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Amy Milner Obituary

Milner, Amy Elizabeth (1958-2004) Amy became an angel on Dec. 18, 2004 after a brave battle with leukemia. She was the beloved mother of Jack, daughter of Judy and Martin Milner, sister of Molly DeCroce (Patrick), Stuart Milner (Pati), Andrew Milner, granddaughter of Jerre Jennings of Corona Del Mar, aunt of Sarah and Andrew Milner. She was the co-owner of Cini Jewelry Designs on Cedros Street in Solana Beach. Amy's joy and love touched the lives of all whom she met. She will long be remembered as a special volunteer and events planner for the students at Park Dale Lane Elementary School in Encinitas. She was an avid volunteer for the Soroptimist Club Cancer Research Fundraisers. She was an actress and singer and toured in dinner theaters throughout the United States. She graduated from Fallbrook High School, attended Santa Monica Junior College and the GMA Institute. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Allen and Marjory Jones of Waukegan, Illinois and her grandfather, Bill Cini of Laguna Beach, CA. Memorial Service, Thursday December 30th, 3:00 pm. at Seagrove Park in Del Mar.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Dec. 23, 2004.

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Patrick

April 6, 2025

A wonderful person gone too soon..

Deborah pickering

April 9, 2024

Love Adam 12 when growing up hope Amy is resting in peace no how hard it is losing a love one

Mike McAllister

August 15, 2023

So often people forget actors are really just people. Amy and I were born the same year and I would like to have had the honor of knowing her. May God give her beautiful family peace and love.

Amber Milner- Ahmann

January 8, 2005

My thoughts and prayers go out to all. God Bless

Carole Burdette

January 8, 2005

Dear Milner family,



You are in my thoughts and prayers. This terrible illness has claimed two people in my family as well. One a six year old child, one a forty two year old man. Thank you for making the bone marrow donor program so visible, your efforts will help save other lives.



God bless you.

Therese Doyle

January 7, 2005

Dear Andy and Milner Family,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Many years ago, I had the pleasure of meeting you and Amy at Nordstrom UTC. As the store manager I had the opportunity to interact with you both when you would come for a Cini trunk show. Every encounter with Amy was a fun and positive experience. I will always remember her beautiful smile, infectious laugh, and warm soul. Amy was truly special. She made a difference on this earth. May her spirit continue to shine upon your lives.

Regards,

Therese Doyle

Traci Kofler

January 5, 2005

Dear Milner family,

Words can't decribe how MUCH Amy will be missed! I have known Amy for over 14 years and enjoyed working with her at Nordstrom and doing CIni trunk shows! She was such an inspiration to us all! Her laugh was so contagious! I will hold on to the many memeories we shared! My you all feel comfort knowing that we will see her again! She truly is "OUR" Cini angel! I will treaure all my Cini pieces and think of her everytime I wear them!

May God bless all of you and find comfort in HIM!

With love,

The Kofler family

Michele Overson-Lucas

January 5, 2005

Dear Milner family,

I was so so sorry to hear about Amy. My heart goes out to your entire family, but especially little Jack.

Please make sure that not a day goes by that he doesn't hear what a wonderful, caring, and sincere person his mother was. She is now an angel that will always be watching over him.



I will continue to pray for the whole Milner family to have the strength to get through this very hard time.

Sincerely,

Mcihele Overson-Lucas

Lynn Walker

January 4, 2005

Dear Marty, Judy, Molly, Stuart & Andy



I just heard about Amy's passing after the memorial for Bill Boyett. I have years of memories of our families with the McCord's and Boyett's during Campbell Hall days. So many fun slumber parties at your house! My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. I will always think of our times together with smiles and laughter for that is how Amy would want it to be. Like my Mom, Amy was and is an angel to us all.



With love,

Lynn & the Walker family

RC McEwen

January 4, 2005

As a mom of 3 boys; I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss. I pray that God would give you comfort and fill your lives with love and friends always.

Ron & Jill Ramirez

January 4, 2005

We are saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts will be with you.

Dan and Cathy Ross

January 4, 2005

Martin,Judy and family,

We were so sorry to hear about Amy. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

David Milner

January 3, 2005

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Dave & Guylene Milner

lori trudeau

January 3, 2005

Dear Marty, Judy and family,

I was so sorry to hear of Amy's passing. I remember Amy as a positive, upbeat person with so much courage. She was truely an inspiration to me. I enjoyed seeing her at Cini where she made picking out jewelry even more fun.

I feel a bond with Amy and her family as my mom has also been diagnosed with leukemia.

Please know that I am thinking of you.

Love, Lori

Debbie Elholm

January 2, 2005

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Amy Milner. May God bless and keep you in this time of sorrow.

Cornelia Shields

January 2, 2005

After being a great fan of Martin Milner's work for many, many years, I really feel for him suffering health problems and losing a daughter and a costar all at the same time! My heart goes out to the whole family and hope they all remain well. Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.

The Schaller Family

January 1, 2005

We are very sorry for the loss of your daughter.

