a parishioner at St. Vincent De Paul Church. But my knowledge of how truly great he was came to me following a very difficult time in my life. I would like to tell you a little of how I came to know Monsignor Jamail many years ago. I had just lost my teenage niece, Laurie to suicide. I had a young son who at the time of this incident was also a teenager. I really didn’t know how to deal with the loss I was feeling much less how I was to help my son overcome his feelings of fear and loss. I talked with Monsignor Jamail about Jason and he encouraged me to have Jason come and speak with him. Jason was an altar server at the church and knew Monsignor fairly well. I know that during that talk and subsequent other times, Monsignor helped Jason to voice his concerns and come to terms with losing his cousin in such a violent way. Over the next several years, Monsignor Jamail helped Jason become a wonderful young man and a more terrific adult. I owe more to Monsignor Jamail than I could ever hope to repay.
I am sure there are thousands of you here at this church who have similar stories of Monsignor Jamail and how he helped someone in your family, or one of your friends or maybe even you personally. You might be saying to yourself, “How are we ever going to do without him?” I hope that in the days and weeks to come you will come to terms with your loss as well. I would ask that during those times when you don’t think you can even enter the church’s doors knowing that he won’t be there with that terrific smile of his and all of his gentle loving ways that you can look back and remember those happy times you spent with him. Remember that he was there with you when your children were baptized, made their First Communion and First Confession, and Confirmation. Remember when he pronounced you Man and Wife. Remember him when he comforted you and counseled you during divorce, or following the loss of a spouse, parent, or child. Remember those comical times when he verbally sparred with Father Kevin and Father Paul. Those things will get you through the tough days ahead.
No doubt we will all miss Monsignor terribly. Someone like him cannot leave our world without our feeling a void that seems insurmountable. But I have no doubt that Monsignor Jamail is with Our Lord and Savior. He has gone before to prepare a place for us too.
Pray for the Jamail Family. Pray for Bishop Fiorenza, Father Phil, Father Phi, Father Ramos, Sister Virginia and all of the parish staff. And continue to pray for yourselves and your parish family. God will provide the one who is to come next with the tools needed to help all of you to continue what Monsignor Jamail started.
He loved you and St. Vincent De Paul. Continue to make him proud of you as you have in the past.
Your Sister in Christ,
Debra Guercio Spence
St. Vincent De Paul Class of 1968
Parishioner 1964-1990
Charlie Schwartzel
May 26, 2002
Msgr. Jamail was a major role model in my life. He taught me what it is to love God and to trust in God. He always said "let God's will be done," and I really believe that thats true. We can't control what happens in our lives, we just have to trust in God that everything is in control and we have to go along with it, grieve, and move on. Mosignors death has been a major event in my life, but I know that he is with God now and his words of wisdom have really helped me deal with his death. I will always remember Monsignor Jamail.
Gustavo Camacho
May 23, 2002
I find it amusing that this is way to express our sentiment and loss of such a great person.... who really didn't like to use the computer to much.
What a great man. He was an inspiration and I hope that by his teachings and interventions in my life I will grow to be as spiritually strong as he was.
He will be missed by many, he will be watching many more...
May we all be as lucky as he was. May we all find God's loving embrace and learn to accept the Will of our Lord.
May God give peace to his family.
Love your brother,
Gus
Lucy Burger
May 13, 2002
I think of Monsignor Jamail as a true and genuine example of a life of integrity based on a deep longing to be close to God and to share that closeness with others. He was both kind and gentle, but also strong and clear. I would like to let his family know that i appreciated his presence in the world very much. I used to play the trumpet at St. Vincent de Paul Parish, and he often let me know that he really loved that trumpet, and this helped me learn something about playing music that I did not understand before. It helped me see that there is such a thing as playing with love and singing with love, and that is one gift that he has given me which is worth more than anything, and it is something that I endeavor to always remember, and it is something I can truly share with others. I also fondly remember his passion for nature, and his annual camping trips as well as his passion for Native-American life and crafts. Those special loves that people have are an important way to stay connected with one's own heart, and I admire him for keeping those things in his life even when he had work that could easily have seemed overwhelming. The life of Monsignor James Jamail was and is a real treasure.
