MARIO MICHAEL GHILOTTI

MARIO MICHAEL GHILOTTI obituary

MARIO MICHAEL GHILOTTI

MARIO GHILOTTI Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 25 to Dec. 3, 2010.
Mario Michael GhilottiDecember 4th, 1922 November 20th, 2010 A lifetime Catholic Christian and Marin resident, Mario accidentally fell down a flight of stairs hustling to the office last Saturday morning. Rushed to Marin General, he never came to and died from severe head trauma. Even though he was approaching his nineties (his 88th birthday was Saturday, Dec. 4th), his zest for life and indomitable spirit and energy will be missed by many, many people. He is survived by his wife and life-partner of 50 years, Eva and his two adoring sons, Michael and Dante. He dearly loved his Daughters-in-law, Lisa (Michael) and Mouna (Dante), and their entire families. Rare was a holiday or special event that didn't include all of the branches of the family. He is also survived by eight grandchildren who adored his child-like love of life and incredible humor - Mario, Gino, Angelina, Giovanni, Ava, Grace, Reagan and Roya. He rarely missed one of their Horse Shows, Football, Basketball, Volleyball, and Soccer games. He was extremely proud of each and every one of them. He is also survived by his sister, Nancy, nephews, Gary, Glen and Richard and nieces Diane and Linda. He is now reunited with his "little angel" Angela, his parents, James and Amelia and his brothers William, Dino, Babe. Mario was an original in the construction industry in California. He truly was an Icon, whose integrity and determination was known in the industry beyond state lines. He helped establish, lead and steer Ghilotti Bros., Inc for 60 years, 40 years as co-pilot with his beloved brother Dino, building it into one of the largest and longest licensed construction companies in the state. Over his career, he held every position in the company, from loading cement bags as a teenager, to President of the company. The heartfelt responsibility that he felt he owed to his pre-deceased Parents and Brothers to "keep it going" was like a powerful force of nature. Mario was never going to retire; he was so passionate about the construction business and Ghilotti Bros., Inc. As such he still came in every day for work and loved working on bid proposals and strategies to do the work cheaper, better and faster than anyone. On Saturdays you could find Mario and Frank Palagi, trusted employee of 56 years, at San Rafael Joe's after they had left the office, a ritual he maintained for over 40 years. The company flourished with Mario and Dino as it grew to over 500 employees during the peak years and to four office locations. Such notable projects completed by the firm are Fourth St. Streetscape in San Rafael, Miracle Mile, San Pedro Rd and the site work for the Marin Civic Center, The Village & Vintage Oaks Shopping Centers. Recent notable projects include S.F. International Airport Runway widening, building the Crissy Field Park and Wetlands and the recent completion of the $100 million Highway 101 widening through central San Rafael. Mario was especially satisfied to see the 101 project completed this year, as he considered it the "crown jewel" of his long career. Mario was born the forth of six children from his Italian immigrant parents James and Amelia Ghilotti on December 4, 1922. He graduated from San Rafael High School in 1943, lettering in Football. He then enlisted in the Navy for the duration of World War II. Mario was extremely proud of the fact that the James Ghilotti house on Fourth Street displayed a banner showing that all four living brothers had enlisted in the military. He became a rear turret machine gunner on a TBF-Avenger, which was a torpedo dive-bomber. He flew numerous missions off of his jeep carrier, the Nehenta Bay. He saw action in the invasion and support of the Marinanas including the Saipan invasion while with Admiral Hulsey's third fleet. He also survived the Pacific war's deadliest typhoon that resulted in the sinking of several ships and severely damaged his carrier. Mario had a lifelong love of the United States of America, the Military and especially our Veterans. He led the effort for many of the war memorials in Marin County, usually as a major financial donor and builder of the projects, most notably the beautiful Lone Sailor memorial overlooking the Golden Gate Bridge from Sausalito and most of the memorials in front of the Marin Veteran's Auditorium. Just this last year, when he heard that the Marin Jr. ROTC at Novato High School was going to be canceled because of budget cuts, he found out the shortfall for the year and donated the difference saving the Program. After his Navy service, he first attended College of Marin. When he tried out for football there were 150 players and he started out sixth string. By the time they played their first game he was starting on the line and eventually made the all Northern California team. He always said that no matter what the odds, you had to keep showing up and working as hard as you can and good things will happen. He ended being amongst the first round of inductees to the College of Marin Athletic Hall of Fame. He went on to play college football for The University of San Francisco. Even though he was only 5' 9" and weighed 170 pounds, he played amongst some of the greatest football players ever at the linemen position. Their roster included the most eventual NFL Hall-of-Famers and All-pro's to come from one college football team. Unfortunately, he had to leave the team in 1950 because of the failing health of his father and he needed to help the brothers run the company, which they ended up buying shortly before his death. The next year the 1951 Dons went undefeated, untied and uninvited (to a bowl game) and have been called by Sports Illustrated, "The best team you never heard of." Even after starting his construction career, he still found time to play Semi-Pro for many years with the Petaluma Leghorns, often playing in