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Sandra Skipwith Bowen

1957 - 2024

Sandra Skipwith Bowen obituary, 1957-2024, Houston, TX

Sandra Bowen Obituary

Sandra Skipwith Bowen
11/06/1957 - 02/21/2024
Sandra Skipwith Bowen passed away on Wednesday, February 21, with her daughters by her side, following years of complications from a devastating stroke. A beloved mother, sister, daughter, aunt, and friend, Sandra is now free from suffering. She was 66 years of age.
Sandra was born in Houston on November 6, 1957 to Dorrace Aleen Dominey and William Harvey Skipwith Jr. She attended St. John's School, the University of Texas, and the University of Houston. Growing up in Pine Shadows neighborhood of Houston, Sandra enjoyed playing with childhood friends, especially adventures along the bayou. Sandra lost both her parents by the time she was seventeen, a heartache from which she never fully recovered. Sandra was largely raised by Alice Griffin, the family's housekeeper and dear friend turned surrogate-mother and an instrumental part of Sandra's life.
In 1988, Sandra married Berry Dunbar Bowen. Together, they had two beautiful daughters, Susannah and Elizabeth, who were the light of her life. Sandra later married José Gross, and while their marriage only lasted a few years, José remained kind and caring to Susie and Lizzy.
Immensely talented and creative, Sandra was a gifted painter and writer: a true artist. She saw the world differently, and inspired those around her to do the same. She brought wonder and whimsy to her daughters' youth, and had a special love for all children. Stylish and elegant, Sandra loved playing dress-up with her daughters and always had a flair for the dramatic.
Sandra overcame many adversities in life and was a fighter. She cared deeply for others and had great compassion for those less fortunate, a quality she instilled in her girls.
Sandra is survived and deeply missed by her daughters Susie Tucker and Lizzy Bowen, along with their husbands Payson Tucker and Michael Hardy; sister Jeanne Skipwith; sister Betsy Clemons and husband Reed; grandchildren Eliot and Florence Tucker; nieces Callie Burns and Florence Conte; and nephew Skip Clemons.
The family wishes to thank the staff at Aaryn Hospice and Braeswood Estates for their loving care of Sandra, as well as the many friends who helped Sandra over the years.
A memorial gathering will take place on Wednesday April 3 at one o'clock in the afternoon at Pumpkin Park, 3600 Locke Lane, Houston, Texas 77027.
In lieu of customary remembrances, the family requests with gratitude that contributions in her name be directed to Friends of Pumpkin Park (by mail: 3737 Buffalo Speedway #200 Houston, TX 77098) or the Houston SPCA (https://act.houstonspca.org/a/honor).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 3, 2024.

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Stephanie

November 6, 2025

Happy Birthday, Honey! :) Always my favorite Scorpio! :)

Stephanie

February 22, 2025

Hi Honey. Remembering you: Your words, your paintings, your spectacular looks! :)

Stephanie

February 21, 2025

Hi Honey---I remember you, always. So sorry I could not have been with you on the day that you passed last year.

Lizzy Bowen

January 25, 2025

Posting this here in hopes of getting in contact with Stephanie Jones. This is Sandra´s daughter, Lizzy. I would love to connect with you. My email is [email protected]

Stephanie

July 6, 2024

Two poems by Sandra that appeared in the national literary magazine "Prairie Schooner" (Spring 2004)

It Was An Ordinary Brook Miracle
(Prairie Schooner, Spring 2004, vol. 78, no. 1)

It was an ordinary brook miracle,
an amber colored pool,
that let in some light, not a lot.
It was an ordinary light, with ordinary
words and ordinary people, and ordinary
drawings.
It was an ordinary way of expecting so much,
and what was there was so ordinary
that I had to leave and return home
to my extraordinary
love.

An ordinary brook miracle
is one where a little water
looks really deep.


The Gold Table
(Prairie Schooner, Spring 2004, vol. 78, no. 1)

Go get on the table,
your first table and make it gold.
Mister Fox, she says,
You've come here to open up the door.
Her favorite word is love,
her favorite sound is springing.

Jay

July 3, 2024

Sandra at UT art school. Condolences.

Stephanie

June 15, 2024

Sandra as a teen. She'd told me that she used to hitchhike. I said, "Oh, no, don't do that!" But she already had.

Stephanie

June 11, 2024

Sandra, November 2007. I still can't get over that she's not still here on this earth. You were, and still are, loved.

Stephanie Jones

May 26, 2024

Painting by Sandra Skipwith Bowen: "There was someone there looking out for you." And there was. We all did as much as we could.

Stephanie

May 23, 2024

Art and poem by Sandra Skipwith Bowen:

And if it were the ending of the world
And if we were apart
Not together at the end
We could hold each other in our heart
And vaporize into eternity
And if there is no one left
There could be this love floating
around in fragments
creating god everywhere it floated
for where love is
there god is also

Stephanie

May 21, 2024

Somewhat hard to believe, given her overall story, that Sandra "did it her way." But she did. She loved who she loved. She only married for love, never for money. She never took a job that she didn't want to take. She loved her parents and her two daughters and her city of Houston. She loved Jim. She was utterly true to what she believed in. I love Sandra, and will always miss the sound of her voice on the phone----how she said my name, how she started a story in the middle of a sentence (and I always knew exactly what she was talking about). I am heartbroken that I will never hear her voice again, and that I could not have been with her in her final months.

Stephanie

May 21, 2024

I sent Sandra these flowers for her birthday, November 6, 2009. She sent me this photo in return. (We'd both been re-reading Ted Hughes's "Birthday Letters" at the time.)

Chris

April 6, 2024

The memorial for Sandra was beautiful. Everything about it was perfect. Sandra´s spirit was amongst us every moment. I am confident that she is resting peacefully.

Elaine Eisemann

March 9, 2024

Sandra was my neighbor and friend for many years. She had a beautiful soul and loved more deeply than most people do. She loved Susie and Lizzy intensely and dedicated herself to their happiness. I haven't seen Sandra in few years but I will miss her joy and perspective on life.

Crystal Barrington

March 9, 2024

Painting in full color. Love you Skippy

Tasso Triantaphyllis

March 3, 2024

May she rest in Peace!

Robbin Baker Kersey

March 3, 2024

So sorry for the loss of Sandra. We carpooled together when the girls were young. Sandra was a beautiful woman and a kind, loving person.
So sorry Lizzie and Susie.

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Jeanette Smith

March 1, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Single Memorial Tree

Karisa Foster

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