Darryl, Luke & Stephanie Jamail with Uncle Jimmy 4-20-02
Darryl, Stephanie & Luke Jamail
May 13, 2002
We were privilidged to have Monsignor Jamail for an uncle, and great uncle (for Luke). We feel he always set a standard for us with his life.... for living our lives in a manner that brings people to Christ and sharing Christ's love in all we say and do here on earth. Stephanie and I will always be grateful for his guidance in our lives, and the blessing of having known him. We look forward to seeing him again when we are all reuinted in Christ.
It truly warmed our hearts to see the outpouring of love from his parishoners, and everyone who knew him. We thank you all.
We love you Uncle Jimmy.
Deborah Mansfield
May 13, 2002
Monsignor James Jamail touched our lives by example. Our family is thankful to have had him as a spiritual shephard. We are sad but also rejoice that he is now with God.
Susan Schmaeling Pielech
May 11, 2002
Every time I pull into St. Vincent's I still expect to see Monsignor bustling by, carrying his cup of coffee, smiling at all. He taught us we were loved by God, no matter what. He was so present in our daily lives at the school and parish - what a gentle soul. I feel blessed to be a part of the SVDP community; and are committed to carrying on Monsignor's message of love. Susan Schmaeling Pielech
Tipps Family
May 11, 2002
Christmas Eve, 1988 was the day we lost our son in still birth, and the day we first came to know Msgr. James Jamail. With compassion and kindness he guided us through the darkness of our loss, leading us through those dark times with his Christ-like light. As we mourn with thousands of souls on earth for Msgr. Jamail, we know our son, Jacob, is one of the thousands in Heaven celebrating with him his victory over death.
Robert Frappier
May 10, 2002
Our family is truly blessed to have been touched by the kind soul of Msgr. Jamail.
Phil DePrato
May 10, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was a friend for more than thirty years, and one of the finest people I have ever known. May his soul rest in peace for all eternity. I will miss him more than words can ever express.
Leticia Rodriguez
May 10, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was a contant is my life. Even after I moved aways from the parish I continued to attend mass at St. Vicent's. He provided his loving guidance and support to all. I will always remember him and know that I'm so privilieged for having known him.
Maria and Boyd Carano
May 10, 2002
Although we have lived in Mexico, on the East Coast and in Southeast Asia since we first heard Monsignor Jamail direct us to bow our heads and pray for God's blessing, he remains for us the emblem of pastor. He was nothing less than a disciple of Christ. We were blessed indeed to have known him.
Kathy Hwu
May 9, 2002
Thank you, Msjr, for making me feel welcome in the Church at a time when I questioned being Catholic. And thank you for helping me become a Eucharistic minister and allowing me to bring Jesus to my dying friend. I will always be grateful to you for all you have done for me. You have helped me see that I belong in God's Church.
Love,
Kathy
Jim and Margaret Henrikson
May 9, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was the epitome of what a priest should be. He was truly a man of God and his vocation was evident in every aspect of his ministry. We at St. Vincent de Paul thought he was "ours", but in reality, he was a man of the people and was loved and revered by thousands. There is a hole in our hearts, but we are comforted knowing that we all now have an advocate in Heaven.
Jim and Margaret
John, Elizabeth and Emily
Henrikson
Janice Aston White
May 9, 2002
Msgr. Jamail was an icon at SVDP. The parish and the school children respected and admired him. He was our spiritual and educational leader. What a wonderful life he led and how he enriched all of our lives! Thank you for all you did for us and others. You will be remembered and live in our hearts.
Scott Kerman
May 9, 2002
What I'll remember most about Monsignor Jamail is how much he loved and cared for the students at St. Vincent's. So many students are successful adults today because of his singular imprint on their young lives.
I continue to treasure the special experiences I had as a teacher at SVDP, and I thank you, Msgr. Jamail, for your support and wisdom.
Scott Kerman
Judy, Wayne, Robert, Michael, and Lindsey Marchand
May 9, 2002
We have been belonged to St. Vincent De Paul Parish for 25 years, we have seen many changes in the parish, church, school and campus because Monsignor had a vision for St. Vincent to become the best parish and school in the diocese and it has.
All three of our children made their first communions at St. Vincent and two of our children have been confirmed there. Our boys graduated from St. Vincent school and our daughter will graduate this year. Her comment when Monsignor died was she knew she would have to say good by to St. Vincent school this year but she didn't realize she would have to say good by to Monsignor too.
Thank you Monsignor for your love and support to our entire family.