front of 5,000 fans at home games. Mario met the love of his life and partner Eva in 1957 and married her in 1961. They purchased property in Nicasio, which became the famed Mar-Ghi Arabian Horse Ranch, managed by Eva. Here is where Mario began his lifelong bond with riding his prized Arabians. They competed in Horse shows throughout the southwest, eventually having two horses make the World's Top Ten Rankings. An outbreak of rabies decimated the stables and Mario and Eva survived after six months of treatment. Mario and Eva also raised three devoted children on the ranch, Michael, Angela and Dante. In 1954, Mario talked his brothers into buying a concrete plant in Cloverdale and moving it to San Rafael and naming it Shamrock. Years later, their competitors in the construction business realized fully that no Irishmen owned Shamrock but rather those Italian boys at Ghilotti Bros., causing great disruption to the business. Mario and Dino ended up selling their stock to their brother Babe and two other men they admired greatly, Lee Ceccotti and Lou Della Valle. The company has prospered into one of the largest and most successful materials companies in Northern California. Mario and Dino's business endeavors were not limited to construction, becoming partners in many businesses from cemeteries to golf courses, radio stations, hotels and restaurants. They were even partners in a Women's professional tennis team based in Honolulu, Hawaii called the Hawaii Lei's. Mario was also a great builder of charitable and civic institutions. He was a founding member, alongside his beloved friend, John Govi, of the Marin Athletic Foundation, where he served on the board until present. He was a founding member of the Marin History Museum, where he served on the board until present. He was a founder of Engineering Contractors Association (ECA). He was a founder of the Associated of Engineering Contractors Employers (AECE). He was a founder of the Golden Gate Arabian Horse Association. He was a driving force in the early years of the Marin Builders Exchange. He was a founding member of an organization fostering better relationships between government and businesses called the Marin Coalition. He gave up on politicians shortly thereafter. Mario was an early investor for his cherished friend, Bill Murray at the Bank of Marin, where he served on the Board of Directors for many years. He also served on the Board at Westamerica after the merger. He again was an early investor when Bill started up the Bank of Marin for the second time and has taken great pride in watching it continue to flourish. He was one of the longest serving Rotarians, where he attended every Monday for close to a half-century. He achieved their highest charitable honor, the Paul Harris Fellow. He achieved other Paul Harris Fellows on behalf of his wife, then two boys, then daughters-in-laws, then two grandchildren. He had six to go. Always building. He was a long-time ardent supporter of Catholic causes, especially Marin Catholic. He donated to various aspects of the school and helped build athletic fields. He was instrumental in the building of the Pope John Paul II Student Activities and Religious Center. He was very pleased to see the completion of it this year and the appreciation of the students and families of Marin Catholic. Mario was honored with the following accolades: The Rotary Foundation's Paul Harris Fellow recipient; President in 1958 of the North Bay Chapter of the Engineering & Grading Contractors Association; Founding Member of the Engineering Contractors Association; President in 1977 and Construction Man of the Year in 1980 for the Northern California Engineering Contractors Association; Marin Coalition Lifetime Directorship in June of 1984; William Ghilotti Memorial Contractor of the Year in 1974; San Rafael Christoforo Colombo Club Italian American Citizen of the year in 1982; Founding Member and President in 1990 of the Association of Engineering Construction Employers; Marin Builders Exchange Lou Della Valle Construction Industry Man of the Year Award in 1980. Mario had several passions and did not waste a day of his life, being as he was of "the Greatest Generation." His horse rides on Thursdays and Sundays with Patrick McNeil, Gary Boero, and Mike Smith, took them all over the countryside. Once the group logged over 100 trail rides in one year and covered over 10,000 miles of trails in Marin County. He was a dedicated member of the Sonoma County Trailblazers. Despite being diagnosed with cancer in January, Mario made the annual trek this year in June, receiving the coveted belt buckle for his 50th consecutive ride. In recent years, as Mario's office swelled with memorabilia, a museum was set up in another part of the office. World War II books and artifacts adorn the walls with cousin Gary faithfully assembling the numerous plane models that Mario mailed away for a couple times a month. An avid 49ers and Joe Montana fan, he and Eva attended numerous games and Super Bowls. If you rode in his Ferrari or red Escalade you were likely to hear his favorite entertainer, Frank Sinatra, belting out a tune. One thing is for sure... Mario did it his way. He rarely missed a grandchild's sporting event. We will miss the cowboy hat in the stands at MC Football games and that familiar voice yelling, "Knock somebody down"!! A Rosary will be held on Thursday, December 2nd, 2010, 6PM at Saint Raphael Catholic Church 1104 Fifth Street, San Rafael, Ca 94901. Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, December 3rd, 2010 at Saint Raphael's Church at 11AM. The Ghilotti family deeply appreciates all of your prayers. In Lieu of flowers the family. Request donations to one of Mario's favorite charities: The William & Dino Ghilotti Memorial Foundation. Donations and/or notes of sympathy can be sent to The Ghilotti Family c/o Ghilotti Bros. Inc. 525 Jacoby Street, San Rafael, Ca 94901. Monte's Chapel Of The Hills Family Owned & Operated San Anselmo (415)453-8440