Michael Blott

December 31, 2004

My memories of Amy are mostly from the highschool years and shortly after in Fallbrook. One of Amy's gifts was to bring people together. She was able to talk quite a few older classmates to join her in summer productions that created everlasting memories. In her passing she did the same again bringing friends and family from across the globe together. She brought hundreds to the bone marrow program and blood donations. She continues to make a difference in the lives of people she will never know. Thankyou to the Milner family for the reception following the memorial. It helped those there say goodbye and move forward in the positive way that Amy lived.

Pam Williams

December 30, 2004

We didn't know Amy, only as Mr. Milners daughter. We know her from the few eps that she was in with her Father.



Prayers out to the family.

Sheila McEntire

December 29, 2004

To the entire Milner family and especially Jack, I offer my heartfelt condolences. I cannot imagine the wave of grief and sorrow you must be feeling. Amy’s zest and love of life was evident from the first time I met her. Her genuine interest in people acted like a magnet to anyone she encountered. She always welcomed me into her home, her life and included me in those amazing family parties! The Milner family was always welcoming and one could always feel their sense of family when around them. I’m so grateful to have known Amy for many years. I will always remember her humor, heartfelt laugh, laughing eyes and giving heart. I’m so glad she was such a special and meaningful part of Heather’s life as well.

Sheila (Tammy Mirr’s best friend)

Joyce Richard

December 29, 2004

Dear Milner Family, especially Molly, Andy and Jack.

I will so miss Amy. I loved working with her when she came in to do trunk shows. She was so generous and the REAL DEAL! Her sincere caring for others overflowed to all who knew her. Amy's humor and laugh was so infectious. Amy loved sharing stories about her son, Jack, and what a special joy he was to her. Molly, Amy's right hand, and best friend. It was fun to see you two sisters interact. I was so glad I stopped in to see you and what a wonderful chat we had about Amy. Andy, how she loved to brag about you and your music and what a big help you were to her with the trunk shows. She loved all her family so much. May the Lord continue to strengthen, comfort and wrap His ever loving arms around you all. My sincerest sympathies and prayers. Fondly, Joyce

Joel & Kimberly Kennedy

December 28, 2004

Stu, Pati and family-

We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Campbell

December 28, 2004

I can never express the loss I feel.

I will have Amy in my thoughts for the rest of my life. A woman who always thought of other people first. Who give to everyone without thinking.Who fought so hard to stay here with her Jack and family.Who supported me without question in whatever I needed. A TRUE friend.

I know she is in heaven leading the angels. I know I will feel her with me the rest of my life.

Karen Chaudhry

December 28, 2004

My sincerest sympathies to the entire Milner family at this difficult time. I didn't know Amy personally but am writing as a fan of this talented family. May God's grace be sufficient in enduring your loss and may He bless and keep you forever in his open arms. Lots of love and hugs.

Leslie Jones

December 28, 2004

Dear Marty, Judy and family of Amy,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Amy's passing from this life. I will remember her in my prayers. She will be deeply missed.

Robin Merriam Walker

December 28, 2004

Martin, Judy, Stuart, Molly, and Andy:

Amy was a dear friend. Everyone who knew her has warm and loving memories of when she was living. I will always treasure my own special memories of Amy so that she will continue to be a part of my life. May the thoughts and prayers of friends and family support you and be a guiding light during this time of overwhelming loss.

Much love and aloha,

Robin and Ohana

Harriet Grenda

December 28, 2004

Dear Judy, Martin and Family,

My prayers are with you at this time of your great loss.

Charles Jerabek Jr

December 27, 2004

Aimy was an angel on earth as she will allways be. May God embrace her soul and compfort those whom will allways love her. All my love and sympathy to her family. God bless you Aimy.

Jan Arbuckle

December 27, 2004

I am so deeply sorry to hear that Amy is gone. She won't be forgotten. I hadn't seen her in many years, but I hardly ever drive through Del Mar without thinking of her and one of her many entertaining stories. Amy and her family shared a special closeness that was apparent when she spoke of her parents or siblings and on the few occasions I saw them all together, it was a joy to watch the interaction. I always felt that Amy's life was one grand adventure and I know that for her this is a fascinating new episode. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.

Mary

December 26, 2004

God bless you, Amy. Your bravery is humbling. I'll pray for you and your family.

Karen Garrison

December 26, 2004

Dear Milner Family,



My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved daughter, sister, and mother. At a time like this, mere words are hollow and inadequate. Please know that I have been and will continue to pray for you all. May God comfort you and give you peace.

Marcia Studley

December 26, 2004

I just wanted to pass on my sympathies to Amy's parents and the rest of her family. All of Marty's fans have been praying for her and are saddened by the loss. There are never words, so just know, Amy is remembered, and we're praying for all of you!

Cathy Leach

December 26, 2004

I was so very sorry to hear of Amy's death. The entire Milner family has my deepest sympathy at this terrible time.