Meredith Wilson
May 9, 2002
I met Monsignor Jamail after having been a lapsed Catholic for many years. We sat in his office and he said to me, "Meredith, what did the Church do to lose you and what can we do to get you back?" I was stunned by his candor and genuine kindness. I had never before met a priest who was so full of love. Monsignor Jamail is the reason why I came back to the Church, and through his guidance I rediscovered the joy our faith has to offer. Though my heart is aching terribly over this loss, I feel enriched and uplifted for having had the privilege of knowing such a fine man of God. He is with God now, and I feel him smiling down on all of us.
Tricia Trombatore Limon
May 9, 2002
I will always remember Father Jamail from Assumption Church and from St. Pius X High School. He was truly my favorite priest and I learned alot from him. He kept my faith going. He holds a special place in my heart.
Eileen Hohlt
May 9, 2002
I will remember one of Monsignor Jamail's last acts of ministry as the First Communion Mass on Holy Thursday, when our youngest child received her First Communion from Monsignor. Is is very meaningful to us that all of our children received their First Communion from him.
He insisted on the Consecration to the Sacred Heart of Jesus as the closing prayer at each First Communion celebration at St. Vincent's. This tradition, he told us, dates from his own First Communion when he first consecrated his life to Jesus. This Consecration -- The Prayer to the Sacred Heart of Jesus -- reads today like a powerful summary of his own life:
"...Make me humble, patient, pure and wholly obedient to Your will. Grant, good Jesus, that I may live in You and for You. Protect me in the midst of danger; comfort me in my afflictions; give me health of body, assistance in my temporal needs, Your blessing on all that I do, and the grace of a holy death."
Thank you, dear Monsignor, for ministering to us by living Jesus' example of unconditional love.
May you rest in peace.
Carol Vacek
May 9, 2002
Dearest Monsignor Jamail,
You bring a smile to my heart - you lovingly supported me and my family.
You taught me how to be a better person.
All my love, Carol
Caren Grant
May 9, 2002
Msgr. Jamil you enriched the lives of my family. You married my one of my daughters, gave first communion to two and confirmed three. Thank you. You will be missed.
Caren Grant
Kellen Wilson
May 9, 2002
Monsignor,
you touched my family in ways you will never know, yet we will never forget.
Linda Ott
May 9, 2002
We will miss Monsignor Jamail. He was a big part of my daughters education at SVDP school and taught them about God, family, and happiness. The children respected him and he was a great role model and teacher. We always looked forward to his masses and his wonderful lectures. At the end of his great life, he taught us one more lesson and that is how to handle terminal illness with dignity and grace. Linda Ott
Tracy Christopher
May 9, 2002
Our family will miss Monsignor Jamail. He was a kind and compassionate man with a great sense of humor. He was truly the shepherd at SVDP, "leading his flock and gathering the lambs in his arms." He is home now with God.
Christina Journagan
May 9, 2002
Thank you, Msgr. Jamail. I never had a chance to tell you what a profound effect you had on my faith. You brought me to the Catholic church and to a faith I never imagined I could have. Thank you for your love and example. You will be sorely missed. My most sincere condolences to your family. We are so grateful to them for sharing you with us, your church family.
Mary Clarin-Jante
May 9, 2002
I have known Monsignor when I first came to Houston at the age of 5. He gave me my first communion. He was there for my first reconciliation. He was there for my 5th grade DARE ceremony. He was there for my 8th grade graduation at St. Vincent. He did my confirmation. But the thing that touched me the most was the fact that he gave me the most heart-to-heart advice on my pregnancy and marriage. He was and still is a magnificent man! I was lucky enough to have him baptize my daughter. The one thing I missed, was having him marry us in the church. He will always have a place in our hearts. We love you Monsignor!
Love always,
Mary Clarin - Jante
Michael Jante
Marichael Clarin _ Jante
Maria Clarin
Guillermo Clarin
Katherine Evans
May 9, 2002
Monsignor Jamail exuded holiness, just to be in his presence brought one closer to the dear Lord he loved and served. I attended RCIA classes several years ago, and had my first confession with Monsignor. I was afraid, felt awkward, and told him so. He took my hands and smiled that beautiful smile, and said he would help me. It was a most precious moment. Although my heart aches for my loss of his presence in this physical world, he lives on with our Lord. I am glad that he is on my side!
Raquel Aguilar
May 9, 2002
The Lord has exalted Monsignor to the heavens.
Praise God for having shared Mgsr. Jamail with us. He will be missed.