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November 19, 2022

John Bly posted to the memorial.

November 19, 2019

Gina Muzinich posted to the memorial.

January 1, 2011

BRENDA TERRY posted to the memorial.

John Bly

November 19, 2022

Keeping Mario's legacy alive by remembering. Always

John Bly, ECA

Gina Muzinich

November 19, 2019

Mario's sense of humor is really missed!

BRENDA TERRY

January 1, 2011

So sad to hear about my Uncle Mario. Last time I saw him was when he and my Aunt Eva would come to Ontario, OR to visit my grandma.
I Adored him. I always would tell friends that my uncle Mario reminded me of Sean Connery. Not only good looking, but had a presence about him, that just made you want to be around him more.
Miss you much Aunt Eva...SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
LOVE BRENDA TERRY

gina muzinich

December 7, 2010

To the Ghilotti Family,

We are so very sorry for your loss of such a wonderful man who was an unforgettable father, friend, and husband. Mario was my dad's (Moose's) best friend from school. When people are friends that long, that speaks for itself. We will all miss Mario. No one, absolutely no one, can fill his shoes.

I believe our loved-ones who have passed away do live on in a way we cannot imagine. Perhaps they sometimes communicate with us through dreams. Here is an example of this very thing:

My friend Lynne who was visiting me from New Mexico spent the night at my house in Penngrove on December first. She did not know Mario other than meeting him at my father's funeral in 2008. However, she had a dream in which my dad and Mario were both now in the spirit world and they were dancing very happily, teasing one another. Mario was wearing a black and white shirt. Dad told him he looked like a “God damned Holstein with that shirt on!� As they kidded around, dad said to Lynne, “Forget Flowers, they die anyway� and Mario said, “Yea, and then they start stinking!� Dad continued, “Just give a hundred bucks to Dino the Dinosaur's Fund�.

