MARTHA ULMAN

MARTHA ULMAN

MARTHA ULMAN Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 18, 2022.
ULMAN--Martha Heck, age 85, of Greenport, NY, formerly of Oyster Bay, NY, died on October 20, 2022. She attended The Spence School and was a graduate of Ethel Walker School (1955) and Wheaton College (1959). She went on to earn her masters in History, Summa Cum Laude, from Long Island University in 2008. Martha wrote, A Power for Good: Clara B. Spence, a biography of her grandmother released on October 18, 2022. In the words of Kate Trambitskaya, CEO of Spence-Chapin Services to Families and Children, founded by Clara Spence and Dr. Henry and Alice Chapin, "(Martha's) soft voice always beamed with pride when she shared stories and anecdotes about her grandmother... Clara B. Spence was a pioneer in adoption and a progressive educator of young women in the early twentieth century. Martha wanted the world to know about her grandmother's legacy." In addition to being a published author, Martha was a nurturing mother, who loved gardening and took award-winning photos of both her flowers and children. She is survived by her son, Stephen M. (Beth), daughter, Cornelia S. Whelan, and grandchildren, Valerie, Abigail, Nathan and Hannah. Martha was predeceased by her husband Stephen in 2021. At her request, there will be no service. Donations can be made in her honor to the Spence-Chapin Services to Families and Children.

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Paula R. Hornbostel

April 29, 2025

I always wished I had more time with Martha on Cove neck to talk about the Spence school. I am so happy we have her essay about her amazing grandmother, A Power for good. What a blessing she was for so many. in NYC I live in the building where her sister Elise lived, and I would love to be in touch with one of Martha's children. My mother, Paula Rand knew her also from CN. Time goes too fast. My condolences to you on your loss.

Andrea Hurd Burns

January 15, 2023

The Wheaton College class of 1959 sends its deepest sympathy to Martha's family. As a fellow history major, I admired Martha's perceptive appreciation for history. I see from her most recent publication that she extended that passion to her own family. How fortunate for the Ulman family to have this dedicated work.

With sympathy,
Andrea Hurd Burns, Class President '59
Wheaton College

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