Maxine M. Davis
May 9, 2002
My family and I are so saddened by the death of Msgr. Jamail. He was a wonderful man who restored all my beliefs in the Catholic religion. He influenced the lives of my children in their religious beliefs. Going to church with him there was a pleasure and something to look forward to. My youngest daughter would always cut in the lines to receive communion from him as she adored him. I know he will be missed and know he will be hard to resplace in St. Vincents. We were members of St. Vincent's and recently moved to Austin and we are having a difficult time finding a church that is even close to St. Vincents but hopefully will. We will remember him in our prayers daily.
Maxine M. Davis
Austin, Texas
Dahr Jamail
May 8, 2002
Monsignor Jamail, Uncle Jimmy to me, has always represented the essence of goodness and truth. He introduced me to Mountains and Nature during a camping trip to Wyoming when he donated much of his Native American beadwork creations to the Crazy Horse Museum. Only recently have I seen how even that vacation was an act of giving for him-to the museum, and to me. His gift of these introductions remains one of great importance to me; having moved to Alaska to be closer to Mountains and Nature.
Every holiday, Uncle Jimmy was always there to remind us of the essence of each day-whether it be Thanksgiving, Christmas, or Easter.
I could go on at great length with wonderful stories.
Here I shall say I am humbled by the outpouring of love by the countless souls my Uncle touched during his life. I feel grateful and privileged to be his nephew. He has always had a special place in my heart, and like he is with so many others, he remains a spiritual Father to me.
Watching how he moved through his last weeks on Earth showed me what Faith is, and the power and strength of someone who has lived their life in the truest spirit of service. The lessons he shared with me in his last days shall continue for my lifetime.
With the greatest Love and Honor,
Dahr Jamail
Laurel McConn
May 8, 2002
Thank you Msgr. for everything you have contributed to our community. You have touched the lives of so many and you will always be remembered. I just wanted to thank you for always being there in times of need and for getting me where I am in my relationship with God. You are always in my prayers!
Love,
Laurel McConn
and
Camille McConn
Margaret McConn
John McConn
David Doan
May 8, 2002
Even though it is a very sad event for us since we have lost such a great leader and person who could truly show us God's light, it is not all sad. He is on his way now to a better place. I am happy he is through with his battle with cancer. We must not always focus on things that only better ourselves. Sometimes what is best is not best for us individually. I will always miss Monsignor Jamail. However he will always be with me. His words have and will continue to be a guiding force in my life.
John , Dora & Jessica Glaser
May 8, 2002
Your love for the Holy Eucharist and deep Spirituality will always be remembered by our family. We will miss you!! Your words will remain forever in our hearts.
Jeffrey Rembert
May 8, 2002
Fr. Jamail was one of the reasons my transfer in 1970 from public school to St. Vincent de Paul was a wonderful and enlightening experience. And as Protestants, my family always felt like an integral part of the school community. Though I've remained a member of the Episcopal Church, my children today attend a Catholic school and enjoy the same joys I experienced as a boy. For that I thank, Fr. Jamail and his memory.
DIANA MENDOZA
May 8, 2002
MONSIGNOR JAMAIL
Thank you for your kind words.
Vargo Family
May 8, 2002
Thank you MSGR. for all the years of service. You brought hope to so many. May you be with God eternally.
George, Carla and Emilia Benton
May 8, 2002
Monsignor Jamail will always have a place in our hearts. We feel blessed to have known him, attended his masses, received the sacrements from his hands and most of all to have had his wise and compassionate
counseling. The memory of the beautiful memorial mass he said for Claudia still affects me so powerfully. He could always make you feel at ease and comfortable visiting with him but there was no
question that this man was very special to so many people whose lives he touched. Thank you so much, Monsignor.
Michael Marino
May 8, 2002
I have known Monsignor Jamail since he was assigned to St. Vincents. I was in 5th Grade at the time and also an alter boy. After countless days of serving him through mass, funerals, and weddings, I got to know Monsignor very well. He was a dear friend for the past 17 years. After leaving from college, I would always hate going to another church because he was not Monsignor. He was the only person I could really listen to and keep my attention during a liturgy. I always wanted him to perform my marriage ceremony, but I guess I put it off to long. I will miss him greatly as we all will.
We will always remember him in our minds and in our hearts, for the love that we all shared will never keep us apart.
God Bless You Monsignor!!!
Love,
Michael Marino
John Marino
Shawn Marino
Bernard Marino
Linda Marino
Sophie Esquiff
May 8, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was such a blessing to all of us. His Christ-centered love and faith guided us daily. We will truly miss him, but he will be with us always.
