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John Benassi Obituary

BENASSI, John Mario Beloved husband, father, brother, and son passed away suddenly on Saturday August 2, 2008. Born September 21, 1948 and raised in the village of Roccapella, Italy his family immigrated to Illinois in 1959. After establishing his career in Los Angeles, John and his family moved to Rancho Santa Fe in 1993. John practiced emerging company counseling and intellectual property litigation for the past 31 years. He earned a well-deserved reputation as a go-to IP litigator, representing clients in both State and Federal trials and appeals courts in technologies ranging from internet commerce to semiconductors, to medical devices and biotechnology. He loved the excitement of developing new businesses and was revered as a mentor by many. He attended the University of Illinois where he earned a B.S. in Engineering in 1971 and was awarded his J.D. cum laude from George Washington University School of Law in 1974. He was named to The Best Lawyers in America and to The Guide to the World's Leading Patent and Trademark Law Experts. John loved his family above all. Whether watching his sons' sports, spending time with Marian and the boys at home, or savoring the joys of their garden, he made an indelible mark in their hearts and their lives. John was an expert in various forms of martial arts. He loved to bike, windsurf, and enjoyed all sports with his wife and sons. Proud to be an American, John was also immensely proud of his Italian heritage and brought his family back to his childhood village every summer. The Benassis modeled a commitment to philanthropy and volunteering in their community in so many ways. John is survived by his devoted and loving wife of 20 years, Marian Roach Benassi as well as his adoring sons Christopher (17) and Maximilian (16), his parents Louis and Josephine Benassi, his brothers Gregory Benassi and Anthony Benassi, as well as many loving nieces, nephews, family, and friends. John shared with all, his love of life and his enthusiasm for learning. Viewing will be Thursday, August 7th at El Camino Mortuary, 340 Melrose Avenue, Encinitas, CA. Hours: 5-7 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be held at The Church of the Nativity, 6309 El Apajo Road, Rancho Santa Fe, CA on Friday, August 8th at 10:00 a.m. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, that donations be made to The John Benassi Memorial Scholarship Fund (P.O.Box 2016, Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067 or to Kids Korps USA (at 65 Santa Helena, Suite 130-A, Solana Beach, CA 92075).

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Aug. 6 to Aug. 7, 2008.

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David Hall

August 2, 2024

It is hard to believe that today marks 16 years. I knew John from when we were both at Heller Ehrman. He was a Good Man.

Jimmy Gorman

July 31, 2024

Fascinating and good guy. I was at U of I for short time and am glad he realized his goals and was so generous.

James Gorman

September 9, 2022

I knew John briefly in college. He was the man as mentioned in his biography. Glad that he made such an impact. Sad that his life was cut way too short. Truly a memorable hard working gentleman. Lucky, even for a short time to have known him. Best wishes to his loving family and his legacy.

Caroline Barton

May 11, 2022

I met Attorney Benassi when he was acting as a prosecutor for the City of Los Angeles. The case centered around a stolen car radio. At any rate, I'd never met a more kind, gracious and professional person. Months after the trial, I reached out to him for some legal advice pertaining to a real estate issue. While this was not in his field, he did some legal work on behalf of my mother completely pro bono. This took place the late 80s early 90s. While cleaning up and going through paperwork during the pandemic, I came across his court filings and I thought, WOW, this man gave us a lot of his time and expertise and got us off to a great start and didn't charge us anything. This is unheard of these days. I was just thinking about him and came across this posting which has saddened me. I wish to extend my belated condolences to his family. What a kind and generous soul.

Laine & Elizabeth Powers

August 13, 2008

Lui and Josephine, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. May God grant you comfort and peace in this time of grief.

Tracy Tilley

August 12, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Marita Mills Kovarik

August 6, 2008

The whole Mills family is carrying all of you in our hearts right now. We're sending prayers and Angels today and into the future. We really do know how hard it is to lose your Dad before you're ready and will be praying especially for Marian, Chris and Max. God is closer than you know. Josie and Louis, remember -how amazing for you to have been able to love John for his whole life!
What a rare treasure. And remember, we will walk you through...

randy & Steve parenti

August 6, 2008

Our thought prayers and sympathy to the Benassi Family, dear Marian Max & Chris. We are so sorry . Randy & Steve Parenti

Lorraine Telles

August 6, 2008

How very lucky I was to have known such a generous, humble and great man. No matter how bad things could get during litigation, John had a special way of always making you laugh. He didn't sweat the small stuff and kept his composure aways. What made him so interesting, was his desire to ALWAYS remember where he came from. The stories he shared with me about coming to America, not knowing a lick of English, and having school kids tease and punch him constantly, made it very easy for me to relate to the hardships of growing up on tough streets. After enrolling in Karate and mastering a Black belt, I'm sure those kids were sorry they ever messed with that boy who was different. He will truly be missed, but the memories I have working with him will remain a lifetime. God Bless to Marian, Chris and Max.

Sheree Boyce and Family

August 6, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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