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Tom Fanning

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Tom Fanning obituary, 1961-2024, Saint Joseph, MO

BORN

1961

DIED

2024

FUNERAL HOME

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick

Saint Joseph, Missouri

Tom Fanning Obituary

Tom L Fanning, 63, St. Joseph, Missouri, passed away Tuesday, November 4, 2024. Tom was born February 24, 1961, in St. Joseph Mo to Janice and Norman Fanning. He attended Blair Elementary, Truman Middle School, and Central High School. Tom was the proud owner of Tom Fanning trash service and was loved and respected by his customers. Tom greeted everyone he met with a warm smile, a tall tale, and a good joke. "We sure are going to miss Tom. Super nice guy and even better at his job! Every pet on his route is really going to miss him! Our dog would hear him coming and be waiting for Tom to throw down a handful of Milk Bones!" - Deanna Bryson-Musser (Facebook). Tom was a big sports fan and lifelong collector of baseball cards and rare coins. Tom was a regular contributor to The Barry Burr radio show. Tom enjoyed playing and coaching softball, bowling, playing cards and traveling to southern Missouri. Tom enjoyed doing volunteer work throughout St. Joseph. Tom was also an avid lover of cats and dogs. Tom was preceded in death by his parents Janice Fanning and Norman Fanning, older brother Jack Fanning and brother-in-law Jesse Kerns, and several aunts and uncles. Tom is survived by his sister Cathie and Rick Nocks, sister Terry Kernes, brother Michael and Stacey Fanning, Sister Linda and Ronald Tyler, sister-in-law Susan Fanning, as well as several nieces and nephews. A visitation will take place on Friday November 15, 2024, from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm. At Heaton-Bowman-Smith-Sidenfaden Chapel, 3609 Frederick Ave, St Joseph, MO 64506. In lieu of flowers, the family asks for donations to the St Joseph Animal Shelter.

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Published by KQ2 on Nov. 9, 2024.

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Jr Fitzpatrick

November 25, 2024

Went to school with Tom, sad to hear about his passing!!

Biil & Brenda Goodwin

November 15, 2024

Deepest condolences, prayers and thoughts are with the family.

Kenneth Thee

November 14, 2024

I never had the privilege of meeting Tom. However, I knew his voice as he shared well-researched facts, figures, and down-to-earth observations on Barry Burr's Hot Line. I will always remember his father's quote, "Every good day is one less bad day".

Ronald Smith

November 14, 2024

Send my sincerest sympathies .Tom was a wonderful guy . He was my Trashman since back in the 80's. Sure am going to miss my talks with him at Wal-mart May all find peace .

Tim Ezzell

November 13, 2024

Sorry to hear this! Tom was truly a nice person!

Lela Bachman

November 13, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss. Tom was such a nice man and I enjoyed the times I got to visit with him when he picked up my parents’ trash. I was afraid something was wrong when the trash wasn’t picked up - don’t take the paper. All are in our prayers and it sounds like there are many great memories to help you through this tough time.

Lela Bachman
Terri Rader

Lisa Anderson

November 13, 2024

Tommy was one of dad’s best friends and will be dearly missed. He has a heart of gold and never knew a stranger. A definite talker, he also took care of every stray that came in the yard. Loved to spoil the kiddos too. (Baylee & Beau). RIP Tommy, I hope the angels know what they have.

Matt & Lisa Anderson
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Janice and Shawn Schoeneck

November 13, 2024

We were so shocked and sad to hear about Tom. He was a very nice man. He was always so friendly whenever I saw him and was always very helpful if we ever needed anything. He will be missed. We hope all the good memories you have of Tom are helpful during this sad time. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dean Sprague

November 12, 2024

Going to miss you Tom you were my mom and stepdads trash man for years and I meat you when I worked for deffenbaugh trash service very nice person always came in to the quick stop on Sundays and got gas from their going to miss you

Jerry Reinert

November 11, 2024

Gonna miss that friendly wave as you pass on by and the stories you would share when we would catch up.

Jill Hamerle

November 11, 2024

So very sorry for your loss.

Jim Pawlowski

November 11, 2024

We have had Tom and his dad since the 1980's for our trash service. Tom was exceptionally gifted to meet people with a friendly smile. He was always reliable and punctual and will be truly missed. God Bless and keep you friend.

Carol Vroom

November 10, 2024

Tom was so kind and funny it´s hard to believe Halloween was our last lunch for the last 15 years it was routine once a week lunch along with all the kitties and dogs and all the stories Tom you are truly missed rest in peace.

Mary and Tori Kibbe

November 9, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Tommy was our trash man and I've known him for a long time. He will be deeply missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends.

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