Respectfully,
Sophie Esquiff and Larry Balsam
Amy Poye-Freeman
May 8, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was so much more than a parish priest to me and my family. When my father, Bill Poye, was diagnosed with Leukemia, Monsignor Jamail was always there for us. I was so angry at the Lord for allowing my father to be sick that I did not want to celebrate Christmas, not even decorate. My mother, Sandy Poye, went to see Monsignor for guidance on how to renew my faith in God. After she explained the situation, Monsignor Jamail answered, "There is no greater faith than to shake one's fist at the Lord." His faith in God was only matched by his faith in his parishoners. I will miss him dearly and will never forget how much he loved and believed in me.
Robert Alaniz
May 8, 2002
Father Jamail was a kind and gentle man who touched the lives of all who met him. I am thankful that I met him in my lifetime. It was through his words that I continued my catholic education and received my confirmation this past Easter. I would like to say to Monsignor Jamail's family that he gave me his love and I hope to spread it to others.
Alicia Harris
May 8, 2002
When Monsignor Jamail looked at me I felt the love and acceptance of God. Today, I felt that it was not right to selfishly pray for Father Jamail to look after us from Heaven, he loved and cared for us while on Earth. I wished, prayed (and know) that he is now beside God and rewarded with glory so wonderful that we cannot imagine. God, Please take away the pain his family is feeling. Thank you for allowing me to see and know you when Monsignoir Jamail was near.
Rob & Kelly Matwick
May 8, 2002
Monsignor Jamail truly was a "walking saint" and had so much love for people and God. His sermons carried so much meaning, but the underlying message was always the same. The message was a call to us to realize and understand how much our God really loves us.
Monsignor married my wife Kelly and I at St. Vincent de Paul, and he also baptised Kelly after she went through the RCIA program. When I lost my younger brother in a motorcycle accident a few years ago, Monsignor was the first person I went to see. His warmth, compassion and strength carried me through that most difficult time.
While we had hoped that Monsignor would eventually baptise our newborn daughter Mackenzie Grace. We now must live with the comfort that he will watch over and keep her safe from above.
Our friend will live on in our hearts as he walks in Heaven!
Rob Matwick
Houston
Mary Stegent
May 8, 2002
I got to know Fr. Jamail at Christ The King Parish. He wasn't there very long but he made the biggest impression on me and my family. He became one of our favorite priests. His sermons always touched the everyday problems and helped so much. He was, and is, so special. I'm so glad I experienced his holiness and devine wisdom.
Eddie Kane
May 8, 2002
I am one of the thousands of people lucky enough to have Monsignor Jamail in my life. As a student at St. Vincent I recall the warmth that I felt while around this man. I didn't realize at the time why I felt this way, but, I knew whatever the feeling was I liked it. I know now that the warmth I felt from Monsignor Jamail came from a person who cared deeply about whomever he was in conversation with. His motives were always heartfelt, honest, and from a kind place, and for that, I am grateful.
Elena Lee
May 8, 2002
I have recently become a church member at St. Vincent's de Paul Catholic Church. This Easter I was baptized and received first communion. I was blessed to have known of Monsignor Jamail because he was their for the RCIA group. He came to our group discussions and helped us along in our journey to understand the Catholic religion and God. For that, I am thankful.
Lucia C. Greer
May 8, 2002
Msgr. Jim Jamail welcomed me to Catholicism into his church when I was 75 years old and and remained a friend, an inspiration and encouragement to me. He had a special gift of relating to each person he met on a closer than one to one way. In all my close to 80 years I have never met a more caring or loving person. Although there are now holes in our hearts, he will continue to be with us.
What a true man of God!
Rachel O'Brein
May 7, 2002
I knew Mon. Jamail since i was seven years old. I loved him as id he was family to me. I attended St. Vincent de Paul school and received my first communion, confirmation from him. He was a wonderful man and always there if you needed him. I enjoyed seeing him every Sunday when all my family and I would attend church. He knew us all so well. Sometimes a little to well. Then when I met my husband and we decided to get married I already knew we would be married by him. I was so happy when the church finished in time for our wedding. I was even more happy that he would be performing the ceremony. I look back on my wedding pictures and smile everytime I see him in them. I have many fond memories of him in my life. I will miss him deeply along with the rest of The Aguirre family. Our thoughts are with his family and they are all in our prayers. We love you Monsignor and will miss you.
