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Kain was a beautiful, angelic soul who met any challenge she faced with dignity and strength. Her sobriety date is 12/17/2021, in which she was extremely proud of, as she should have been. She then bravely moved to Denver, Colorado. After discovering her calling to the EMS field, she began work at Apex Paramedics where she quickly excelled in her profession, and ultimately became a trainer while attending Arizona State University online. She then began working for Denver Health Paramedic Division which was a goal she strived to accomplish for many years.
She leaves behind her parents, Steven and Jill McAllister, her sister Sami and her brother Sean. Kain is also survived by loving grandparents Marty and Barbara Bargas, John and Gail McAllister as well as many aunts, uncles, and cousins. She leaves behind a family of her own she made in Colorado who cherished her, her rescue cat, and copious friends both in Colorado and Texas.
Kain was known to be an incredible artist who loved the unloved- she adored collecting oddities, the color black, tattoos, and enjoyed discovering historic cemeteries in the Colorado Rockies. When not at work, Kain was always in the mountains and trying something new.
As per Kain's wishes, below is a poem she wants us all to remember as we mourn her. We all thank you for the 21 years, 7 months, and 11 amazing days you were on this earth. You will never be forgotten. You will be missed, we love you Kain.
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
"Do not think we're apart
For every time you think of me
Remember I'm right here in your heart"
- David Romano
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Crimson
August 7, 2025
Missing and loving Kain as nearly one year without her has approached. One of my favorite things about her was her creativity and passion. She was always planning new projects, may it be sewing, drawing, or a new piercing. The grief and pain I feel from her loss has not wavered since the moment I found out she passed away. She is eternally alive in my heart. I would trade everything I have for just a moment with her again.
Mia Dhurandhar
October 31, 2024
I met Kain years ago back in Texas, and we immediately clicked. I will always remember the times we would laugh til we couldn´t breathe. We would listen to Nascar Aloe and scream the lyrics in her little Honda civic at the time. She showed me nothing but true friendship . When I finally got my GED and got accepted to a university, Kain came to Texas to celebrate with me. The memories I have shared with Kain will never be forgotten.
Kain, I´m so happy I have a permanent matching piece of you tattoo on my ribs, now that "nascar" isn´t just a symbol of our friendship and love for Nascar, yet a permanent memory of you that makes me look back and smile. Your amazing friendship, kindness, and personality will never be forgotten.
Kinnzey
September 19, 2024
Kain, when I first saw you I knew you were a special person and offered you a job on the spot and I´m so glad I did and got to know you as the sweet ,goofy and kind soul that you are! I´m so glad I was there between you and crimson cause you guys literally were in sync and I love seeing that! I miss you kain! Also kain kash will be starting his poker training soon lol (inside joke)! You are beautiful and I will think about you always
Eric Sheffey
September 11, 2024
I met Kain while at work at the Denver Paramedics, and had the pleasure of having her on my ambulance while she was in training. Although this period was brief, it was clear she had such a kind soul, and I'm glad I was able to work alongside her. She cared deeply about her service to others, and carried a non-judgemental attitude that we should all do our best to emulate. I remember telling other medics just how impressed I was with her, and how I really believed we were lucky to have had her join the agency.
I will certainly always remember her kindness and positive attitude in my own life, both personally and professionally. It is people like Kain that should inspire us all.
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Beth Artzer
August 27, 2024
Kain was the sweetest and brightest young lady I never got to meet. I only heard of her acts of kindness, bravery, friendship and authenticity by ways of my daughter, Hannah. I wish I could have given you a bear hug and made you some of my famous meatballs, but we will save that for another time. You are loved Kain and will not be forgotten.
Crimson
August 27, 2024
Crimson
August 27, 2024
Crimson
August 27, 2024
Kain was truly the most beautiful and angelic person I had ever come across. She was the most special and important person in my life.
I am so incredibly blessed to have known her and to have been able to call her my best friend. One of my favorite things about her was her laugh, and how contagious it was. I will miss her deeply forever.
Conor Hansen
August 26, 2024
I will always remember Kain´s passion for the outdoors. She loved spending time in the mountains, ill never forget the adventures we explored together
Isabela
August 26, 2024
Kain was beyond special. She made everyone around her feel comfortable and loved. We miss you all the time. She was strong and fierce, doing anything she put her mind to.
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