Susan Farmer

December 26, 2004

My deepest sympathies to Amy's family and friends. Her life has touched many. We grieve with you.

Brian and Rachel Dawkins

December 26, 2004

May our Lord God give you comfort and peace during this time. Your family is in our prayers and thoughts.

Yolanda De La Zerda

December 26, 2004

Dear Mr and Mrs Milner and family,

Amy sounds like she was a SUPER person! My condolences and prayers have been with you and continue to be so.



God Bless You All,

Yolanda De La Zerda

(A Concerned Fan)

Valerie Golembiewski

December 26, 2004

Love and prayers always!

Matt Dawkins

December 26, 2004

Mr and Mrs. Milner:

You are in our prayers. God be with you at this time.

Rita Weisburgh

December 26, 2004

To the Milner Family: I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.



Rita

Wendy (Travis) Yurcho

December 25, 2004

Dear Martin, Judy, Molly, Stuart and Andy, I was so very sorry to hear today about Amy. I have many fond old memories of great times we spent together. You all all in my thoughts. Love to you all.

Michael Blake

December 24, 2004

I am sorry to hear of Amy's passing. There are no words I can express to ease the loss. Just know she is with God and I will remember her in my nightly prayers.

Doug Axtell

December 24, 2004

Dear Mr.& Mrs. Milner:

I was so sorry to hear about Amy.

I was very fond of all your children

I feel so bad. Doug,the Carnation Milkman,you had in Del Mar.

gina vreeburg

December 24, 2004

Dear Milner family,

All of Encinitas will morn the loss of a great woman. Her enthusiasm touched all of us. I will never forget her awesome Thanksgiving and Marti Gras parties at school. All of the parents and children of Park Dale Lane will truly miss her. May God keep you close in his arms during this most difficult time. Our sincere condolences,

John, Gina, Paige and Nicholas Vreeburg

Vicki Robertson

December 23, 2004

Mr. and Mrs. Milner,

I did not know your daughter, but have 3 daughters of my own. Losing a child must be one of the hardest burdens of parenthood. My prayers are with you.

Donna Mangus

December 23, 2004

I will miss Amy so much...

Our sons were in 3rd grade together at Park Dale Lane and from the moment I met her I loved her spunk and enthusiasm. She always had something fun planned for Jack's class and the kids adored her.

We never missed a day praying for Amy. We keep you in our thoughts and prayers...

Gloria and Leon Chartarifsky

December 23, 2004

Dear Judy and Marty, You are not alone in your sorrow. Love and thoughts are with you. Find peace in knowing that she is now an angel in heaven.

Linda Jerabek & Family

December 23, 2004

Amy was a devoted mother and wonderful cook. I love her jewelry and she was a very giving, loving and thoughtful individual. We pray she is in heaven with her beloved animals, watching down on her son Jack. She will be sadly missed.

James Carroll

December 23, 2004

Mr.and Mrs. Milner:



I am so sorry for your loss.



James G. Carroll

Campbell Hall Class of 1970/Bone Marrow Donor.

Mary (Koons) Ahler

December 23, 2004

Dear Milner Family, I am so so sorry for your loss. Amy was a ray of sunshine to everyone who knew her. My prayer is that you will soon find peace with her passing... she is now an angel in heaven- rather than on earth.

Mary

Steve Willard

December 23, 2004

Marty and Judy. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know your family is in the prayers of many and may God help you with his strength to get through this difficult time.

Mary Haniotis

December 23, 2004

My sincerest condolences to Amy's family and friends.

Adrienne Brown

December 23, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. I will along with so many people miss our dear Amy. She gave so much to everyone and always gave the best parties at school for Jack, especially Thanksgiving and Mardi Gras! Just the thought of her will bring a smile to your face. Please take comfort in knowing she is in a better place and doesn't have to hurt anymore. We love her and will miss her so.

Mary Mullen

December 23, 2004

Dear Judy & Martin,

We send our condolences to your family at this time of loss. Do not feel sorrow or pain, but have strength in knowing that Amy is in Heaven singing with the Angels.Although we haven't met, I feel that I know your family because of all the contact we've had due to the Firestorms of 2003.

God Bless

Mary Mullen

(619) 271- 4939

David DeLaTorre

December 23, 2004

Even though I only met you briefly, I am a close friend of your brother Andy and I know that he always looked up to you. Andy and all of the Milner family are truly some of the nicest people I have ever met. My prayers are with you and the entire Milner Family.



God Bless

Bud & Arlene Olsen

December 23, 2004

Marty, We Both our sorry of her passing, I know she will be in good hands NOW! Bless you and your family. Bud

Judy Van Winkle

December 23, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember Amy from her high school days when she and my sister Jan Van Winkle were friends. Jan passed away in 1989 and I still think about her every day. It's hard to think of two wonderful women gone but I'm sure they are together somewhere watching over everyone.

Mary Beth Klauer

December 23, 2004

We will miss Amy -- her strength, her smile, her love. She was a super special woman who will never be forgotten.

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