Lynne told me her dream the next morning and asked me to help her make sense of it. (Keep in mind that she didn't know anything about Mario, Dino, a fund or a foundation.) I said I thought there had been a Dino Ghilotti, and I did not know of a fund. We looked it up on line and sure enough there was a fund and there was a Dino! (Knowing Mario, he probably did call his brother “Dino the Dinosaur�.) Later that day Lynne bought a newspaper. Mario's obituary said, “In lieu of flowers (remember dad said “forget flowers�) the family request donations to one of Mario's favorite charities: The William & Dino Ghilotti Memorial Foundation�.

How about that! How could something so precise be a coincidence? So, here we are . . . The Muzinich's are donating a hundred bucks to the foundation just like dad said to in Lynne's dream!

Inside the feeling of loss, there is a small shining light because of this dream . . . and it comforts me. We share this story in hopes that it touches you too. We love you all and send blessings while holding you in our thoughts and prayers.

Respectfully,

Gina, Eleanor, and Melanie Muzinich

gina muzinich

December 7, 2010

Mario will be missed. No one can fill his shoes. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mario was my dad's best friend from school. What a loss. Such a good man. Gina Muzinich

Sean Hodges

December 7, 2010

I remember riding in Mario's Lincoln Town Car when I was younger. Working for his company was my privlege. His talk about work ethic has been ever lasting. His values and ethics are almost impossible to duplicate today.. Blessings..

Jeanie Aigner Leete

December 5, 2010

Dicki-I have not been in touch over the years but saw this notice in the paper and thought I'd say hello. It is sad we wait like this but please know that your family is in my prayers. I know the peace comes slowly but the lives our families lead always leave us stronger and better people. Your family always had a wonderful legacy so know you have been blessed.
Jeanie Aigner Leete

Cathy Pagan

December 4, 2010

Eva, Micheal & Dante,
I'm sorry for your lost your Father was a great man and was very critical on bids day's He's in good hands bless all of you
Cathy Pagan
Novato

Robert Hodgkinson

December 3, 2010

Dear Eva Mike, Dante I am sorry for your loss. Mario Was a great Man.

Andy (LoCascio) Lagosh

December 2, 2010

Bella joba Mario!
My prayers are with the Ghilotti Family at this most difficult time.
Operating Engineers Local 3
Executive Board Member
District 20-Oakland

December 2, 2010

Dear Eva and Family,
Our sincere condolences are sent for you and family. I recall my Dad (Reno Ghilotti) speaking often of Mario and how he admired his ambition and sincere qualities. My Dad would express "How young to be so aware". With fond memories and warm regards

karen chandler

December 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Ghilotti family at this time. Harold enjoyed working with Mario on the many state projects. With sympathy, Harold and Karen Chandler

Gil Moncayo

December 1, 2010

I met Mario in 1960 through working in the construction industry. I have always had the highest regard and admiration for the Ghilotti family and their business ethics. Mario will be very much missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Eva and the family. May God be with you. Gil Moncayo, Albuquerque, NM

ROCT Family

December 1, 2010

Mr. Ghilotti will be so very missed by all who had the privilege of meeting him. He gave so much to the community around him...especially the young men
and women of the ROTC program. Mr. Ghilotti was a true believer in the program and service to our country, and we as families in ROTC thankyou for the opporutnity you have given our fine young men and women in the program. God Bless you and your family.

Teri Brusati-Swanson

December 1, 2010

Dear Eva, Mike, Dante and their families - I just wanted to express to you how sad and sorry I was to hear about the passing of Mario. He was a great person and will be missed by everyone. Marin County has lost a wonderful person but Heaven has gained another angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Warm regards,


Teri Brusati-Swanson

Teri Swanson

December 1, 2010

Dear Eva, Dante, Mike and their families - I just want to express to you how sorry and sad I was to hear about the passing of Mario. He was a great person and will surely be missed by everyone. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Marin County has lost a wonderful person but Heaven has received another angel.