Love,
Joe and Rachel Aguirre
Joe A. Aguirre Jr.
Mark A. Aguirre
Yvonne M. Aguirre
Rachel and John O'Brien III
Margaret Matherne
May 7, 2002
There is a great void in the lives of the people who knew Monsignor Jamail. He was truly God's gift to us on earth. I take comfort in all the wonderful memories we had with Monsignor, the Baptism and First Communion of my children, the wedding of my daughter and the Baptism of my grandson, these I will treasure for the rest of my days. Heaven is now a grander place than ever before, for God has a great Angel at his side. We will miss you Monsignor.
Cathy
May 7, 2002
10 years ago, I ventured into St. Vincent DePaul Church to view the St. Jude Chapel. I had fallen away from the church and one day found myself reciting the "Apostle's Creed." Shortly after this incident, I went to confession. It was difficult to say that it had been several years since my last confession. Monsignor Jamail asked me what brought me back to the church and I did hear him chuckle when I told him I was vacuuming and the "Apostle's Creed" came into my head. He said this happened for a reason and that God calls people in all kinds of ways. He was so kind and gentle to me that day and I knew it was time to get my life back to God. When he gave me my penance I was sure I would be praying until long into the next day. He was so wise...he told me to say one really good "Our Father" straight from my heart. I don't know if it was because he didn't want to scare me off or if it was all he thought I could handle, but it worked and my life has changed for the better since that day. When I said to him "That's all?" He said "Welcome back and may God love you." I will keep him in my heart forever....
Ashley Willrich
May 7, 2002
Mon. Jamail was a truly exceptional
human being. He was one of the reasons that I continue to visit church. I don't believe that there has ever been a man who inspired so much good in people. God bless.
Ami Considine
May 7, 2002
What a true and open vessel of God this man was. If ever a person could represent the goodness of the Trinity, it was this man. He made every person he touched feel special, loved, and accepted. Monsignor helped abolish so many mistaken stereo-types of the Church. His message was tolerance, compassion, and friendship to all and he represented the open arms of God. This world was truly blessed to have had him in its presence. My heart aches at losing him yet rejoices in having known him.
Ed and Mattia Maldonado
May 7, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was an important part of the lives of so many in our family. My husband and I were one of the first couples he married after being assigned to St. Vincent in 1985. His counsel was always sincere and comforting. I, too, will always remember his wedding message to us: that God had chosen us to be together from the beginning and with God, there are no mistakes. Msgr. Jamail baptized and administered First Holy Eucharist to our oldest child, presided over my sister's wedding and the weddings of several of my husband's siblings. He celebrated the 25th wedding anniversary of my husband's sister and brother-in-law and, most especially, celebrated the 50th wedding anniversary mass for my in-laws, Martha and Tom Maldonado, and shortly thereafter, the funeral mass for Martha. In all these occasions, we felt God's love through this very special man. We have since moved out of the parish but continue to be active in our current parish largely because of his example. We will miss him terribly but always smile at his memory and be ever better for having been around him.
John
May 7, 2002
I met Monsignor Jamail in 1979 at Catholic Charities when I was 16 years old and living in Houston. I was having problems and was refered to him by our parish priest. He was the most understanding person I had ever met. His advice was responsible for me turning my life around at an early age and becoming successful in life. I still think of him occasionally and was shocked to hear of his sudden passing. He will be deeply missed and I will now cherish even more the book he gave me back then, Crazy Horse, Chief of the Oglalas.
Jennette Tran
May 7, 2002
I first met Monsignor Jamail several years ago when I converted to Catholicism and joined St Vincent de Paul church. Despite being a "non-church goer" and needing an annulment from a previous marriage, he welcomed me with open arms into the church and helped me through the healing process strengthening my faith in God's love for me. Since that time he has joined me in marriage to my husband, Hai. I can honestly say that if it wasn't for Monsignor Jamail, Hai and I would not be married. He helped us through family difficulties during our engagement, gave us strength, and brought us closer to one another and to the church. Since our marriage to one another, Hai and I have cherished the words that Monsignor said during our wedding homily....that this day would never have the same meaning again and that this day under heaven was a result of God's hand. That day was May 5, 2001. We are thankful to have known such a wonderful man and owe all that we are and have together only to him.
Sister Colleen Hennessey, SSND
May 7, 2002
Monsignor Jamail will long be remembered by the administrators and teachers in the Catholic Schools of the Diocese. He was a strong supporter of Catholic education.