Regards,

Teri Brusati-Swanson

Kristin Deming-Ruegg

December 1, 2010

My deepest sympathy and condolences to the Ghilotti family on their loss. Mario was an extraordinary individual and an inspiration to anyone who came in contact with him. My father often used Mario as an example of the rewards that come to those who work hard and are loyal to those around them without exception.
God bless to Eva, Dante, Mike & their families.

Joe and Lisa Costamagna

November 30, 2010

Thoughts and prayers to all of you...thanks for always having an open door for us kids, Mr. Ghilotti. You will be sorely missed.

Tony and Amanda Husby

November 30, 2010

To the Ghilotti Family my condolences. My heart is heavy for your loss. Mario was a great and funny man. I use to love his stories. My prayers are with you and the whole Family.

Ret. Judge Gary Thomas

November 29, 2010

Mario is probably submitting a bid to St. Peter for paving the road to Heaven. I am sure he will get it. God knows a good contractor.

Paula Mahaffey

November 29, 2010

Thank you Mario for the picnics, Christmas parties, and time off with pay for the Holidays. You were a good boss and caring person to all of your employees. My heart and prayers go out to Eva, Michael, Dante, and the entire family. Paula Mahaffey (El Sobrante, CA)

John Bly

November 29, 2010

Mario has given so very much to the construction industry, the local community, and his family. It seems trite to say he will be missed-that is not enough. We must keep his simple, but generous and hard working ethic alive in this country. Our greatest legacy to Mario and his family is to try to emulate his work ethic, his compassion for the less fortunate, his dedication to family, and his spirit of helping and supporting his community.

November 29, 2010

Our condolences go out to the Ghilotti family as they grieve. You have blessed many in Marin County and beyond. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

The Casper and The Durenberger Families

Bob Levy

November 29, 2010

Mario was a kind person who impressed me with his compassion, toughness, and intelligence. I had little interaction with him but thoroughly enjoyed every minute. My condolences to Michael, Dante, and the entire family.
Bob Levy

Debbie Smith

November 28, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Ghilotti Family. Mario was a great man. I thank him for all he did for all of Marin. He was a great friend to my father Jordan Smith and I thank him for that. Now I am sure he is looking after all his buddies up in heaven. I am sure they will all have a good reunion.

Jim Meyers

November 27, 2010

Thank you MARIO you made the world a better place. Thanks LOVE Jim Meyers

November 27, 2010

Mario was a great man. We will miss him.

Evelyn Kunst

Robert Fedrick

November 27, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all the Ghilotti Family. Mario was so instrumental in making many of dreams come true and not just for family but for many others. One of my Dad's favorite friends, they were so much alike. Now Mario will be riding along with CR and many other fellow Trail Blazers in the green pastures of Heaven.

November 26, 2010

Sincere Condolances from Wilkins Post 37.
Daniel Bridges, Adjutant Post 37

Tina Ghilotti

November 26, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. I have always admired Uncle Mario for his individuality, he was an incredible person and the memories will be cherished.

November 26, 2010

Our Deepest Sympathy to the Ghilotti Families. So sorry for your loss. Mr Ghilotti seemed to be such a loving sweet man totally devoted to his friends and family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
The Cheavacci Family

Al & Doreen Dalecio

November 26, 2010

Eva, Michael, Dante and family,
Mario will always be remembered by all of us who knew him and was associated with him. He will be missed by us as well as by the community...Our prayers are with you all....

Thomas & Loretta Saxton

November 26, 2010

To the Ghilotti Family. My wife and I are honored to have known Mario and his family. Our best wishes and thoughts are with you always

Lisa Bridges

November 25, 2010

To the Ghilotti Family...your father, husband, grandfather, was a great man and wonderful American, thank you all for sharing him with us. He will be missed but he will never be forgotten, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time. God Bless all of you. The Mazzina Family

Jean-Marie (Faggiano) Heskett

November 25, 2010

Dear Ghilotti family,

My condolences to all of you for the loss of such a great man.
I will pray for Mario and you.

November 25, 2010

Best wishes from the Sessi's.

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