I found him to be especially supportive to me while I served the
Diocese as Superintendent of Schools.
May her rest in peace.
Chuck McCarthy
May 7, 2002
I have known and loved and argued with Jimmy since we were both on the track team at St. Thomas High School. The closest I will get to experiencing God's love here on earth is to have been loved by Jimmy. He was St. Joseph with a grand sense of humor.
Helen Ledkins
May 7, 2002
As an employee in the Medical Center I often attended Mass at St. Vincent's, and always felt fortunate when Father Jamail said the Mass. I knew the sermon would have special meaning for me that day. He truly was a very special emmissary of the Lord. And how wonderful that we all were so fortunate to have him with us.
Dear Father Jamil, remember us all to the Lord as you enter into His heavenly Presence.
Noel Pratts Sr.
May 7, 2002
Your wisdom, love of people and aring will be missed. When I was deprerssed because of my personal life, your persence and gospels inspired me to continually attend church six years ago. May God take care of you eternaly.............
Aubre Davis Pruett
May 7, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was a very important part of our family. He gave me my first communion, confirmed me, gave my husband and I pre-marital engaged encounter education and he baptized my daughter, Piper. He meant equally as much to my younger sister, Amy "Shelly" Davis. In my heart and my mind, he will be missed every day. I have often said that since moving to Austin from Southside Place 5 years ago that church now just isn't the same without him. Now, all of the parishioners of St. Vincent's will feel a similar loss. Nothing compares to this man! He was such a saint and will be gravely missed by my entire family. We love you Monsignor Jamail!
Love,
Aubre, Zac, Piper, Shelly, Piper and Maxine
Dee
May 7, 2002
Although I didn't know him long, I knew within a few moments of talking with him that he was a beautiful, kind and caring person. The Lord now has another perfect angel.
Lydia Westbrook
May 7, 2002
I was a frequent attendee of St. Vincent DePaul's
Catholic Church when I lived in the Medical Center
area from 1998-2000. I really enjoyed the atmosphere
of the church and the meaningful sermons of Monsignor
Jamail.
When I accepted a job in China in August 2000, I was
extremely anxious about missing out on the weekly
masses at St. Vincent DePaul's.
I went to Monsignor Jamail for a blessing before I
took off for this country. His kind words were a
comfort. When I visited Houston last August,
Monsignor Jamail gave me another blessing. Going to
St. Vincent DePaul's to visit with him was "on my
list" for this summer's trip to Houston as well.
While in China, I read the Houston Chronicle on-line
edition everyday and was shocked to read just now of
Monsignor Jamail's sudden passing.
While I know that Monsignor Jamail touched the hearts
of all who knew him, just wanted to let everyon know that
someone on the other side of the planet is mourning as well.
God bless,
Lydia Westbrook
Michael Chmiel
May 7, 2002
Fr. Jim was always there for me. He was a true gentleman.
Kelly Bridges (Lancton)
May 6, 2002
Msgr Jamail is an inspiration to me and a constant reminder of Christ in my life. I have known him since I was 10 years old and have looked to him for guidance for the past 16 years. It will be so hard without him here. He baptized and confirmed my husband and my daughter and was to baptize my child due this August. I know you are looking down on us from heaven - please say hello to my Mom.
David Joseph Saker
May 6, 2002
Fr. Jim:
Thank you for your wise counseling. Your kindness will always be remembered. God's blessing upon you.....DJS
Joanne & Tim Johnson & Family
May 6, 2002
Monsignor Jamail will be dearly missed by our family and his family at St. Vincent de Paul church and school. We are blessed to have known him and are comforted knowing that he is watching over us.
Firmin and Marie Hickey
May 6, 2002
How can we ever express the sorrow we feel and this time. Fr. Jim you will always be remembered for the kindness and love shown to us in many ways over the years and especially when our mother died several years ago.
We pray that Our Heavenly Father will grant you a place reserved for all of the saints who have been true and faithful servants.
Judge Tad Halbach
May 6, 2002
I've never heard anyone speak so eloquently and persuasively on the Eucharist and the presence of our Lord. Monsignor will be missed, but not forgotten. The Scouts of Troop 505, Pack 505 and the Venture Crew will always remember and be thankful for his support.
Leslie Whittington Bolton
May 6, 2002
I know I cannot express in words all that Monsignor has meant to me throughout my life. I first met him when he was a "new" young priest and I was a student at St. Vincent's. He made a lifetime impression on me. He was there for me for the good times as well as the bad. I will miss him terribly. Yet through my tears, I know that he is still with me (with all of us) and that brings a big smile to my face and comfort to my heart. I love you, Monsignor!
Angie Habig
May 6, 2002
Monsignor Jamail was a role model for me. I will miss his wonderful voice and the wise words that he spoke. Words cannot express what a humble, sweet and caring man he was. I know that he is a looking down at us and smiling. I will never forget his tremendous smile. He will never be forgotten in my heart.
Tom Whittington
May 6, 2002
A great man who will be sorely missed.
I've known Monsignor for over 30 years. I served as an alter boy for him in the early '70s. He would come into class and ask the teacher if I could be excused from class so I could help him with a wedding or a funeral. We would ride in his Mustang. I thought he was so cool.
He married me and baptized my daughter. He has helped me and other family members in our time of need. He gave all he had to us and to countless others.
I will miss him deeply.
All my prayers
Lisa Christian
May 6, 2002
My Monsignor,
I am so blessed to have had even one moment with you and Sister Virginia. Thank you for being the bread crumbs on my path to love as Jesus and God love. Thank you for your inspiration and for laughing when I ask you to be "hair friendly" during baptism. Thank you for reminding me that the "wetter the better". I am at such a loss. I won't have any more little yelps for joy in church when they announce you are giving the sermon. I will know that you will always be there in mass with us. I am glad you were my angel on earth. You changed my life.
Msgr Jamail presided over our wedding ceremony, 4/2001
Patrick and Adrienne Duncan
May 6, 2002
Msgr Jamail has been the brightest guiding light we have had in our lives in Houston. He was Adrienne's first parish priest since her conversion to Catholicism and Patrick's first pastor since his move to Houston. His guidance was so important to us we relied on him for our premarital preparation and his presence at our wedding ceremony last year. In the midst of media scandals harrassing our Church and our Faith, Msgr Jamail will always be the standard of his office that no one will ever defame.
Jan Whittington Castro
May 6, 2002
Monsignor Jamail has been in my life since I was a student at St. Vincent de Paul School in the late 1960's. He was there for the celebrations of my life and for the most trying times of my life.
Although I have not been a parishioner of St. Vincent de Paul for many years, every time I ran into him he always remembered me and made me feel very special. My sympathy goes out to his family. His holy presence and loving spirit will be greatly missed.
Earline Gray
May 6, 2002
My dear friend Monsignor is gone from our sight, but never our hearts. Imagine the joy he feels now that he is with his beloved parents and no longer in pain!
Kathleen Kuznicki
May 6, 2002
Here is an Indian prayer for Monsignor Jamail. I think right now Msgr. is thinking of the beauty surrounding him as he walks with Jesus - the person that he loved so dearly.
As I Walk with Beauty
"As I walk
The universe is walking with me
In beauty it walks before me
In beauty it walks behind me
In beauty it walks below me
In beauty it walks above me
Beauty is on every side
As I walk, I walk with Beauty."
Traditional Navajo Prayer
Pat Miles
May 6, 2002
Monsignor was a role model and had a great infuence on my children. He will truly be missed.
Michael Shepherd
May 6, 2002
Monsignor was so important to me from my high school years on. The pain of his death is only surpassed by the gratefulness I feel for having known him. He was a wonderful priest and an extremely thoughtful friend. Thank you Monsignor; you are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Raymond Falcon
May 6, 2002
Monsignor Jamail is truly a man of God. We will miss his contributions to the community and his friendly demeanor.
Lucy Dingas
May 6, 2002
Thank you for your kindness and understanding you brought to our lives. You will be greatly missed.
Chris Ankney
May 6, 2002
Monsignor's faith will live on in all the lives he has touched, including mine. He was/is an inspiration to all to be the very best person that you can be.
Dawn and Steve Riester
May 6, 2002
His love and devotion to Jesus was apparent in all that he did. He was truly a holy man and we were blessed to know him. His presence will be with us forever at St. Vincent de Paul.
Robbie Allbright (Lancton)
May 6, 2002
Words cannot describe what Msgr. Jamail has meant to me and also to St. Vincent de Paul. I watched with amazement the transformation of St. Vincent's over the past 15 years. He was truly a blessed individual and I was blessed to have known him. You will always be with me and my family.
P Cole
May 6, 2002
What a sweet, kind, and gentle spirit was this man of God. He will be missed greatly! There is a deep sadness in our hearts today.
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